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Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 9:48pm On Dec 22, 2019
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by wordbank(m): 9:53pm On Dec 22, 2019
Man no be robot
Even brigadier general dey cry come remain

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Davash222(m): 10:03pm On Dec 22, 2019
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by dharamanil(m): 10:08pm On Dec 22, 2019
Understand what is happening. All this complain is still aimed at getting the kuchi, u complain, act tired and scope them the pant is off
Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Nobody: 10:11pm On Dec 22, 2019
Maybe the red pills are expired.grin

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 10:12pm On Dec 22, 2019
Our forefathers married many wives and coped very well..nowadays men are struggling with 1 or 2 ladies. Men becoming cry babies
Davash222:
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by ubunja(m): 10:13pm On Dec 22, 2019
DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!
humans learn through two ways: advice/teaching and experience. If these men turn a deaf ear to lessons written by other people, then life's greatest teacher will teach them himself. That teacher is Experience. Sooner or later, one way or the other they'll learn.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 10:15pm On Dec 22, 2019
Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!
wordbank:
Man no be robot
Even brigadier general dey cry come remain

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Heroclitus(m): 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2019
Ariza:
Maybe the red pills are expired.grin

This one always have one thing to say about everything

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Heroclitus(m): 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2019
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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Skmoda360(m): 10:34pm On Dec 22, 2019
DMerciful:
Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!
You don vex big time undecided
Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by moscow406(m): 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2019
grin
Abeg, they shouldn't stop. How will romance section be fun if we don't encounter people with romantic problems?

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by lilmax(m): 11:01pm On Dec 22, 2019
Konji runs in their veins non stop


Take the sperm out of men, the true Alpha will come out

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 11:09pm On Dec 22, 2019
These lamentations will empower the daughters of Eve to cause more lamentations because they now know whatever they're doing is working
moscow406:
grin
Abeg, they shouldn't stop. How will romance section be fun if we don't encounter people with romantic problems?
Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by ubunja(m): 12:05am On Dec 23, 2019
moscow406:
grin
Abeg, they shouldn't stop. How will romance section be fun if we don't encounter people with romantic problems?
lol as long as they don't kill themselves

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by emmaodet: 1:19am On Dec 23, 2019
DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 2:13am On Dec 23, 2019
First;y, the term 'Real Men' is a scam. It is used by women to manipulate men. Nothing like real or fake men. Either a man is responsible or irresponsible.
When a guy comes to lament that he caught his gf cheating the first time and he forgave her, and caught her again.....he comes here to ask what to do because he loves her....those are the sissies I am talking about. A simple decision of dumping the lady, no! they come here to lament and ask for what to do.
Some keep spending without reciprocating getures but come here expecting to be told its normal so they continue in the misery....those are the sissies!
emmaodet:


My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DrayZee: 2:42am On Dec 23, 2019
Guys have started talking too much. That's a woman thing.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Gofwane(m): 3:16am On Dec 23, 2019
Davash222:
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!
Wallahi, that guy deserves correct beating for letting that hoe disrespect him like that

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by kurupt1: 6:47am On Dec 23, 2019
All these Lamentations are getting worse with increasing poverty.Money gives a man options to choose another woman when his woman is messing up

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Skepticus: 7:27am On Dec 23, 2019
kurupt1:
All these Lamentations are getting worse with increasing poverty.Money gives a man options to choose another woman when his woman is messing up

I do disagree with the money part.

No doubt, money enhances your confidence and better ability to making more choices with women but once you don't have a dominant masculine frame, with your billions, women would still mess you up.

That's why you see some rich men being played and abused by women and broke, jobless and unambitious guys having success with women.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Skepticus: 7:32am On Dec 23, 2019
DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

I thought I was the only one who noticed this.

You took this right out of my mind. I wanted to create a topic for this too and I'm glad you did.

I think a lot of our men have stopped playing their "position" as it is expected. Several factors like globalism, liberalism, mass media and general ignorance contributed to the male race being "emasculated" over time.

Sadly, nature harbours vaccum and movements like feminism are filling this void.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by samdavjustin(m): 7:39am On Dec 23, 2019
The recent lamentations is caused by love the truth many of those guys already know the right thing to do but because of love they seek second opinion to validate what they already know is right. You always have to guide your heart from these heartless hoes otherwise OYO is ur name

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by AfroKnight: 7:40am On Dec 23, 2019
DMerciful:
Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!

cheesy cheesy cheesy
No, no, no. They must be lying. No confam naija guy can be this stupîd. WTF!

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 9:18am On Dec 23, 2019
Yea...spot on. Normal life situations requiring decisive action from guys should not cause weeping on social media. A man has to do what needs to be done without emotions!
Skepticus:


I thought I was the only one who noticed this.

You took this right out of my mind. I wanted to create a topic for this too and I'm glad you did.

