Friendships are complicated, especially between men and women. And they get even more complicated when one of them falls in love. Being in love with your best friend can be painful and awkward. There are many questions that come to mind in such situations: “Does she feel the same?”, “Am I allowed to confess my love to her?”, “Am I going to ruin the friendship if I tell her the truth?” Let’s find some answers.


How to tell her
If you are in love with your best friend you have to tell her – with words! Trying to merely show her your love is the worst thing you can do because she won’t get it.

You are her best friend. She perceives you as someone she can trust. Thus, she won’t interpret your attention as a sign of attraction. That’s why being extremely nice to her – buying her presents, taking her out to dinner, writing songs for her – won’t show her anything but that you’re a friend. Maybe a great one, but still just a friend.

She will continue to talk about other guys with you, not knowing that she’s hurting you. She will continue to cuddle and hug you, not knowing all you want is the cuddling to lead to kissing. She will continue to treat you like one of her female friends, not realizing she is wounding your male ego.
The only way to make the pain stop is by telling her about your feelings.
Pick up the phone and invite her to something you both usually do when you hang out together. Don’t try to tell her over the phone and don’t mention the actual reason you want to see her. It’s important that she feels good about meeting you. No awkwardness, no hasty romantic gestures, no flowers. The best thing you could say is, as always, the truth.
Make it clear, make it short, make it fast. Don’t wait for her answer and don’t push her into telling you how she feels:
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Easier said than done

Tuoyofelix:
Easier said than done

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nkem1992:
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yup. it happened to me in the past. Sadly it did not end well.