Saw the acrimony again and realized some major point.

Sometimes it takes turn of events to realize what people are worth but by then it might be too late. It applied to him when she kicked him out and to her when he blew.

The point were he pleaded with her not to divorce him was his turning point but by then his lies had piled up that truth wasn't associated with him.

He took advantage of her when she lost her mum. This was the lowest thing he did, but that was how he has been dealing with his loss for years.

He should have been supportive all those while he was doing his research with minimal jobs but his lack of maturity was his downfall.

As a lady she understood him from a superficial angle. Felt she failed to see deeper the change she induced in him and was influenced by her sisters negatively.

In summary their relationship came to a point like it was a bet9ja... Should I cut my losses and run or the guy go hammer?? The guy one was make I dy bet bet bet I go blow one day.

All in all guys don't be deceitful dichks to take advantage of vulnerable ladies. Because what you get you deserve it.

Ladies always summon the courage to take a break from a relationship if it's not turning out well.

But then again what do I know

Still a tragedy for me .

Imagine:

I bought a car for you
Lost my womb because of you
Married you against my family's wish
Sold my mum's property for you
Helped you fund your tuition fee
Worked my self out to provide for us.
Became a working corpse,just to help you fund your project.

And when i made a mistake of divorcing you; which is what any sensible person would have done.

You take the dream (the ring,house etc), we both shared to someone else.

* * *

The man is to be blamed.

Riele:
A

A

A

Riele:
Still a tragedy for me .

Imagine:

I bought a car for you
Lost my womb because of you
Married you against my family's wish
Sold my mum's property for you
Helped you fund your tuition fee
Worked my self out to provide for us.
Became a working corpse,just to help you fund your project.

And when i made a mistake of divorcing you; which is what any sensible person would have done.

You take the dream (the ring,house etc), we both shared to someone else.

* * *

The man is to be blamed.

Yes to a large extent he shares 75% of the blame... The lost of the womb was her fault, she made a careless decision out of rage.
Points 1-3 and 5 was purely on manipulation of a vulnerable girl.. Which was why I called him a dickh..

There are many guys like that and he knew he was a scam... Tried coming close to a relative, I show him a place he doesnt wanna go... He bailed out

Another one also did same to a cousin of a friend and took a whole 8 million from her. He broke with her after manipulating her with fake promise and love talk.. Pay back the money nah, he say it's entered voicemail.. My friend and his cousins took him to creek and left him there for weeks. Nuh be he clear eye he use pay back a whole 8 million

Riele:
Still a tragedy for me .

Imagine:

I bought a car for you
Lost my womb because of you
Married you against my family's wish
Sold my mum's property for you
Helped you fund your tuition fee
Worked my self out to provide for us.
Became a working corpse,just to help you fund your project.

And when i made a mistake of divorcing you; which is what any sensible person would have done.

You take the dream (the ring,house etc), we both shared to someone else.

* * *

The man is to be blamed.

You forgot to mention you divorced me even after I begged you and told you that my battery would hit

Riele:
Still a tragedy for me .

Imagine:

I bought a car for you
Lost my womb because of you
Married you against my family's wish
Sold my mum's property for you
Helped you fund your tuition fee
Worked my self out to provide for us.
Became a working corpse,just to help you fund your project.

And when i made a mistake of divorcing you; which is what any sensible person would have done.

You take the dream (the ring,house etc), we both shared to someone else.

* * *

The man is to be blamed.

u are not mentally OK

u divorced him, and yet u call it a mistake. is ur brain wet?

smat101:

You forgot to mention you divorced me even after I begged you and told you that my battery would hit

Lmao...

Yea..She was wrong.

But does that justifies his action?

smat101:

You forgot to mention you divorced me even after I begged you and told you that my battery would hit

help me tell her ooo, help me tell the wet brain ooo

and na somebody go marry this girl enter house oo, see wetin she dey reason

Riele:



Lmao...

Yea..She was wrong.

But does that justifies his action?

Let's personalize it I like it that way

What do you expect me to do...Someone picked me from the streets where you dumped me, gave me shelter, a sweet warm bath and let's not forget the most important made my Battery dreams come through...
I had no choice than to make love to her in the shower how we use to do it sometimes...and then the ring happened.

divineappo:
u are not mentally OK
u divorced him, and yet u call it a mistake. is ur brain wet?

And you just had to resort to vile words.

Riele:


And you just had to resort to vile words.

Riele don't mind him


He forgot its just fiction

Riele:

And you just had to resort to vile words.

ok am sorry, my apologies
but u too, reason ur opinion na
my apologies again pls

smat101:

Let's personalize it I like it that way

What do you expect me to do...Someone picked me from the streets where you dumped me, gave me shelter, a sweet warm bath and let's not forget the most important made my Battery dreams come through...
I had no choice than to make love to her in the shower how we use to do it sometimes...and then the ring happened.

