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Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Aug 31, 2019
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us before, slept with a lady I really know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?

Anyway, I am not a church worker.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by judedwriter(m): 2:31pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us slept with a lady I know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?

Anyway, I am not a church worker.

No sinner will make heaven, even if he or she wins a billion souls to God. Just a sin can take you to hell. I hope that answers your question.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by OpenYourEyes1: 2:36pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us slept with a lady I know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?

Anyway, I am not a church worker.


I think it is enough to confess your sin privately to GOD. After confessing your sin, you could meet those you offended and ask for forgiveness.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by OpenYourEyes1: 2:40pm On Aug 31, 2019
OpenYourEyes1:



I think it is enough to confess your sin privately to GOD. After confessing your sin, you could meet those you offended and ask for forgiveness.

Jesus did not suspend people for asking for forgiveness.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 2:45pm On Aug 31, 2019
Confessing to the church leadership is the church policy not biblical.
If you commit any sin God is faithful to forgive you if you confess it
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
1 John 1:7‭-‬10 KJV

Any unconfessed sin can affect your eternal destiny.
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 6:9‭-‬11 KJV
But with many of them God was not well pleased: for they were overthrown in the wilderness. Now these things were our examples, to the intent we should not lust after evil things, as they also lusted. Neither be ye idolaters, as were some of them; as it is written, The people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play. Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand. Neither let us tempt Christ, as some of them also tempted, and were destroyed of serpents. Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer. Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come. Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. Wherefore, my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry.
1 Corinthians 10:5‭-‬14 KJV
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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 31, 2019
judedwriter:


No sinner will make heaven, even if he or she wins a billion souls to God. Just a sin can take you to hell. I hope that answers your question.
You are right!! Even no Christian will make heaven with secret sin covered up with disciplined face. but you didn't answer the question.... Should the person confess

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by judedwriter(m): 3:37pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
You are right!! Even no Christian will make heaven with secret sin covered up with disciplined face. but you didn't answer the question.... Should the person confess

If the person is truly repentant and has received God's forgiveness, he or she can confess to church leadership. But masturbation is also as condemnable as fornication and should be confessed as well.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by pocohantas(f): 5:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us slept with a lady I know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

Do you have an idea if he told them the sex styles that was used? How many times/rounds?

Or he left out those important details?

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 31, 2019
judedwriter:


If the person is truly repentant and has received God's forgiveness, he or she can confess to church leadership. But masturbation is also as condemnable as fornication and should be confessed as well.
Then there will be regular confession because some church workers engage in such.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 31, 2019
judedwriter:


If the person is truly repentant and has received God's forgiveness, he or she can confess to church leadership. But masturbation is also as condemnable as fornication and should be confessed as well.
Then there will be regular confession because church workers engage in such.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by malvisguy212: 8:37pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us slept with a lady I know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?

Anyway, I am not a church worker.
do you know that not confessing your deep sin will hinder your spiritual GROWTH ? it will give the ACCUSER ( Satan ) options to manipulate you the more.

As we journey toward the happy land of heaven, we are faced with many temptations. When we give into them and sin,we become ensnared and hindered from
pressing on toward our heavenly goal. if things doesn't work out well for you in this life, know that there is a home call heaven, JUST GET THERE.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by StrikeBack(m): 8:40pm On Aug 31, 2019
pocohantas:


Do you have an idea if he told them the sex styles that were used? How many times/rounds?

Or he left out those important details?
as usual with your beer parlor talk

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Aug 31, 2019
StrikeBack:
as usual with your beer parlor talk
Beer parlour??

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by StrikeBack(m): 9:18pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
Beer parlour??
I didn't quote you madam church worker

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Anas09: 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2019
StrikeBack:
I didn't quote you madam church worker
Hahahahahahaha. This guys eh.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by achorladey: 11:48pm On Aug 31, 2019
aishaemeka:
I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

There was a scenario where someone close to us before, slept with a lady I really know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?

Anyway, I am not a church worker.

Aishaemeka: I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

Achorladey: This account of the scriptures will aid your answer to your question.

