gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to get the pregnancy aborted , you are wasting your time.

TheDoc:
I AM A MEDICAL DOCTOR (though specialising in ortho-bones not Gynea).

You know where the problem is? Where you got the contraceptives. As far as I know (remember I am not a gynaecologist) there is no injectable contraceptive that last 6 months. Max is 3 months, so the conception is not surprising.

MY ADVICE
1. SEE A GYNAECOLOGIST, preferably in a teaching hospital or a federal medical centre.
2. DON'T ABORT THAT PREGNANCY, your wife is becoming a high risk patient by so doing. That's why gynaecologists routinely ask of number of pregnancies and miscarriages. Minding you in medicine accidental and induced abortions are same i.e all carry risk.
3. NEVER BE SELFISH. in 10 years time your may have attended or close to attending menopause, so what about her?
4. NO CONTRACEPTIVE IS 100%, though some are as effective as 99%
REMEMBER, I be bone doctor not gynae.
CHEERS

Ayotemide:


IUCD is not a killer.

These negative and personal views of contraceptives make literate people sound stupid.

IUCD is not a killer, speak facts or nothing else.

annford:



You both are married and young and you keep aborting your babies? It isn't like it is health-related. You asked for our advice and our advice you'd get; keep your. hands off of each other. Go celibate for ten years, get back together and then have another baby. I have an Uncle who's been married since 1998. He and his Wife have been working hard to get pregnant all to no avail and there you are with your WIFE not your girlfriend but WIFE, busy aborting pregnancies. Really, it is different strokes for different folks.

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to get the pregnancy aborted , you are wasting your time.

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Ogaga87:


Feeling angry about the headline didn't give you chance to read the story very well.... The brother said they don't like fvcking with condom..

mamajj17:


How you manage pass School Cert. my dear? Na joke i dey ooo

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

sinaj:
I expect literate people to read and comprehend my post easily, especially the part where I said it works for some women and doesnt for some.

While it has worked for some, others are having amputation, internal bleeding, ectopic pregnancy , scaring amongst other things which can lead to death if not diagnoised on time.

I expect a literate person to do a simple google search or ask question instead of rushing to counter a post she/he has limited knowledge of

Viking07:
Exactly! Abortion shouldn't be encouraged because it has its health implications - agreed. But what's worse is birthing a child you are not ready to be responsible for. We claim to be very 'religious and self righteous' than the whites yet we are the most corrupt, poverty stricken capital of the world. Breeding like headless chickens, with kids roaming the streets begging and involving themselves with criminals.

Ayotemide:


Don't be dull, I am a family planning expert. Google hold nothing on me; I am simply saying to you that calling it a killer because of some of its side effects is an obvious exaggeration.

You should check Google to help you and prevent sweeping generalisations that increase fear in the potential users of this method.

Raysleek:

Ask Buhari. Who school cert help

safarigirl:


Thw problem occurs when men want to tell women what to do with their bodies.

This man is a wicked man, women are not the only ones that should practice family planning, women are not the only ones who should be putting their bodies at risk to please men. Women have a short time within which they can conceive, but men can conceive till they die

Nobody is against family planning, but constant abortions have adverse effects on a woman, and the last thong we want to read is another man hailing abortions because they have never had to have one.

Tell your fellow man to go for a vasectomy is he wants raw sex, that is the selfless thing to do, no putting his wife through the horrors of abortion.

The USA is closing abortion clinics left and right for a reason. Men also need to put their testicles on the line for the pleasures of raw sex, especially married men. That is why marriage is a partnership, the two partners should bear equal risk, not just the woman.

sinaj:
You call yourself a family planning expert yet you cant pass your message across like a civil person without insult?

So how do you educate your clients? O! I just remembered that you can be anything you want to be online with cheap data and cheaper words.

I am simply saying to you that calling it a killer because of some of its side effects...
Btw from your emboldened post, I can tell you got my message.

GRACIAS!

David160:
keep killing your children

anslem04:




"akamu" is that wat u get, date pple wey see beta food chop ... u beta ask d young gurls around where dey are collectin farmland yoghurt... oju pupa abe jo'na

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

OkongwuTochukwu:
Next time try to do anal sex for family planning. It feels good too.

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

tunjidachosen:


Hummm, it is well. The fact that a child is involve makes the word "mess" completely inappropriate. That pregnancy comes easy for his wife now makes him see it as nothing. Alot of women die trying to give birth to just one. our generation need serious healing

Jgoldie:


This mumu is even yoruba....you have met so many fake bleaching yoruba gals in your lifetime that everyone you met is ala be jona....anyways my baby like it burnt with touch of red berry

anslem04:




lol! u remind of hw d less privilege scramble for burnt jollof back in d days not all men av taste ...are u sayin ur pvssy is so sour he as to cum wit grams of red berry b4 he can eat it .. anoda sufferin n smiling God4bid

sinaj:
Truth is, its difficult to get a good contraceptive and it depends on her body too.

What works for another lady might not work for her. Even the IUCD is a silent killer, pills comes with its wahala too.

Op should just study his wife's cycle so he can tell when she is on her safe period or when she is ovulating so as to know when to use condom and when not to.