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Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by perryy(m): 11:44am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Reinvented: Leave him . I only pity the sister. No church or prayer can every the impending calamity. 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by perryy(m): 11:44am On Oct 19, 2019 |
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Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by midehi2(f): 11:46am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Greenback:Not good, the guy is not even from esanland so he has no right to give her out in marriage, he shud thread carefully... 3 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by amp01(m): 11:46am On Oct 19, 2019 |
perryy:Some people don't understand Esan tradition and people, not giving them, their things can cause problem for you. I lost an aunty because of common salt. 5 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by izibili44: 11:47am On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd:Morning,I am coming in on this because i am an uromi man.I have alot to say to you about what you want to do.I have taken upon myself to place your quote or words on the uromi forum where i belong.i await their contribution before i ill add mine. 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Slimmy0: 11:47am On Oct 19, 2019 |
midehi2: You are the blind one here. I said he shouldn't give her out according to Essan traditional rites if her family membrrs are not involved. If you must give her out do it the church way or court way or even yoruba way. But not Essan way. 6 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Kundagarten: 11:48am On Oct 19, 2019 |
InvertedHammer:It is called traditional wedding for a reason. There's no two ways about it. It's either the Esan way or no marriage. If they can't comply with tradition, perhaps they should just conduct Christian wedding in Lagos and forget traditional wedding. I however sympathise with the @op. 3 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by izibili44: 11:49am On Oct 19, 2019 |
amp01:my father is in a mess right now because he has not done the father grand burial after spending so much on the 7 days burial. 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by funmijoyb(f): 11:50am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Mrpsly247:I gave you a like but you aren't correct. They have no money to waste on family clan that did not support them. They can do it anyway. Forget about Esan people.They haven't broken d legal law 4 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Kundagarten: 11:50am On Oct 19, 2019 |
izibili44:Obhia ba where is that forum? Is it a Facebook forum like Esan mega forum? 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by midehi2(f): 11:50am On Oct 19, 2019 |
The family of the guy that want to marry your sister don't even know what they are doing, how can you allow your son to marry a girl without her root/family....na so dem dey pick girl marry for street. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by perryy(m): 11:51am On Oct 19, 2019 |
johnmattew: The woman is yet to be fully recovered. I wasted over 600k in six different hospitals without knowing what was wrong with her. The illness started exactly on the 18th if October last year and we only got to know what was wrong January 24th this year. No one dares Esan tradition and go Scot free. Even the prophetess that revealed what happened to us candidly told us she has no solution . The only solution was taking her, almost dead to my village. Even as an Esan man, i feared what I saw. I never knew some spirit were monitoring my so called wife. Despite her juju and spiritual powers , she succumbed to Esan tradition. But I will never marry another Yoruba again in my life. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by BlackDonald: 11:52am On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: Their Girls are Sweeet , But your Question I Can't Answer |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Rajman45(m): 11:52am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Mr Man, all diz traditions diz or dat na long story. If u believe in traditions, follow it strictly and if u don't believe in it, no need trying to practice or replicate it. Let Ur sister do court and white wedding. Traditional marriage is never a necessity. One's the bride price can be arranged by both parties involved, dem marriage is settled. 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by agbalej(m): 11:52am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Dear OP, as has been mentioned, pls look for your sister's people and tell them about the wedding. Our list is not expensive, and you are not the proper person to give your sister out in marriage. You are not an Esan man but a Yoruba. Items collected from in-laws must be sent to her kinsmen. Its their entitlement no matter how badly they may have treated you guys... What you guys went tru is heartbreaking... However, the proper thing must be done. You may not take the wedding to uromi, go there, get the list and representatives would be sent (on your bills) to where ever the wedding is taking place to perform the marriage rites and take the marriage items back to the kinsmen. The only way to escape is to simply do "court" wedding. And move on. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by midehi2(f): 11:53am On Oct 19, 2019 |
funmijoyb:Forget ke, you guys should stop deceiving the op, when time comes, FORGET will set in 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by perryy(m): 11:54am On Oct 19, 2019 |
amp01: Imagine. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Waffarianman(m): 11:55am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Bro am from delta Urhobo all you need is to go back to your fathers side I see no reason why you should avoid them. Just do what is right by reaching out to the elders of your fathers family in your community... I Don tell you oo 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by midehi2(f): 11:55am On Oct 19, 2019 |
agbalej:This is just the best advice, but many people are deceiving the op here, they can't tell him the truth cos they don't know 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by amp01(m): 11:55am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Slimmy0: What kind of madness is this? Since when do church or court collect bride price? Esan lady, been given out, via Yoruba way,what madness. Op, don't play oooo 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by henryobinna(m): 11:57am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Uromi? very diabolical people. Can't forget in a hurry my short experience in Eror-Uromi close to Uromi junction 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by ZAWs: 11:58am On Oct 19, 2019 |
greggng: You never marry your wife finish o Just an advice |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by amp01(m): 11:59am On Oct 19, 2019 |
midehi2: So when you do court wedding, you don't pay Bride price? |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Bbbwings: 11:59am On Oct 19, 2019 |
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Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by ABCthings: 12:01pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Reinvented:stop scaring the guy na.. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Born2Breed(f): 12:01pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: Please look for you mothers family members, they didn't offend you according to your narration. According to the Esan tradition, your mother must be buried in her home town and I guess that was what you did. Seek your maternal family and they will assist you on how to go about performing the traditional marriage rite which is very very easy. If your maternal families are not available,please do it the church and registry way. Under no circumstance must you collect your sisters bride price,you will be creating problem for her as an Esan woman. May God grant you wisdom. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by henryobinna(m): 12:02pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
miniziter:how about you create this place? Must you wait for others to do it? 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by midehi2(f): 12:02pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
amp01:Since he don't want family member, he should forget pride price na with that according to esanland she's not married yet 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by amp01(m): 12:02pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
[quote author=izibili44 post=83273475]my father is in a mess right now because he has not done the father grand burial after spending so much on the 7 days burial.[/quote Really |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by xjiggy: 12:04pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Go and ask the elders of her father's kindred. You're a step brother taking the position of a father. Don't let yourself be used as a pawn in family chess game. Uromi people will just send u utagba made with salt. There's no coming back from that. Be wise. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by greggng: 12:05pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
ZAWs: Which wife....are you talking about baby mama? Well baby mama no be wife....go ask wizkid and davido 3 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by four4: 12:05pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
wisdompeters35:simply rub...sh 2 Likes |
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