Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I havi e been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

be happy u can stil experience some erection while laying down. am 24 now since age 10 i don't know erection feel like. i don't think about girls coz there's nothing i wan use them for. that life. we are not equal. there are people who's situation worser than this.

bro I don't know you ,but pls take dis my word serious,it works for me,



just keep praising God don't ask him anything,just praise him every minute ,do it religiously


bro it works wonder , I'm a living witnessed


just try it with believe, it won't take anything from you


when it definitely hear your cry, don't forget to give him all the praise

Your problem is in your mind. Nothing is wrong with you. The body is a slave to the mind, always will be.


Go to google, annd download this book: "The Secret"... lock your self in a room, and consume the material.

You will be cured in a month.

if there is no cure now, who told you there wont be a cure forever?, dont you see the world is developing everyday? my advice for u is to continue working hard make a lots of money in few years there will be a cure nd you go for it. pls forget about suicide u are not alone in trouble dnt kill yourself because u think u will never get married. i too think thesame nd it doesnt make me feel suicidal. im 24years old i got hiv the day i broke my virginity, im jobless i lost my parents when i was 4years old
nd i still live nd hvnt ever thouhgt about suicide.

Hope777:


How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

Bad things just happens...God doesn't have anything to do with it... Could your condition be somewhat a medical one? Or you can pray for healing...

Hope777 :


I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

The reason you may feel terrible is that you may not be able to have a fulfilling sex life or perhaps not even have children.
But, there are various other happiness in life.

Seek more medical and psychological help. But do not overseek it.
If the results points out to you becoming impotent, dont panic, there are other ways to life.

- You can marry someone who would love you for the way and yet be ready to have children for you. (IVF may be required)

- You marry a suitable patner and choose not to have kids.

- You use a surrogate.

- Better still, if you can, stay single.

- Do not overhink your condition. Don't make it the fulcrum of your life. At a point, you would be happier than you ever imagine.

I want to believe your distress message is not as bad as it sounds though @OP, it's like creating a mountain out of a mole hill. I want to agree with the specialists that your case is psychological.

Besides, you need to discover yourself sexually...Understand what turns you on and what doesn't and don't overwhelm your self with stories you read on Google.

If afterall, there is still no cure, you can easily adopt a child. We are in the 21st century OP!

Babawon1:
be happy u can stil experience some erection while laying down. am 24 now since age 10 i don't know erection feel like. i don't think about girls coz there's nothing i wan use them for. that life. we are not equal. there are people who's situation worser than this.

Miracles happen, keep faith bro!

My friend...I am very sure there’s nothing wrong with you.... it’s only psychological....

The battle of the mind is what your going through right now...that is why you have to guard it jealousy in order not to consume trash online...

I shall prove to you that everything u conceive right now about your so called condition is all made up in your mind.

“Do you know you can feel pain in any part of ur body even when nothing is wrong medically, all because in your mind, you are psychologically defeated... your case is no different from this because ur more perplexed since it’s a sensitive part of the body and whoever u talk to, advice u mainly from position of fear.

Doctors have certified nothing is wrong with you physically...

I passed through similar situation but counseling was the key for me.... I went to church, prayed severally as well, all to no avail....Eventually I resorted to self medication until a doctor friend noticed my unusual drug regimens and counseled me....

Counseling is the key for you too...

Hope777:


How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

If you ask God well enough and willing to hear from him, he will surely give answers to your questions. If the intention is however to criticize him and put him to ridicule, you will die in your confusion. By the way since no doctor diagnose the problem you claim to have, the problem might just be in your head...

Tchange1:
Your not impotent and never will be ? If your a Christian by spirit read the word of God back to God but if your a Muslim give your life to Christ and read the word of God to back to God.


Pray ooo. Remember all things works together for good for them that love "God"

Stories!

Go out and meet woman. Have sex and stop giving urself unnecessary headache. Take more of herbal medicine. Infact go out and impreginate a woman. Do it as quick as possible. Have sex in missionary position. That is olden days sex possible. Go and have ur own children now that u are still having erection. Cheers

Hope777:


How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I[b] know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.[/b]

Thanks though

Because just like me, God himself is a deist.

Please,accept Jesus Christ into your life by repenting of your sins ...He'll fix your life for you...There's a brother like that who is born again,he was impotent completely ,he prayed went and took a wife,prayed yet nothing happened,on the day of wedding after all the ceremonies and was to have the real thing ...He did go to bathroom prayed,and God answered him...the wife didn't know all these while...He gave his testimony later.There's nothing too difficult for God to do...

Been a medical person I can understand where you're coming from.. But my brother there are few things I will need to point out to you. What you guessed you have might not actually be it. The worst place to get conclusions on medical and health related issues is on Google.. I want to know the kind of Laboratory investigations you've run, what has been the Clinical diagnosis from the doctors you've seen in the past and thier submissions. I can tell you categorically that it might not really be what you're thinking.. I will leave my number here.. We can review the Tests you've done in the past together and see what could possibly be wrong. Don't write yourself off just yet.. Give medicine a chance at least this time... Be aware that medicine has a lot to do with psychology, sometimes you might even create problems that are not there before by imagining you have and giving in to it.. Chat me up on 08032439203.. Lets see how it goes

kunlegboye:
Please,accept Jesus Christ into your life by repenting of your sins ...He'll fix your life for you...There's a brother like that who is born again,he was impotent completely ,he prayed went and took a wife,prayed yet nothing happened,on the day of wedding after all the ceremonies and was to have the real thing ...He did go to bathroom prayed,and God answered him...the wife didn't know all these while...He gave his testimony later.There's nothing too difficult for God to do...

what's this one saying again..

