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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by ramatintin(m): 11:02am On Oct 10, 2019
Gold digger spotted.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
you are 18 now and you think you've found your ideal man cos of his physical attributes right? ask the ladies way older than you. you'll understand that its more than physical attributes. but it's understandable. at your age fine boy is what will matter but as u get older your eyes will open more. you will still enter the hoe phase when money becomes much more important and your needs increase like expensive hair, clothes jewellery etc. experience will teach u more of what u need to know.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Ernerstdavid55(m): 11:10am On Oct 10, 2019
MOVIC6:
so it's now a normal thing to talk about sex like that, uno dey shame,
shame ko shame ni
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 11:13am On Oct 10, 2019
kinzation:
jeez really?
yes for real.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Norland4life(f): 11:28am On Oct 10, 2019
Very entertaining,I read every comment.
We all know the right thing to do and best way of handling it unless when deceiving ourselves,we come to nairaland to seek for "mature advice only"
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Shugargal(f): 11:28am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
By the time this guy change am for you, your eyes go clear and it will be too late, people are very wicked now. you have to be careful. but you have mind sha blocking that guy and still lying you didn't. taaahhh
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:41am On Oct 10, 2019
pharrell8:
Telll him ur getting married soon... Hope u did not collect any money from him


She said he has been there for her financially grin
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kudos4u(m): 11:44am On Oct 10, 2019
By now I believe you are a wife to another guy entirely because dis is 2019 wink Nairaland just get your time to move your post to Front page.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Aliii(m): 11:45am On Oct 10, 2019
Guest007:
My Kenyan friend had a child for a Polish guy... He was a lil criminal, selling coke and smoking his own supply. He would use her for a punching bag, even through her pregnancy. The lil girl they had is beautiful, but he was deported back to Poland and the lil was put in care because her mother became bipolar and a drug addict.

It was the dream when the relationship started and within 5 years it was hell, leaving destruction and pain....

I'm not linking this to the op... I'm just chatting. Polish and ass kicking be 5 and 6 grin

Even their women can fight, they're third world European grin
ahahahha you know the whole story about this white men.. I didn't wanted to go into details so it wouldn't sound as if I'm tryna blab just to feel sorry for the other guy, but she should be ready to face abuse both beating and mouth abuse, most of them marry them just to paddle drugs for them and do all horrible things for them.. But our Nigerian girls are a punch of disgrace and all nonsense you can think of, as they have subject themselves to nothing as nothing as they don't want to work and be comfortable but lazying around looking for a one rich guy who'd take them and their liability and but her in his house and subject them to abuse.. Because they have nothing to offer other than sex. That is how one foolish girl in an online video without shame was saying if his boyfriend can not give her 200k everyweek she will break up.. Smh
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by TemmyT002(m): 11:48am On Oct 10, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.
Chaiii
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Realhommie(m): 11:53am On Oct 10, 2019
vizkiz:
This thread grin

Pure comic relief grin
I swear bro. Lol
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Luckysbab: 11:55am On Oct 10, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Phew. Really? I never asked her to ignore the criticisms. I told her to read, assimilate and not reply every posts here. It's just a waste of time.

I'm so tired. Please, don't make it harder.
I'm sorry if I unnerved you.

Do take care of yourself. I get your point.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Timisamd(m): 11:55am On Oct 10, 2019
Nnemuka:
Just cut him off
Focus on your new relationship
If its not working with the white guy, dump him too.
You have power to choose as many men as you want before finally settling for the best.

cool cool cool
Patriarchy will hate you for having the power to choose.
Come my dear ..

You deserve to be push down a 35feet hill..

But wait .. How should she cut him off , you men with a 451psi titanium chisel ? .,
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by EmzyT: 11:55am On Oct 10, 2019
For that 2GO guy to be Chasing you this Long, you need to know that he TRULLY LOVES YOU and he's Looking BeYond SEX... I thought you girls prefer "Actions' and not just " Words" Alone when a guy says he Loves you? undecided Then What ACTION has that 2GO guy not shown you for you to be Convinced that he's Trully In-Love with you? sad One day ehn, Just one day, When reality hits you ba, You will want make things Right with the 2GO guy, but by then, it must have been too late, he might have gotten someone more better and Matured than you and Moved on with his life!!! That's when You'll realize you Lost a Diamond (The 2GO Guy that has been trying to take things serious with you) while Trying to Chase a Stone (The So-called Foreign Guy) That's when you will know the Difference Between LOVE and LUST!!!!

With that being Said, Enjoy your Youth oooo

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Realhommie(m): 11:59am On Oct 10, 2019
Funmmyastic:
Lol Nl guys are pained,see bashing lol.Babe enjoy your life but be very careful.
Aside the bashing, most of their concerns and opinions are valid..

