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kestolove95:
too bad, no girl should visit a guy unless dey are married

That's stupid, why can't a woman visit the man she loves and is going to marry? The good thing about this situation is she discovered that the man she loved didn't love her and he is a lying piece of crap. Just because she's 32 doesn't mean she's doomed if she doesn't marry that trash, she deserves better.

You girls need to stop being so desperate for marriage.

EmptyCoconutHead:
words of wisdom. Abasi odiong fi

.Sosong eyeneka

It rains everywhere.

faithfull18:
What kind of talk is this, I hope you say the same for your fiancée.

Cheating is not the exclusive preserve of any gender, take note.

.My dear I am not in any way trying to justify any cheating man.But only trying to bring to bear the reality on the subject matter. I expected this kind of reaction from a lady like you,but I will shock you a little that I have also offered that same advice to my blood sister and she took it seriously and till today her once threatened marriage due to her husband's infidelity is in perfect shape.Again, I am happily married and have had issues like this in my marriage where my wife checked up my WhatsApp and found silly conversion I had with a girl. She was dam infuriated, trust me I tried denying the allegation that I had any thing with the said girl. But when it became so tensed, I had to advise her to avoid my phone to avoid scenarios like this while also making it clear that I am not the worse man on earth as regard cheating. I have also given her the same advice I gave the Op while we were still dating.I am not proud of that advice, but unfortunately, that is the simple truth.That you have not caught your guy cheating does not mean he is not doing it.It could mean that he is still very smart in the act.Sorry about that.

Kaycee54321:
Hope you will say the same thing to yourself if your fiancee does same to you?

.My dear from the information on your sex,it shows that you are a guy.If that is true, it simply brings me to the conclusion that it is either you are being hypocritical or you are still a child. If you are still a child, just wait when you grow up you will understand better. So no need answering any silly question.Take care.

khiaa:
That's stupid, why can't a woman visit the man she loves and is going to marry? The good thing about this situation is she discovered that the man she loved didn't love her and he is a lying piece of crap. Just because she's 32 doesn't mean she's doomed if she doesn't marry that trash, she deserves better.

You girls need to stop being so desperate for marriage.

are u married,?? if not how old are u..

beside, all this theory of if he love me he won't cheat, man still love their wife even wen they cheat, if u keep quitting biko how many relationship will u quit, what if he did immediately after marriage, u ll divorce shey,
and please dont tell me what if it was the other way round, lady that cheat on a man, and caught, that one is gone already. that's the practical society, if u like keep proving theory of goose and gander

@op
she should go back to her man, the guy loves her and let her ignore the circumstances that happen.

learn not to trust him wen alone, na to dey follow him up since he gave the room for such, he ll repent as time goes on.

but please do shakara small( not saying no but by keeping mute and let him sweat while he begs..

shallom

Peterosky:
.My dear from the information on your sex,it shows that you are a guy.If that is true, it simply brings me to the conclusion that it is either you are being hypocritical or you are still a child. If you are still a child, just wait when you grow up you will understand better. So no need answering any silly question.Take care.

It's a simple question which you're too scared to answer.

I am not your Dear.

Peterosky:
.My dear I am not in any way trying to justify any cheating man.But only trying to bring to bear the reality on the subject matter. I expected this kind of reaction from a lady like you,but I will shock you a little that I have also offered that same advice to my blood sister and she took it seriously and till today her once threatened marriage due to her husband's infidelity is in perfect shape.Again, I am happily married and have had issues like this in my marriage where my wife checked up my WhatsApp and found silly conversion I had with a girl. She was dam infuriated, trust me I tried denying the allegation that I had any thing with the said girl. But when it became so tensed, I had to advise her to avoid my phone to avoid scenarios like this while also making it clear that I am not the worse man on earth as regard cheating. I have also given her the same advice I gave the Op while we were still dating.I am not proud of that advice, but unfortunately, that is the simple truth.That you have not caught your guy cheating does not mean he is not doing it.It could mean that he is still very smart in the act.Sorry about that.

Wow, well I know guys who don't cheat, same way I know ladies who don't.

Stop making abnormal things a norm.

Every body has control over their mind, thoughts, emotions, body. They just choose to do whatever they want with it whether good or bad.

Peterosky:
.My dear I am not in any way trying to justify any cheating man.But only trying to bring to bear the reality on the subject matter. I expected this kind of reaction from a lady like you,but I will shock you a little that I have also offered that same advice to my blood sister and she took it seriously and till today her once threatened marriage due to her husband's infidelity is in perfect shape.Again, I am happily married and have had issues like this in my marriage where my wife checked up my WhatsApp and found silly conversion I had with a girl. She was dam infuriated, trust me I tried denying the allegation that I had any thing with the said girl. But when it became so tensed, I had to advise her to avoid my phone to avoid scenarios like this while also making it clear that I am not the worse man on earth as regard cheating. I have also given her the same advice I gave the Op while we were still dating.I am not proud of that advice, but unfortunately, that is the simple truth.That you have not caught your guy cheating does not mean he is not doing it.It could mean that he is still very smart in the act.Sorry about that.

