There's nothing like being late in life, when there's life, there's hope and you're not the fire person to have an extra year in school and you will not be the last person. Stay woke!

DOMINGOPAPI:
Practising as a Lawyer without knowing some people or the right connection; you will struggle like it's an hobby

That's where I am right now.

make God ur connection, u will soar high, quit dat mentality, i know a lot of ppl that knew no man, God made a way for them, it's all abt mentality bro, wisen up

Goldenheart:
I lost a friend today...

I'm sure he would rather have an extra year than dying...

You still have life to try again but my friend doesn't have that opportunity ...

Dear op

If you don't like the hand that fate dealth you,
Stop bitching about it and fight for a new one...

my condolences bro, what happened to ur friend, y r young ppl dieing anyhow, wats goin on

Ategberoson:
oops


your negative vibes later succeeded on your academic prowess. even in your write up, you're not taking responsibility for your nonchalant academic life


you hate your mom, you couldn't put her in consideration with your pessimistic view on education with your alternative mindset of learning skills/trading. so how do you think you will succeed in that skills/trade? if you've little setback in trade/skills you will still found yourself in this scenario


I'm not writing for you to feel depressed but please take responsibility for your nonchalant attitudes, taking responsibility will make you to sit tight on what next. not taking responsibility for this your predicament might lead you beyond what you might be unable to handle

I think you are one of the few people that even know what's going on. This is not a matter of picking one's self up. The question is if he even wants to do it in the first place. I think you nailed it! He has to take responsibility for his nonchalant attitude! Other than that, it's the same thing all over again.

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

This is not something you should get all worked-up about... An extra year is just what it is. "extra year". It has nothing to do with your future.

I know of people who actually graduated, passed all their courses but couldn't get cleared for NYSC until after two years due to some complications... Still, they didn't kill themselves.
You were not expelled.
You were not dismissed.
You are not rendered medically unfit.

Come on, pick yourself up, tell your mum what happened. Go on to pass those papers next year, graduate and go on to succeed in life (You sound like someone with a very bright future).

One thing you should know is that there are tens of millions of Nigerian youths who will exchange their situations for your shoes now.

That's just a fact you shouldn't forget.

GREATESTPIANIST:
make God ur connection, u will soar high, quit dat mentality, i know a lot of ppl that knew no man, God made a way for them, it's all abt mentality bro, wisen up

Nice one! Mentality and Hard work! With a faulty mentality, it's hard to want to even work hard!

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

..... Failure is not the end to life... Dust yourself and get the degree.. The fact that you already work on your own and earn is a better start..... That aside, I'm a struggling medical student, could you please help me out on this freelance hustle Please sir @ oyebisiolawal@gmail.com... Thanks

Am a fresh LAW graduate awaiting admission into the Law school, having gone through these years in d Law Faculty,i can say categorically that passing or failing a Law examination has little to do wit ur intelligence, many things happen within that short period in d exams hall and most times even the intelligent students tend to fall victims... Bro relax,life isn't a race and it is no respecter of who gets what first, I will advice u to forget whatever insult frm anyone and go back to rewrite those courses.. Have had seniors who came back to sit for certain courses and today they're doing pretty well as Legal Practitioners... There is more to life to think abt than to conclude that ure a failure over this...#If u fall, stand up; dust urself and give it another try!!!!!

discombobulated!


If you can come up with this grammar you can definitely go back to school and smash those courses.

You have one extra year, not bad. I had at least 2 to 3 extra years, and I've moved on from that. The whole world was against me. Friends and family left me, but God didn't leave me. He was all I needed and at the most trying time with no food to eat, no shoes to wear and no shelter over my head, He was the only partner and friend, and shield and shelter and warmth I had.

It'll will all be a story in a short while.


Cheers

Lol

Oluwapresley:



I think you are one of the few people that even know what's going on. This is not a matter of picking oneself up. The question is if he even wants to do it in the first place. I think you nailed it! He has to take responsibility for his nonchalant attitude! Other than that, it's the same thing all over again.

he already had negative vibes for education and when a student hate a particular course/courses or have alternative mindset to success, they might lost concentration if their psychological trait is not wide


this Op doesn't have problem, is problem was his vibes, he need to tell it to himself that hey I'm at fault but I'll do the correction and not lamenting here


I won't advise him to pick himself, if he like he should, the end justify the means.

I don't know I get mate,that's exact what I'm also facing right now what different is your mother which is my sis...am just thinking of leave the school that had the carry over and apply for another school when jamb is out

Oluwapresley:


Nice one! Mentality and Hard work! With a faulty mentality, it's hard to want to even work hard!

You have said it all.......nice one

sgtponzihater1:
discombobulated!


If you can come up with this grammar you can definitely go back to school and smash those courses.

You have one extra year, not bad. I had at least 2 to 3 extra years, and I've moved on from that. The whole world was against me. Friends and family left me, but God didn't leave me. He was all I needed and at the most trying time with no food to eat, no shoes to wear and no shelter over my head, He was the only partner and friend, and shield and shelter and warmth I had.

It'll will all be a story in a short while.


Cheers

wow, God really did see you through.... I admire your courage, u are a rare gem bro, keep running....

ADIPONECTIN:
Like seriously??

He's got a spill, Wat is he expecting from nairaland, sympathy
Lubbish

He possibly could av avoided it if he paid a little more attention rada dan wasting time on social media.

Just 1year and you are wailing? I left my former school after 3 years n now in year 5 with one more year to go in another school. This means I'll spend 9-10 years as an undergraduate. There are graduates in my class that started from scratch after Nysc. Put yourself in your mother's shoe, may be you'll do the needful.

Ugosample:


carry your sad, miserable, and worthless self out of this thread


Instead of you to keep shut, as you have nothing sensible to say, you are exposing yourself as an irredeemable dimwit.

