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Sierusvirus:
The earlier a man understands that to break a woman’s heart before she does same to you is the key to success and the better for the man.
Thank me later....

Lol

alexola20:
Don't be deceived by the few broken-hearted ones.There are still loads of really good guys around.

Sir, we hope so , because the comments from them when it comes to women is discouraging and scary

LordKO:
Truth is that many a time intention from the inception is always genuine and even remained so after breaking the heart. So, the problem isn't always from the one who breaks the heart - it takes two to tango/make a relationship healthy and feasible. When things are not what they seemed to be from the inception, it becomes inevitable to break someone's heart.

No sane man loves breaking women's heart.

Nice one man, my story

MEN ARE SCUM!!!




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chidiebereuzoma:
Okay thanks for your advice!
I was actually influenced by the kind of movies I watched while growing up. All those van vicker, Jim iyke play boy stuffs. I started off fantasizing about it and stuffs like that. In addition to that, I have the required looks to match it up and the rest is history. But sometimes it feels weird to me.
I once spoke to a counselor about this. I'm getting old enough to get married but I can't even genuinely love a woman Sometimes I get worried about this but many times it makes me feel good and alpha...

i feel same way bro

I need to see a counselor. How can I connect to the counselor you saw?? Is he in Lagos?

NYCnextStop:
i feel same way bro

I need to see a counselor. How can I connect to the counselor you saw?? Is he in Lagos?

Nope in Abuja

skukimania:
Your mistake is that these things mostly happen to the good girls, who don't know how to double-date.
Those ones that cheats hardly get heartbroken. Why? Because you guys are like objects in her hands. Dem plenty!
So, out of many guys, one or more will definitely propose.

Some good girls leave good guys because they want to feel what being single and having fun feels like. They want excitement and after having enough excitements life finally hits them.

Writercruze:
https://www.naijalovetips.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/Heartbroken-woman-768x512.jpg

This post is for the man who breaks a woman’s heart. You knew you needed a one night stand, yet you gave her the impression that you were in love. You even went ahead and bought lovely flowers and greeting cards.

But why would you raise someone’s hope to dash it in the middle of nowhere? It would have been better for her if you had told her you needed a friend with benefits.

I could have sworn that men like you don’t exist, but I was wrong anyway. Are you so heartless that you don’t even consider how she will feel once she realized that you are a scam?

I thought heartbreaks only happen in Nollywood and Zeeworlds. I never imagined someone as heartless as you existed until you broke my heart to pieces. Without a doubt, I was a victim of your sweet words, nice gestures, and fake kindness.

I never knew that behind the kindness and nice gestures was a chronic player and womanizer. You are so wicked!!!

How could you paint a marriage life scenario to me while you know that I was your fling? You coaxed into believing that I’m the chosen one whom you will hold close to your arm and spend the rest of your life with.

But why? Did all these lies worth it? How many other girls are victims of your love scam? You have succeeded in instilling natural hatred for men in my heart.

Your actions made me feel unimportant, and you gave me the impression that I’m a worthless fling. You promised me love, affection, and happiness. But after seeing my unclothedness, you made me cry my eyes out.

I fell for your romantic words thinking I found happiness. But after taking me to bed, you became a different person. That was when you told me that you had a serious relationship. So, you kept your girlfriend as a special reserve while treating me as if I’m worthless.

You may think It’s normal, but it’s heartbreaking. I wish you could see the redness in my heart and how I became a shadow of myself when you left. The way you broke my heart into pieces. Sadly, the next man that comes my way will pay for your sin.

All I ever crave for was true love. But you turn everything into a nightmare. I don’t feel safe with men anymore as they remind me of you. I now find men that are kind towards me very irritating.

Since you have taken advantage of my vulnerability, I may never trust any man again. You want to see me cry and miserable because you derive pleasure seeing women in pain.

I just want to know. Why did you lie about everything? What did you gain from it? I was ready to make all our days together magical. Unfortunately, the only magical day was the day you told me you had a serious girlfriend that you are preparing for marriage.

What baffled me most was the fact that you were smiling when you told me about your relationship with another lady. Perhaps, you were happy that I was crying when you ended things with me.