Lol...No way

...Remember , she sponsored his academic dreams.Without her help,his battery would have been a dead dream.

And hey , his sleeping in the gutters can't be compared to the years of night shifts she did, just to fund his yeye battery.

divineappo:
ok am sorry, my apologies
but u too, reason ur opinion na
my apologies again pls

Lol..
I'll reason it.

Riele:

Lol..
I'll reason it.

are u single? can we know each other please

Riele:


Lol...No way

...Remember , she sponsored his academic dreams.Without her help,his battery would have been a dead dream.

And hey , his sleeping in the gutters can't be compared to the years of night shifts she did, just to fund his yeye battery.

If you were the guy what would you do?

Be honest.

Riele:


Lol...No way

...Remember , she sponsored his academic dreams.Without her help,his battery would have been a dead dream.

And hey , his sleeping in the gutters can't be compared to the years of night shifts she did, just to fund his yeye battery.

Hence the fvcking $10 Million with her Moma's house as fisi

Hmm
The aim of the movie was not to cast blames on who was wrong or right but to teach some lessons about life

Tbh there are a lot of lessons to learn from that movie

*Don't always involve third party in your relationship/marriage

*If you know u have anger management problems,please speak up and get help.

*People,men especially,if one way doesn't work for you,try another way.im not saying you should give up on your dreams but sometimes just be realistic.

*Not everyone you help will pay you back.

*Be careful what you do today,it could have repercussions in the future.

Feel free to add yours

Alexaonfleek:
Hmm
The aim of the movie was not to cast blames on who was wrong or right but to teach some lessons about life

Tbh there are a lot of lessons to learn from that movie

*Don't always involve third party in your relationship/marriage

*If you know u have anger management problems,please speak up and get help.

*People,men especially,if one way doesn't work for you,try another way.im not saying you should give up on your dreams but sometimes just be realistic.

*Not everyone you help will pay you back.

*Be careful what you do today,it could have repercussions in the future.

Feel free to add yours

Best comment so far.

Riele:
Still a tragedy for me .

Imagine:

I bought a car for you
Lost my womb because of you
Married you against my family's wish
Sold my mum's property for you
Helped you fund your tuition fee
Worked my self out to provide for us.
Became a working corpse,just to help you fund your project.

And when i made a mistake of divorcing you; which is what any sensible person would have done.

You take the dream (the ring,house etc), we both shared to someone else.

* * *

The man is to be blamed.

I wouldn't say it was 100% the man's fault
(90% maybe)
The lady had issues controlling her anger which was what led to her loosing her womb and life.
She should have gotten a psychologist after she had made the mistake of loosing her womb.
I blame her for wasting her years on him due to the toxic relationship they had. He only made her situation (anger) worse.
She was literally feeding him but she still didn't see that he was using her.
Dude was lazy and selfish because he watched his wife hustle to pay the bills and he didnt see the need to get a per time job to fund his project.

Leriebloom:


I wouldn't say it was 100% the man's fault
(90% maybe)
The lady had issues controlling her anger which was what led to her loosing her womb and life.
She should have gotten a psychologist after she had made the mistake of loosing her womb.
I blame her for wasting her years on him due to the toxic relationship they had. He only made her situation (anger) worse.
She was literally feeding him but she still didn't see that he was using her.
Dude was lazy and selfish because he watched his wife hustle to pay the bills and he didnt see the need to get a per time job to fund his project.

look who we have here

Leriebloom:


I wouldn't say it was 100% the man's fault
(90% maybe)
The lady had issues controlling her anger which was what led to her loosing her womb and life.
She should have gotten a psychologist after she had made the mistake of loosing her womb.
I blame her for wasting her years on him due to the toxic relationship they had. He only made her situation (anger) worse.
She was literally feeding him but she still didn't see that he was using her.
Dude was lazy and selfish because he watched his wife hustle to pay the bills and he didnt see the need to get a per time job to fund his project.

You have said it all. A man of such is toxic and harmful even to himself. Which yeye battery dream. If the woman didn't sacrifice herself to keep the home going the battery would have been dead and thrown inside the garbage. What a great movie ..

The guy for marry two wives . The second lady was simply an Opportunist.

Lemme not even reason deep cos that movie messes with one emotionally

AwkaetitiBabe:
The guy for marry two wives . The second lady was simply an Opportunist.

Lemme not even reason deep cos that movie messes with one emotionally

The second lady helped him when his wife threw him out buh Las Las sha na two of them die so na the second lady go chop everything.

Iv'e witnessed scenerios like this one, and yeah it happens alot in real life. thats why girls justify their "I CANT STRUGLE WITH ANY MAN" syndrome (am yet to watch the movie though)

but from what ive read here, (thanks to Riele and Lierebloom) i think the man has 78% apportioned blame.

but in morden relationships (naija style) i think where a guy takes revenge on such a woman is if she cheated on him while he was broke.
unless he's just plain stupid ingrate.

