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chyckxx:
being introverted or keeping to oneself isn’t always an attribute of a low self esteem; for me, it’s actually the other way round. i often feel like most people aren’t good or intelligent enough for me, hence they are likely to misunderstand me and my way of doing things.
keeping to oneself will likely be the case if you value your abilities and feel like you’re good enough for the tasks; not everyone believes in teamwork and this method works for me.
i don’t feel the need to keep a bunch of friends and it’s not because i don’t feel good enough about myself but rather, my perceived insignificance of having such people around me.

ElRapido:
The level of self-esteem is variable throughout life; that is, the level of self-confidence and the value we attribute to ourselves is not defined in the metaphor of a straight line. Self-esteem is one of the essential ingredients of our personal development and emotional well-being. For this reason, it is crucial to listen to those symptoms that indicate that we do not love each other as much as we deserve.

Through self-esteem, you become aware of the critical relationship you maintain with yourself since this relationship is the pillar of your bond with others, for this reason, in this article we are going to discover what are the characteristics of people with low self-esteem so that you learn to recognize them and analyze yourself.

They are indecisive, have difficulty making decisions, have an exaggerated fear of making mistakes. They only make a decision when they are utterly sure of obtaining 100% results.

They think that they can't, that they don't know anything, that they won't get it.

They don't value themselves, their talents, or their possibilities. They see their small skills, while those of others see them as large and even exaggerated.

They are afraid of what is new and avoid risks.

They are very anxious and nervous, which leads them to avoid situations that give them anguish and fear.

They are very passive; they avoid taking the initiative.

They are isolated, shy, and have almost no friends or very few.

They do not like to share their feelings with other people.

They avoid participating in the activities that are carried out in their center of study or work.

They are afraid to talk to other people about any topic; they feel continuously evaluated.

They depend a lot on other people to do their tasks or perform any activity.

They give up before doing or starting any activity.

They are not satisfied with themselves, and they think they are not doing anything right.

They don't know their emotions, so they can't express them.

Because they have no courage, they find it hard to accept criticism.

They have a hard time recognizing when they are wrong.

They handle a lot of feelings of guilt when something goes wrong.

In the face of negative results, they look for guilt in others.

They believe that they are the ugly, ignorant and that everyone else does it better than they do.

They rejoice at the mistakes of others because it makes them feel better.

They don't care about their health.

They are pessimistic; they believe that everything will go wrong.

They look for leaders to do things.

They think they are uninteresting people.

They think they make a wrong impression on others.

They feel they don't control their lives.

They don't like to struggle because they don't believe in their ability.

They find it hard to achieve their goals.

Read More: https://findselfesteem..com/2019/10/characteristics-of-people-with-low-self.html

ElRapido:
The level of self-esteem is variable throughout life; that is, the level of self-confidence and the value we attribute to ourselves is not defined in the metaphor of a straight line. Self-esteem is one of the essential ingredients of our personal development and emotional well-being. For this reason, it is crucial to listen to those symptoms that indicate that we do not love each other as much as we deserve.

Through self-esteem, you become aware of the critical relationship you maintain with yourself since this relationship is the pillar of your bond with others, for this reason, in this article we are going to discover what are the characteristics of people with low self-esteem so that you learn to recognize them and analyze yourself.

They are indecisive, have difficulty making decisions, have an exaggerated fear of making mistakes. They only make a decision when they are utterly sure of obtaining 100% results.

They think that they can't, that they don't know anything, that they won't get it.

They don't value themselves, their talents, or their possibilities. They see their small skills, while those of others see them as large and even exaggerated.

They are afraid of what is new and avoid risks.

They are very anxious and nervous, which leads them to avoid situations that give them anguish and fear.

They are very passive; they avoid taking the initiative.

They are isolated, shy, and have almost no friends or very few.

They do not like to share their feelings with other people.

They avoid participating in the activities that are carried out in their center of study or work.