I think a lot of our men have stopped playing their "position" as it is expected. Several factors like globalism, liberalism, mass media and general ignorance contributed to the male race being "emasculated" over time.

Sadly, nature harbours vaccum and movements like feminism are filling this void.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Akinbahm(m): 10:38am On Dec 23, 2019
DMerciful:
Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!
Bro, I av lost interest in reading such crazy stories especially those fools that parted with their hard earned money on top a pussy that suppose to be running after them freely....

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Macsjebs(m): 10:47am On Dec 23, 2019
AfroKnight:


cheesy cheesy cheesy
No, no, no. They must be lying. No confam naija guy can be this stupîd. WTF!
There are Brother, a good percentage are
Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by pocohantas(f): 10:48am On Dec 23, 2019
Majority of those threads are bashing centers, disguised as lamentations. I really do not take them seriously.

However, humans will always be humans. Some of you are only angry because the power of indifference which you hold against women is losing grip.

Men will always seek women and women will do same. Even a factory load of red pills can NEVER change the average humans quest to seek love and do things for love. We would only wail when the other person doesn't reciprocate, but at the point of doing it- it was what you thought best for yourself and lover.

Some of you carrying the matter for head have purposeful relationships offline, but you come online and try so hard not to talk about them- to avoid looking weak.

Make una face una lives. NL is just a mirage. People have myriads of problems in this country, problems that red pills can't solve.

Merry Christmas to you all...

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Akinbahm(m): 11:19am On Dec 23, 2019
ubunja:
humans learn through two ways: advice/teaching and experience. If these men turn a deaf ear to lessons written by other people, then life's greatest teacher will teach them himself. That teacher is Experience. Sooner or later, one way or the other they'll learn.
I must confess I envy u because the time, energy u poured into writing to liberate we Nice guys despite their trolling u still continue to show we Nice guys the tactics of these hoelosoho....


Sorry for the digression, I keep telling my geez out there stop wasting ur effort on these sissy guys they won't accept ur ideology because their brain nd face that's being blinded by lust which they claim as love wont free them to rationalise with u so, why not free them to learn from experience since no man/teacher need not to explain again that Experience is the best teacher....



Lemme chip a case u know am a fan of Experience there's a friend of mine who love a girl from his countenance i could depict my guy is really into this bae.

I brainwashed him and he finally agree to reason the babe not knowing my guy went to turn himself to a certified mugu from carrying her loads to doing petty stuffs for her freely that will earn him cool cash. Later girl told him shes a Christian and my friend is a Muslim therefore she cant date my guy they can only be friends.


I still give my guy courage say the religious matter she bring in nah wash still my guy turn deaf ear to my sayings, u know wetin my guy talk "This babe is a good girl nd shes a virgin also bcus he confirmed from the babe mouth" I told my guy this said girl would ride a dick b4 the end of 2019. Utilize ur opportunity now b4 u start to regret.


Last week, my guy called me to start lamenting the said girl I warned him about was receiving steady dick from a Muslim guy and d way e dey see things self e be like say the guy don leave am so, he wan wriggle his way in also....


Ubunja, leave these dudes alone let them learn through experience with that they would know how to handle girls better maybe with few of ur articles uve written back....

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by Skepticus: 11:30am On Dec 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Majority of those threads are bashing centers, disguised as lamentations. I really do not take them seriously.

However, humans will always be humans. Some of you are only angry because the power of indifference which you hold against women is losing grip.

Men will always seek women and women will do same. Even a factory load of red pills can NEVER change the average humans quest to seek love and do things for love. We would only wail when the other person doesn't reciprocate, but at the point of doing it- it was what you thought best for yourself and lover.

Some of you carrying the matter for head have purposeful relationships offline, but you come online and try so hard not to talk about them- to avoid looking weak.

Make una face una lives. NL is just a mirage. People have myriads of problems in this country, problems that red pills can't solve.

Merry Christmas to you all...

Your epistle still doesn't negate the fact that a high number of men in a society like ours considered patriarchal, are losing their grip on positive masculinity and responsibility. It may be of considerable advantage to the world of women but a lot of women are beginning to find it repulsive too.

For the few ones who try to act "alpha" (or whatever they call it), it always borders on the negative like foolish, misguided aggression and always reeks of insecurity, hypocrisy and weakness.

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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by DMerciful(m): 11:54am On Dec 23, 2019
Honestly, even with the huge numbers of single ladies looking for relationship...someone with resources will be lamenting. What rubbish!
Akinbahm:

Bro, I av lost interest in reading such crazy stories especially those fools that parted with their hard earned money on top a pussy that suppose to be running after them freely....


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Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by carter009(m): 11:57am On Dec 23, 2019
AM TELLING YOU.
DMerciful:
Honestly, even with the huge numbers of single ladies looking for relationship...someone with resources will be lamenting. What rubbish!

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