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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
What if na to fuel e camry undecided
Person wey get Camry no suppose to dey beg woman for 2k. undecided

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 3:02pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:


Person wey get Camry no suppose to dey beg woman for 2k. undecided
how much be camry undecided

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2019
The center can no longer hold, men are learning fast from the women. Actually, men are tired of giving, so they are now resorting to the tactics of let me ask first before you ask me... grin
Anyone who is an able bodied person who begs for money, whether male or female is a degenerate and has low self worth. No one should beg, irrespective of the sex.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:
That 2k you sent to him for fuel was used to "on - gen" when his real girlfriend visited for fvcks.

How can a broke man burn 2k fuel money for nothing? E "on - gen" to do wetin?

If that 2k fuel money could not produce enough money for him to stop collecting from you, then you're in a one-chance relationship.


Nawa o. Your own worse...

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:10pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
What is earn agba?
Besides,she knows I am no small boy wink
Abi ify?

Sorry, spell check

Eran agb
Meat for senior men

Until you have done 10 years on this forum.

That is why ify is tagging me, saga and dayoK

wink
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:10pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
how much be camry undecided
Naija used abi Toks?
grin grin
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 3:13pm On Oct 11, 2019
ornicus:


Sorry, spell check

Eran agb
Meat for senior men

Until you have done 10 years on this forum.

That is why ify is tagging me, saga and dayoK

wink
Ah I get it.
Naah I think she needs a young blood in her life ATM grin

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:14pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:

Nawa o. Your own worse...
Lol. Na true na.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 3:15pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:

Naija used abi Toks?

grin grin


Toks 1.1m,naija used could go for 700k
So I think he could still have 2k problems.
Just a thought undecided

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:19pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
Toks 1.1m,naija used could go for 700k So I think he could still have 2k problems. Just a thought undecided
Hmn. True talk
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:25pm On Oct 11, 2019
jeff1607:


Sis have you ever wondered why you keep meeting the same type of guys (the collecting or ripping off type)?

plus I suggest you stop bringing personal stuff here

but again it's your choice
It's been two years since I last posted anything here. And this one is reality, this is what we ladies now have to pass through and when you are being skeptical about helping they try to emotionally manipulate everything. "I was just testing you" that's nonsense.
I am not the only lady meeting those kind of guys, it goes to show that there are as much male gold diggers as females also, unfortunately guys are more outspoken about theirs

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by DenreleDave(m): 3:27pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry



If girl dey beg, we will not see it on the news ooo but bcox a guy begged, you post am for the whole world to see.

The guy sef is a useless guy, no shame at all

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:28pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:
Lol. Na true na.


Na man you be sha. Una sabi unasef grin

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by jeff1607(m): 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

It's been two years since I last posted anything here. And this one is reality, this is what we ladies now have to pass through and when you are being skeptical about helping they try to emotionally manipulate everything. "I was just testing you" that's nonsense.
I am not the only lady meeting those kind of guys, it goes to show that there are as much male gold diggers as females also, unfortunately guys are more outspoken about theirs

someone more deserving will come your way, it's hard finding ladies who give , very rare.


don't give up

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
What if na to fuel e camry undecided
Yes
He said to fuel his car for church

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Na man you be sha. Una sabi unasef grin
Na man I be no mean say I dey do that kain thing grin
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:35pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Na man you be sha. Una sabi unasef grin

We be robbing Jane to Fk Jill

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Iogobenz(m): 3:37pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

Yes
He said to fuel his car for church
Don't give him shi shi.
Who begs for money to fuel a car to church(a non revenue generating investment in his broke state)
That boy is very lazy and sounds senseless.
Spits!
If I were you,I'll start looking for another boyfriend.
Btw,how old is he?

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:40pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

Yes
He said to fuel his car for church

And the sub- money nko? To browse Nairaland?

My dear, a man with some self-worth and dignity will abandon that car at home and walk to church.

The relationship is too young for this kind of borrowing. That 2k na to gain your trust oo. Next level na 10k, 50k, and at 100k, he will stop picking your calls grin grin

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 11, 2019
Iogobenz:
Don't give him shi shi.
Who begs for money to fuel a car to church(a non revenue generating investment in his broke state)
That boy is very lazy and sounds senseless.
Spits!
If I were you,I'll start looking for another boyfriend.
Btw,how old is he?
Early 30
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:


And the sub- money nko? To browse Nairaland?