I think the man should be blamed. This man knows the girl came from a wealthy family and wanted to use her to achieve his dreams to go to school, feed, house etc. He saw her as a meal ticket. When she showed her angered side did he enrol her to take anger management classes or see a psychologist? No. He quickly wifed her to secure his investment. Or again he was scared of what she will do knowing she has lost her womb for his infidelity. He was so immature, was not communicating enough with her. Even to offer kind words to reassure her that everything will be better, he didn't say. He allowed this woman's weakness to destroy her. For this reason, i blame him

Riele:



Lmao...

Yea..She was wrong.

But does that justifies his action?

Which action exactly?
You mean he shouldn't have moved on with his life after being rejected by someone?

Riele:



Lmao...

Yea..She was wrong.

But does that justifies his action?

I dnt like discussing dis matter with girls. U girls make judgements based on ur emotions.

Dat man suffered in the hands of that girl too. For God sake dat man pleaded nd pleaded but kept getting insults frm the girl's sister.

Even in the courtroom b4 signing the paper, dat man still beg nd got insulted. He was humiliated by her family.

The only reason i can take 20% side with the girl is because of her sister's husbands/boyfriends. I so love those boys
They re very understanding! Dat guy cost dem a very big deal yet dey did nothing.

Dat girl really messed up. After all the moni she wasted, after all the time she wasted, after her womb got destroyed, she opted for a divorce on a mere lie dat he cheated.

The guy's fvck up was 30% but the girl's fvck up is 70%.

Eroms4life17:
I [s]think the man should be blamed. This man knows the girl came from a wealthy family and wanted to use her to achieve his dreams to go to school, feed, house etc. He saw her as a meal ticket. When she showed her angered side did he enrol her to take anger management classes or see a psychologist? No. He quickly wifed her to secure his investment. Or again he was scared of what she will do knowing she has lost her womb for his infidelity. He was so immature, was not communicating enough with her. Even to offer kind words to reassure her that everything will be better, he didn't say. He allowed this woman's weakness to destroy her. For this reason, i blame him[/s]

Watch dat movie again.
He really loved her.

skywalker240:
Iv'e witnessed scenerios like this one, and yeah it happens alot in real life. thats why girls justify their "I CANT STRUGLE WITH ANY MAN" syndrome (am yet to watch the movie though)

but from what ive read here, (thanks to Riele and Lierebloom) i think the man has 78% apportioned blame.

but in morden relationships (naija style) i think where a guy takes revenge on such a woman is if she cheated on him while he was broke.
unless he's just plain stupid ingrate.

Mehn go nd see dat movie.

D man was trying to build a future. D girl rejected(with serious humiliation) him wen he was abt to get rich.

Wen d girl divorced him, he moved on with his life nd found another person.

Eroms4life17:
I think the man should be blamed. This man knows the girl came from a wealthy family and wanted to use her to achieve his dreams to go to school, feed, house etc. He saw her as a meal ticket. When she showed her angered side did he enrol her to take anger management classes or see a psychologist? No. He quickly wifed her to secure his investment. Or again he was scared of what she will do knowing she has lost her womb for his infidelity. He was so immature, was not communicating enough with her. Even to offer kind words to reassure her that everything will be better, he didn't say. He allowed this woman's weakness to destroy her. For this reason, i blame him

I think the movie morphed into a one of lack of communication...

The guy is a research orientated individual something the lady failed to realize all through..

But for life time research to happen you need grants and sponsorship something he couldn't get. So that explains some of his manipulative tendencies he exhibited.

It also shows the selfishness of humans in achieving their own aim.

The lady also saw someone she felt she could change, the reason for her high expectations. When she realized she couldn't, frustration started setting in. This to me is another selfish move on her path.

The guy never cheated after he saw what happened to her when he did at the beginning.. In his mind he felt he has given her enough reason to trust him and stay by his side. He even suggested they move to a smaller place in order for them to manage the bill.

He was growing from worst to good, because when he started realizing the battery might not hit he came to reality and opted to work.

When he was kicked out it became me eye opener that was going to lose the best thing he ever had, thus the plea not to divorce. This would have been the turning point in both of them lives.

The lady went from good to worst because she was expecting Instant change. Most ladies are guilty of this sha.

As for the second lady, she saw an opportunity after all she had developed herself and attain the financial growth.

Ladies always develop yourself instead of worrying over men as if nah you born them.

He felt he needed a new life because he knew he lost the respect of his wife, her relatives and wider community. There is nothing as bad as a man feeling this way.

Summary
Guys know yourself because once you do you will know the type of woman you want.
I quietly ended my last relationship because my ex never showed interest in my line of work. All she cared about was the money I gave for bills and upkeep, even though I was happy doing it as a man.

Sex clouds the mind and destroys ladies especially those with good intentions. So Ladies dont always use sex as a weapon to hold down a man, it never always work.