Rocktation:


Don't. Even as a gift, I wouldn't advise you to accept. Except you have a lot of garage space and just want to be known for stashing baby stuff. Babies don't sleep for long periods, so you are stuck with having to take them out every now and again and it's worse when they can only sleep with a nipple to their lips... Imagine what you'd do then...

Just don't.

Surulady:
Good day mama’s sure we are doing great.am a new Mum of twins.pls I need all the lectures I can get from here..,
Please how good is sebamed baby soap

Surulady:
Good day mummies,how are our LOs doing,pls my senior colleagues,how long does this yellow poo last? My babies pass this poo like 4times daily thou not much but am concerned about it.

Please is there anyone here using this tommee Tippee bottle sterilizer? I see as a waste of money because I felt it won’t work as expected..please anyone that has used it shld enlighten me....

Mamas that had twins pls how did you cope without a nanny .. my review with my Dr has not been pleasant..like am loosing it


Awwww..So sorry for the stress dear. I nearly concluded I was lazy when I had my daughter. My mum stayed for two months and I just concluded I wasn't going to cope without her until I accepted the undeserving reality. You need HELP. Being a first time mum and a mom of twins? Please, you can't face this alone. Get someone as advised by other mommas who will all the chores if possible. You just take care of your children and yourself. You need to rest as much as you can as you are yet to recover. Facing all of this alone at this early stage isn't it please.

Rocktation:


This is the problem with our mums / relatives these days coming for omugwo. They seem not to know the things that are needed most from them. You may even clean the entire roof and foundation of the house, but if you are not helping to hold the baby, so the mum can catch some sleep, especially in the days/weeks following delivery, then you relatively are of no use to the mum.
Ndo, mama I feel your pain. Perhaps you should point out to this helper that this is what you'd cherish of her to do the most?

Surulady:
Hmmmm seriously they don’t know once the baby has taken their bath that’s all,I do the cleaning,I dressing the babies the laundries make food for them breast feed lay bed vertualy everything.. sending your hubby elder sister errand is the greatest insult they count the only help is wake me up at night to carry my babies when they are awake :-Xthis person knows I need help o don’t need to instruct her but since she feels it’s my work..I just made sure I prepare only what I eat..I can’t kill myself

Surulady:
Hmmmm seriously they don’t know once the baby has taken their bath that’s all,I do the cleaning,I dressing the babies the laundries make food for them breast feed lay bed vertualy everything.. sending your hubby elder sister errand is the greatest insult they count the only help is wake me up at night to carry my babies when they are awake :-Xthis person knows I need help o don’t need to instruct her but since she feels it’s my work..I just made sure I prepare only what I eat..I can’t kill myself

Redberyl:
wow, thanks a lot. That's exactly what my sis in law said.

Redberyl:
Good morning mamas, pls is it advisable to buy a baby cot. So many people have told me it's a waste of money, that they don't sleep in it. What do you guys think? I am thinking getting those small foldable beds with mosquito nets though so baby can co sleep with me and hubby.

Chitumu:
Hello great mums in the house. God bless the fruits of your womb and your perseverance. Amen. Am not a mum am here on behalf of my wife, she didn't know anything about Nairaland, as a first time parent to make a complain about our 18 months old hyper active son, hoping to find a remedy. This guy has turned an once quite house to a commotion hall, i say commotion becouse no any other word to define his headache causing behaviors during the day time, he has so much bruises gotten from all curiosity adventures, this guy can can strangle a cat, put press iron or heater in wall socket, place pot on fire, sweep the room with broom, jumb on the bed, on the tv and fan , wash his cloth, bath himself witth any available water dirty or colored, go under the jeep ,just name it and its there. The only way to stop him was thru the cane and i read somewhere in this forum that using cane will make him stubborn in near future .all me my wife want to know is Plss at what age hyper active child stop these behavior.

Surulady:
thank you ma am seriously looking for one just bcus I don’t leave things undone DH is looking at me a super woman I told him am not strong I just can’t look at my children things unkept...I just pray I get one soon am getting weak day by day

Surulady:
Hmmmm seriously they don’t know once the baby has taken their bath that’s all,I do the cleaning,I dressing the babies the laundries make food for them breast feed lay bed vertualy everything.. sending your hubby elder sister errand is the greatest insult they count the only help is wake me up at night to carry my babies when they are awake :-Xthis person knows I need help o don’t need to instruct her but since she feels it’s my work..I just made sure I prepare only what I eat..I can’t kill myself

myde16:


My mum and MIL came the very day I gave birth. MIL didn't proof useful at all. She wanted to start acting as another baby that my mum will take care of together with the twins and me.

It was my husband that took necessary action. He took me and the babies with my mum to my own parents house, then called his younger brother to come take his mum back home.

I'm two months postpartum and I'm still with my parents. Hubby comes around every other day.

Anyone not useful should go back home biko and not stress you. You need rest not additional wahala.

unex50:


HELLO MA, PLS KINDLY SHARE WITH US RECIPE FOR BABY WEIGHT INCREASE FROM 6MONTHS ABOVE..THANKS

unex50:


HELLO MA, PLS KINDLY SHARE WITH US RECIPE FOR BABY WEIGHT INCREASE FROM 6MONTHS ABOVE..THANKS

wonyi:



Thanks Mama. I really appreciate. Her appetite is so low that she can't finish 150ml of pap and milk or milk and cereal. What should I do?

Should u maintain 100ml and feed constantly? What is she rejects her next meal?

Is multivitamin allowed? Otherwise what can she take to revive her appetite?

forzarush:
Me. it wasn't until my dad gave me correct wording with para that I weaned my son at year and three months. I looked like a minor with a child. I didn't get fat but I got better. so,if your baby eats well just wean.

Giddyperson:

Lol is the baby holding the breast hostage. You've tried Nah, wean him, doesn't he eat other foods?

Chitumu:
Hello great mums in the house. God bless the fruits of your womb and your perseverance. Amen. Am not a mum am here on behalf of my wife, she didn't know anything about Nairaland, as a first time parent to make a complain about our 18 months old hyper active son, hoping to find a remedy. This guy has turned an once quite house to a commotion hall, i say commotion becouse no any other word to define his headache causing behaviors during the day time, he has so much bruises gotten from all curiosity adventures, this guy can can strangle a cat, put press iron or heater in wall socket, place pot on fire, sweep the room with broom, jumb on the bed, on the tv and fan , wash his cloth, bath himself witth any available water dirty or colored, go under the jeep ,just name it and its there. The only way to stop him was thru the cane and i read somewhere in this forum that using cane will make him stubborn in near future .all me my wife want to know is Plss at what age hyper active child stop these behavior.

seunmarytemi:
hello good afternoon, pls what can I use for my three weeks baby rashes allover is neck.

wowdiva:

Yes please feed constantly every 3 to 4hrs
How old is she mummy?

Aitee1:


I was using the one I prepared myself

queensnow:
Pls how do u separate the cream from the oil after separating it from the water

Aitee1:


Just scoop the cream into a frying pan or pot and heat it at low light till it turns brown then you'll start seeing oil then you scoop it... hope it helps

wonyi:


5 months and two weeks. Although her paediatrician gave a multivitamin and paracetamol. All has been cool