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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Emily22(m): 10:55pm On Oct 09, 2019
kinzation:
Don't mind her

For her mind now, She Don get serious relationship o... hehehe Naija girls ehn

anybody wey ask her she be like
"my boyfriend is a non Nigerian" olodo oshi
Lwkm oooo

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Post your horror looking girlfriend nd let's compare!!!
You just want me to notice your miserable life!!!
Don't quote me again!!! Even if you do i will just ignore you!!!
God forbid make I compare my gf with a horror looking abominable goblin like u.. God punish u over the notice you statement.. Bleep off

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by YorubaNinja: 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2019
OP... The kain Thunder wey go fire you no dey dis world, I swear. So you fit collect the guy money but, can't date him. Olofo! angry angry angry

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2019
ruggedtimi:
ur english good sha ...18yrs you already get ex
I am 21
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by 1shortblackboy: 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2019
lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY
cheesy
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2019
kinzation:
hehehehe
Guy haba I don dey laff scatter here o
free her jere
lol ...I don free her

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by martowskin1(m): 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

What problem do u have with Nigerians?

You are a Nigerian.

Seeking help in a Nigerian forum from Nigerians.

Even with our mentality which u are insulting.

I advice u look for a foreign forum and seek for their advice, leave our Nigeria mentality alone

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2019
kinzation:
hehehehe
Guy haba I don dey laff scatter here o
free her jere
lol ...I don free her
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by wiseone28: 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Post your horror looking girlfriend nd let's compare!!!
You just want me to notice your miserable life!!!
Don't quote me again!!! Even if you do i will just ignore you!!!
I like your stand don't mind all those s3x starve guys discouraging you..

Go for what you want and be careful too.

Just tell the guy point blank, it will only hurt for sometimes if he is sensible he will move on and let you be.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Chukapage(m): 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2019
LMAO grin grin this one head still dey shack am The "Hoe_Phase" has a way of giving little girls false sense of Importance because of numerous attention. Her narrative sef reeks of childishness. Baby Enjoy your "Hoe_phase" jhoor grin it comes only once,Your head "doking" like palm wine is allowed and understandable cool.And make e no be sey the "white guy" na Yahoo boy or your own fantasy grin grin

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by 001spice: 10:58pm On Oct 09, 2019
You are still a kid u know nutin bout relationship. I bet u,sooner or later u will know that the so call non Nigeria guy is not who u tink he his. Little gals wit indomie brain everywhere.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by AUSVINS(m): 10:58pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Lol you must be stalking my post enough to know i am dating a polish
Anyways he is best guy any lady will ask for
Always interested in my future nd i literally know everything about him!!
We have been together for a year now
So i dnt think any of what you mentioning exist!!
Nd Poland is in Central Europe not Eastern!!!
Them dey warn you now you dey speak grammar and oversabi.No worry e go soon clear for your eyes by the time them traffic you.I don't want to hear stories like ' Young Nigerian Girl sold into prostitution crys for help'

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Oct 09, 2019
No joy.


I blame buhari

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 10:58pm On Oct 09, 2019
Emily22:
Lwkm oooo
hehehehe akant laff
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Coolgent(m): 11:00pm On Oct 09, 2019
Smart Gold digger!
U dont love him but u love it when he spent his hard earned money on you right?
How i wish i knew this Maga, i could have teach him how to handle broke ass Girl like u.
Karma is coming for you.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by ruggedtimi(m): 11:00pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Post me pictures a average Caucasian lady!!
That's the problem with Nigerian guys
What you find not attractive,other race really prefer them more
Check this picture for example
This girl even not pretty as i am bt still gat a attractive white bf that loves her alot!!nd she is from kenya
but seriously why would you say you are prettier compared to the girl in the pic you uploaded ?
shocked.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Brownhypo: 11:00pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.




I only need mature advice!!!
Pettyprincess,I think I know you. You must be Gloria from Edo state. Can you prove me wrong ?
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bowerazzi26(m): 11:00pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!
I've read your story to be honest with you you're still in a teen, by the time you get to your late tweentise then you what it is dating a guy that all his wants is your happiness.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by seanwilliam(m): 11:01pm On Oct 09, 2019
kinzation:
See me o..lol
I dey shoot my shot o. besides I like her
good luck!
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bowerazzi26(m): 11:01pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!
I've read your story to be honest with you you're still in a teen, by the time you get to your late tweentise then you will understand what it is dating a guy that all his wants is your happiness.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


young girl, what makes you think that a high quality Caucasian male will move with a poorly educated third world lady such as yourself?
have you seen polish girls? They are way more attractive and of higher quality than you.
That guy certainly has an ulterior motive or he is just messing with your feelings.
I can swear his parents won't even allow him to marry a third world lady undecided
God!! all these just to make a lady see your point? You scare me! your type should be avoided out there!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Emily22(m): 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2019
Op, shey u no dey chop meat ni ....see as u dey skinny like Kenya hyena

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by passionberry(f): 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough. That first guy loves and cherish you. And how are sure about the white guy,beauty fades ,wat if those thngs u like about the white guy are no longer there ? Wat will u do? U wil probably leave him and jump to next guy dat thosee features

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt. My dear that first guy truly loves and cherish you.dont be too sure about the white guy.ooh..shits happens.trade carefully

I only need mature advice!!!
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by mdchikezie(m): 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.

EXACTLY, THIS ONE IS STILL A KID

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
seanwilliam:
good luck!
Thanks baba.
I need it
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
Newguyhere:


young girl, what makes you think that a high quality Caucasian male will move with a poorly educated third world lady such as yourself?
have you seen polish girls? They are way more attractive and of higher quality than you.
That guy certainly has an ulterior motive or he is just messing with your feelings.
I can swear his parents won't even allow him to marry a third world lady undecided
You delusional. Too many enemies of progress here sha. Tufia

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by purples25(f): 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
Awon guys. I want to marry 16 years, i can only taste 18years, may unnaaaa enjoy am! Choke on it grin

Well, for the lil damsel/babe/freshest & prettiest - i think if you can work up the courage to, you should be honest with him and tell him straight . I just hope you stay safe.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by jospepper(m): 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!
I swear u be small girl. By the time he finish moulding you even your parents will not recognize you again.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by mdchikezie(m): 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.

EXACTLY, THIS ONE IS STILL A KID, SHE SHOULD ENJOY HER OFFER WHILE IT STILL LASTS

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by otunbadan(m): 11:05pm On Oct 09, 2019
It’s sense you don’t have

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by oshe11: 11:05pm On Oct 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:


So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.



Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

So You actually Blocked my number n denied it?shocked


Did I do any rong by lovin u?

Na Luv I Luv u, I no rape person

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 11:05pm On Oct 09, 2019
awwfar:
admit it, you just trying to be nice.. cos I had to check her out again to be sure of what other things might attract a real matured guy.. and there's none


Lol... I haven't even viewed her picture but no matter how a girl may look like.. A/some guy would always find her attractive...

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