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| Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 7:27am On Oct 06, 2019 |
My mentality about life, women in particular, changes the moment I got married. I've read some articles here and seen 'THE ALPHA MALE DUDES' been schooled here by their mentors. I want to say this, 'life on the other side (marriage) is a different ball game'. I'd hav droped a piece of advice here for the 'ALPHA MALE DUDES' but let them learn from experience. I realized, a lesson learned from experience is more valuable and retentive. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 7:32am On Oct 06, 2019 |
Never marry if you're not mentally ready. Money isn't everything. Mental health is. That's all i hav to say. 20 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 7:34am On Oct 06, 2019 |
Life will humble them 5 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by izzou(m): 7:42am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:I beseech thee, share thy experience  2 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 7:43am On Oct 06, 2019 |
Never build marriage on the foundation of lies. Lies have buried many marriages than infidelity ever will. I lied to my in-laws that i am a theist. I haven't seen my wife for two days now. Her number not going through. We quarrel a lot. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 7:53am On Oct 06, 2019 |
0KNM:i havnt seen my wife for days. D first issue began wen she wanted to sell d car i gav her. After much fight, i allowd her sold it. D car was one of d things i agreed to giv her if she marries me. Dis curent one she wants to sell off a shopping plaza i gave her. That plaza was built by my mom. because i will it to her doesnt mean she shud sell it. She wants us to relocate to lagos where her busines is. Man a lot hav happend b/w us under one month in marriage. 3 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by fykes(m): 7:55am On Oct 06, 2019 |
The mention of alpha male often denotes pride and Machotistism in many people. Being an Alpha male is not quite different from being identified with any of the lunar characters (gemnini, Virgo, etc) or falling into any of the personality traits, (sanguine, melancholy, etc.) One does not wake up and choose to be an alpha male as that will be self deceit. People are born and grow up with more self awareness and confidence than others. They desire and express life in view of what they understand and appreciate. Alpha males are super confident males, smart and intelligent often developed by seeing themselves to be leaders or special due to a healthy self image and esteem from as young as possible. Granted in our days, there's a very thin line between self confidence and pride, yet an alpha male due to his keen sense of judgement is his own worst critic and will always check d line and be the first to rebuke himself for crossing it. The fact he doesn't throw tantrums doesn't mean he doesn't feel, rather he feels d need to never blow his composure, he bottles up a lot of emotions. Marriage is team work, and anybody who hasn't gotten over his or herself has no business getting married, there's no room for selfishness but trust me... The Alpha is d least selfish person. He is a leader, a protector and a provider ( that's the main trust of alpha males) the best person to marry is an ALPHA. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by hustlelegit(m): 7:56am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:Oboy ooooo, marriage isn't as hard as some people paint it to be. Sir how long did you date your wife before marriage? 7 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:56am On Oct 06, 2019 |
0KNM:..Are you married? |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Psalm2423(m): 7:57am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:So bros? How does being alpha fit into this context. This is just failed marriage, nothing else. Cause you’re a theist, that gives her a right to act differently? 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by fykes(m): 7:59am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:Ur wife married u bcoz u said u will give her a car? U even willed a shopping plaza BUILT BY UR MOM, to ur wife?? Dude if ur mom ever gave birth to girls, u have completely embarrassed all ur sisters...u probably married someone u should have dated or even fvcked and moved on. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:00am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:. Stop complaining. The way you make your bed is the way you are going to lay on it.That you were conquered does not mean we all are.Grow up and take control of you marriage. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:01am On Oct 06, 2019 |
fykes:.. Don't mind the simp. 7 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by fykes(m): 8:02am On Oct 06, 2019 |
hustlelegit:Imagine bribing someone to marry u? what sort of a man does that? Especially in this age and time where there are lots of women looking for a husband? What kind of marriage were u expecting... Dude needs to go back to elementary school in relationships 14 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:Wow! Did you not see signs before marrying her? You mean you bribed her to marry you? Why should you promise to give her car if she agrees to marry you? It seems you lured her into marrying you with material things. Shortie only came for the money 4 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 06, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:why do you ask? |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:16am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:longest time, that is how you did not invite me and victorian for your wedding, God dey. I like this your wife, she seems like a smart woman. If i was in your circumstances, I would do the same, before the man ztarts telling me thatt he made me successful. if your bullcrap gets too much, she can leave without too much loss. hope she doesn't have a side nigga she is sending the cash to? That will be pure foolishness As for the lying part, it is messed up, two of you have to have an understanding 4 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:17am On Oct 06, 2019 |
0KNM:You don't know his history, check his previous threads and you will understand what i am talking about 5 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by AstroG: 8:20am On Oct 06, 2019 |
As for me,I see no need for marriage not for procreation. Marriage is highly overrated in this part of the world. Ah no get time to condone or control Naija girls behavior cus they are not worthy That Marriage works for you,doesn't mean it will work for you. Different strokes for different folks. BABYMAMA ISSA GOAL FOR ME 4 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:25am On Oct 06, 2019 |
0KNM:.. Wanted to find out the reason why you said "life will humble them" |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 8:30am On Oct 06, 2019 |
i used the phrase 'alpha male' becos here on nl alpha male means 'a dude dat sees a woman as a piece of shit and treats her as such' or a dude who has magical powers to control women. Psalm2423: 5 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:30am On Oct 06, 2019 |
AstroG:That is why smart ladies either close their legs, use birthcontrol, or abort the parasite of a man who isn't worthy of her womb. I know how to deal with your type well. 4 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 8:33am On Oct 06, 2019 |
we never dated. met few months, seen twice b4 marriage. d third time of seein was on weddin day hustlelegit: |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by AstroG: 8:38am On Oct 06, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Are you the only girl in this Country ??There are many that are vulnerable  Closing of your Legs is not my biz,besides ah dont even knw u. If you like cry,curse or insult me. Ah regard all Naija girls as hoes and ah don't see any value in any. Bye 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 06, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Not sure I’ve ever seen his post tho. Will check |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 06, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:Well, I’m not married |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 8:44am On Oct 06, 2019 |
i invited victorian and all nlers. evn created a thread to post my invitation card funmisticqueen: |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 06, 2019 |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by palmshots: 8:46am On Oct 06, 2019 |
GreatResearcher:Bros Wait till that dawter of Eve sells you out...You culda seen the writings clearly before marriage... Oh I forgot you had to bribe her with a car for her to marry you.  ...Lmfao 1 Like |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Nobody: 8:47am On Oct 06, 2019 |
Happiness is beginning to feel like a myth these days sigh 2 Likes |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by Funmmyastic(f): 8:49am On Oct 06, 2019 |
AstroG:Good of you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dear Alpha Males! by GreatResearcher(op): 8:53am On Oct 06, 2019 |
3days afta wedin i told her to giv me hr acct to pay d cash i promsd. she tol me she wants to open a new acct b4 i pay in. she did dat and i transfer 3m to her. we were given a car gift on are wddin and she requstd i gv hr d new car. i refusd. wen i gav hr d old car she ants to sell it telin me she cant drive bla bla. a lot has happend i cnt type rite nw funmisticqueen: |
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