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Good day nairalanders please i need your advice of relocating but confused.
Am 25 old lady in a relationship of four years with my boyfriend we both stayed in Lagos, he proposed to me and Willing to marry me but I just ask him to post it till December, before he relocated to Abuja. And since when he relocated to Abuja he has been asking me to come over and start a new life there which am not ok with. Am scared of relocating leaving my job to go and be with him and at the end of it he will claim am a burden to his life. Am confused.

Don’t do it.

CyberWolf:
Don’t do it.

thanks

Don't try it

Be sure before u make any movement. The guy is selfish

Let The Marriage Take Place First Before Your Relocation.

Sherryad:
Good day nairalanders please i need your advice of relocating but confused.
Am 25 old lady in a relationship of four years with my boyfriend we both stayed in Lagos, he proposed to me and Willing to marry me but I just ask him to post it till December, before he relocated to Abuja. And since when he relocated to Abuja he has been asking me to come over and start a new life there which am not ok with. Am scared of relocating leaving my job to go and be with him and at the end of it he will claim am a burden to his life. Am confused.

My candid advise before relocating is to look for a job over there first and after securing the job, you can then relocate and continue with your wedding plans.



Pls, don't just go over there without having anything doing because you might not like yourself having to stay at home all day long without doing nothing.

Get a job first in Abuja b4 relocating