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pocohantas:
The perspective under review, the perpective which is the basis of the movement- being child-support and alimony has nothing to do with the Nigerian man. He is at heavy advantage.

LordAdam16:
Why not go the extra mile and just vacate the thread rather than giving each other shoulder pats and having your heads locked in each others privates like a chain of cunnilingus.

-Lord

LilMissFavvy:
Next time add ''GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION''..... lord-of-gays. Not everyone is gay.

Fisher007:
Problem:

Why are women bother about MGTOW?

It is a choice.

The only thing I always ask most ladies who wants marriage or relationships is what are you planning to bring to the table ?

Ask yourself as a lady what do you have to offer a man (High value man). Please don't say your body or sex ?

In Nigeria, most men don't go MGTOW cause in most cases they try to control women with money and wealth.

Ladies have been pimped unsubconsciously since birth by their parents.( Make sure he is rich, he drives a car, he his from a wealthy family etc).

So men think they can control women with money but over time they get bored of the sex she has to offer, cause she will get old with saggy body immediately after childbirth.Then they start looking elsewhere.

Adam had dominion over all creature except Eve. When the power of dominion was pronounced, Eve was not yet created.

Same as Eve who wanted to be above Adam . The law doesn't apply to her so she ate the forbidden fruit to gain an advantage (control) and wisdom (mind) over Adam who was physically strong and created after the image of God.

Eve as a woman can't possess a man. Most women try these too and they fail. Ladies feel they can control a man who was meant to have dominion over all creatures. Not possible . So they use sex and mind games, man's greatest weakness.

The truth is bitter you can't satisfy a woman. Right from Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden. She will misbehave. It is in their nature. Neither can a woman possess or have total control of a Man.


Solution:

So I always say the best solution is to look for a real hardworking feminist incase you want a child. Let her be a Feminist, you be a MGTOW. Have a baby for reprocreation and legacy purpose and move on with your life. Don't marry her since both movement don't support marriage. Just provide for your child when he/ she turns eighteen, his/her decision would made based on her/his opinion.

Enjoy your life , travel the world, explore new culture and horizon. Leave people who are married to face their boring, decieitful , mind controlling life.

Simple.

desvi:
the best solution is to look for someone you know you can have a beautiful home with
you owe your children this
and if you think you don't, you better not think of bringing an innocent soul to this world
you lack wisdom

desvi:
the best solution is to look for someone you know you can have a beautiful home with
you owe your children this
and if you think you don't, you better not think of bringing an innocent soul to this world
you lack wisdom

Fisher007:
Problem:

Why are women bother about MGTOW?

It is a choice.

The only thing I always ask most ladies who wants marriage or relationships is what are you planning to bring to the table ?

Ask yourself as a lady what do you have to offer a man (High value man). Please don't say your body or sex ?

In Nigeria, most men don't go MGTOW cause in most cases they try to control women with money and wealth.

Ladies have been pimped unsubconsciously since birth by their parents.( Make sure he is rich, he drives a car, he his from a wealthy family etc).

So men think they can control women with money but over time they get bored of the sex she has to offer, cause she will get old with saggy body immediately after childbirth.Then they start looking elsewhere.

Adam had dominion over all creature except Eve. When the power of dominion was pronounced, Eve was not yet created.

Same as Eve who wanted to be above Adam . The law doesn't apply to her so she ate the forbidden fruit to gain an advantage (control) and wisdom (mind) over Adam who was physically strong and created after the image of God.

Eve as a woman can't possess a man. Most women try these too and they fail. Ladies feel they can control a man who was meant to have dominion over all creatures. Not possible . So they use sex and mind games, man's greatest weakness.

The truth is bitter you can't satisfy a woman. Right from Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden. She will misbehave. It is in their nature. Neither can a woman possess or have total control of a Man.


Solution:

So I always say the best solution is to look for a real hardworking feminist incase you want a child. Let her be a Feminist, you be a MGTOW. Have a baby for reprocreation and legacy purpose and move on with your life. Don't marry her since both movement don't support marriage. Just provide for your child when he/ she turns eighteen, his/her decision would made based on her/his opinion.

Enjoy your life , travel the world, explore new culture and horizon. Leave people who are married to face their boring, decieitful , mind controlling life.

Simple.

Fisher007:
You see this is how you start a war you can't finish . " I lack wisdom…"' .

I didn't insult anyone. I made my opinion clear just as everyone did without insulting anyone. But seems you want a piece of it I will indulge in your stupidity.

Your father lacked wisdom for not flushing you away with toilet wipes or telling your mother to swallow you. That is why you are alive to leave such a stupid comment .

