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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Rosella1: 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2019
Donbosco46:
How do you know your impotent?

Read nah! Please read well! cry

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by MedicH: 10:44pm On Oct 21, 2019
You know virtually all there is about ur condition and I'll suggest u go divine. In scoan for instance a lot of unimaginable miracles take place and i don't know how stuffs like this appeal to u. I pray u find Grace

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by chloride6: 10:44pm On Oct 21, 2019
1. Dont listen to any of the folks trying to sell you pills, 99% of them are just like muyiwa and glory osei

You need to try it out a real situation to be able to make a final conclusion..

See more doctors and get ready to fly abroad if necessary.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Tchange1(m): 10:45pm On Oct 21, 2019
Your not impotent and never will be ? If your a Christian by spirit read the word of God back to God but if your a Muslim give your life to Christ and read the word of God to back to God.


Pray ooo. Remember all things works together for good for them that love "God"

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by arodavoo(m): 10:46pm On Oct 21, 2019
Of course this is so sad, and understand the pain you are going through right now.It is not a permanent condition, it is one that has a solution. I would just advise that you travel down to itoku in abeokuta to see people that sell those herbal stuffs..


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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Kylndra2023: 10:46pm On Oct 21, 2019
Indicate so I can put you through!!... It requires just a kit work and you're good to go!! Ask questions! Treat as important!!

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by midnighter(f): 10:46pm On Oct 21, 2019
Get yourself to a better hospital with better-trained specialists to see if anything can be done

Why is everybody talking about God and Jesus without giving any practical advice? So its the devil who invented hospitals and doctors

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by humberjade: 10:46pm On Oct 21, 2019
Google searching an illness is like inviting more trouble into one's life...it will keep suggesting what is not wrong with u...and at d end of d day i t leaves u more wrecked than b4.

And trust me, it might be in ur head as suggested by the doctors. And if u keep allowing this thought to fester for long in ur heart, coming back from it could be difficult. A psychologist could come in handy at dis juncture.

But what kind of trauma were u referring to if I may ask?

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Davide020(m): 10:47pm On Oct 21, 2019
lyriclekidd:
Lol not again, i done tire for social media like this.. bullshit everywhere.
LOL

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 21, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.
I know a God who answers prayers and there is nothing God cannot do.

No need for being suicidal bro just ensure you do all that is right by moving closer to God and trust me he listens to your every cry.

He is the great Physician

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by festusforchrist: 10:47pm On Oct 21, 2019
There is solution...God is able. Just reach me on 08181075096.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by mechanics(m): 10:47pm On Oct 21, 2019
Just keep confessing positive and not negative, it will be well soon.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Checked86: 10:48pm On Oct 21, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.
brother, God is the answer but you can use this opportunity to impregnate a lady for you. Just believe that it will get bett
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by festusforchrist: 10:48pm On Oct 21, 2019
If you can't call me Whatsapp me on thesame number. You will surely testify. 08181075096.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Realfrankie(m): 10:49pm On Oct 21, 2019
God is the only one who solve impossible situations. Just believe and have faith
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:51pm On Oct 21, 2019
Ur case na something rlse undecided
NwaAmaikpe:
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In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position.

And stop worrying over irrelevant things.
Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek.

Here you are with a functional preek, yet you want to commit suicide because you'd never be able to do doggie.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Seacube: 10:51pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bro,in as much as i know
This thing is nothing before God,all you need to do is go to him,talk to him in prayers.
He said that his hands are not too short to reach us and his ear is not deaf to hear our prayers, go tell Jesus all your trials cause he is a compassionate friend.....ok don't lose hope

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by 1Sharon(f): 10:52pm On Oct 21, 2019
Hope777:


How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

Why we never seen an amputee get cured?

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by kolade560: 10:53pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bro. I know how you feel but calm.....
You can't term yourself impotent, try this:
Stop taking sugar
Get a girlfriend with the aim of having sex or testing yourself.
Make sure you are not under this pressure of am impotent when you are with her.
In short, be sexually active and get rid of piles in your body, by taking squeezed bitter leaf water and scent leaf for 3 or 4 consecutive days
.
Thanks me later

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hallmark08(m): 10:54pm On Oct 21, 2019
I have good news for all the guys in these category, or other guys whose joysticks would not wake them UP early morning, relax, be of good courage I will give you natural herbal mixture, I'm sure you won't have cause to regret, this is not a scam. It tested, trusted and with no side effect, ASK ME HOW 08030756048 WHATAPP ET AL

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Ashirioluwa: 10:54pm On Oct 21, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.
I don't know the cause but I think you might want to look or talk to a specialist outside the country. I know this will be very expensive but it is advisable to seek help in a place like india
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Samakus(m): 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2019
amendara1:
Don't give up brother, it's not permanent. A lot of men have been in that situation and come out of it.
Call this no, it really helped me then.
08112286540, 08067373322. Dikko Herbal centre. They are in southwest , oyo, Ibadan, Lagos.
It cost just #1,500.
Best of luck...


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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by sammirano: 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2019
Op. God doesnt allow or lets say people allow things happen to themselves. Most of the things that befall people are caused whether directly or indirectly by themselves. Simply put most people forfiet their own lives by thier own hands. Qdot also said "to ba se saye lo se ma ba ara e". I'm sorry, this is happening to you, but never blame God for such rather pray for his help, cos he alone can bring you out of a dark hole.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Sonoyom(m): 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bro there's always a reason to be hopeful you just have to find that reason.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by jnoz23(m): 10:56pm On Oct 21, 2019
Impotency is not the worst thing in life my friend
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Obodo999(m): 10:56pm On Oct 21, 2019
Hope777:


Bro I have visited at least 4 specialists, they seem to just think my problem is psychological because they don't have a solution.

I will keep on praying about it. Thanks

Yes, the specialists are right. Stop worrying about it or you are making it worse. Let your Hope becomes your Faith.
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Sarahless: 10:56pm On Oct 21, 2019
Read Psalm 14.

uote author=Bigflamie post=83337416]Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.[/quote]

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by sLentlover7778(m): 10:58pm On Oct 21, 2019
Matthew 17:21... fast and pray with a pure heart.. and leave the rest for God to take care of.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by UnknownQueen(f): 10:59pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.


This nairaland people will someday turn all of us into atheist, I hope I don't shift from Christianity and agnoism to atheism.. GOD please help me

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Plebian(f): 11:00pm On Oct 21, 2019
All you need is sea moss, dr sebi used it to cure his own impotency and had children in his late 70s.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hotzone(m): 11:00pm On Oct 21, 2019
Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.

I love Jehovah because He is my only God

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by marvelous000: 11:00pm On Oct 21, 2019
What makes you think your life is incomplete without the the ability to procreate. you seem to be an unfortunate victim of societal dogma.
there's nothing special about having kids sired by you. trust me, I know how upheaval this appear to you, but is anything plum in people getting killed by their own children. weren't they at a point wishing for their own kids like you?

My dear, quit the parochial would view and get yourself together. conversely, if you feel having your own children is ineluctable to your happiness, then consider freezing your sperm. BTW, getting a wife in your condition, is as simple as ABCD. that isn't a problem in the first place. If people with worst disability can get wife, how much more you.

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