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At a point i had to Scroll up to confirm the monica to be sure this wasnt my post.. This is so me. Lol
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you OP trust me. Have you not had any life challenging experience, betrayal of trust and so on? If yes then you would have countinued to be YOURSELF and worry less about any ones opinion about you.
Your compatible partner will come at the long run.
Cheers.

blackpanthar:
Your kind of person is NORMAL... so stop feeling bad. HIGHLY INTELLECTUAL PEEPS ARE LIKE YOU
I agree with this..
But Pride can also be found in them... because PRIDE HATES CORRECTION AND GETS IRRITATED EASILY.

you are a perfectionist... meanwhile no matter how high you hold yourself to high discipline standards you are still FAR FROM BEING perfect.

It would be pride to expect people to treat you better than you treat them.

You are NOT ready or Mature for any kind of relationship yet until you channel your intellectual prowess to understand human beings and how imperfect you are... then you need to be brave enough to let down your HIGH WALLS...

You are an ALPHA MALE but guess what, you can not climb the leadership ladder which you HOPE to attain without being a "PEOPLE PERSON"

You need to stop thinking too highly of yourself and force yourself to ACT Humble and expect people to make mistakes and be ok with it.


Also, learn to LAUGH.... yup... you need laughter, you need to laugh at yourself and at jokes.... but above all, be a HELPER... help others become better... NEVER FORCE ANYONE....


in a NUTSHELL..... You need BALANCE... else if you ever marry, you will give birth to kids that are dysfunctional in the society and can not have human relationships and even if you are so wealthy, they will become targets of hate crimes or other vices from others who just hate them.... TRY TO CONSIDER THESE THINGS.

The guys personality as nothing to do with pride, a dictionary definition of pride will help clear your doubts.

Yeecar:
The guys personality as nothing to do with pride, a dictionary definition of pride will help clear your doubts.

pride's personality variation is called EGOISTIC

and that is what he has.

blackpanthar:
pride's personality variation is called EGOISTIC

and that is what he has.

Every man born of a woman has EGO. The poster also said that he has always been falsely tagged as being proud on several occasions and i can relate.
I wonder Why people just attach the word PRIDE to introverted people, someone who prefers to stay indoors and cherishes his or her privacy is proud?

You are you, and I am me

olabrinks:
Yawns.

I hate when introverts question themselves, like they are some special kind of species that invaded the planet earth. I am an introvert myself, I am very happy and content with my personality and I don’t give a flying monkey about what person a or b thinks. People are going to talk about you regardless. You can’t change your nature, you can’t change how you naturally are. Accept it and stop looking for ways to modify your behaviour, everybody cannot be social butterflies. Get over it and live life.

Bless you. I had to leave a job cos my boss wanted me to be "an extrovert", not like he was paying me well. In his words "I am trying to help you"