As for the bashing, she brought it all on herself i would say.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Realhommie(m): 12:01pm On Oct 10, 2019
eni4real:
A girl born in 2001 is treating a fully grown adult like this??

That is why I hate online dating!!!
Hahahahahaha... No be small thing some of these girls dey do ooooo.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Realhommie(m): 12:04pm On Oct 10, 2019
Norland4life:
Very entertaining,I read every comment.
We all know the right thing to do and best way of handling it unless when deceiving ourselves,we come to nairaland to seek for "mature advice only"
Very true..
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by IamCharles123: 12:10pm On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
Brother wey stupid!!!
Y'all wanna die because i posted one picture
What if i posted two pictures?
You can't complement why you mad that someone else does that?
It shows y'all just naturally bitter nd jealous
I dnt need your compliment!! Your ugly ass looking girlfriend needs it more!!!
Simple English this aunty cannot write. You better focus on passing waec.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Octobertwentysix(f): 12:14pm On Oct 10, 2019
Well I couldn't read it all, because I almost had headache while reading it. You don't want him but you were collecting money from him, according to you, he has been a there for you financially, what is wrong with all these small small girls, please what are you doing now, if you are in school face your books or if you are learning a trade face it and be good at it, you love a non Nigerian guy who I believe you met on line, Na small picikin dey worry you.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Octobertwentysix(f): 12:17pm On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
At this age you have started asking guys for money, na wa o what are your parents doing.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Octobertwentysix(f): 12:20pm On Oct 10, 2019
[ Thank you all they think about is money and slaying.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by olahpet777(m): 12:22pm On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
You're a hoe. A money loving hoe. I hope dem no use u do sex trade. Foreign guy my ass. undecided undecided
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by udemzyudex(m): 12:27pm On Oct 10, 2019
themonk:
He is fvcking someone else, small girl like you. undecided
Lol... You sabi joor ,I swear down you too Sabi the.

I always tell all these small girls ,any guy that you're dating and haven't ask for sex or even made any advances ( cos some guys won't open their mouth and say let's have sex) is either a serial masturbator or is fuxking someone else.

It is Very hard to see a guy that will agree to abstain from sex especially when you're chopping his money. In fact he is probably nursing the thought and waiting for the right time.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by smasher1(m): 12:28pm On Oct 10, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.
My challenge is she got both friends on social media. Which is wrong. She should meet people real life not on social media. Over 90% of people hide what they are. Most especially people encountered online.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by udemzyudex(m): 12:31pm On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
Young man you are wrong!!!
Check YouTube videos nd see white handsome men married to black girl from even poorer country
White people do not really care about this material stuff when wanting a girl as long as she matches his caterial
Polish girls are beautiful bt they do not match what he is looking for!!!
At the end we all gat our choice!!!
Bt if i was a guy nobody will say negative stuff o
Only black ladies care about material stuff? grin
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by udemzyudex(m): 12:34pm On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
No he never asked of any of my nudes
Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now
Infact he told me girls that send him nude are
whores nd used hoes
We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa
He has really helped me alot both financially nd mentally
Bt because he is white people think his intentions are not pure.
Blood of Jesus. This is exactly what Newguyhere talk about and it about to happen.

I pity you .

I really pity you.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by beinstein(m): 12:35pm On Oct 10, 2019
smasher1:
My challenge is she got both friends on social media. Which is wrong. She should meet people real life not on social media. Over 90% of people hide what they are. Most especially people encountered online.
Bae said she's not into Nigerians(though she lives in Nigeria) and can't deal with our mentality. She has to move to abroad to achieve what you're suggesting here.
And from the look of things she's waiting to take advantage of someone to go abroad as she's obviously from a poor family. grin
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by udemzyudex(m): 12:35pm On Oct 10, 2019
Newguyhere:
Just be careful I use God beg you.
Sex trafficking is real.!! shocked
I have friends selling their body in Slovakia, Italy, etc as we speak.all introduced into the trade by their boyfriends.
Attractive white men don't really fancy black women so make sure you open your eyes well well.
The world is a wicked place!!!
She no know say the guy they invest on her but the time he start getting returns on investment,her eyes go clear.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by ABCthings: 12:38pm On Oct 10, 2019
Lamanii22:
I don't agree with that statement... I tried to date a guy one time, he loved me so much, cares for me and all that jazz... But I never loved him back.. I'd rather date someone I love and hopefully he loves me back too...
If you're a girl, marry someone who loves you, says my mum grin
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by smasher1(m): 12:41pm On Oct 10, 2019
beinstein:
Bae said she's not into Nigerians(though she lives in Nigeria) and can't deal with our mentality. She has to move to abroad to achieve what you're suggesting here.
And from the look of things she's waiting to take advantage of someone to go abroad as she's obviously from a poor family. grin
Lol.

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