I want you to know that I will be fine. I won’t allow the fact that you break my heart defines me.

As for you, I hope that one day you will experience real heartbreak. That’s the day you will feel all my pains.

Lastly, I hope another woman will not fall for your deceit and lies again.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/a-message-to-the-man-who-breaks-a-womans-heart/

F.UCK YOU!!!

24kmagic:
YAWNS
Same old shit

The only reason I ve not broken a girl's heart is because I've not had the opportunity.
When (not if) I do, I will not just break it, but I will break it into pieces. I will shatter and damage that heart. I will make sure I put her in a depressed state for as long as possible.

Cos I know she'll do the exact same thing to me if she has the opportunity.

Any man that shows any little mercy to any lady other than his family members is a complete weak man.

Your everyday goal is to ensure you abuse them emotionally. Cause them pain, make them cry, and you'll be respected and cherished forever.

The only thing no man is allowed to do to a lady is to physically assault her.

But every form of assault and torture is encouraged.

Better do her before she do you

my girlfriend of 2yrs hit the nail on the head today having caught her cheating with a lodge mate of hers. she has once introduced this guy to me as just a Friend. whenever I visit I get things for the said guy and even take him out as per guy thing. exactly 2weeks ago, on Sunday I accidentally entered her room, the door was not locked from inside, and I saw them in heated romance and kissing. she sat on the plastic table I bought for her with my own cash and the guy was seriously working on her. immediately, I made for the door and barged out. lips locked, bae messaged me later that they were not kissing and the guy was just forcing himself on her. i didn't reply the message nor the call. and the temptation to call her and beg her as I used to kept pushing me but I resisted. just some hour ago, she texted me and warned me never to call her again that she's no longer interested. I quickly called her back only to hear the insult of my life. I love this girl even despite knowing its bad to love them and let them know



I'm depressed right now and I don't know what to do.

[quote author=irumole1975 post=82497322]my girlfriend of 2yrs hit the nail on the head today having caught her cheating with a lodge mate of hers. she has once introduced this guy to me as just a Friend. whenever I visit I get things for the said guy and even take him out as per guy thing. exactly 2weeks ago, on Sunday I accidentally entered her room, the door was not locked from inside, and I saw them in heated romance and kissing. she sat on the plastic table I bought for her with my own cash and the guy was seriously working on her. immediately, I made for the door and barged out. lips locked, bae messaged me later that they were not kissing and the guy was just forcing himself on her. i didn't reply the message nor the call. and the temptation to call her and beg her as I used to kept pushing me but I resisted. just some hour ago, she texted me and warned me never to call her again that she's no longer interested. I quickly called her back only to hear the insult of my life. I love this girl even despite knowing its bad to love them and let them know



I'm depressed right now and I don't know what to do.

Smh

centboy123456:
what happen why did she do it

can't say this is what caused it because she came to my place and we had nice time together, just for her to drop the bomb shell when I was seeing her off...

irumole1975:
my girlfriend of 2yrs hit the nail on the head today having caught her cheating with a lodge mate of hers. she has once introduced this guy to me as just a Friend. whenever I visit I get things for the said guy and even take him out as per guy thing. exactly 2weeks ago, on Sunday I accidentally entered her room, the door was not locked from inside, and I saw them in heated romance and kissing. she sat on the plastic table I bought for her with my own cash and the guy was seriously working on her. immediately, I made for the door and barged out. lips locked, bae messaged me later that they were not kissing and the guy was just forcing himself on her. i didn't reply the message nor the call. and the temptation to call her and beg her as I used to kept pushing me but I resisted. just some hour ago, she texted me and warned me never to call her again that she's no longer interested. I quickly called her back only to hear the insult of my life. I love this girl even despite knowing its bad to love them and let them know



I'm depressed right now and I don't know what to do.

u need to come for deliverance sir,come with 7bottles of olive oil and 2pigeons sir.

alexola20:
Local men dey suffer.
My own mama sef broke my heart too many times.

