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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by sonofanarchy(m): 7:12am On Oct 14, 2019
mamajj17:
My dear, forget him as soon as possible, move on dear, yours would surely locate you! This guy in Question will keep coming bk for more! He is a Narcissist, this is how they are undecided
sad is that how you advise your daughter mama

Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by sylve11: 7:12am On Oct 14, 2019
ireneidiva:

Are you sure you know the meaning of 'narcissist'?

funny grin grin cool
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Adebowalay(m): 7:13am On Oct 14, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Looks like you have poor taste in men.

That is going by your previous threads on one bf or the other.

You will soon be used as a case study on how women age faster than men. Keep killing yourself with man-troubles.
dem call u
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by DNSPro: 7:13am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

But if it was a man that us giving you now, you will not appreciate him.

All the girls that I have had bad experience with are those I spent money on, while those that we are still in a good communication with are those that didn't get much from me.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Edyice: 7:14am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry





Where is your first class up coming musician
Boyfriend
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Skmoda360(m): 7:14am On Oct 14, 2019
Orjioorji:
women are necessarily evil, but if its the other way round you a***hole bitches will say its his responsibility to pay or give money to the lady, whats wrong with a woman helping her man, this is the reason i dont even accept common gift from bitches because they will always remember the #10 they give you but will be quick to forget the millions you as a man give them.
Well said bro...

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Stevechoko45: 7:15am On Oct 14, 2019
Good that’s how girls behave too so is one -one
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 7:15am On Oct 14, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Looks like you have poor taste in men.

That is going by your previous threads on one bf or the other.

You will soon be used as a case study on how women age faster than men. Keep killing yourself with man-troubles.
I think she's dealing with family and societal pressures to get married. So she's not screening guys before letting them into her life. We really need a value re-orientation in this continent.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by nick50(m): 7:18am On Oct 14, 2019
Op I don't believed in one sided story
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Skmoda360(m): 7:18am On Oct 14, 2019
1StopRudeness:


I don’t even know why she’s ranting. It’s something they do to guys all the time with their entitlement mentality...now she has met a guy that behaves like a girl in begging for money....she now thinks it’s not normal
The guy even try...one week is too long for some girls....I have met a girl that asked for money the next morning....she could barely wait for day break...I woke up around 3am and saw her what’sapp chat she sent It just a few minutes to 1am asking for money for rent...
I have one back then in school, the next morning after I asked her out she requested for 2k to pay for handout which I knew it's a scam.....
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Happyguy201: 7:18am On Oct 14, 2019
you girls do that a lot more than guys I have met girls that asked me for money the next day . So give.him the money. Just because u gave him 2k to buy fuel doesn't mean that you have done something big for him relationship you either sacrifice or stay single

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by obowunmi(m): 7:19am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

Do NOT give him any money.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by forreelliinc: 7:20am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

undecided its 2k that is making you do like this? You are a stingy person, better give him the money shebi na so una gehs dey talk when una dey beg for money

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Skmoda360(m): 7:20am On Oct 14, 2019
raheemadejoke81:
Just look well before you enter one chance relationship ooo.
This one don enter already cuz she attracts her likes....
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by sylve11: 7:20am On Oct 14, 2019
divine2288:
keek kwayet... You don't know...

smiley smiley grin cool
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Amstupid(m): 7:21am On Oct 14, 2019
Happyguy201:



To slap you in person just dey hungry me
why sir. embarassed

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by bluefilm: 7:22am On Oct 14, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Looks like you have poor taste in men.

That is going by your previous threads on one bf or the other.

You will soon be used as a case study on how women age faster than men. Keep killing yourself with man-troubles.

True.

Her previous threads are mainly about one boyfriend this; one boyfriend that.

I'm thinking she's just making up the stories...

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by J4JUVENTUS(m): 7:24am On Oct 14, 2019
Like op haven't taken more than 2k from guys before.. Now,its time for you to pay back..You have not even paid half ,and you're complaining...
Okafor's law dong wonders since 19_koko grin

I'm not justifying the guys stupidity either.. You wan open account for girl head,na 2k you wan collect.. That guy na mumu..

The way guys are fast loosing respect for ladies who feel the world dey revolve around their bumbum these days is commendable ..

How many of us think op sef,na attention seeker,based on her previous post grin

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Ladycewhy(f): 7:26am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry
Na "come and marry" scam you wan fall put so, you better run!
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by colestephan86: 7:26am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry
Cos he has asked you for 2k now, you want all women to speak up, abeg go one side.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by franchasng: 7:26am On Oct 14, 2019
AntiBrutus:


You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k to cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.
Sometimes I wonder where u ladies meet these kind of guys oh seriously hmmm, honestly I still find it difficult to believe that a Nigerian guy would summon the courage to ask a Nigerian lady he is not officially married to for financial help, I still doubt it.



Could it be that u ladies having this issue were once chopping men maga and maybe now karna wants to balance things for the world to be at peace Because I am still finding it hard to believe cos all the guys I know even when we were seriously struggling to find our feet, they never had the shame to ask any lady for help, not even their own sisters. I remember one of my friends back then had a kind of rich elder sister but this guy even when we encourage him to ask his sister for help would blatantly refuse that he can't do that, and today he is super made, God is great!!