They are afraid to talk to other people about any topic; they feel continuously evaluated.

They depend a lot on other people to do their tasks or perform any activity.

They give up before doing or starting any activity.

They are not satisfied with themselves, and they think they are not doing anything right.

They don't know their emotions, so they can't express them.

Because they have no courage, they find it hard to accept criticism.

They have a hard time recognizing when they are wrong.

They handle a lot of feelings of guilt when something goes wrong.

In the face of negative results, they look for guilt in others.

They believe that they are the ugly, ignorant and that everyone else does it better than they do.

They rejoice at the mistakes of others because it makes them feel better.

They don't care about their health.

They are pessimistic; they believe that everything will go wrong.

They look for leaders to do things.

They think they are uninteresting people.

They think they make a wrong impression on others.

They feel they don't control their lives.

They don't like to struggle because they don't believe in their ability.

They find it hard to achieve their goals.

Read More: https://findselfesteem..com/2019/10/characteristics-of-people-with-low-self.html

Happyguy201:
Never knew that having no friends is a sign of low self esteem

chyckxx:
being introverted or keeping to oneself isn’t always an attribute of a low self esteem; for me, it’s actually the other way round. i often feel like most people aren’t good or intelligent enough for me, hence they are likely to misunderstand me and my way of doing things.
keeping to oneself will likely be the case if you value your abilities and feel like you’re good enough for the tasks; not everyone believes in teamwork and this method works for me.
i don’t feel the need to keep a bunch of friends and it’s not because i don’t feel good enough about myself but rather, my perceived insignificance of having such people around me.

grandstar:
This article is poor. Its nice you chose a topic for blogging other than social gossip but this isn't for you
Please find something you're passionate about and focus on it ElRapido

judedwriter:
They determine themselves by what others think about them.

BlackAfrican:
I can bet a million bucks that the author of this post has 5 or more of these traits.

I guess we can say he or she is also a sufferer.

Meanwhile, for those who notice some of these things in their lives, be aware that nothing is set in stone. You do not have low self esteem. Don't let a list constructed by a self serving untrained fellow looking for traffic make you berate yourself.

Look on the bright side of life continuously and try to make the best out of every situation you find yourself.

chyckxx:
being introverted or keeping to oneself isn’t always an attribute of a low self esteem; for me, it’s actually the other way round. i often feel like most people aren’t good or intelligent enough for me, hence they are likely to misunderstand me and my way of doing things.
keeping to oneself will likely be the case if you value your abilities and feel like you’re good enough for the tasks; not everyone believes in teamwork and this method works for me.
i don’t feel the need to keep a bunch of friends and it’s not because i don’t feel good enough about myself but rather, my perceived insignificance of having such people around me.

Psalm2423:
Please correct them bro. Most people can think nonsense. That was how one idiot came to quarrel with me for always staying indoors. If my job is a work at home position, and I can order the basic things of life directly to my doorstep, is there any need to be jumping around the world? I’m an introvert, I hate phone calls unless we’re close. If we’re close, I can talk for 2 hours nonstop, else, everyone else is a nuisance.

I actually don’t keep friends cause I know they’re more fake than real. Messi is more like an introvert, he doesn’t run all the after match comment, rarely do you see him off-season. So he has low self esteem right? Most rich men just don’t have friends, and they don’t need them.

Albert Einstein
Isaac Newton
Buddha
Gandhi
Jesus without his disciples
Owner of Tesla (I just forgot his name)
Your favorite Bill Gates who stays away from people to come up with new ideas.
Trump (since you said they blame others, then he has low self-esteem right?)
Buhari (same with Trump, daddy has been blaming past administrations).