My dear, a man with some self-worth and dignity will abandon that car at home and walk to church.

The relationship is too young for this kind of borrowing. That 2k na to gain your trust oo. Next level na 10k, 50k, and at 100k, he will stop picking your calls grin grin
Lol
Not after what my ex did.
Even if you wanna ask your girlfriend for money, then it should be after you two have gotten to know each other on a real level.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 11, 2019
ornicus:


We be robbing Jane to Fk Jill

Na normal parolz be that. Na who them catch be thief.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 11, 2019
Acidosis:


And the sub- money nko? To browse Nairaland?

My dear, a man with some self-worth and dignity will abandon that car at home and walk to church.

The relationship is too young for this kind of borrowing. That 2k na to gain your trust oo. Next level na 10k, 50k, and at 100k, he will stop picking your calls grin grin

You are too experienced in this.

Are we safe? Is there something you are not telling? Hmmm

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:53pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:

Lol
Not after what my ex did.
Even if you wanna ask your girlfriend for money, then it should be after you two have gotten to know each other on a real level.

Exactly. Just tread carefully, and don't give up yet
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Acidosis(m): 3:55pm On Oct 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:

You are too experienced in this.
Are we safe? Is there something you are not telling? Hmmm
Nothing o, Brutus. No fear smiley We learn from the experiences of others.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Tallesty1(m): 4:21pm On Oct 11, 2019
ifyalways:
Men asking for 2K and recharge card? Local love now comes with a price
Price we have been paying since God said let there be light.



We are just beginning to accept what you ladies want, equal opportunity in asking and receiving.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:24pm On Oct 11, 2019
Oh.... You have been meeting the same kind of guys? Hmm.......some people ain't really lucky when it comes to relationships my dear. Despite being told to dump him, you may not listen. So my only advice is, let him postpone his visit till he has the money, that is what he should have done, postponing his visit till when he has cash, rather than begging you.
rockstarB:

It's been two years since I last posted anything here. And this one is reality, this is what we ladies now have to pass through and when you are being skeptical about helping they try to emotionally manipulate everything. "I was just testing you" that's nonsense.
I am not the only lady meeting those kind of guys, it goes to show that there are as much male gold diggers as females also, unfortunately guys are more outspoken about theirs

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by frozen70g(f): 4:33pm On Oct 11, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

Just be careful, that's all I have to say

Next time he demands for money tell him the list of expenses waiting for you

A man must worth your money before borrowing or dashing him but can be done freely in marriage

He has sensed that financially you are OK, just use your head abeg

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Tallesty1(m): 4:33pm On Oct 11, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Oh.... You have been meeting the same kind of guys? Hmm.......some people ain't really lucky when it comes to relationships my dear. Despite being told to dump him, you may not listen. So my only advice is, let him postpone his visit till he has the money, that is what he should have done, postponing his visit till when he has cash, rather than begging you.
It is not about luck, some people just go for stupid things when searching for a partner.


I had a friend who I thought was unfortunate just like this OP but when I got close to her I discovered that she places value on stupid things.

She's dating an unserious corper now and she is the one giving the guy money for tfare and others.

She credits her sporty bet and bet9ja accounts occasionally.


Why is she with this guy?


He is cute.


That's all.


No matter how hard working and successful a guy is, he is nothing if he's not cute by her standards.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:37pm On Oct 11, 2019
Maybe.......
Tallesty1:
It is not about luck, some people just go for stupid things when searching for a partner.


I had a friend who I thought was unfortunate just like this OP but when I got close to her I discovered that she places value on stupid things.

She's dating an unserious corper now and she is the one giving the guy money for tfare and others.

She credits her sporty bet and bet9ja accounts occasionally.


Why is she with this guy?


He is cute.


That's all.


No matter how hard working and successful a guy is, he is nothing if he's not cute by her standards.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by BecaciaBarbie(f): 5:15pm On Oct 11, 2019
Once you reveal your financial status to some men...that's the end! they keep borrowing till nothing is left. smh!

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Raalsalghul: 5:19pm On Oct 11, 2019
jeff1607:
when a lady makes such demands no one sees anything wrong in it.

they tag you broke or stingy, roles are reversed now see the lashing
Chinko feminists!

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