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What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by oladixy(op): 8:23pm On Aug 31, 2019
me and my gal hv been to together for close to three years now, recently we have some disagreement and I later apologise to her after a few days of not picking her calls by sending a voice record and message on whatsapp. she refuse replying, so i let her be so she can calm down, the next day i called her number she was sounding anyhow, i thought it was becus she was angry, called her again the next day she refuse picking up and even switch off on me. i was pissed and hurt so i let be be for like a week. after then i called her to ask if she wants to break up, so i should know instead of the attitudes, she refuse giving me a definite answer but said we should forget the matter and move on that she will stop the attitudes. later after few days she stop picking my calls again an switch off on me wen i call, so i just let her be.

pls was it the right decision cus am hurt, but it i thought its better than she hurting with her attitudehuh!
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by CreepyBlackpool: 8:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
Mr man you're already single, so start acting like it
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by clumsydyna: 8:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
Move on man.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by lilmax(m): 8:30pm On Aug 31, 2019
throw her away
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by BiafranBushBoy: 8:34pm On Aug 31, 2019
she wanted to quit the relationship already.

All she wanted was a trigger.

You gave her, she moved over to a replacement longest time ago. Relationships these days na full time job - just make sure you find a good dirl who is always willing to stay by you - no matter what!

If not,

I will end here.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Martinez39(m): 8:38pm On Aug 31, 2019
oladixy:
me and my gal hv been to together for close to three years now, recently we have some disagreement and I later apologise to her after a few days of not picking her calls by sending a voice record and message on whatsapp. she refuse replying, so i let her be so she can calm down, the next day i called her number she was sounding anyhow, i thought it was becus she was angry, called her again the next day she refuse picking up and even switch off on me. i was pissed and hurt so i let be be for like a week. after then i called her to ask if she wants to break up, so i should know instead of the attitudes, she refuse giving me a definite answer but said we should forget the matter and move on that she will stop the attitudes. later after few days she stop picking my calls again an switch off on me wen i call, so i just let her be.

pls was it the right decision cus am hurt, but it i thought its better than she hurting with her attitudehuh!
I know that you don't have sense. If you have sense, you would have dumped her. No time for nonsense. Call her now and dump her. If she confronts you, look her in the eyes like a man and say "I can't tolerate your nonsensical and childish attitude. You are not serious enough for a relationship with me. It's over and I am never taking you back." You think life is for weak people who have no self respect and self esteem? Do needful jare! undecided
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:40pm On Aug 31, 2019
See as babe dey use brother heart play ping pong...... lol


You're single again bro, Welcome aboard
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by missjo(f): 8:41pm On Aug 31, 2019
Seems you started the game of not picking calls and despite the apology, she still felt hurt enough to want to give you a taste of your own medicine. Lolcheesy

Just ride it out,then when she finally picks up, say to her baby you've made your point and i heard it loud. I'm never gonna ignore you again for as long as i live tongue
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Aug 31, 2019
exactly what I'm doing to my current babe...
she's single but she has no idea

Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Martinez39(m):
DanDeeBoss:
See as babe dey use brother heart play ping pong...... lol


You're single bro again, Welcome aboard
Don't mind him. His girlfriend has either found someone else or is playing the game of power in the relationship. If it's the latter, the girl is looking for a situation where the boy will become a slave in the relationship who is on a long chase to please her, make her stay and make her indispensable. Either ways, op should and dump the b!tch like a rotten trash.

What's wrong with these weak beta boys that can take charge of things and are blinded by this illusion called love?

Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by carter009(m): 8:51pm On Aug 31, 2019
Move on bro.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Skmoda360(m): 9:04pm On Aug 31, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
Mr man you're already single, so start acting like it
That's just the truth......he should go and look for another woman sharp sharp.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Skmoda360(m): 9:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
Martinez39:
Don't mind him. His girlfriend has either found someone else or is playing the game of power in the relationship. If it's the latter, the girl is looking for a situation where the boy will become a slave in the relationship who is on a long chase to please her, make her stay and make her indispensable. Either ways, op should and dump the b!tch like a rotten trash.

What's wrong with these weak beta boys that can take charge of things and are blinded by this illusion called love.
I dey tell you.....who get time for rubbish?
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Offpoint: 9:08pm On Aug 31, 2019
Give me her number let take it from here, your time is over.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Skmoda360(m): 9:36pm On Aug 31, 2019
Martinez39:
I know that you don't have sense. If you have sense, you would have dumped her. No time for nonsense. Call her now and dump her. If she confronts you, look her in the eyes like a man and say "I can't tolerate your nonsensical and childish attitude. You are not serious enough for a relationship with me. It's over and I am never taking you back." You think life is for weak people who have no self respect and self esteem? Do needful jare! undecided

Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Skmoda360(m): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2019
Offpoint:
Give me her number let take it from here, your time is over.
Offpoint, you better stfu there....were sumbori undecided
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
Please stop calling her when we're having sex, it's so annoying.

Anyways, I always tell her not to pick your call while we're in the act. I switch of her phone after that, out of respect to you.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Offpoint: 10:07pm On Aug 31, 2019
Skmoda360:
Offpoint, you better stfu there....were sumbori undecided
Is there anything wrong if I eat a leftover food?
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Skmoda360(m): 10:09pm On Aug 31, 2019
Offpoint:
Is there anything wrong if I eat a leftover food?
Ashewo somebori tongue tongue
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Hypnotism: 10:09pm On Aug 31, 2019
This is the only advice u need
Martinez39:
I know that you don't have sense. If you have sense, you would have dumped her. No time for nonsense. Call her now and dump her. If she confronts you, look her in the eyes like a man and say "I can't tolerate your nonsensical and childish attitude. You are not serious enough for a relationship with me. It's over and I am never taking you back." You think life is for weak people who have no self respect and self esteem? Do needful jare! undecided [quote author=oladixy post=81798151]
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Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Elmojiid(m): 10:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
ur babe don join winning team i mean man city...may be u a gunner fan...u know that man city go win 1 or 2 cup but gunners champ or any cup no sure...u are single already bro let her be jor i bet it she will come around again
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by hify9935(f): 3:23pm On Sep 01, 2019
missjo:
Seems you started the game of not picking calls and despite the apology, she still felt hurt enough to want to give you a taste of your own medicine. Lolcheesy

Just ride it out,then when she finally picks up, say to her baby you've made your point and i heard it loud. I'm never gonna ignore you again for as long as i live tongue
hahahahaha, you play too much miss.
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Sep 01, 2019
OP, d girl wants to scam u......!!!

Ask urself , what really caused d disagreement ??
U see Girls can cook up some emotional manipulation sh*t to initiate a temporary breakup because dey want to fvck some other guy and as soon as they are don fvcking, they make up with you again. This way, if u ever found out she fvcked some other guy, she go get alibi say na wen una breakup she get get "small" fling.

OP use ur head...!!
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by missjo(f): 4:17pm On Sep 01, 2019
hify9935:
hahahahaha, you play too much miss.
cheesy
But it's true. She's giving him a taste of his own medicine and he complaining. What a douche
Re: What Should I Do Am Fustrated????? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 01, 2019
Looks like your girl had been looking for a reason to move on to the next arm openly(because she might have been there covertly) and fortunately for her now, she has it.
Oga, welcome to the singles world, you'll have more peace and happiness in this wonderful world than you've ever had, trust me. wink
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