Ah, so you're married? Quick question. If you go through your wife's phone and find her sex video giving a young blood doggy....Will you take this your advice?


Or are you the doctor that hates the taste of his own medicine?

Yugoteey2k:
A woman who visited her boyfriend's house unannounced to surprise him on his birthday has been left with a shocker.

A heartbroken woman has narrated the shock she got after trying to surprise her boyfriend on his birthday by visiting his house unannounced.

Read the post shared by relationship expert, Cynthia Valerian Raphaels:

Good afternoon ma. How is work and family? I need advise ma. Please hide my id .Something happened in my relationship last month like Saturday of last month. This is a man that knows my family and we are planning to marry by Easter next year. My boyfriends birthday was last Saturday of August. I decided to surprise him, packed my bags to go visit him to sleep over. I didn't tell him I was coming.

I left on Friday When I got to the house because I have my own keys, I got there around 2:30pm, I even stopped by the market to buy soup and stew items, got to the house, opened the entrance with my keys and first went to the kitchen to drop the food stuffs I bought . Meanwhile I have been discussing with him about his birthday will be, so he told me on that day, he will come and take me out.

That was our agreement . So I didn't tell him I was planning something else. When I dropped the stuff at the kitchen, I took my bags to the room, met a lady lying down, sleeping with just bra and short in his bedroom. The sound of my shoes woke her up and she asked me who am I, how did I get in?

I introduced myself and she laughed and told me that I should stop joking. She quickly went to where she was charging her phone to call him. That a girl came and was telling her they are dating. The phone was on speak out. He told her that the girl must be mad,that he has no other woman except her. That he is busy at work and will call her later. He dropped the call and I had to dial his number, he picked and I asked him what he just said some seconds ago, he started asking if I am the one, that why didn't I call him. I cut off.

I left with my bag, I didn't go with the food stuff again. He kept calling but I blocked off his lines and blocked him on WhatsApp and on Facebook. He started calling with another number, but got tired to call and stopped. Three years of my relationship him. Even that evening, he drove down to my house but I left to my friends place to cool off.

On Sunday he came again to my friends house but she asked him out . He has visited my work place like three times but I don't want to see him. He said the girl is his ex that doesn't want him to be. That she came to his house so late at night on Thursday and he allowed her to stay, that she came from east. He even said the girl left his house that day.

I don't know what to believe anymore. I love this guy ma'am, I really love him, he loves me but I am confused. He has called my mother to apologize to her, my mum has called me to forgive him, even his sisters are calling me. I am 32 years, he is 35 years

you should have yourself to blame the signs where already there you only went to confirm it so why are you coming here to rant .HE told you he will come to take you out on his birthday ,who should be taking who out in the first place ? it's his birthday all he has to do is make his whereabouts known and let you and his friends do your thing or if he his having a party he will let you know of the venue and other details but saying he will come pick you to take you out is enough RED FLAG FOR ANY SHARP BABE.Once your partner gives flimsy excuses not to be together on special days like Christmas,birthdays,public holidays better know you are not the only one on that ship.When you partner clearly avoid you coming to their houses on these occasions wake up my dear

faithfull18:
Wow, well I know guys who don't cheat, same way I know ladies who don't.

Stop making abnormal things a norm.

Every body has control over their mind, thoughts, emotions, body. They just choose to do whatever they want with it whether good or bad.

.Then go back to your first mention of me, read again,underline and understand the phrase "almost every man" maybe you will understand that there was no need for the mention at all.But again, don't be too sure of those men you think they don't cheat. Cause you will be very disappointed when you find out their dirty secrets,even though I am not saying they cheat.Thanks.

she loves him and u dey seek advice.

Kaycee54321:
Ah, so you're married? Quick question. If you go through your wife's phone and find her sex video giving a young blood doggy....Will you take this your advice?


Or are you the doctor that hates the taste of his own medicine?

.This is the last time I will waste my time on you. I am sure I have given you the needed and best reply in your first mention. So wait till you grow up. You will understand it better bye and bye.

Peterosky:
.This is the last time I will waste my time on you. I am sure I have given you the needed and best reply in your first mention. So wait till you grow up. You will understand it better bye and bye.