Luke 7: 36-50

36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee's house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee's house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them. 39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is-that she is a sinner." 40 Jesus answered him, "Simon, I have something to tell you.""Tell me, teacher," he said. 41 "Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii,[1]and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?" 43 Simon replied, "I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven." "You have judged correctly," Jesus said. 44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven-as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little." 48 Then Jesus said to her, "Your sins are forgiven." 49 The other guests began to say among themselves, "Who is this who even forgives sins?" 50 Jesus said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace."

Towards the end of the account, the SINNER(woman) got forgiveness of her sin from the person who had the power to do so. Afterwards Jesus said your faith has saved you GO in PEACE? Not GO TO THE JEWISH RELIGIOUS LEADERS and the rest to tell them and CONFESS to them about your sins that have been FORGIVEN.

Aishaemeka: The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?


Achorladey: This your cover up palaver get as e be. An individual that has openly acknowledged his sins to the Lord in his or her closet and desist from repeating such sin again, can you still call that a COVER UP?


Concerning the first part of your statement above 1 Corinthians 6: 9-11 has this to say..... Emphasis failing to DESIST from all mentioned below.

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.


Aishaemeka: There was a scenario where someone close to us before, slept with a lady I really know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

Achorladey: James 5: 14-16........ Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. 16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

In the account above was there any issue concerning SUSPENSION?

Is confession of SINS LIMITED TO THE CHURCH LEADERSHIP as highlighted in verse 16?

When religious organizations woven there POLICIES in a way that the scriptures are made to fit into it, then TECHNICALITIES ABOUND such as this posted earlier above

(Do you have an idea if he told them the sex styles that were used? How many times/rounds?

Or he left out those important details?).

Hope you get the answers you seek after reading through.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 01, 2019
Confess your faults one to another

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 2:40am On Sep 01, 2019
Yes, it'll go a long way in holding him/her accountable.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by helinues: 6:19am On Sep 01, 2019
No shading oo.. Average Christ embassy female workers are prostitutes. Some of their pastors are even aware.. According to them, Jesus allowed all to the temple..

@ op, what would you say about that

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:36am On Sep 01, 2019
The OP is concerned about who to confess such sins to. We know that we receive forgiveness when we confess sins commited like armed robbery, murder, fornication, rape, stealing, adultery, malice, false testimony, fraud e.t.c. But who to confess such sins to, so as to receive absolute forgiveness and clear conscience speaks volume.
Is it only to God (as a silent prayer), to the victims, to the church, to the pastor, to the community, to the police, or you shout your confession when pastor is preaching, or during prayer sessions, e.t.c

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by judedwriter(m): 6:55am On Sep 01, 2019
aishaemeka:
Then there will be regular confession because church workers engage in such.

Hmmm...then it means many christians are greatly and secretly suffering from the consequences of masturbation. That's another topic on its own.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by money121(m): 8:48am On Sep 01, 2019
Ok

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by RockHard: 8:48am On Sep 01, 2019
Scam. Will the same rule apply to the pastor when he commits adultery??

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Built2last: 8:49am On Sep 01, 2019
No

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by anambraamaka: 8:49am On Sep 01, 2019
Yes

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by vixpal: 8:49am On Sep 01, 2019
Yes... According to the the Bible

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by obentenyson(m): 8:50am On Sep 01, 2019
if the holy spirit tells him to, why not?

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by 0temSapien: 8:50am On Sep 01, 2019
Don't make such mistake, because 95% of the people you're confessing to also indulge in same thing. They'll only make a jest of you from then on while keeping their own secret.

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by dangotesmummy: 8:51am On Sep 01, 2019
Are the church member his God?

Are the church members the one he's worshipping?

Are the church members the one going to answer his prayers?

Are his church members the reason he's going to church?

Are the church members the one going to forgive his sins and cleanse him from all righteousness
Are the church members squeaky clean and have no human frailties and faults?

If all the answers are yes then he can confess to them

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Iamnobody: 8:51am On Sep 01, 2019
Confess to your God

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Re: Should A Church Worker Who Fornicated Confess To The Church? by Nobody: 8:51am On Sep 01, 2019
Anytime I decides to be serious spiritually, temptations upon temptations starts coming my way. Not even strong enough to overcome some cry

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