Jayslicky:

You are just stressing yourself over nothing, you just have the ability to control your erections, the more you think of something sexual your organ gets erects, there are few men like that.

Until you test your penis in a girl, you can't claim to be impotent, try get a girl so you would know.

If you are masturbating, I advise you reduce it or you stop.

Exactly my advice to him... if he doesn't test it then he can't conclude impotency. The only thing I disagree with your advice is the part about masturbation... people that started masturbating before being sexually active make good lovers... they are very imaginative in bed

test yourself with a pill of viagra just to see if the erection maintains. if it does, its psychological if not, there is problem

Did he say he visited specialists? Are they Urologists? These are the doctors specialized in matters of the penis. Let him not panic. He's still young. If they have examined him properly and seen nothing wrong with him physiologically, then his problem coulybr truly psychological.

Brother your problem is psychological i tell u. Sometimes when we are worried it doesn't stand and early in the morning when u r relaxed it will... again if u have too much fat in yr abdomen especially if u drink bear too much, reduce it sometimes enough blood is not coming to it cos of too much fat. Many guys have same issue, so forget it cos the more u worry, the more it will not stand realising u r worried. Another thing is about your type of girl...most times when u r not with yr type u will struggle...lastly is, first start with romance, nice one...bro believe me u have no issue hahahahahaha

Rosella1:


Read nah! Please read well!

Good answer!!
It's baffling how someone will see a complete post with all necessary information and still come out to ask the very question that has been answered. Lazy Nigerian Youth

Hope777:


Bro I have visited at least 4 specialists, they seem to just think my problem is psychological because they don't have a solution.

I will keep on praying about it. Thanks

What I don't understand is how you visited 4 Specialists and they confirmed your case to be psychologically induced, but you being a non-medic were able to make the proper diagnosis all because you had access to Google .

Work with those specialists you've met and let them show you the way in resolving this issue.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

I had similar issue but I realized later it was all in my brain. I started sexual activity when I was a teenager, all through my teenage year till I was 26, I never ejaculated for one day no matter how long I had sex. I spent money going from one hospital to another, they keep telling me it was psychological but I did my research just like you and I was sure I had a condition. After some years, I gave up and decided to use my gift of lasting as long as possible to enjoy myself. I made several promise of huge sum for any one that can make me cum. It didn't happen until one fateful day.my girlfriend seduced me, I didn't think about cumming when we started and just after few minutes, I felt this sensation from all part of my body. Bros I used sperm design our room, I was out of control but I felt very free and pleasured. That was the change of my story till date...God will help you discover your cure. I know nothing is wrong with you, it's just in your head and you need to get it out.

Tchange1:
Your not impotent and never will be ? If your a Christian by spirit read the word of God back to God but if your a Muslim give your life to Christ and read the word of God to back to God.


Pray ooo. Remember all things works together for good for them that love "God"

Some people just shot the door to their brain before picking up thier phones to type. It's people like you that will be having night vigil to cure Malaria, Must you turn every issues to religious ones.. Haba.. He's even saying if he's a Muslim he should give his life to christ as if 90% of the so called clergy men are not fraud... Let the young man seek medical help and go away with your brainwashed mind..

sacx:


What I don't understand is how you visited 4 Specialists and they confirmed your case to be psychologically induced, but you being a non-medic were able to make the proper diagnosis all because you had access to Google .

Work with those specialists you've met and let them show you the way in resolving this issue.

At times a doctor wont like to admit that they dont know what the problem is so they will just blow you off or make you feel like your concerns arent valid

What if actually his gonads have been damaged and he just blindly accepts the doctors opinion instead of investigating more?

amendara1:
Don't give up brother, it's not permanent. A lot of men have been in that situation and come out of it.
Call this no, it really helped me then.
08112286540, 08067373322. Dikko Herbal centre. They are in southwest , oyo, Ibadan, Lagos.
It cost just #1,500.
Best of luck...

thier herbal medicine dey make man last long abi

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Please contact me I might be able to hook you up with someone that can cure this
DM me because I don't like to share my number on here ...peace

kunlegboye:
Please,accept Jesus Christ into your life by repenting of your sins ...He'll fix your life for you...There's a brother like that who is born again,he was impotent completely ,he prayed went and took a wife,prayed yet nothing happened,on the day of wedding after all the ceremonies and was to have the real thing ...He did go to bathroom prayed,and God answered him...the wife didn't know all these while...He gave his testimony later.There's nothing too difficult for God to do...

Will you keep quiet!!

Go and see a surgeon now that you are young, So whatever can be done will be done fast. You'll see the results soon.

Pray hard, with God everything is possible.

NwaAmaikpe:





In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because you can't doggie.

are you not mad like this ahn ahn "can't doggie

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Bros, don't give up on life!

There is still a work around. It does mean u can have sex while lying in bed so you are not impotent.

Secondly, its the valves that are supposed to close and hold the blood that are either not in contact (check attached pix but I'M NOT A DOCTOR O)

Maybe they are supposed to grow farther than their length presently.

I believe you will be fine bro!

Stop adding to the issue at hand by getting unnecessary worried.

Those with normal erections sef do have other issues u might not have.

Live your life jare! U might even meet a lady who will love u for who u are and not necessarily your condition. Or how do u think some people with worse conditions get married?

You are not impotent bro! Always tell yourself that!

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

pls chat with the @thepeoples_doctor on Instagram she's very good at handling this cases contact her asap