You're grown and don't have balls to answer a simple question. You seem to have no experience with women. When a woman takes a cheating partner like you lightly, she has determined to be collecting her own dick codedly 9 times out of 10.
Na Wetin make married women dey collect anyhow these days

Also, if you stay in Lagos, better shine ur eyes cos e get one pretty married Lady wey my Homie bang on Saturday. She was supposed to go to market but branched first...

danilmo:
are u married,?? if not how old are u..

beside, all this theory of if he love me he won't cheat, man still love their wife even wen they cheat, if u keep quitting biko how many relationship will u quit, what if he did immediately after marriage, u ll divorce shey,
and please dont tell me what if it was the other way round, lady that cheat on a man, and caught, that one is gone already. that's the practical society, if u like keep proving theory of goose and gander

@op
she should go back to her man, the guy loves her and let her ignore the circumstances that happen.

learn not to trust him wen alone, na to dey follow him up since he gave the room for such, he ll repent as time goes on.

but please do shakara small( not saying no but by keeping mute and let him sweat while he begs..

shallom

When you told her to learn not to trust him when he's alone you mooted your whole post.

Only a fool would marry someone who has proven that he can't be trusted. As if cheating wasn't bad enough he cheated with his ex which shows there were some unresolved feelings, he was still attached to her sexually, emotionally or both.

kestolove95:
Mtseew at 32 u are not married and u are forming breakup nonsense, by d way y did u visit without prior notice? U caused it

i like u.

kestolove95:
too bad, no girl should visit a guy unless dey are married

To avoid story that touch Abi...u are too funny...
I don't know what to say because me no dey expect perfection from anyone...
I keep saying it...we are all humans...it doesn't really matter if u are a man or lady...we will always mess up at some point in life...

If I catch u with one man....and my spirit still like you ..I gat no choice I stick with you (after all no one is perfect)...but that doesn't mean u should have the audacity to continue cheating...
I could deal with u without u knowing

Me i know rhat i will go with my foodstuffs.Will i now leave it for them to enjoy

Lonelypacifist6:
Abort mission, i repeat Abort mission, code black. he's a cheating nigger with the possibility of infecting you with a disease Report to base for proper re-orientation Over and out.

For ur mind na , u don talk

Kaycee54321:
You're grown and don't have balls to answer a simple question. You seem to have no experience with women. When a woman takes a cheating partner like you lightly, she has determined to be collecting her own dick codedly 9 times out of 10.
Na Wetin make married women dey collect anyhow these days

Also, if you stay in Lagos, better shine ur eyes cos e get one pretty married Lady wey my Homie bang on Saturday. She was supposed to go to market but branched first...

.Stop forcing to reply your mentions. Please please and please, tell your friend to continue bleeping the lady forever. As for my wife, one of the major reasons why I married her is because I have total confidence in her. I can go any where without any fear of where my wife maybe and what she maybe doing at any point in time. Please don't mention me again.thank you.

Peterosky:
.Stop forcing to reply your mentions. Please please and please, tell your friend to continue bleeping the lady forever.As for my wife, one of the major reasons why I married her is because I have total confidence in her. I can go any where without any fear of where my wife maybe and what she maybe doing at any point in time.Please don't mention me again.thank you.

Continue deceiving yourself you hear. Keep cheating on the woman like it's your birthright. Go and ask the men whose wives gave them kids that don't belong to them. They all believed this nonsense you believe.


If e sure for you, continue cheating and run a DNA test on your kids 5 years from now.

khiaa:
Stop using that N word it's so disrespectful.

What's disrespectful about calling someone that? Or are you not African?

Jasseyfrd:
For ur mind na , u don talk

I don't understand Gibberish Speak in plain English.

Lonelypacifist6:
I don't understand Gibberish Speak in plain English.

Why Don’t You Slip Into Something More Comfortable. Like A Coma?

Lonelypacifist6:
What's disrespectful about calling someone that? Or are you not African?

OMG that is a word created by white racist enslavers. Please google it to get the definition of the word and let me know if it defines Africans.

khiaa:
OMG that is a word created by white racist enslavers. Please google it to get the definition of the word and let me know if it defines Africans.

Okay snowflakes.

Lonelypacifist6:
Okay snowflakes.

Snowflake? I'm Black American so I know what the hell I'm talking about.

EmptyCoconutHead:
words of wisdom.
Abasi odiong fi

Honestly, the desperation for marriage is too much.

You girls need to calm down if not you'll all be used daily like tissue just because of the concept of marriage.

khiaa:
Stop using that N word it's so disrespectful.

Hi dear... Can I PM you for acquaintances?

chidiebereuzoma:
Hi dear... Can I PM you for acquaintances?

Sure you can.

khiaa:
Sure you can.

I did already, waiting for your reply

chidiebereuzoma:
I did already, waiting for your reply

Ok, I'm on it.