Me I remember meeting one lady online then when things were so rough and this girl happens to come from a rich home and she just got a job with one of the best government parastatals in Nigeria then, guess what ended that wonderful affair

I didn't want her to know I was struggling then, I was so ashamed to let her visit me where I and some friends were squatting then. I told her I was doing a menial job though which she never bothered and never asked me for money, in fact she asked me for my bank details one day I told her I was traveling out of the state for a job interview, but shame and pride didn't allowed me to cry


She kept on demanding I take her to where I was living, I always divert the topic and we only met at fast foods and once at a garden and at a point when I lost out in a big job I was about to secure which I planned to use to surprise her and maybe officially ask her to be my one and only the day I will break the news of the job to her, I had to quit the relationship and told her we can't continue, she cried and asked me what she did bad, I never told her and that was the end, so I doubt this story of Nigerian guys begging ladies for money, it sound strange to me

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Happyguy201: 7:26am On Oct 14, 2019
Amstupid:
why sir. embarassed


If you really need that money sell your phone and use the money. Don't come and disturb us with your problems this is not instagram
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Avast(m): 7:27am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

Is it by force to be in relationship, you have been having issues from one bf to another since 2016.

STOP DATING UNDERAGE GUYS

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Avast(m): 7:32am On Oct 14, 2019
franchasng:
Sometimes I wonder where u ladies meet these kind of guys oh seriously hmmm, honestly I still find it difficult to believe that a Nigerian guy would summon the courage to ask a Nigerian lady he is not officially married to for financial help, I still doubt it.



Could it be that u ladies having this issue were once chopping men maga and maybe now karna wants to balance things for the world to be at peace Because I am still finding it hard to believe cos all the guys I know even when we were seriously struggling to find our feet, they never had the shame to ask any lady for help, not even their own sisters. I remember one of my friends back then had a kind of rich elder sister but this guy even when we encourage him to ask his sister for help would blatantly refuse that he can't do that, and today he is super made, God is great!!


Me I remember meeting one lady online then when things were so rough and this girl happens to come from a rich home and she just got a job with one of the best government parastatals in Nigeria then, guess what ended that wonderful affair

I didn't want her to know I was struggling then, I was so ashamed to let her visit me where I and some friends were squatting then. I told her I was doing a menial job though which she never bothered and never asked me for money, in fact she asked me for my bank details one day I told her I was traveling out of the state for a job interview, but shame and pride didn't allowed me to cry


She kept on demanding I take her to where I was living, I always divert the topic and we only met at fast foods and once at a garden and at a point when I lost out in a big job I was about to secure which I planned to use to surprise her and maybe officially ask her to be my one and only the day I will break the news of the job to her, I had to quit the relationship and told her we can't continue, she cried and asked me what she did bad, I never told her and that was the end, so I doubt this story of Nigerian guys begging ladies for money, it sound strange to me

Don't mind her.

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by cbrass(m): 7:34am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:

Unfortunately I don't know "why always me" but I am sure I am not alone in this kind of scenerio. Pls know that we haven't even met, it's totally different from my ex

You based in Lagos?
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by mixter(m): 7:37am On Oct 14, 2019
AntiBrutus:


You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k to cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.

grin. Dish it out. You just don’t like leaving prisoners. Carry on, firing on all cylinders all the time.
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by toolovely(m): 7:38am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

I asked a girl out like today, she accepted, the next day she said I should subscribe data, the next day, she wants to make her hair. so it happens
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Innobee99(m): 7:40am On Oct 14, 2019
saucecode:

Swear say you neva ask financial help from man within two weeks of knowing him before? cheesy
But the guy get shame so?




I can't do that
Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by Nobody: 7:40am On Oct 14, 2019
anuofGod:
Lol, OP this is still fair. I did more for my baby's dad. Fed him, clothed him, housed him and paid all his bills (to the extent of ordinary biscuit and haircut)&he always threatened me his mum is gonna marry a wife for him. Even during my pregnancy till i gave birth. I never knew he and his mum were lying around that he paid the rent and gave me 20k weekly for upkeep. After i gave birth, his dad found out that they've been lying(they live in different states). My baby's dad and his mum ganged up and started threatning me and plotting against me, he moved for months and came begging to let him in again, that his mum is a brute he can't tolerate. I chased him away. He got mad and went to his mum and they started spreading lies about me. I was not bothered. My daughter is a year and a week old now and my baby's father and his mum doesnt have a dime on her, not even #50 pampers. Even though i go hungry most times and couldn't afford buying anything for myself, my daugther is healthy and never lacks. I thank God.
I will blame you . I wonder how you could not notice this irresponsibility in him earlier on . Maybe you are after physical attribute .

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Re: He Is Asking For Financial Help Barely A Week After by vivalavida(m): 7:41am On Oct 14, 2019
rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money shocked I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants cry

Date me then.

All these wahala go just stop.
Shebi u want love and care?
I have it in quantum

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