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Take it easy bro, it's not enough reason to call him names..
People actually pay for your expertise in software usage, even if you weren't the one who developed the software.
Eg, many pay heavily to be taught how to use DreamWeaver which is a free software, just to mention but a few.
You should encourage him to either reduce his price or do it on pro bono basis.
Peace.

Dbowline:
Just for 2k, just for money, not that you developed the app....You are a shame to the common good of this country and to youths nationally. How could you do this? This is bad.

Remember the moniker ENRYPECH!!!...Used to be good but all was a lie

Dbowline:
Just for 2k, just for money, not that you developed the app....You are a shame to the common good of this country and to youths nationally. How could you do this? This is bad.

Remember the moniker ENRYPECH!!!...Used to be good but all was a lie

Wow! Wow!!!

All these things for me? For charging to teach what I paid to learn?

I didn't know when it became a shameful thing for one to monetize his information and knowledge

Alright. My post didn't suggest that I was selling an App to anybody. I merely wanted to teach those interested.

A quick question. So because anyone can easily install python, Java, Blender etc. You will go ahead and villify another person who is charging to teach people how to program?

Now, let me state that I do not have a calm and collected mind like moosgon.

Dbowline, it's a shame to you and your African parents (if you have them) that you grew up so unfortunate like this.

I understand you parted company with your senses long before you were born. You are very sick but the real sickness is that you are not aware you are sick

I see you make a meal of bringing people down a lot and you seem to enjoy it thoroughly.

With such a " good heart " . Why not opt to teach the interested ones free of charge .

I haven't scammed you or anybody, I haven't coveted your wife. Why would you speak so ill of me.

Dbowline. Take your time. Avoid me

Enrypech:
Wow! Wow!!!

All these things for me? For charging to teach what I paid to learn?

I didn't know when it became a shameful thing for one to monetize his information and knowledge

Alright. My post didn't suggest that I was selling an App to anybody. I merely wanted to teach those interested.

A quick question. So because anyone can easily install python, Java, Blender etc. You will go ahead and villify another person who is charging to teach people?

Now, let me state that I do not have a calm and collected mind like moosgon.

Dbowline, it's a shame to you and your African parents (if you have them) that you grew up so unfortunate like this.

I understand you parted company with your senses long before you were born. You are very sick but the real sickness is that you are not aware you are sick

I see you make a meal of bringing people down a lot and you seem to enjoy it thoroughly.

With such a " good heart " . Why not opt to teach the interested ones free of charge .

I haven't scammed you or anybody, I haven't coveted your wife. Why would you speak so ill of me.

Dbowline. Take your time. Avoid me

You didn't have to do this boss, remember the ant management theory? Respond not react

GeniusOla:
You didn't have to do this boss, remember the ant management theory? Respond not react

Cockroach actually

GeniusOla:
You didn't have to do this boss, remember the ant management theory? Respond not react

So it is safe to say that @eddyville92 responded while @enrypech reacted

#lessonlearnt

GeniusOla:
You didn't have to do this boss, remember the ant management theory? Respond not react

OK Sir

Eggovic:
Cockroach actually

Yeah bro, I've actually learnt a lot of stuffs on here, i was at the bank yesterday and the experience i had was enough to throw the whole place upside down, was there for close to three hours just to get an instant Atm card , the last time i had one was 5 months ago (my card was compromised) since then the fear of ATM card was the beginning of wisdom for me #lol, took excuse from work, got to the bank, the form i filled wasn't taken to one place, one person forgot to take it to the so and so's table, they attended to other issues customers were too much, was asked to join one queue after the other, i was inbetween the decisions of should i leave, should i stay, 1hr 30mins gone already, would it waste just like that if i left? I was impatient all through but i tried not to speak out of anger, I've learned self control is about me, not the situation, even though i said one or two things to let them know my time is precious and i'm not pleased with the delay, was walking up and down troubled like a hubby whose wife was in the delivery room #lol at the end of the long wait the printer to print my name on the card broke down, it was close to 5pm(bank processing time ends 5pm i guess) they started rushing everything so that my long wait wasnt futile, bros i don red already, only to be told to come the next day. Okokobioko , I was really angry and sad as i walked back to work, i tried to shake it off , but it came back so quickly, but its really cool to know the dynamics of certain things, helps you to be in charge, I'll get my card when next I'm chanced but i go give them small voice this time around sha, make everyone answer e surname o, u do anyhow u see anyhow #lol. I nor get time for nonsense

Enrypech:
OK Sir

Respect boss.

