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Ikem11:
I don't like reading this kind of stories from weak men. How can you be handicapped in marriage with a woman you paid her bride price.

Oga you dey jobless and your life depends on that woman that's why the only option you can think about to end a married u willingly entered is to vomit suicide.

Even God go build new hell fire for u cos u not worthy of being a man he made you.

You and your likes are disgrace to manhood.

What lead you to a stage you can't make decisions in your home? What stupid weakly love did u enter?

Man up fool and take charge of your home... Even if u can't break your marriage can't you leave the house for her and relocate and start a new life?

Iti mpataka!

akpunda86:
Disgrace and fool to men.

One u are not marred
Two you dont have a girlfriend nor in a relationship
Three you are a kid

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

solmusdesigns:
only two options, and both are very extreme,

i: You either file for a divorce and save your life
or
ii: beat her up so badly in an humiliating humanly degrading manner that can instill lifetime fear in her heart, the kind of beating that would scare her, that any time she sees you her stress level is triggered and she goes into panic mode.. then make love to her afterwards just to mess her up pschologically

Your Marriage is going through power tussle phase, and your wife is already using violence to gain full authority.. however things can change for you in few months or even days....

When the military,police or nysc recruits a stuborn person, they break them with routine punishments and strict iron fist aproach.. no matter how stuborn or difficult a recruit is, the training instills fear of the authority in such recruits.. your wife needs iron fist mind set reprograming through use of apporpraite force and a little bit of loving

Alawode01:
Are you doing all your responsibility?are you not sexually weak.

Ikem11:
I don't like reading this kind of stories from weak men. How can you be handicapped in marriage with a woman you paid her bride price.

Oga you dey jobless and your life depends on that woman that's why the only option you can think about to end a married u willingly entered is to vomit suicide.

Even God go build new hell fire for u cos u not worthy of being a man he made you.

You and your likes are disgrace to manhood.

What lead you to a stage you can't make decisions in your home? What stupid weakly love did u enter?

Man up fool and take charge of your home... Even if u can't break your marriage can't you leave the house for her and relocate and start a new life?

Iti mpataka!

Solsix:
I would have advise to go to God in prayers, but most times we don't wait for God to give us our spouse, we think we can do it all by ourselves, but all hope is not lost, if you can call him he knows how to convert even the most hardened heart

Pat081:
You re not a member of the same church The problem we are having in this country is that we can not think for our self but our pastors do the thinking for us ooo and is better for you to run now b4 it is too late

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

OSUigboFlatHead:
You are you own problem and evil.
Is your brain and heart in her custody?

ricki:
Same mistake I made ...... didn't ask God for a wife and got done.

Contrary to me asking for kid son......I prayed to God and I saw the child in a dream 2 years before conception.

Next time I know what to do......repent and look up to God.

Thank for your wisdom.

sykeng:
My question is, have you starved yourself because you are waiting on God to feed, He has given us everything, hand , brain etc, we have make use of them judiciously, I'm not saying you shouldnt pray to God about marriage but the way you put it is what I didn't like

koyyes:
The only reason a female can pick up a bottle and knife is if she feels her life is constantly being threatened. Meaning the op is a violent person himself but of course he won't tell us that.

I agree that a divorce could solve the problem but what makes you think the violence will end if one or both parties move on ? Most if not all males can not stay alone after a divorce. The next woman he meets may not pick up knife or bottle. She may just poison him straight up or poor hot water on him while he is sleeping.

LilMissFavvy:
I can't just imargine it, using a dangerous weapon to harm a partner, I can't forgive anyone who would do such to me, over my dead body. That's why I avoid toxic people, thanks heaven am lucky! Scary.

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Spatta:
The vivid picture of 85% of today's women. the generation of good women who knows the value of a Home has gradually dissipated, the same goes for about 55% of men who were not properly domesticated. the rate of divorce is alarming.
women of this present age deceive men for sperm, when they get the baby their bad character begin to show and men begin to sing a mournful diddly like this one
all i can say is God "hep" us

stonemasonn:
Agbero marriage