lol...even mumcy, it is well with us man

princfred:
Even local man was not spared. Lol

he was in sifia pains

soul95:
If a lady goes diabolical on me, I might probably set her ablaze. Even if it means going to the extent of getting married to her. All this rubbish talk of "hell hath no fury black bla" is because men have been using kid gloves on women even when they act like devils. Just offend the wrong person and unfortunately God's mercy is not with you, even your family will pay the price.
Simeon and Levi slaughtered a whole city because of an offense.
Just so you know, men originated wars, genocides, nuclear bombs and holocausts, Just offered d the wrong person.
Going diabolical is crossing the line, at that point you become a devil and will get the devil's treatment.
The most annoying part is that you ladies can't try your nonsense with mean guys, its guys that actually treat them with dignity that usually suffer all these nonsense. You ladies just go everywhere and destroy every beautiful thing, from the garden of eden to brotherhoods and friendships and deceive gullible men with crocodile tears.
I still recall putting plenty caustic soda and plenty pepper in one diabolical lady's bathing water when I was 7. Stupid woman used it to wash her face first, I wonder why she did not use it on her pubic region first(Crazy woman put a charm in my mother's kitchen).
If its present day, I would have done much more worse. Another one lost her teeth. Yet another one turned my house into a small brothel, na to pursue am commot sharparly.
You can do anything, say anything, but the day you decide to go diabolical, unless for the fear of God, if I jam you, lemme hear say I no set you ablaze. Your foolishness will clear when you enter the other side.
Jezebels!
Mtcheew
PS: to all them beautiful warm ladies, may God bless you with good God fearing men, but you have to understand that love and kindness is meant for humans not demons.

Please what school did you attend? They need to withdraw your certificate and you need to be placed in Yaba left immediately. This epistle you wrote now, his does it relate to what I wrote? You sound so bitter and vengeful. Oga you need Jesus Christ.

chidiebereuzoma:
Okay thanks for your advice!
I was actually influenced by the kind of movies I watched while growing up. All those van vicker, Jim iyke play boy stuffs. I started off fantasizing about it and stuffs like that. In addition to that, I have the required looks to match it up and the rest is history. But sometimes it feels weird to me.
I once spoke to a counselor about this. I'm getting old enough to get married but I can't even genuinely love a woman Sometimes I get worried about this but many times it makes me feel good and alpha...

Marriage is not all about love. Find a woman you can respect. Keep love aside.

oyinda1599:
...Hmmm, the man that will break my heart now, will go and take his lessons from another planet .

You just may get what your wish for.
I learnt from the moon � the day Sade broke my heart.

Hipsofagoddess:
Please what school did you attend? They need to withdraw your certificate and you need to be placed in Yaba left immediately. This epistle you wrote now, his does it relate to what I wrote? You sound so bitter and vengeful. Oga you need Jesus Christ.

Maybe someone should kill your only sister with diabolical means and watch your reaction. You are acting like you are better than me

irumole1975:
my girlfriend of 2yrs hit the nail on the head today having caught her cheating with a lodge mate of hers. she has once introduced this guy to me as just a Friend. whenever I visit I get things for the said guy and even take him out as per guy thing. exactly 2weeks ago, on Sunday I accidentally entered her room, the door was not locked from inside, and I saw them in heated romance and kissing. she sat on the plastic table I bought for her with my own cash and the guy was seriously working on her. immediately, I made for the door and barged out. lips locked, bae messaged me later that they were not kissing and the guy was just forcing himself on her. i didn't reply the message nor the call. and the temptation to call her and beg her as I used to kept pushing me but I resisted. just some hour ago, she texted me and warned me never to call her again that she's no longer interested. I quickly called her back only to hear the insult of my life. I love this girl even despite knowing its bad to love them and let them know



I'm depressed right now and I don't know what to do.

Here's what I did when I got my heart broken and nearly entered depression. It may work for you too. It was the advice my friend gave me back then. In his own words "Come on man! Didn't you see loads of girls entering through the school gate everyday? Get as much as you can man!"

