Of course every relationship should be built on trust but there is a limit to openness and there exist things that your partner does not really need to know about. So in essence, it’s OK to cut down on openness in a relationship from 100% to somewhere in the region of 90% or so. And here’s the reason: some people really just can’t handle the truth. It does not make them a bad person or bad partners. So instead of risking something beautiful over an inconsequential detail that’ll very likely not hurt anyone, just be mum and coast with the love of your life. Somethings are truly better left unsaid and here are 7 times when it’s OK to not be open with your partner if you don’t feel like it

1. Your s*xual history;- For real, not many boyfriends/girlfriends want to hear the step by step narration and graphic details of how you had s*x in a bathroom stall at the mall with your ex or some random babe.

2. Your body count;- As we already discussed in detail here, for the ladies, only your doctor and gynecologist deserves this information.

3. That someone at work [or anywhere] has a crush on you;- Really, this is literally opening the door for problems no one wants. Here’s the thing about revealing this information – you put your partner in a position to have his imagination roam and become paranoid.

4. That you have a crush on someone else;- Being genuinely in love with a man or woman does not magically take away the inclination to be attracted or to fall in love with other people. So if you find yourself tripping for some other guy/babe, it may be too much information for your partner. You need to concentrate on staying

5. That you don’t like their parents ;-[/b]I’m not sure anyone wants to hear her boyfriend say he does not like her mum. Neither is there any guy who would stand for that. The only time this may be OK is when you no longer value the relationship and you’re willing to let go of it.

[b]6. That you snooped through their stuff;- Even if you searched and found out that they’ve been loyal and loyal to you, keep the good news to yourself. There really is no way to justify snooping through his stuff in the first instance. You’re going to come off as distrustful and things may just go downhill from there. Better keep the info to yourself.


7. That you still stalk his ex;- Ladies, your boyfriend does not need to know that you have been stalking his ex on social media. You’ll come off as an insecure b***h and you don’t need that.

Source- http://www.skyworld.com.ng/2018/07/7-things-you-must-not-tell-your-partner.html

HOW TO GET YOUR EX -BACK AFTER BREAKING UP/DIVORCE--MUST READ TO ALL YOUTHS

Read Here- http://www.skyworld.com.ng/2018/07/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-breaking.html

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For me it's better to tell it all, if they love you they will stay and if they can't deal with it will bounce off.
BTW it better while dating than getting some info about your partner when married

Olalan:
For me it's better to tell it all, if they love you they will stay and if they can't deal with it will bounce off.
BTW it better while dating than getting some info about your partner when married

God bless you bro!

Op's brain is half-done!

Before I and my wife got married she told me about are previous relationships. I had no problems with that at all. All that happened before we met was in the past and we started a new life. I love her and I don't give a fvck who she slept with before we met. I love her scatter. We now have 4 handsome boys and a beautiful daughter.

But I never told her mine though.

To all the single men out there who will definitely get married someday, know that some other guyz are busy fvcking your future wife. Just as you are busy fvcking someone else's future wife.

Abeg who virgin help? Mtchewww

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In a true relationship, bare it all if necessary.

On the other hand,

Some ladies are better off if they know nothing.

8. How much you have in your account

And some people will now carry this list it on their head like firewood. Meanwhile the original source is unknown, that it worked for some couples does not mean it will work for everybody, some partners tell their spouse completely everything about them and build a life long trust with one another. Some couples will not and when the other partner finds out on there own it causes irreparable damage. Others disclose everything and things start falling apart. It depends on couples. What nairaland prioritises above every other thing is traffic so whatever thing that will generate clicks will come up here.

I like to know what I am getting into in the spirit of full disclosure.

Who wants you wants you irrespective of your past.

If na so, all those celebs no go get husband.

You should be honest with your partner down to the last detail. A mature person would soak it in and move on with the relationship. An immature person would do the opposite. So, whom do you wish to date? An immature or a mature?

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who gives a fuc

You say ?

U are teaching us not to be faithful abi...

I will tell my future husband everything expect what happen last night

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3 and 4 so irrelevant.

That you have crush on someone else or someone at work has crush on you, that's nothing.


On the other hand, chai, if ladies start to dey confess their body count for their boyfriend, na there the relationship go end.

Ur past love life either good or bad

AmiciLord:
Before I and my wife got married she told me about are previous relationships. I had no problems with that at all. All that happened before we met was in the past and we started a new life. I love her and I don't give a fvck who she slept with before we met.

But I never told her mine though.

You be badt guy I swear...
Did she divulge the info to you without being asked?
Or you asked her?
But you kept mum when it was your turn....

God dey o....

Lol

Except the relationship is heading nowhere, i advise you tell them everything as in every famn thing...

Isstru sha



If U tell me abt body count





Be ready to count me among the bodies next time.

I am totally in agreement with the OP. As much as it is very good to be open to the a truly matured person should know what to be opened about. It also depends on the emotional maturity of your partner.

I am totally in agreement with the OP. As much as it is very good to be open to the a truly matured person should know what to be opened about. It also depends on the emotional maturity of your partner...

Also "How much u earn or your real worth"!!!

For me I love listening to 1 & 2 ... In details... Give me the feeling of been closer to u...

Your Fada

The dos and don'ts about marriages these days is just silly.