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Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Pedrocross4568(m): 1:03pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
I'm an Esan. Traditional wedding or anything tradition in Esan land must be taking very serious. For ur own good and that of ur sister and her husband and also their unborn children, jut take ur hands off anything tradition on this wedding and let they jut do church wedding. If not pls and pls my brother let her go home to her father people before anything tradition is done. I also hope for ur own sake ur mother burial was done traditionally and ur sister father people were well informed about it. If not jut be ready to do ur mother burial for they. Those people not get joy my brother. From an Esan man from Uromi. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by shadol0083(m): 1:07pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Thanks for seeking an advice.... but Talk to God in prayer..... d marriage is bless..... Amen |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Mexyz(m): 1:12pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
subtlemee:Lol... @Op, follow this and have rest of mind. You're not just dealing with any tribe in Edo but ESAN, no go give their daughter out without their permission ooo Btw, I'm Esan also. 3 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Taiwo20(m): 1:14pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Do it your way. You are only answerable to God in this case. But if you must do it in Uromi way, then I know Schnapps,Local gin, Kolanut, Alligator Pepper,Yam must be involved. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by jobeehichoya: 1:15pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
I’m from uromi, if you need the marriage list, I could help you talk to dad to prepare one for you. However, I don’t think the approach you want to take is the best. Kindly send a mail if interested. osejobeehichoya@gmail.com 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
izibili44:what's the name of the forun |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: Wow. Is that your half sister's picture? Damn. Do you have another half sister? |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
All you need to do is go to your liaison office they will give you all the details needed |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Dov3: AssistntBoyfrnd take this advice. Don't do traditional. Go for registry and church weddings. If you are going to do trad, family must be involved. If you don't want to involve family, then don't do trad. 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by SavageResponse(m): 1:39pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: Did you get you sister's permission before posting her pic here? |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by izibili44: 1:41pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Mrpsly247:uromi voice you will get it using facebook. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Seaworthy(m): 1:56pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Please, tell me more about Esan people. Thank you.. I'm married to Esan woman. perryy: 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by AssistntBoyfrnd(m): 2:03pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
FrLukas: This isn't her pic. The mods put that there. 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Oselu28(f): 2:04pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
As an Esan girl,either they took care of u or not,just look for one uncle and do it d traditional way. Calling ur pastor and church members is more like a white wedding done outside d church. Hope you're aware that when she dies no matter who she marry or where she is,her dead body will be taken back to Esan land and she can never commit adultery 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by AssistntBoyfrnd(m): 2:05pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
SavageResponse: This isn't her pic. The mods put that there |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by deuzgreat: 2:07pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
perryy:shut up!! stupid wizard 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: Oh OK. All the best in your decisions. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Seaworthy(m): 2:08pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
amp01: I want to know more |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by West2019(m): 2:10pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd:forget about that bro do court wedding .life goes on |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by 2packer(m): 2:10pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Bro, am from uromi, pls go back to uromi, seek out your family and forgive them, am sure they will be happy to stand by you and your sister. Cos if you don't go iron it out now you might have to do same later or your children might be the ones doing it for you later. Pls get the home front involved 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by Seaworthy(m): 2:11pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Kundagarten: Please, why are they needed and what's the tie about? |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by deuzgreat: 2:11pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Slimmy0:shut up. witches and wizards |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by benedictac(f): 2:12pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
AssistntBoyfrnd: I'm sorry for what you and your sister have gone through. God will see u guys through. The Esan land marriage is not like the Igbos where u must come home to do the rites. You are now the father of that family, all you need to do is to look for person in her dad's family (we call it the spokesman (osuoma) he will represent the family wherever you wish to collect the bride price. He will be the one to collect the list and pass messages without u having a direct contact with the other members of the family. On the day of wedding proper he will be the one to speak and not you. He will be the one to check everything is complete. Then after everything, he will take the ones that belong to the kinsmen to them. But please look for the Christian one. At least the one that has the fear of God Wish you all the best 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by deuzgreat: 2:14pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
amp01:why so many witches and wizards in your place. im sure you are a wizard |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by 2packer(m): 2:15pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
benedictac: On point. A better suggestion. Abeg no collect bride price without giving the family their share 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by AfricaGotTalent: 2:31pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Join the Esan National Congress Group on Facebook and ask your question. You will get better help there |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by nlPoster: 2:40pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Seaworthy: I'd say don't enquire if you're ok as you are. |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by jeff1607(m): 2:41pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Seaworthy: how is her anger? Esan ladies are known for their anger (e fit boil stone) but they are also hardworking and would give their all to see the family succeed or go higher no matter what it takes, but if u take them for granted hmmmm OYO is your case 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by nlPoster: 2:44pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
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Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by wethebest(m): 2:46pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Guy u funny oooo. So d gal dad family didn't take care of her nd ur own dad family didn't take care of you abi. U got married without ur Yoruba kinsmen or family member nd nw ur sis wana get married without her own kinsmen or family member. Am glad u admit is jst d same mum, in Esan, u can't stand as her dad cox u don't share same father with her. Also d church encouraging both of u nt to seek your root in ur marriages don't wish u well coz in future, u hv a lot to explain to ur children. As for d gal, is a taboo to get married in Esan land without the knowledge of your father's clan. Even if you live abroad, someone will represent you here while d groom meet the gal's father family and pay her bride price. I believe Yoruba do not hv such culture but u can't alter Edo culture even if u re a pastor. Who so eva that takes dat bride price dats nt frm d gal's family only incure curses upon his life. Take ur sis nd go see any of her uncle. Let dem collect d bride price den leave d town. D bride price is small, they can't even use it to buy one bottle of red label so i don't see wr d ideal of they didn't train us is coming frm. Jst fulfil Esan tradition. Am frm Esan nd i am nt in support of dis ur plan. 6 Likes |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by twosquare(m): 2:47pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
That's because you are no orphan...we have people who don't know their extended family due to the way they behave to the parents when they were still alive. What I am saying is that it is only in your mind...that feeling of this can't happen without some people. It is a construct and stronghold many from this part of the world can't break away from. It is possible to sever myself from my genealogy and tribe and lineage and do the wedding as I deem fit. You don't expect me to go back to one wicked extended family or bad one just because I want to keep to one "fading" tradition. Many invite unnecessary battles into their lives when Providence has provided a way of escape for them. It all depends on the circumstance, either good, okay, bad, or ugly. Muscholes: 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Marriage In Uromi, Esanland. Please Share Tips by twosquare(m): 2:49pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
That's the reason ghost-moding is sweet...Àbíkẹ́ kiri dé Kano ó d'aboki, orúkọ tó bá wu ọmọ ló ń jẹ́ lẹ́yìn odi...if you know. |
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