Mention or quote me if you have a valid arguement.

genq:

Exactly the same way Nigerian fools women adopted feminism to thier own detriment. Now y'all have to bear the responsibilities of being a man in addition to the natural burden of being a woman. You now bear children, raise kids, maintain a home and still have to go out to work in slave corporate offices. Congratulations!

Yes, men will continue going their own way and proudly too

LilMissFavvy:
Funny how some people are trying desperately to force others into debates even when they are clueless and have made no tangible points so far........ . I admire the maturity of some ladies here......it's best to ignore the clueless folks.

baby124:
Most feminists are married and have children. LOL. I think you are confused. You barely know what you are talking about. You better heal from the hurt and move on.

All I see here is that some men hold on to hurt much longer than women realize. Women cry for a few months, move on and forget the relationship. Some Men wear the scars for years and years. It may be more of an ego issue we are dealing with here . Many wounded lions

lilbest4:
no it is not. Men don't cry about divorce in Africa, Asia and Eastern Europe because the system don't steal their children and force them to pay alimony for 18 years. Men could care less about divorce it's the system that's completely bias against them they are concerned with. As I said earlier Nigerian men don't have any reason to go their own way because we're still sane here and our leaders haven't handed their balls to women while receiving bl0wjob

Fisher007:
Problem:

Why are women bother about MGTOW?

It is a choice.

The only thing I always ask most ladies who wants marriage or relationships is what are you planning to bring to the table ?

Ask yourself as a lady what do you have to offer a man (High value man). Please don't say your body or sex ?

In Nigeria, most men don't go MGTOW cause in most cases they try to control women with money and wealth.

Ladies have been pimped unsubconsciously since birth by their parents.( Make sure he is rich, he drives a car, he his from a wealthy family etc).

So men think they can control women with money but over time they get bored of the sex she has to offer, cause she will get old with saggy body immediately after childbirth.Then they start looking elsewhere.

Adam had dominion over all creature except Eve. When the power of dominion was pronounced, Eve was not yet created.

Same as Eve who wanted to be above Adam . The law doesn't apply to her so she ate the forbidden fruit to gain an advantage (control) and wisdom (mind) over Adam who was physically strong and created after the image of God.

Eve as a woman can't possess a man. Most women try these too and they fail. Ladies feel they can control a man who was meant to have dominion over all creatures. Not possible . So they use sex and mind games, man's greatest weakness.

The truth is bitter you can't satisfy a woman. Right from Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden. She will misbehave. It is in their nature. Neither can a woman possess or have total control of a Man.


Solution:

So I always say the best solution is to look for a real hardworking feminist incase you want a child. Let her be a Feminist, you be a MGTOW. Have a baby for reprocreation and legacy purpose and move on with your life. Don't marry her since both movement don't support marriage. Just provide for your child when he/ she turns eighteen, his/her decision would made based on her/his opinion.

Enjoy your life , travel the world, explore new culture and horizon. Leave people who are married to face their boring, decieitful , mind controlling life.

Simple.

LilMissFavvy:
must you bring in the Bible in this discussion? You should not because it's wrong to toy with the word of God, besides, you ended up contracting yourself. According to you Eve ate the apple to set herself above Adam. My question to you is, why did Eve give her husband a share of the apple if she wanted to be above him?

baby124:
I hope what you define as sane befalls your daughters. If you can confidently say Amen! Then good for you! So shall it be!

lilbest4:
amen and my girlfriend and sisters too

Breaststroke:
Wow, this thread grew to 10 pages.



I don't know about men in Asia & Eastern Europe, but two Nigerian men in my life opened up about their divorce and they both said, they were broken and depressed by it. Two different men with similar stories, their wives left in a similar fashion too. They moved out with the kids while these men were at work, hubbies came home to find photos, kids and luggage gone. Here in Nigeria where I reside.

One of them said my wife had me by the balls, I pleaded and pleaded with her because of our girls and the fact that I didn't want a divorce. The other guy said he also pleaded and tried for a reconciliation but gave up after one year of no positive vibes.

I bring this up because I was shocked to find out, how affected these men were by their divorce. I always assumed women were worse hit and affected by divorce or rather I was made to believe by our society that we have it worse than men and men are hardly affected.

Please note this - my comment is not aimed at starting a gender debate or war, about divorce or who is most affected by it. It's an honest response to yours without ulterior motives. I don't have the energy like most of you for e-debates or e-wars, I just say what I think or know then I move on.



This part cracked me up , but it's always nice to see how much control we have (in that moment) when we are giving the blow jobs.

LordAdam16:
Who are the people, regardless of gender, who start relationships or enter marriages with partners they "think" they can't have a beautiful home with.

I'm certain when you first met most of your exes, they seemed perfect. Even if they didn't, the drawbacks appeared like quirks that could be fixed not deal breakers.

