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I'm Tired of Being Single, i've Tried All Possible Means to Get A Girl to Call My Own but Up To No Avail. Any Girl I Approached she Either Declined or Stop talking To Me.

Guys relax... Nija women are getting cheaper by the day

fergie001:
You are a wise man.

Thanks bro.... Have a blessed week ahead

Childish write up

PureGoldh:
Thanks bro.... Have a blessed week ahead

You too, bro...

Notice: I'm David, I'm single guy of 28 years and seeking for a decent and working class lady for a serious relationship which can lead to marriage. She must be 26 and below. Thanks

My WhatsApp contact is 09066953636

While I almost agree with the points made I totally disagree with No. 3.

Why do our ladies always believe that the man must drop? There's nothing wrong with the lady footing the bills if she has more money than the man. So our ladies are actually the stringy ones.

I had this girlfriend from Asia who saw it as a duty to take care of me. According to their tradition the woman must take good care of the man they love and she did well. I found it difficult to ask a Nigerian lady our after going out with this lady.
All our girls do is ask, ask and ask again. There phone's needs a replacement upon meeting a new guy and after that credit, credit, credit.

They even pay the dowry over there.

True words...thumbs up op

[quote author=Nuclear99 post=83324028][/quote]Forget na...........i know say u be zombie

bluefilm:
You said one but I will give you ten.

Here we go.

1. You will call pesin taya

2. You will recharge and sub for pesin taya.

3. You go watch zeeworld taya.

4. In short make i no lie you, you go entertain pesin taya.

5. You go listen to useless and pointless stories taya.

6. You go use style turn errand boy and you no go fit complain. Like play like play, you go begin wash pant sef join am.

7. You go begin take permission before you leave your own house.

8. Your friends too go begin take permission before dey can come to your place.

9. You go dey spend eh. Bros, I say you go spend. I no dey joke. You must spend.

10. But well sha, you go dey eat steady. You go eat her food assuming she Sabi cook, then later you go eat am too join.

But Bros make i no lie you, as time goes on, you no go too dey gbadu even the fückery sef again.

Well Articulated Disadvantages. . .
In Other Words, Girlfriends Are As Useless As The 'P' In 'Psychology'.

Leeches. . . Blood Sucking Vampire Demons They Are.

Lamasta:
You people have come again with your list
This is Nigeria where money answereth all things not list is that clear @ OP

Bro sometimes money is not everything. I met my fiancé when I was doing dirty work, I mean pure water motor boy, and the cloth I wore seff is bad. And she accepted to be my girlfriend, nd still don't have money but she never complain... Money is not everything just that money solve some problems In relationship ni.

Asapchris:
Bro sometimes money is not everything. I met my fiancé when I was doing dirty work, I mean pure water motor boy, and the cloth I wore seff is bad. And she accepted to be my girlfriend, nd still don't have money but she never complain... Money is not everything just that money solve some problems In relationship ni.

Yeah I agree with You but You will agree with me too that when you follow all this list many women will still not agree to date You, but when you have money and never obey or have anything to do with what OP posted girls will still flock around You abi no be Niger we dey? Go and look at the wives or girlfriends of all those agberos You will agree with me that money is the real list now

[quote author=fairfora post=83319808]Unfortunately, guys of nowadays don't understand ladies. Women are same all over the world. If you want to win their hearts, you have to make patience your best friend cos they like taking their time. They want to study you, consider lots of things before accepting your offer for a date. I'm talking of the serious-minded ones and not the slay queens who would hit you and run to another prey. You may think she's hard to get whereas, she's busy studying you..and if she's the wife material who's ready to get married, she goes a distance to know about you,including going spiritual. By the time you finally get married, she'd now be telling you how far sje had gone without you knowing...amd that's if she wants you to know at all because our women are highly secretive. Na weton den wan Male you know about them, na in you go know, no matter how much you pamper them. Whereas, on top of a delicious meal or at bed time, a man could vomit almost all he has kept in his heart to h

Lamasta:
Yeah I agree with You but You will agree with me too that when you follow all this list many women will still not agree to date You, but when you have money and never obey or have anything to do with what OP posted girls will still flock around You abi no be Niger we dey? Go and look at the wives or girlfriends of all those agberos You will agree with me that money is the real list now

Sure bro. Those list might work for some ladies that still reason and matured. But for all the slay girls we have now enh, what they know is and say is the guy get money. I could remember one girl in my area, she saw this guy for the first time and she went out with him just because the brought car and his using iPhone and Samsung.. But still money is not everything

HacheNoire:
Only small boys still need girlfriends/wives


We buy them.

