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| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by KevMitnick: 12:35am On Aug 21, 2019 |
MobilityExpress:You are missing the point here. With your write up, I see that you still don't understand what the woman is doing. All the things you have mentioned still happen to parents who did otherwise to raise their children. These are some of the points you're missing, let me break them down; The woman has successfully taught her kids accountability and responsibility in earning a living, introducing tax literacy to them at an early age, opening their minds up to a real job interview scenarios preparing them for the real world out there...remember that she can still pay them monthly allowance even without attaching responsibilities to it. But you see, it's a win-win situation for her and the kids. ![]() |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by CeterisXVIII: 2:07am On Aug 21, 2019 |
Debramaye:Madam, if you teach your children to be content with the little they have and to refrain from developing a greedy nature, then they will not be coming to you to ask for things, all the time.... Contentment is a great virtue. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by CeterisXVIII: 2:27am On Aug 21, 2019 |
Debramaye:United States is not Nigeria, agreed. But giving my children cash to wash their clothes, or do household chores, is a wrong way to train them to get things done. Children learn by watching real life examples, of how things are done. If you model the right behaviour for them to follow from a very early age, they would do it, without seeking for a cash incentive. Not paying kids to do household chores, does NOT mean that their parents are not taking proper care of them. So your analogy is really not valid, here.... |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by psucc(m): 7:02am On Aug 21, 2019 |
Khaleell001:There is a better way to inculcate in the children values and home management. Sir irrespective of how you view it, it is a bad omen to expose the children to such knowledge at this age. They will grow with that mentality about chores. If you have raise a child, you will understand some points here. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by LordKO(m): 8:17am On Aug 21, 2019 |
blingxx:I couldn't have expected anything better from a boy whose parents are insane. Wretched and mentally parochial elements, like you, are always easy to spot by any discerning person. Bumpkin, direct your further mentions to your lunatic parents because I don't put up with small-minded people. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by blingxx(m): 8:23am On Aug 21, 2019 |
LordKO:Tell me what's your present mental condition .. Well it's too early to argue with uncultured swines, shoyinka referred people like you as "reprobates", you must isolate yourself from socializing "Small minded people" coming from a dude who takes things overboard, meanwhile no reason to involve from parents that just shows how immature you are, make better use of your IQ next time. this is nairaland, you don't know anyone or your age mate .. If you think that was an insult just ignore, I hate rubbish bro |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by CeterisXVIII: 10:58am On Aug 21, 2019 |
chival:Thank you, o! This your post make sense, die! ![]() |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by Horlubunmmy: 12:13pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
CeterisXVIII:I concur. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 12, 2019 |
LordKO:Still waiting for you to tell me my ethical leanings and your passive divination. ![]() And please don't say you will tell me at the right time or place. ![]() |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by LordKO(m): 2:35pm On Oct 12, 2019 |
Ariza:Na for one newspaper house I been wan go now to tell dem help me broadcast say my person de miss, but now I hapi say you dey safe. I go do de needful ASAP, no worry you hear. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 12, 2019 |
LordKO:Laughing so hard here! Thank God you never go yet. I dey very okay, hope you are good too. I dey waaaaiiiitttt o. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by Ndipe(m): 8:21am On Apr 10, 2020 |
It is common in American household for parents to pay their kids money for household tasks but I dont support it |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by Alennsar(f): 4:47pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
MagazineYugo:What a good mother. I'm very sure those children will be financially independent when they grow and they will also be a good manager of their resources |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by bendazum: 5:44pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
YugoMag:Really? Biscuits, sweets and ice creams nko? Unless she wasn't paying it to you directly. |
| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by RuggedSniper: 11:04am On Jun 20, 2020 |
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| Re: American Mum Pays Her Kids Salary For Doing House Chores (Photos) by RuggedSniper: 11:11am On Jun 20, 2020 |
YugoMag:^^^ ... OMG! Mums!
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. You see people like you who love to deceive themselves, people like you who raised their children the way you talk about, go and see how they end up, they end up alone, broken, depressed, brokenhearted, sorrowful, infirmed and abandoned in one old people's home somewhere being looked after by the government charity because they raised their children to be useless, self centered and vain. Since they had nothing to offer their children again, the children abandoned them to their fate of old age. Go to old people's homes, maybe you will learn a few things, whether you want to end up there too, or raise your child the proper way, so that when you are old, your child will take care of you genuinely, not because he's waiting for you to die or kill you himself so he can inherit your property.
But giving my children cash to wash their clothes, or do household chores, is a wrong way to train them to get things done. 
Any parent that does this, is just breeding self-centred kids with an entitlement mentality, who will end up putting a price, on everything. 