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hi all,

My wife and I have been married for 5 years but we are having issues. The issues stem from the alot of things which I cannot even begin to describe but let me try.

My wife does not care or know about certain things that make a home or marriage successful. And for me,I don’t want us to have house helps cos my sister and I were abused by different house helps growing up.

My wife cannot maintain a clean environment for a whole day. So,I try to help with the cleaning. Strange for a guy to do right…but so I wont be quarreling,I clean. But she will......


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5yrs only? For that marriage to work you better start liking her behavior o because it was there even before you married her....change the ones you can and try to cope with the ones you can't

If you want your house to be clean,she doesn't know how to clean and you are not comfortable cleaning the house nd you can afford maid better go for it.it will be a win win so far you dont wanna lose her.and don't expect the maid to parent your kids,you both have to do that.maids are not trained parents

Divorce her and marry me

I can imagine it, nothing more worrisome than a dirty partner who doesn't know she's dirty

absolutely!

Tajbol4splend:
I can imagine it, nothing more worrisome than a dirty partner who doesn't know she's dirty

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