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LillyVal:
MEN AND WOMEN READ CAREFULLY!!!

These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..

The Problems most times why marriage fails are always from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.

Every woman wants to be loved by her man,
Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life. So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always. You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are wicked?

As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes?
Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to?
Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed?
Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner?
Once in a while, and there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.

If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a housemaid.

LillyVal:
MEN AND WOMEN READ CAREFULLY!!!

These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..

The Problems most times why marriage fails are always from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.

Every woman wants to be loved by her man,
Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life. So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always. You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are wicked?

As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes?
Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to?
Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed?
Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner?
Once in a while, and there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.

If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a housemaid.

Newguyhere:
probably the most ret**ded thread I have seen this year.
You should have been able to write something better if only you had a functioning neuron in that your thick skull
Wannabe feminist mmmchew!!!!

maak400:
This woman go just dey create topic every minute. Wetin happen?!

24kmagic:
Walai I think say na only me de reason that thing.
She just de enrich Seun. Abi she want be mod ni?

effixxyguy1:
i dey feel u jo.
u dey always get point

fcdgrand:
see this one, your name na sorry, now listen very good and very careful, every woman happiness remain in her submission to her man's will, as christ is the head of a church, so as man is the head of a woman, feminist bring frustration, bitterness and pain to africa woman (specially nigerian woman), so reject that idea

JONNYSPUTE:
..Trash as usually.Lack objectivity, full of emotions and sentiments.

Savvywriteprene:
Oga, don't be too fast to label what she wrote as trash.
Yes, it was written from her emotions but then women are emotional.

Those things she wrote there are actually happening. They're the reality of many Nigerian wives.

Infact, some women are still with their husbands not because of love but because of either lack of financial empowerment, shame, what their families will say etc.

From the news we read everyday, you see that some women are damning the consequences and getting out of their marriages in hundreds and thousands.
I'm not talking about those who don't want to stay married, but those who sincerely want to stay married but their partners keep messing up.

That means something is wrong somewhere.

May God help us all.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. And you ve not seen marriages where some men are staying because of their kids too?.Or do you think that only women go through abuse in marriages.

LillyVal:
MEN AND WOMEN READ CAREFULLY!!!

These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..

The Problems most times why marriage fails are always from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.

Every woman wants to be loved by her man,
Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life. So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always. You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are wicked?

As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes?
Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to?
Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed?
Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner?
Once in a while, and there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.

If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a housemaid.

Savvywriteprene:
You are correct. There are marriages where the men are staying because of the children but they're not as common as that of women.

Also, the OP wrote about women and my writing was in that direction.

Cheers.

Savvywriteprene:
Oga, don't be too fast to label what she wrote as trash.
Yes, it was written from her emotions but then women are emotional.

Those things she wrote there are actually happening. They're the reality of many Nigerian wives.

Infact, some women are still with their husbands not because of love but because of either lack of financial empowerment, shame, what their families will say etc.

From the news we read everyday, you see that some women are damning the consequences and getting out of their marriages in hundreds and thousands.
I'm not talking about those who don't want to stay married, but those who sincerely want to stay married but their partners keep messing up.

That means something is wrong somewhere.

May God help us all.

Korllami007:
Una don come, victim card player. As if na only woman de suffer for marriage. Abi na hermaphrodite stab her husband to death because of birthday.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't mind them. Always playing the victim card.They don't reason logically,everything has to be all about emotions.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't mind them. Always playing the victim card.They don't reason logically,everything has to be all about emotions.

Korllami007:
When I saw the headline, I thought she would point out both man and woman flaws in marriage but as usual, she painted men as devil and women as angel.

Martinez39:
Don't mind LillyVal. She is posing as the weak, soft, kind hearted, and cute kitten with sincere and moral advice for everyone. They are all the same.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. And you ve not seen marriages where some men are staying because of their kids too?.Or do you think that only women go through abuse in marriages.

Korllami007:
When I saw the headline, I thought she would point out both man and woman flaws in marriage but as usual, she painted men as devil and women as angel.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. I just tire for her.

LillyVal:
That Song called "REASON WITH ME" is a Consolation Song 4 broke guys