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| My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by GentleChief: 9:40am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Honestly, there has been this very severe chest pain am having since yester night I found out that my girl was a serial cheat and prolly a runs girl. Check my posts, you will see that this is my first post in the romance section. Am not a woman basher and am not even a fan of those that do. But my problem is that I have a girl friend that cheats on me serially. She loves me. I can attest to that. I was in love with her too. But it turns out she is sleeping around with different men. I did investigations and found out that am not the only guy in her life. Infact, she sleeps with a guy in her lodge. She is a student. Am on the verge of cancelling her visa process and admission. I want to forget this girl for life. But there is this tingling pain and nudging chest pain I can't just explain. Part of my fear is that I don't really want to start a new relationship. It will mean retraining the new lady to my standard. Should I forgive her? Am certain she has cheated multiple times. Infact, one time she slept with her ex and was bold enough to confess it to me. I really did love her and saw it as the past. But yesterday, she slept with a guy in her lodge. How do I deal with this now? This is not the first time this is happening to me. Only very bad girls keep coming my way. Am not a sissy but a principled guy. N.B I have never cheated on her and was never planning to. Its not that I can't but I won't. Its against my principles. Modified To those thinking am making this up for clout. The last thing on earth I will do is to make up such nonsense. Am not doing this to be noticed by ladies or whoever. I don't do pms and will never pm anybody. So why would people think am making this up? For what? Please advises is what I need. Am taking the ones I need. Thanks. |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by TrollKiller(m): 9:48am On Oct 30, 2019 |
hit like if you want this motherfvcker to keep his god darned story to himself 35 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by kunleweb: 9:49am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Take heart Op |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Darkseid(m): 9:51am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Before we begin, where is Lord Ubunja? |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by GentleChief: 9:57am On Oct 30, 2019 |
This was a woman I was madly in love with. Infact, I was planning to propose to her on her birthday. On code, I have been making plans for her to go to Poland and I go to Germany. She never knew I was 75% successful already with her Polish Visa. I wanted to surprise her with a ring and an interview date for a visa. But it turns out she is sleeping around with different men. Am in the verge of writing her school and cancelling her admission. I also want to rescind her visa application process. My heart is paining me because I really loved her. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Maxxim: 9:58am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Darkseid:Man still dey on ban, missing him already. |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by GentleChief: 10:06am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Please guys, how do you over come heart breaks? I really want to forget this girl forever. But its as if my soul is glued to hers. Anytime she cheats and I want to leave, my heart area will pain me so much. FYI, she is very beautiful, very intelligent, very smart and very knowledgeable. She can pet you like a baby. She can cook like the best chef in the world and is very domesticated. Trust me in assessing this in a human being. This lady is every guys dream. Trust me on this. But I want to forget her. I think am done. Am not a sissy or a wuss like most of you will claim here. Its just something natural. Love is a natural thing. A man is meant to have a mate. But this time around, I want to forget this girl for real before she infects me with a disease or bad luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Kingrexyl(m): 10:07am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Ubunja the truthful modafvcker! |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by xperienced(m): 10:34am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behavior decides who stays in your life. Copied. Copied. Copied 2 Likes |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Beadex1(m): 10:59am On Oct 30, 2019 |
GentleChief:love is a funny thing I know what you are passing through but you have to take your stand as a man and breakup with her, cancel that visa already because those Occidental world gives excessive power to women even if they are wrong. How to forget the hoe is trying to do whatever you always do before you met her... delete all her pics, her favorite songs, abandon the bedding that was you guys favorite and most importantly get Rick ross, Meek mills and other hardcore artist songs on your play box listen to their lyrics and absorbed it. Better girls are out there, don't let fear of the unknown hunt you. 6 Likes |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Angelacruz: 11:26am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Good guys keep attracting bad gals.Sit her down n talk to her |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by blesskewe(f): 11:27am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Shit happens Just try and try Listen to all those hardcore rapping songs |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by nuelsam: 11:51am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Pls....how can i un-read these gaddam bull craps? Even my dog cant be as weak,sissy,silly,vulnerable as these. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Nobody: 11:54am On Oct 30, 2019 |
GentleChief:She Loves me.. Yhen Yhen Yhen. That's the disposition of someone in love ba? Na una sabi 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Phenomenal16(f): 11:58am On Oct 30, 2019 |
GentleChief:...guy I bi like say u get excesses money...its OK oooo.... But wait u used the word " loved"..... Move on....is hard but u av to...... Sorry....take heart ..ur own will come.. That's if this story is true |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by chinchonglee(m): 12:11pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Bros sorry to say this.. YOU ARE A FOOL! Infact u wuld ... Lemme shut up here |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by abdeiz(m): 12:17pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Total load of bull manure story |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Nobody: 12:19pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Take heart. We've been through it too dear, you arent alone. She's the real loser. Atleast you've gotten rid of a cheat. With time you'll look back at all this and laught (true story) Miss right would walk into your life soon enough. For now rock #teamsingle.  |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Kevsmart88(m): 1:26pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Painful and heartbreaking...only someone who has never loved truly wouldn't understand wat you're going thru now...believe me I've been there but i learnt one important truth in the process i will share with U...A woman who truly loves U will never cheat on you for any reason. Often times we confuse attraction with love, love is spiritual, more like a connection u can't explain...it's obvious u love this woman but she was only attracted to U for a reason-cash,good looks,social status etc...pick ursef up bro, move on with ur life, you will find that soulmate you seek....do not shut ur heart to love nor be too quick to love..only time and love can heal a briken heart...best of luck,u deserve beta 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Drkeo: 1:41pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
