Davash222:

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kowema:
You have to be careful to handle the issue with empathy besides being logical.

Now questions to answer, is she violent?, Does she attend to her hygiene?, Does she communicate well?, Does she have family members who are willing to step in and is she aware of her condition?.

If her family members are known to u and willing to step in, then you can engage them and get a way forward.
If she is neat and not violent, you may have to calm down as that will mean she is not disturbing public peace plus she may also have the ability to carry out her sales, make profit and pay ur rent.

It's very commendable that she is at least trying to make ends meet. People like that need love and they are good to go till dey pull tru.

You can take it upon yourself to provide her with a rechargeable lamp and replace her candles. Discuss with her why she shouldn't use candles as it's not safe. Also talk with her that u may only allow her to use ur shop as a place to sleep for say a month and she will need to look for a proper accommodation after.
Finally, since u are a landlord, u can help her search for a small accommodation from fellow landlords.

If she realises that you are on her side. She will listen and oblige.

Pele.

realestniggah:
I'm assuming she paid her rent and you guys have an agreement.. You can't just evict someone who has paid rent and signed agreement.. If her rent is expired then you are within your right to evict her.

mdchikezie:

thats exactly how confused your life is

Starboytwo:
I have a funny case on my plate at the moment...

She is mentally unstable and occupies one of the shops I needed vacant Asap...

Initially hers before she went beyond, now she has been evicted from her house and currently live in the shop... She uses candles at night, a threat,and scares other shop owners...

I don't know if the police handle such cases, since I have contacted a family member but they seem not interested... Do I use force

She has been indoors for 3 days now, and has not come outside...


Kindly help with the right steps pls...

Davash222:
You want to send her out to rehab or to the street? Don't you have compassion for your fellow being? Is there no way you can help this woman before her case gets worse? You care more about your 4x4 shop than you care for your fellow human.

Starboytwo:
guy why you dey talk like this Na wa for Nigerians ooo, I asked a simple question, just advice on what to do.... You have not helped in anyway or contributed meaningfully to the asked question, you just yarn dust....

Unrated900:




My guy you suppose know say almost 70 % of people on nairaland talk trash


They can’t give you better advise but can insult you

Bro the best to do is to look for her family


Tell them what’s happening


If no family


Talk to the woman in person

Am sure no matter how hard her sense might not correct she can still recuperate


Or take her to orphanage home

Starboytwo:
I have a funny case on my plate at the moment...

She is mentally unstable and occupies one of the shops I needed vacant Asap...

Initially hers before she went beyond, now she has been evicted from her house and currently live in the shop... She uses candles at night, a threat,and scares other shop owners...

I don't know if the police handle such cases, since I have contacted a family member but they seem not interested... Do I use force

She has been indoors for 3 days now, and has not come outside...


Organize a sent forth for her. get dj and do barbeque. u have to respect the werey around u

Kindly help with the right steps pls...

Starboytwo:
you indeed is a funny man

millionboi2:
if na ur sister nko?

Starboytwo:
guy why you dey talk like this Na wa for Nigerians ooo, I asked a simple question, just advice on what to do.... You have not helped in anyway or contributed meaningfully to the asked question, you just yarn dust....

Starboytwo:
guy why you dey talk like this Na wa for Nigerians ooo, I asked a simple question, just advice on what to do.... You have not helped in anyway or contributed meaningfully to the asked question, you just yarn dust....

tojahh:


The NwaAmaikpe you're trying to imitate has about 4k nairaland likes. But check his UBA bank balance.... Its equated to nothing.

kowema:


How please?. ..and I'm not a man, or did u miss d pink "F"

Netanyahu1:
Bros that's just one of the problems that we suffer in this backward nation. Nigerians apply emotional blackmail to economic situations, and you wonder why our gdp can't grow.

On the situation at hand you might want to involve the court system so they can come and take her to a mental institution.

Ijawwomaninoyo:


Don't mind him, were you the person that ran her mad or no member of her family has a house where she can sleep?
Are the members of her family not aware she is mad? Why didn't they rehabilitate her.
How is it your responsibility to rehabilitate her?
Send the address to his email so he can come and do the rehabilitation.

actrinity:

The shop is initially hers and you want to take it away from her simply cox she's mentally unstable? That's wickedness bro and her God wil fight for her. so u prefer seeing her in the street, sleeping in gutters and turn to a full mad woman? Have u take a food and water to her for this past 3 days she has been inside, coz I'm sure she didn't lock the door from inside? Have u tried helping her out with the instability and it didn't work? You only concern is to evict her and claim her property/inheritance. Are u sure u're not even responsible for her current situation? Coz ur desire is full evil. Repent now!!!

Starboytwo:
how long that gonna take bruh, hen just how long... Time no dey bro, and definitely time not day to take care of mad woman I don't care for, abeg

Starboytwo:
so your advice is I should take care of her, like she is my business, my property, my headache When I called her family, she was evicted from her house and now living in the shop... She uses candles at night and other shop owners are worried for their business and safety...

I'm a young man, tryna hustle my way up, if you have a 26 year old brother, graduate etc would you advice Him to take up responsibility of a mad woman? Ask yourself if you will advice such to your blood brother.... I await your answer

Starboytwo:
guy why you dey talk like this Na wa for Nigerians ooo, I asked a simple question, just advice on what to do.... You have not helped in anyway or contributed meaningfully to the asked question, you just yarn dust....

mdchikezie:

LMAO i know you still manage to feed talk more of mailing me something outside of Nigeria .... your handwriting is that of a typical broke jobless mfker
#dealwithit
lastly manage your 1 day sub data wellloooo i wouldnt be liable for regrets afterwards

Starboytwo:
her rent expired 2years ago, even before I got here...

kowema:



Laughs.
Go back and read my comment again and understand it. The summary of my contribution is apply empathy while being logical.
You never know what ur blessing is tied to.
Every advice I gave u was from personal experience. Good luck.

buzorcharles:
he didn't yarn any dust. You are the only one that can help this lady. Abi u want litter the street with more mentally unstable people

Netanyahu1:
It would take time but you have to follow legal process. Contact social welfare office they would put you through the paper work.

notoriousbabe:
Mad people understand one another, pretend to be mad too, then go to her for dialogue

Starboytwo:
guy if you see her teeth, cold will catch you What if she bite me, or she go try kiss me no

Starboytwo:
pls share me their website, address or telephone number