1) Start by asking out at least 1 girl everyday
2) Make friends with them, get to know them, if need be get down with them and when your old girl sees your swag, she will crawl back.
3) Now don't send her away, bring her closer, fv*k the shit outta her and drop her sorry ass.
4) Rinse and repeat until you are ready to marry. You can then get one and settle down.

Chai. Men dey para o. I read all comments and mehnn!!


But to be sincere expectations should not be high of any human being. Live like this and you won't be dissapointed!

irumole1975:
my girlfriend of 2yrs hit the nail on the head today having caught her cheating with a lodge mate of hers. she has once introduced this guy to me as just a Friend. whenever I visit I get things for the said guy and even take him out as per guy thing. exactly 2weeks ago, on Sunday I accidentally entered her room, the door was not locked from inside, and I saw them in heated romance and kissing. she sat on the plastic table I bought for her with my own cash and the guy was seriously working on her. immediately, I made for the door and barged out. lips locked, bae messaged me later that they were not kissing and the guy was just forcing himself on her. i didn't reply the message nor the call. and the temptation to call her and beg her as I used to kept pushing me but I resisted. just some hour ago, she texted me and warned me never to call her again that she's no longer interested. I quickly called her back only to hear the insult of my life. I love this girl even despite knowing its bad to love them and let them know



I'm depressed right now and I don't know what to do.

Fuvk that shit brother! This ain't love but been caged. Free yourself and get a deserving girl. And please love with your brain not heart, imagine the girl audacity

ComputerOperato:
You just may get what your wish for.
I learnt from the moon � the day Sade broke my heart.

lolssss. Ordinary moon ni be yen. Kolewerk

oyinda1599:
lolssss. Ordinary moon ni be yen. Kolewerk

Wanna bet?
Try it. But be warned beforehand, I will break your heart.

fvck y'all ladies mehn. Funny how it was one of y'all creatures that broke my lil good and loving heart, now i am a full ass demon with no emotions. I'll never truly love any b!tch again, and that's for sure

EVILFOREST:
This WRITE-UP is USELESS as far as I can depict.


I am yet to find young LADIES who think like DORA Akunyili, Okonjo Iweala, Margaret Ekpo, Fela's Mother, My Mother and many more.
U don't plant PEPPER and expect MANGO.

Na so romance market don spoil reach? And my guy de go naija go marry him sweetheart wey him catch online in December

uthlaw:
that very good idea but remember that as you wish for rich guy that how 100th of ladies out there want rich guy....so imagine just one rich guy fucking more than 30 of ladies and he change them every two months....my sister old age is around the corner!

It's called the pareto principle

Only 20 percent of guys out there are enjoying over 80 percent of our ladies. While the remaining 80 percentile patronize ashawos, raping and masturbating without ceasing

With the comments i am seeing here, its only a matter of time, men and women will become incompatible with each other.

princfred:
As if she added a million bucks to the man's life. When a man can't have their hypergamic, entitled and recalcitrant attitude anymore and decides to bail they wail like one whose goat died prematurely.

Did you notice in that long post how the Op couldn't say her contributions to the man's life apart from sex but only her dreams the man was supposed to fulfil like he was a beast of burden created only to fulfil her fantasies in exchange fir sex. Sex that is everywhere.

Women generally want to be rewarded for showing up, participating and being present, not by actually doing anything. She didnt improved his life in anyway other than "loving him", and having sex, and somehow, feel justifiably angry that he left. True love is not possessive, it is free. If she truly love him, she will let him go, as his happiness is important even if she didnt feature in the picture.

Their understanding of love is when they receive. To be woed, proposed to, awarded gifts, impressed, pleased, and made happy. It's always me, me, me, always about her. Showing him love , is by choosing him out of other desperate men to treat her well. If you decide to leave, unto say the relationship don rob you, she go unleash her natural weapon, to claim weak and a victim. Men see it clearly, but women dont because by nature, they are naturally solipsistic.

skukimania:
Your mistake is that these things mostly happen to the good girls, who don't know how to double-date.
Those ones that cheats hardly get heartbroken. Why? Because you guys are like objects in her hands. Dem plenty!
So, out of many guys, one or more will definitely propose.

and am praying for such girl to come my way, look regardless.