You knew it was a snake when you picked it up |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Powersurge: 2:00pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
GentleChief: Come make I reformat your brain with this (@the meme). If you have a wife that cheats, know that your days on earth at numbered. And I don't think she deserves the largess. In fact, she is just using you to pass time (like most school relationships). The girl that was paying my guy's fees in school those days was in a serious relationship. Her nigga dey Lagos. He furnished her hostel beyond student standard. Na my guy dey enjoy everything. She was just passing time, even with my guy. Emotion will not make you think right. Do away with emotion and move on. Finally, Like my grandma used to say,Dem no dey tell small pikin to stay away from fire. When he gets burnts,he will learn by experience. peace! 3 Likes
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| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Dollarheist: 2:04pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
abdeiz:
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| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by GentleChief: 4:27pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Beadex1: I think I will go with this advise. Am trying to break every bond with her now. |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by delphinachisom36: 4:34pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
GentleChief: Well, I think the you should move on, she sleeping with different guys as you claim, is wrong of her. If you had confronted her that time she confessed to you of her sleeping with her ex, you would have known why she did it, and would have tried to mend the relationship. But as am seeing it now, it's like your tired of her, so you can stop processimp the Visa for her, think about yourself for a while, get a new girl, or if you don't want that go on outings with friends and other people, it takes a perosns minds off things. Delete everything that related to her, phone, perfume, etc. Anything at all that will trigger her, until you've moved on of course. Wish you luck in this you're recovery process�� |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Homeboiy: 4:35pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
chinchonglee:
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| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by delphinachisom36: 4:35pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Well, I think the you should move on, she sleeping with different guys as you claim, is wrong of her. If you had confronted her that time she confessed to you of her sleeping with her ex, you would have known why she did it, and would have tried to mend the relationship. But as am seeing it now, it's like your tired of her, so you can stop processimp the Visa for her, think about yourself for a while, get a new girl, or if you don't want that go on outings with friends and other people, it takes a perosns minds off things. Delete everything that related to her, phone, perfume, etc. Anything at all that will trigger her, until you've moved on of course. Wish you luck in this you're recovery process�� |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by delphinachisom36: 4:36pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Well, I think the you should move on, she sleeping with different guys as you claim, is wrong of her. If you had confronted her that time she confessed to you of her sleeping with her ex, you would have known why she did it, and would have tried to mend the relationship. But as am seeing it now, it's like your tired of her, so you can stop processimp the Visa for her, think about yourself for a while, get a new girl, or if you don't want that go on outings with friends and other people, it takes a perosns minds off things. Delete everything that related to her, phone, perfume, etc. Anything at all that will trigger her, until you've moved on of course. Wish you luck in this you're recovery process�� |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by GentleChief: 5:20pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Kevsmart88: This is what most people can't see or understand. The bolded in your comment sums up everything. Since morning, am still having that numbing pain in my chest. Its paining me a whole lot. I just wished I can hurt her back but I don't want to. The only problem am having now is how to stop that chest pain for me. Its as if some juju was hit on my heart. Mind you that am not thinking about her. God forbid. Its just anytime her thoughts whizzes past my brain for a moment, I will have this numbing pain. How do I stop this? I have been drinking and its even worse. I think the problem there is that my subconscious is thinking of the life I had planned that was just thrown away. I have been dating this girl for long now (2 years plus). Will I meet another total stranger again and start the whole wooing process again... Which is an annoying experience with terrible Nigerian girls? 1 Like |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by marvin905(m): 5:24pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
wow niggas still fall in love.. just wow.. Op move on and as your moving on cut every contact you have with her for your own sanity..and in your next relationship never let your love be more than your chick.. all this epistle you just wrote show's you love her more than she loves you.. get your act together
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| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by Zonto231(m): 5:57pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Bro I will advise you to break up with her and move on with your life,she doesn't love you one bit,if you try to hold on to that relationship,she LL do worse that you LL never ever be able to recover from the heart break,telling you from experience |
| Re: My Girl I was planning to propose to with a Ring and a Visa Cheats on Me by mrssomebody(f): 6:02pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
There's no manual to this love thing sef..everyone gets their fair share of heartbreak at one point...well if u think u can live with it give her a second chance and let love win  |
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