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I had an encounter which left me almost at a point of dilemma. I saw a post of a man who would do almost anything for his woman.

He would wash her clothes, cook for her and obey almost all her wishes.

Some ladies condemned that character in a man, calling him a sissy, while some applauded the man, calling him every woman's dream.

So,my cause of confusion is, why are some ladies so receptive of that character and some rejective. of same?

And I ask my fellow nairalanders,what type of man exactly do ladies like.

A pussy worshiping Alpha male.

Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

So which one do you want?
Trust me, I want to help you submit your prefer guy to husband market for further information and action...

On the other hand, We guys, love strong women.

Don’t get me wrong. We don’t want those women whose idea of strength is being difficult, harsh and rude; who deem themselves successful only when a man is subjugated by their actions. No, those ones are just walking problems. Nobody wants them.

Well, me, I’m the best thing that ever happened to ladies since sliced bread. Take it or leave it.

glink2015:
So which one do you want?
Trust me, I want to help you submit your prefer guy to husband market for further information and action...

my type is very scarce and rare ooo

Nobody should come here and say Tall, Handsome, God fearing bla bla bla... We know those are lies.

OP, everybody has there wants and preferences and they contribute in their life choices. You for instance may want a homely girl who you will settle down with, but another guy may want a naughty girl who would turn his lusts into reality.

Same applies to women. Their needs differ

akinade28:
my type is very scarce and rare ooo

I know you are looking for someone to buy the whole of Nigeria for you!

We know them

lincsnuel:
I know you are looking for someone to buy the whole of Nigeria for you!

We know them

haba, wetin I go use am do na.
The whole of Nigeria is too much oo

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

Well Said!
Prove Me Wrong Lemme Guess U Lyk A Guy Hu Will B All Over U ?
*smiles*

akinade28:
haba, wetin I go use am do na.
The whole of Nigeria is too much oo

Lol, alright. Oya tell me, what's your choice of man?

Dont lump all female in the same category. From my experience, a woman's dream man is largely determined by her age, or to bluntly put, if she is still at the age of male abundance (16-29), or age of male decline (35 upwards).

The former will see such trait the poster describe as weakness, as she most likely is still attracted to the proverbial bad boys, she is super picky and egoistic, while the latter will appreciate it more, due to being mature and have passed through the abundance phase, and can differentiate with accurate precision that a homely man is not weak, especially when he is reasonably well-established.

lincsnuel:
Lol, alright. Oya tell me, what's your choice of man?

Abeg o, lemme just keep it to myself, I know some sadist nairaland guys will come and yab me to get "likes" and "shares" no matter, how good or bad my choices are. I don't want unnecessary trouble abeg.

pansophist:
Dont lump all female in the same category. From my experience, a woman's dream man is largely determined by her age, or to bluntly put, if she is still at the age of male abundance (16-29), or age of male decline (35 upwards).

The former will see such trait the poster describe as weakness, as she most likely is still attracted to the proverbial bad boys, she is super picky and egoistic, while the latter will appreciate it more, due to being mature and have passed through the abundance phase, and can differentiate with accurate precision that homely men is not weakness, especially when he is reasonably well-established.

sir, you are totally correct

akinade28:
Abeg o, lemme just keep it to myself, I know some sadist nairaland guys will come and yab me to get "likes" and "shares" no matter, how good or bad my choices are. I don't want unnecessary trouble abeg.

Ok then...

But hope yours is not like most girls: Tall, Dark, Handsome, God fearing??

I don't know why they always put "God fearing" like say dem go gree all this fellowship brothers!

A man that doesn't give a fvck!

Girls generally don't know what they want...very confused set of people!

All they do is stereotype, stereotype and more stereotypes until they land into marital anguish, and then they'll start blaming the society and crying victims.

lincsnuel:
Ok then...

But hope yours is not like most girls: Tall, Dark, Handsome, God fearing??

I don't know why they always put "God fearing" like say dem go gree all this fellowship brothers!

smiling

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives

Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

On point dear

Girls often fall for guys that is confident, smart and has a great sense of humor...

Just make sure you have money.....Yes...Money.....

To finish work, drive a car........QED.

Most though, just a paltry less than 10% could be exempted.

They like guys wey go dey do like mumu... Guy they can have control over...

Guys like Frodd wey go dey help dem wash their panties and bra.

What ever they like is not our business... we're talking money, you're talking nonsense!!

Even women dont know

Simple, faithful and God'sfearing guy

Most ladies prefer guys who are rich

akinade28:
my type is very scarce and rare ooo

If so , oya ask yourself, "Am I scarce and rare?"

akinade28:
my type is very scarce and rare ooo

Then you have to create the man by yourself