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I met a lady some years ago, I was with one of my family friend though older than me and I saw a number on his phone then I picked the number when there is still 2go. I added that number and to my surprise the 2go account owner was a averaged lady not that beautiful and not ugly though. I chatted with her with different format as a guy and she happened to come from my parent home town. I talked to her and she accept to come and visit me in Lagos. she's from Ado Ekiti. I took her to eatery and we came back we had sex that day. several rounds like that for like 3days. I gave her money she left. we talked for a while on phone and I stop associating with her since I have achieved my aim.
5years later, I met her again on Facebook and the era of 2go have gone. To my surprise the lady is now more beautiful and I decided to woe her back. now she's now busty and fair and added little wait since I love moderate and busty lady. I decide to rekindle that relationship under the guise that I lost her contact. she also see that I have change I have changed my job and I am able to satisfy her. I have changed my environment. then I invited her to Lagos last year. we had sex and she went back to Ado ekiti. then I just received a call from him and she told me she's at the park claiming she came to visit her brother but when she was going back there is no vehicle. though she informed me she's coming to Lagos but she came earlier than expected. OK I told her no problem I will come and pick her. we had sex that night several rounds. then she left the other day.
last year July and stay for 1week+. then by august she left and the next few days she called me she's pregnant. at first I wanted to reject it since I am not ready. but she managed to call my mom and my hand are tied. she's not the type that support abortion. then she gave birth April 21. but to my greatest surprise I lost my job exactly 7days before delivery. then things started getting worse. though I have accepted her to marry her. age wise she's older than me and academically she's higher than me.
she's a professional nurse but she couldn't get job. I don't really want to explain that area. since I lost that my job I have not been able to get a good job. but now I am thinking because of her or she's having bad luck that's why I lost my job.
I am now throwing it to the house to pls advice me if I should continue the relationship.
besides she is not a good relationship with my mom and I don't know why. thanks

I will advise to pray very well
it so sure that God will help you through.
to say she is bad luck is not visible in your story if to say when you have sex with her the first time and something bad happen to you that can be bad luck or maybe the child is bad luck that passage is confusing.

since I lost that my job I have not been able to get a good job. but now I am thinking because of her or she's having bad luck that's why I lost my job.

Forget the luck of a thing, everyone understand the fact that no job security and also getting a job is hard. This is Nigeria.

Besides she is not a good relationship with my mom and I don't know why. thanks

You mean you don't know? Do you do proper introduction to your mom? How do you want your mother to examine her if she is okay as daughter inlaw? When you presented her with pregnancy? You just want your baby mama to see your mother as witch and your mother to see her also a bad lady.

God will pave way bro, enjoy your girl friend.

agemmy113:
Pls for those people that like to use abusive language you may decide not to comment at all.

I met a lady some years ago, I was with one of my family friend though older than me and I saw a number on his phone then I picked the number when there is still 2go. I added that number and to my surprise the 2go account owner was a averaged lady not that beautiful and not ugly though. I chatted with her with different format as a guy and she happened to come from my parent home town. I talked to her and she accept to come and visit me in Lagos. she's from Ado Ekiti. I took her to eatery and we came back we had sex that day. several rounds like that for like 3days. I gave her money she left. we talked for a while on phone and I stop associating with her since I have achieved my aim.
5years later, I met her again on Facebook and the era of 2go have gone. To my surprise the lady is now more beautiful and I decided to woe her back. now she's now busty and fair and added little wait since I love moderate and busty lady. I decide to rekindle that relationship under the guise that I lost her contact. she also see that I have change I have changed my job and I am able to satisfy her. I have changed my environment. then I invited her to Lagos last year. we had sex and she went back to Ado ekiti. then I just received a call from him and she told me she's at the park claiming she came to visit her brother but when she was going back there is no vehicle. though she informed me she's coming to Lagos but she came earlier than expected. OK I told her no problem I will come and pick her. we had sex that night several rounds. then she left the other day.
last year July and stay for 1week+. then by august she left and the next few days she called me she's pregnant. at first I wanted to reject it since I am not ready. but she managed to call my mom and my hand are tied. she's not the type that support abortion. then she gave birth April 21. but to my greatest surprise I lost my job exactly 7days before delivery. then things started getting worse. though I have accepted her to marry her. age wise she's older than me and academically she's higher than me.
she's a professional nurse but she couldn't get job. I don't really want to explain that area. since I lost that my job I have not been able to get a good job. but now I am thinking because of her or she's having bad luck that's why I lost my job.
I am now throwing it to the house to pls advice me if I should continue the relationship.
besides she is not a good relationship with my mom and I don't know why. thanks

See a clergy or your elders on this issue this needs matured handling. Be careful of bad advice which will come from immature minds

My dear you still hv some Blames anyways, Why were you not protected? Condom would hv helped in this kind of situation! Anyways the Deed has been done! Probably having the Child from her will be a best Option! As for Marriage hmmm am sorry dear, a Woman that goes no well with your Mother is no go Area!!!! Moreso, Money made a Man, invariably think about gettin yrself a Job and leave the rest for God, but for the Pregnancy pls no Abortion. All the very Best dear

Sorry dear, she has a Baby already....Just got it right now....Let Marriage wait for now.....Don't pity when it comes to MARRIAGE pls make no MISTAKE.

Never get married out of condition but do take responsibility for the child

Simply use the small money you have left and start a chemist shop business for her!!!!! She's a nurse, that's enough investment , no one is healthy in Nigeria. With her you're sure of keeping up with family needs as you look for another job. Use your head.

agemmy113:
Pls for those people that like to use abusive language you may decide not to comment at all.

I met a lady some years ago, I was with one of my family friend though older than me and I saw a number on his phone then I picked the number when there is still 2go. I added that number and to my surprise the 2go account owner was a averaged lady not that beautiful and not ugly though. I chatted with her with different format as a guy and she happened to come from my parent home town. I talked to her and she accept to come and visit me in Lagos. she's from Ado Ekiti. I took her to eatery and we came back we had sex that day. several rounds like that for like 3days. I gave her money she left. we talked for a while on phone and I stop associating with her since I have achieved my aim.
5years later, I met her again on Facebook and the era of 2go have gone. To my surprise the lady is now more beautiful and I decided to woe her back. now she's now busty and fair and added little wait since I love moderate and busty lady. I decide to rekindle that relationship under the guise that I lost her contact. she also see that I have change I have changed my job and I am able to satisfy her. I have changed my environment. then I invited her to Lagos last year. we had sex and she went back to Ado ekiti. then I just received a call from him and she told me she's at the park claiming she came to visit her brother but when she was going back there is no vehicle. though she informed me she's coming to Lagos but she came earlier than expected. OK I told her no problem I will come and pick her. we had sex that night several rounds. then she left the other day.
last year July and stay for 1week+. then by august she left and the next few days she called me she's pregnant. at first I wanted to reject it since I am not ready. but she managed to call my mom and my hand are tied. she's not the type that support abortion. then she gave birth April 21. but to my greatest surprise I lost my job exactly 7days before delivery. then things started getting worse. though I have accepted her to marry her. age wise she's older than me and academically she's higher than me.
she's a professional nurse but she couldn't get job. I don't really want to explain that area. since I lost that my job I have not been able to get a good job. but now I am thinking because of her or she's having bad luck that's why I lost my job.
I am now throwing it to the house to pls advice me if I should continue the relationship.
besides she is not a good relationship with my mom and I don't know why. thanks