Thread gradually derailing. Kolo look at what you have caused.

By the way I have not been paid o. Local man needs his money. I don broke.

GeniusOla:
Yeah bro, I've actually learnt a lot of stuffs on here, i was at the bank yesterday and the experience i had was enough to throw the whole place upside down, was there for close to three hours just to get an instant Atm card , the last time i had one was 5 months ago (my card was compromised) since then the fear of ATM card was the beginning of wisdom for me #lol, took excuse from work, got to the bank, the form i filled wasn't taken to one place, one person forgot to take it to the so and so's table, they attended to other issues customers were too much, was asked to join one queue after the other, i was inbetween the decisions of should i leave, should i stay, 1hr 30mins gone already, would it waste just like that if i left? I was impatient all through but i tried not to speak out of anger, I've learned self control is about me, not the situation, even though i said one or two things to let them know my time is precious and i'm not pleased with the delay, was walking up and down troubled like a hubby whose wife was in the delivery room #lol at the end of the long wait the printer to print my name on the card broke down, it was close to 5pm(bank processing time ends 5pm i guess) they started rushing everything so that my long wait wasnt futile, bros i don red already, only to be told to come the next day. Okokobioko , I was really angry and sad as i walked back to work, i tried to shake it off , but it came back so quickly, but its really cool to know the dynamics of certain things, helps you to be in charge, I'll get my card when next I'm chanced but i go give them small voice this time around sha, make everyone answer e surname o, u do anyhow u see anyhow #lol. I nor get time for nonsense

Hahaha. I feel you bro. How we conduct ourselves in situations like these shows how much we've learnt on our sojourn here

Bro

U try 4 dis long story abeg, I don give u one like as others no gree do same.

Pele.

I have also reported d comment as well.

Stop derailing d thread!

GeniusOla:
Yeah bro, I've actually learnt a lot of stuffs on here, i was at the bank yesterday and the experience i had was enough to throw the whole place upside down, was there for close to three hours just to get an instant Atm card , the last time i had one was 5 months ago (my card was compromised) since then the fear of ATM card was the beginning of wisdom for me #lol, took excuse from work, got to the bank, the form i filled wasn't taken to one place, one person forgot to take it to the so and so's table, they attended to other issues customers were too much, was asked to join one queue after the other, i was inbetween the decisions of should i leave, should i stay, 1hr 30mins gone already, would it waste just like that if i left? I was impatient all through but i tried not to speak out of anger, I've learned self control is about me, not the situation, even though i said one or two things to let them know my time is precious and i'm not pleased with the delay, was walking up and down troubled like a hubby whose wife was in the delivery room #lol at the end of the long wait the printer to print my name on the card broke down, it was close to 5pm(bank processing time ends 5pm i guess) they started rushing everything so that my long wait wasnt futile, bros i don red already, only to be told to come the next day. Okokobioko , I was really angry and sad as i walked back to work, i tried to shake it off , but it came back so quickly, but its really cool to know the dynamics of certain things, helps you to be in charge, I'll get my card when next I'm chanced but i go give them small voice this time around sha, make everyone answer e surname o, u do anyhow u see anyhow #lol. I nor get time for nonsense

Beautiful perspective.

Misplaced location, pls go to the motivation thread to do this, u are derailing.

Ur comment has been reported.

BenFlash:
You can actually be a proud father, if your child is doing well academically for instance. So "being proud" should not always be seen in the negative light.

However, if we should dwell on the negative as your question indicates, another word for it would be "arrogance"

Someone or someone's comment can come across as being 'arrogant' based on two factors -

1. Perspective/orientation

2. Level of Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

1. Perspective
A child who says "what's up dad" as a form of greeting to his dad in America (very normal to an average American) will otherwise be considered to be a proud/arrogant/not humble child by an average Nigerian who sees him doing that to his dad here. It is simply a matter of perspective or orientation (why do you think some people almost kneel down when talking to elders on the phone?)

Another instance was when @mosgoon affirmed that the same comments for which he was being vilified here on NL were considered to be normal on reddit as no one even raised an eyebrow there, which brings me to point number 2.

2 . EQ on the part of the commenter
This should prompt the commenter to conduct an informal audience profiling to know which communication style to adopt otherwise he/she will come across as someone who is seeking unnecessary attention and in some cases deemed to be proud or not humble. Emotional Intelligence is key to avoid unnecessary backlash for an otherwise "innocent" statement.

Furthermore, the EQ of the audience also plays a crucial role in determining whether someone or a comment would be adjudged "proud". Some audience may see a comment, pick the relevant info and ignore the rest of the noise while the other set of audience will dwell on the "McKinsey" part that was mentioned and start vibrating.