At first everything was rosy, you couldn't keep your hands off each other, couldn't wait to hear each other's voice... Eventually tho' the dopamine wears off, reality sets in, and whatever attracted you to the person in the first place loses its allure (or doesn't seem enough anymore).

This happens with most romantic relationships. It's why conventional wisdom dictates entering a marriage is not an issue; staying married is.

As such, you've made no point really.

As for the advice on children; 67% of children in Iceland are born to single parents. As CNN noted and I quote, in Iceland "that's a source of pride." Take that as you will.

Now, head on out and don't come back.

-Lord

Fisher007:
You see this is how you start a war you can't finish . " I lack wisdom…"' .

I didn't insult anyone. I made my opinion clear just as everyone did without insulting anyone. But seems you want a piece of it I will indulge in your stupidity.

Your father lacked wisdom for not flushing you away with toilet wipes or telling your mother to swallow you. That is why you are alive to leave such a stupid comment .

Mention or quote me if you have a valid arguement.

LilMissFavvy:
must you bring in the Bible in this discussion? You should not because it's wrong to toy with the word of God, besides, you ended up contracting yourself. According to you Eve ate the apple to set herself above Adam. My question to you is, why did Eve give her husband a share of the apple if she wanted to be above him?

baby124:
Most feminists are married and have children. LOL. I think you are confused. You barely know what you are talking about. You better heal from the hurt and move on.

All I see here is that some men hold on to hurt much longer than women realize. Women cry for a few months, move on and forget the relationship. Some Men wear the scars for years and years. It may be more of an ego issue we are dealing with here . Many wounded lions

Fisher007:
I am not surprise about your reply about been hurt. It is called shaming language.

A real feminist not the fake Naija version you are been taught are independent, self reliant, pay their bills and want nothing to do with men.

They prefer to leave a free life without any control or things to do with men. But the Naija one you all are use too still wants to eat their cake and have it. Meaning claim independent but still leech of men of their ressources, care, and protection.

After life of uncountable bodycounts with various men, they look for a fool (betamale provider)to give the reminants and emotional trauma of such relationships. Then they still wants to claim being a wife and feminist.

Fisher007:
I am not surprise about your reply about been hurt. It is called shaming language.

A real feminist not the fake Naija version you are been taught are independent, self reliant, pay their bills and want nothing to do with men. They don't see marriage or see it as a status quo.

They prefer to leave a free life without any control or things to do with men. But the Naija one you all are use too still wants to eat their cake and have it. Meaning claim independent but still leech of men of their ressources, care, and protection. When clocking the age of 30 It becomes a race to get married cause they feel time is not on their side.

After life of uncountable bodycounts, abortions, abused and been used by with various men for various purposes, they look for a fool (betamale provider)to give the reminants and emotional trauma of such relationships. Then they still wants to claim being a wife and feminist.

missjo:
Cococandy, we must not drag this further. I can see from your profile that you are based in the US and going by your antecedents,you also identify as a feminist.
This subject is something we have dealt with as a group and your line of arguments have been brought to the fore countless times so i understand you. As a feminist,do you belong to any active women organizations in your city?
I am asking because i can get some of my colleagues at the center for global women's leadership out of Rutger's to contact the state chapter (of a women's advancement organization which i am hoping you will be registered with as an active feminist) and furnish them with the research on how tackling cultural foundations as a first step, provides a speedy solution to gender inequality in sub-saharan Africa. What you call social aspects are just consequences which a social intervention will only placate but not eliminate completely.

If you are up for it,of course.

doitforu:
This is not true though, the renowned western feminists are MARRIED. This is your own warped definition. Feminism as started in the US, has nothing to do with marriage. It's just about gender equality, which is equal access to opportunities regardless of gender.

doitforu:
@bolded, it’s Rutgers U, sorry couldn't help it that’s where I did my undergrad. I think you’re full of sh!t, you’ve probably never left whatever backwater African country you’re from. So your delusional ass is now googling women’s org to brow beat people on this thread into a debate? Lol you’re pathetic.

Fisher007:
She ate the fruit, gained knowledge and knew the consequence of what would happen. She didn't want to go down alone.

Why did God ask Adam what happened first and not Eve?

Cause he was meant to be incharge. What was Adam's reply. It is the woman you gave me. Women are chaotic in nature.

That was why Adam was cursed and sent out of the garden of Eden. Only if Adam had just left Eve and not ate the fruit like a mumu. But that is not the case.

LilMissFavvy:
You ain't a serious folk . You have not answered my question. Check your first paragraph, where can it be found in the scriptures? When you copy and paste the verse for all to see, am gonna take you serious, otherwise, keep interpreting the scriptures with sentiments to suit your misogynistic appetite.

genq:
misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic.

Is there any word more redundant than this?

genq:
misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic, misogynistic.

Is there any word more redundant than this?