Others are trying to help him forge ahead

while you are wallowing in perpetual bitterness.

anu ofia di ka gi

@Op
don't listen to this punk
at least you still have hope of redemption

this one is finished in totality

Says the Ipob francophone wannabe who done loose him senses for ivory Coast. Shey na rice, garri and beans u dey there dey sell?

[/b]i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year[b]

You're a very f0olish fellow. If u like allow your stupid pride give your parents hypertension.
Do u know what some of us went through before we finally graduated?
See this mumu o...
Only 2 courses, only 2 o... and you're here crying threatening you won't go back to write the them. Thunder faya u there.
Some of us had extra year that ran into another extra year+ ASUU strike, internal strike etc, still waited 2 years to be mobilized for NYSC but still stayed strong and got good jobs. 8 fvcking years on a 5 year course, but you're here whining over ordinary 2 courses. I no blame you, na people wey dey pet you I blame.

Make the mistake a cousin of mine made by not going to rewrite those papers then graduate and see what real shame is all about.

You think it's all about who first came out of university?

Uncle wey MUMU

Calm down bro! You will do well , when the going gets tough, the tough gets going bro. So stand up and don't give in for that mindset sir.

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

There is nothing God cannot do bro. Just pour out your heart to God, pray like you're talking to your friend because God is your friend and father. Believe for direction on the best steps to take and strength to take them. Trust me , 5-8 months from now you'll look back at this and laugh and thank God

You rise and fall and rise again, You don’t fall and stay down.

EkperemoEgbabi:


Says the Ipob francophone wannabe who done loose him senses for ivory Coast. Shey na rice, garri and beans u dey there dey sell?

If I deal in agric produce and sell in bulk to my customers, and make my money from it, while doing it at my convenience
Is it not better than you who is jobless in NiggerArea, sleeping under the heat with no electricity?
being bitter because of so many negativity around you?



I feel sorry for you lot
I understand when you lash out the way you do
You can't go through Buhari induced suffering and still be normal

So I feel one pain

Do not give up on yourself, i was an extra year but today i have graduated, so be strong

I hope U don't waste advise and I'd be very blunt with U cos God know say na on top sick bed I dey type like this.
First of all, U are a very stupid boy
2mdly, go home and beg Ur mother so U do Ur extra year
All those Ur mate wey graduate, leave them
Una go catch up for life
I waited 9years for my first job
Today even when I talk and my class rep interrupt me, I fit tell boys make dem take slap murder am. What does he know?
I HAVE WORKED IN ALL SECTOR OF THE ECONOMY

U don hear
Be wise

bia! Go back to sch,register and settle down.within 2/3months,u'll be out.Dnt be sad/ashame.E go beta

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

hey dude there is something you have passion for just try and complete skul and go do that thing...period

I remember when the first post hit front page.

@Op have at the back of your mind that if you don't clear those 2 courses then you wasted 5 full years of your life.

Now which is better, wasting 5 or utilising half a year to clear the 2 papers?

It's clear you love your freelance stuff, but in all sincerity it shouldn't stop you from doing well in your academics.

Having a degree certificate, especially in law, can never be a disadvantage rather an advantage. The choice is yours to make, but majority of people advice you to finish what you started 5 years ago.

All the best.

Having an extra year is not the end of the race. Go and finish what you have started, then learn the skill you wish to acquire. You have a story to tell your kids. We all go through certain things so that our kids will have a better life from a well informed parent. Keep fighting for your kids. Gold passes through fire before it becomes pure.

BathingSoap:
Few months ago, i created a thread on front page on how i have lost interest in school and education because of my poor academic performance

https://www.nairaland.com/5253585/help....i-lost-interest-school-pls

Today i just found out that i failed two of my final year papers, thus giving me an extra year, i didn't know at first but as my mom kept pestering me to apply for law school, i had to check the list my school forwarded to Abuja, Garki, for those eligible to apply for law school, and discovered my name was not included.

I was discombobulated because i already made good the due process involved in the application prior to this day, i was advised by colleagues to check my result and lo and behold i failed 2 courses in my second semester yr 5.

I have failed my parents, especially my mom who invested a lot in my schooling, i might not be able to go back to the school for the extra year, i don't even know how to tell my parents, or what to do next, if i had known i would never have attended the uni, rather would have learnt a skill or focused on freelancing but i guess its all too late now.

Please google the below article.

50 Famous People Who Failed at Their First Attempt at Career Success

https://budbilanich.com

Don't give up yet. Resit the 2courses failed and set your eyes on passing them. Your determination to succeed will set you up for success in life. Don't give up.

Ugosample:


If I deal in agric produce and sell in bulk to my customers, and make my money from it, while doing it at my convenience
Is it not better than you who is jobless in NiggerArea, sleeping under the heat with no electricity?
being bitter because of so many negativity around you?



I feel sorry for you lot
I understand when you lash out the way you do
You can't go through Buhari induced suffering and still be normal

So I feel one pain

See mumu wey say I dey suffer. Have u meet me b4 or do u know me? Abi u no dey look person profile b4 u open mouth dey talk like shuegbe?

I no sure say your total business turnover per year reach Wetin I dey use buy diesel for my perkins generator every 2 months.

U better take your time make I no reason ya matter for nairaland. Francophone wannabe.

EkperemoEgbabi:


See mumu wey say I dey suffer. Have u meet me b4 or do u know me? Abi u no dey look person profile b4 u open mouth dey talk like shuegbe?

I no sure say your total business turnover per year reach Wetin I dey use buy diesel for my perkins generator every 2 months.

U better take your time make I no reason ya matter for nairaland. Francophone wannabe.

okay

I don hear you