In summary, being adjudged to be proud is a matter of perspective/orientation, and the emotional intelligence of the commenter and/or the audience. There is no hard and fast rule.

BenFlash:
So it is safe to say that @eddyville92 responded while @enrypech reacted

#lessonlearnt

Sometimes it is good to test run your madness so some people won’t take your “maturity” as weakness or being unassertive.

larride:
Sometimes it is good to test run your madness so some people won’t take your “maturity” as weakness or being unassertive.

Lol

larride:
Sometimes it is good to test run your madness so some people won’t take your “maturity” as weakness or being unassertive.

Lol, true, but what if @Dbowline was also the same person as @GeniusOla?

My point is that all the effort would have been worth it if you even know as little as the real name of the person you are showing all the emotions for.

Beeam:
Beautiful perspective.

Misplaced location, pls go to the motivation thread to do this, u are derailing.

Ur comment has been reported.

Lol, comment reporter. If we have been reporting yours. The mods would not only ban you, they'll physically trace you to your house to seize your phone and laptop.

#Reportkeeyoudia

Sometimes people say ,'the core professionals like ,Doctors ,Engineers,lawyers,Accountants/Economist are proud'
Whereas the obvious truth is actually they way they conduct themselves.

Looking at this thread ,one can easily deduce that most people that cause nuisance here once in awhile are those from 'ancillary professions'.

Taking this personal will be at your own peril.Good afternoon.

Nothing wey big brother no go see for house

Rahl444:
Sometimes people say ,'the core professionals like ,Doctors ,Engineers,lawyers,Accountants/Economist are proud'
Whereas the obvious truth is actually they way they conduct themselves.

Looking at this thread ,one can easily deduce that most people that cause nuisance here once in awhile are those from 'ancillary professions'.

Taking this personal will be at your own peril.Good afternoon.

eddyville92:
Take it easy bro, it's not enough reason to call him names..
People actually pay for your expertise in software usage, even if you weren't the one who developed the software.
Eg, many pay heavily to be taught how to use DreamWeaver which is a free software, just to mention but a few.
You should encourage him to either reduce his price or do it on pro bono basis.
Peace.

Open rebuke is better than secret love. No regrets

Ginalex:
I gave up on NL

Ginalex are you the owner of the moniker called "Jesusgirl". That pics look familiar

vingeophysicist:
Ginalex are you the owner of the moniker called "Jesusgirl". That pics look familiar

yeah

This thread is soo Cold now. Almost everyone has moved on as regards APL. Local man cannot coman die up top APL. Life continues however, count down to October 4th

Ginalex:
yeah

yeah!! Back then I was really into that Jesusgirl . i was following her then but........ her comments on nairaland made me change direction. You are beautiful though.

vingeophysicist:
yeah!! Back then I was really into that Jesusgirl . i was following her then but........ her comments on nairaland made me change direction. You are beautiful though.

Uhm! Hello bro, she just confirmed that @Jesusgirl is the same person as @Ginalex, perhaps you missed that part.

Please is there a direct link to login into that Total Young Graduate Program??

I keep seeing "There was an error processing your submission...... "

Thanks in advance

Today i learnt that one could part ways with his/her senses b4 birth. .

Can one b sick n not knw h/s is sick

Worst sickness ever.


All these insult for one person. Oooh chineke.

What APL delay can cause

Beeam:
Bro

U try 4 dis long story abeg, I don give u one like as others no gree do same.

Pele.

I have also reported d comment as well.

Stop derailing d thread!

Common Bro. I am not a main contributor here but a lurker. I have no problem with this thread been derailed. What else will local men do here as they wait for APL. Even though people share information here, people also share and exchange other things. Remember in the Auditorium during interview, the people told us to gist and get to know each other. So why not here?
Class Monitor.

BenFlash:
Uhm! Hello bro, she just confirmed that @Jesusgirl is the same person as @Ginalex, perhaps you missed that part.

yeah i know . i was following her former moniker back then because of her beauty and name but her comments on nairaland made me question the Jesus in her.

vingeophysicist:
yeah i know . i was following her former moniker back then because of her beauty and name but her comments on nairaland made me question the Jesus in her.

And you are who? Assistant Jesus?

You'd better unfollow me

See y'all on Monday, except APL drops over the weekend

Ginalex:
And you are who? Assistant Jesus?

You'd better unfollow me

sorry dear . you did not understand me properly . I have long unfollow you.