REAL NIGGA

Slimdada:
My dear I know some naija guys are not real gees some of them don't know how to to treat a Lady right but
Let me introduce my self I'm slimdada don't mean to trouble you,I'm a hardworking handsome real gee with a promising future and I'm willing and ready to show any beautiful loyal girl how a man is supposed to love a woman
I'm willing to stand by her side and say no shaking until the end...
So Babe biko test me

this sharp guy be using excuse me sister by 2baba to woo this lady

Younghacka:
Well Articulated Disadvantages. . .
In Other Words, Girlfriends Are As Useless As The 'P' In 'Psychology'.

Leeches. . . Blood Sucking Vampire Demons They Are.

"Blessed are you, Simon Younghacka son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven."

Don't mind the other nigga krushdripper talking absolute nonsense.

He has eyes but he cannot see.

bluefilm:
"Blessed are you, Simon Younghacka son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven."

Don't mind the other nigga krushdripper talking absolute nonsense.

He has eyes but he cannot see.

Indeed. . . Flesh And Blood Did Not Reveal It To Me. . .

[quote author=internationalman post=83340379]this sharp guy be using excuse me sister by 2baba to woo this lady[/quote

Bad guy but you wan come use style spoil a real gee
play laidis laidis

error4040:
Bullsh1t from the Pit of Hell.

I can believe I am saying this

Guys Hustle o Make one OP no open Thread for Nairaland de Give una False Advice that worked way back 1999.

Wetin Van Dijk no go see for Rashford hand!

seeing things oh...i m not fair....nor up to 26years...but i need new friends....holla me up @09054850776....thank you

girls of nowadays are clueless, they'll just ignore you both online and offline.

xxxtedyxxx:
Are you ready to get a gf/wife and enjoy all the fun that comes with a race romantic relationship ?? Or you want to continue making excuses, talking yourself out of approaches and spending lonely nights with your Vaseline (no pun intended).

If yes, you can either read on bro or just close this page; and keep on living a life of excuses while your friends, who are more socially aware keep getting all the beautiful girls.

Stated below are 5 attitudes/mistakes which can automatically turn a girl off and suggestions on what you should do instead.

1) Whining - To whine is to complain annoyingly. Take back sec and think about your previous Convo/relationship in which you complained bitterly. Was all all the whining worth it? I bet your answer is no

Learn to always sort things out I'm a mature way. If you continue whining, it won't be long before she starts comparing you with other guys.

2) Clinging/Neediness- This is one of the biggest turnoffs for most women. In the dating scene, it means being emotionally dependent on a woman.

Are you needy?

Logically evaluate your previous convos/relationships to see if you are a victim of this attitude. If yes, then learn to give women space. Allow them to be their own person bro.

3) Tightwad/Stingy How stingy are you bro? Do you freely give? I do not mean giving like a maga or ATM oh.. . Learn to give to a girl when she deserves it. Armed with this idea you won't given like a "maga" or be considered as one. For example, a guy sending cash/or 1500 MTN to a girl who doesn'tfl call him/or give him attention is a pure "maga". She doesn't value you bro, so why waste your time?. Only do things for girls when they deserve it or when they are invested in you too.

4) Laziness Are your passionate about your life or just like spending hours looking/chatting with girls? Chatting and looking for girls all day will, in the long run, only make you look jobless and lazy.

Get busy with yourself bro. Focus on your dreams and aspirations( Work, School, Hobbies,Talents). Start doing something worthy and women will like and appreciate you more.

5) Over eagerness for Intimacy/Groping- This one is huge. You will need to understand attraction is in stages before you get rid of this one. You met a girl off this morning and you want her to be your wife/gf on thwe evening of that same day? Calm down bro.

Attraction, as it pertains to women, is not a logical thing- it's emotional bro. No need to rush it. If you are exhibiting the qualities of a bf/husband/ already, you won't even need to to ask her out.

Over eagerness for intimacy, often times, is a sure symptom of being clingy which invariably results in desperation.

Evaluate your dating scenarios and make the necessary corrections. Worthy mentions no included here are: jealousy and hot temper/getting angry easily.

Peace.

Same thing should also apply to a woman. Relationship is a two-way street.