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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by pharrell8(m): 8:32am On Oct 10, 2019
bamasite:
They that comment without reading! Na so them dey comment. grin grin grin grin

U DAT read wat av u gainned shocked
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by LadyHal1(f): 8:36am On Oct 10, 2019
[quote author=Lamanii22 post=82994897]


I don't agree with that statement... I tried to date a guy one time, he loved me so much, cares for me and all that jazz... But I never loved him back.. I'd rather date someone I love and hopefully he loves me back too...[/quote


please a piece of advice my dear, for a lady, is it always better to go with someone who loves you while you hope n try to love him back than falling head over heels in love with a man who has no love for you! NB Female easily reciprocate love

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:36am On Oct 10, 2019
Newguyhere:


young lady, read this

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking_in_Poland
Yes also read positive stories online also
Bt you only wanna shove the negative only down my throat!!!
I know about trafficking i gave read everything online
Bt i alot about this guy,i know his dad,his mum
His house,his job!!!
He is not extremely rich,he is just financial buoyant nd hardworking
He called me last night nd i told about all the comments nd he was so sad nd said he wouldn't force me to be with him that if he was thinking about people are telling him about African girls he would never be with me either!!
This is my last time explaining things to you
If you have nothing reasonable to comment just don't insult me again!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by VERDA: 8:38am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Anyone could be killer irrespective of their race
I hope you have also read news of about some Nigerian men that murdered their wifes?

You seem to have an answer to every question, I know a few people are just taking jabs at you...some however are giving you sincere advice...stop being overly confident and, listen to some of them and it will help you spot any dangers in the future.
You keep talking about how you have been together for 1 year and he talks to your mum and sis, and knows things about Nigerian culture as if that is enough reason to stop a trafficker....no be people uncles and aunties they deceive them into trafficking sometimes....if I was a trafficker in the biz for years, knowing and talking to your family people would be the least on my to do list, I fit begin speak your language small small...
But what do I know?... Yes it is possible he could be for real....but stop being over confident and be careful, people don love pass this ur own and e still end for wahala.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:39am On Oct 10, 2019
kinzation:
jeez really?
it has been in existence for long years but people don't know. Some of us still know how to detect the fake if we see
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Newguyhere: 8:42am On Oct 10, 2019
kinzation:
jeez really?

Yes there is a program called manycam used for that grin
Any advanced gee boy has it on his system

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:43am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

No he never asked of any of my nudes
Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now
Infact he told me girls that send him nude are
whores nd used hoes
We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa
He has really helped me alot both financially nd mentally
Bt because he is white people think his intentions are not pure.


Omoh, you are a lost cause, experience will be a better teacher for you, I have seen girls with similar scenario like yours, you already on cloud 9, nobody here can help you. I just hope & pray for ur sakes & parents, it ain't the worst case scenario. Good luck my sister

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by adanny01(m): 8:45am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

You sound like a kid.

Life has not started giving you experiences, by the time it does, you will regret all your wrong choices.

You make it seem this polish guy is made from heaven and your relationship is made of Vibranium. Hearts get broken all the time so reserve some piece of your heart in a safe place in case this guy fvcks ur heart into a million tiny pieces. That stored piece of your heart should be enough to prevent you from commiting suicide.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by vizkiz: 8:47am On Oct 10, 2019
This thread grin

Pure comic relief grin

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by henzy4life: 8:50am On Oct 10, 2019
Omoge dat guy u are turning down is ur real love but did u see dat one u are rushing to now, U will come back to share ur regrets, it's not a wish but a reality. Look b4 u leap
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Anndrew(m): 8:58am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Don't judge me because you dnt know me!!! Y'all jumping into conclusion on something you have idea of
I dnt even post this picture in any on my social media because normally i just snap it for fun!!!
I showed him this link nd he saw what y'all posted!!!
Bt anyways i promised myself never to bring my relationship to nairaland no more!!!
I really regret this!!!
LOLZ..nairaland is d lagos of nigeria...madness full everywhere..notin u wont find here..learn d hard way..na so relationship b..
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 10, 2019
The kinda comments I have read here so far is really scary and uncalled for. I see no reason why you should body shame and insult her body make up! That's really terrible. You can always keep mute If you've got no advice for her no need to act like warrior behind the forum, because there's no medal for that.
Op, you just need to be really careful and tell the 2go guy Truth. I love your confidence tho

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Egwobobo: 9:01am On Oct 10, 2019
You better tell him the truth before it is too late because na day time then they look for black,goat
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by DHonorable(m): 9:02am On Oct 10, 2019
And you've jst won the Savage of the year award 2019 grin grin
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by rapheal5(m): 9:02am On Oct 10, 2019
Honestly u will end up blaming yourself for what u doing, u know why most foreign guys only want to date underage girls between 12 to 15 cuz they love to feed on tight pussy but that guy wants to date u cuz u told him u are a virgin and the moment u told him u no more a virgin he will stop replying to ur message u freaking too old for him but ur virginity is holding him down and after u he will continue the hunt for another victim and he might end up giving u up for older men at a stripper club or hotel if it happens that u travel abroad to meet him.....I'm talking from experience and i have 4 male foreign men in usa that do the same thing for underage girls irrespective of their race or ethnicity, becareful don't let foreign country and money blindfold u nigerians men are the best u can ever pray for, shoye e..
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Rajosh(m): 9:04am On Oct 10, 2019
pharrell8:
Telll him ur getting married soon... Hope u did not collect any money from him
she said he's been there financially

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