Please OP research before you write. While some points are true, never generalize. That’s why we have the statement: “all Rottweilers are dogs, but not all dogs are Rottweilers.”

bizhop01:
What profit a man that has half of nigeria as a close friend

chyckxx:
being introverted or keeping to oneself isn’t always an attribute of a low self esteem; for me, it’s actually the other way round i often feel like most people aren’t good or intelligent enough for me hence they are likely to misunderstand me and my way of doing things.
keeping to oneself will likely be the case if you value your abilities and feel like you’re good enough for the tasks; not everyone believes in teamwork and this method works for me.
i don’t feel the need to keep a bunch of friends and it’s not because i don’t feel good enough about myself but rather, my perceived insignificance of having such people around me.

ymstar:
U are not alone, dis definitely defines my personality

1Sharon:
Yes, low self esteem isn't your problem.

Its arrogance.

chyckxx:
funny enough, someone was complaining about how rude they think i am because i barely relate with them. it’s not pride or arrogance though. i just enjoy this peace that comes with being alone.

ElRapido:
The level of self-esteem is variable throughout life; that is, the level of self-confidence and the value we attribute to ourselves is not defined in the metaphor of a straight line. Self-esteem is one of the essential ingredients of our personal development and emotional well-being. For this reason, it is crucial to listen to those symptoms that indicate that we do not love each other as much as we deserve.

Through self-esteem, you become aware of the critical relationship you maintain with yourself since this relationship is the pillar of your bond with others, for this reason, in this article we are going to discover what are the characteristics of people with low self-esteem so that you learn to recognize them and analyze yourself.

They are indecisive, have difficulty making decisions, have an exaggerated fear of making mistakes. They only make a decision when they are utterly sure of obtaining 100% results.

They think that they can't, that they don't know anything, that they won't get it.

They don't value themselves, their talents, or their possibilities. They see their small skills, while those of others see them as large and even exaggerated.

They are afraid of what is new and avoid risks.

They are very anxious and nervous, which leads them to avoid situations that give them anguish and fear.

They are very passive; they avoid taking the initiative.

They are isolated, shy, and have almost no friends or very few.

They do not like to share their feelings with other people.

They avoid participating in the activities that are carried out in their center of study or work.

They are afraid to talk to other people about any topic; they feel continuously evaluated.

They depend a lot on other people to do their tasks or perform any activity.

They give up before doing or starting any activity.

They are not satisfied with themselves, and they think they are not doing anything right.

They don't know their emotions, so they can't express them.

Because they have no courage, they find it hard to accept criticism.

They have a hard time recognizing when they are wrong.

They handle a lot of feelings of guilt when something goes wrong.

In the face of negative results, they look for guilt in others.

They believe that they are the ugly, ignorant and that everyone else does it better than they do.

They rejoice at the mistakes of others because it makes them feel better.

They don't care about their health.

They are pessimistic; they believe that everything will go wrong.

They look for leaders to do things.

They think they are uninteresting people.

They think they make a wrong impression on others.

They feel they don't control their lives.

They don't like to struggle because they don't believe in their ability.

They find it hard to achieve their goals.

Read More: https://findselfesteem..com/2019/10/characteristics-of-people-with-low-self.html

1Sharon:
Abeg jo, you are arrogant.

Which funny enough is also a sign of insecurity.

Happyguy201:
Never knew that having no friends is a sign of low self esteem

nairalandposter:
lolz

At least he can boost the "posters" on websites that need them eg nairaland with 2,340,475 members.



Addendum:

If the owners were interested in monetizing the forum, assuming the site has around 40,000 real members (the number be could be lower than that), and they (site owners) charged say $10 per year for subscription, that's $400,000 give or take.

bizhop01:
This is irrelevant

Happyguy201:
Never knew that having no friends is a sign of low self esteem

BlackAfrican:
I can bet a million bucks that the author of this post has 5 or more of these traits.

I guess we can say he or she is also a sufferer.

Meanwhile, for those who notice some of these things in their lives, be aware that nothing is set in stone. You do not have low self esteem. Don't let a list constructed by a self serving untrained fellow looking for traffic make you berate yourself.

Look on the bright side of life continuously and try to make the best out of every situation you find yourself.