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Ketamine9000mg:
I was dating a muslim lady for over a year now. We love each other. We have plans for a life together. I've never met her parents. Recently,we started making plans to take things to the next level. We were happy until she just came one day to my place with tears in her eyes. I was worried and she told me she wouldn't want us to continue. Her reason was I am a Christian and she is a Muslim that Allah will never bless our union unless I become a muslim.

I'm heartbroken and confused.
Please, how can I deal with this?....I really want her in my life.

Ketamine9000mg:
I was dating a muslim lady for over a year now. We love each other. We have plans for a life together. I've never met her parents. Recently,we started making plans to take things to the next level. We were happy until she just came one day to my place with tears in her eyes. I was worried and she told me she wouldn't want us to continue. Her reason was I am a Christian and she is a Muslim that Allah will never bless our union unless I become a muslim.

I'm heartbroken and confused.
Please, how can I deal with this?....I really want her in my life.

Ketamine9000mg:
I was dating a muslim lady for over a year now. We love each other. We have plans for a life together. I've never met her parents. Recently,we started making plans to take things to the next level. We were happy until she just came one day to my place with tears in her eyes. I was worried and she told me she wouldn't want us to continue. Her reason was I am a Christian and she is a Muslim that Allah will never bless our union unless I become a muslim.

I'm heartbroken and confused.
Please, how can I deal with this?....I really want her in my life.

blackpanthar:
YOU MUST BE A FREE THINKER... if you were ever a christian and living in NIGERIA... then how could you ever believe you and her will get married without such issues.

SHE DOES NOT EVEN LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO JOIN YOUR SO CALLED RELIGION..... rather she wants you to prove your love for her by joining ISLAM...

now you are here to FIND AN EXCUSE.



See, stop deceiving yourself bro. IF RELIGION IS AN ISSUE AT THIS STAGE..... IT WILL ALWAYS BE, EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE AND IT WOULD GET WORSE.

so end the relationship if you know that your love for her is NOT deep enough to convert your beliefs to Islam. Her love for you is not deep enough too.


YOU BOTH CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS..... but your relationship was not really COMPLETE without the GOD FACTOR.

maybe you never really knew that MARRIAGE is a UNION OF TWO FAMILIES.... you both were blind from the start to think this RELIGION stuff would not be a major ish.


YOU ARE NOT CONFUSED MY BROTHER, You just want to see who will support your opinion.

Dov3:
I can't believe you dated her for a while and started making future plans without giving any thoughts to how to manage the religious differences.

It is not like it just popped up over night that she is Muslim and you are Christian. Brother, if you didn't have the balls to tell her to convert since, then she has had to grow some balls to tell you

The kind of weak men we are seeing today sha...

Ketamine9000mg:
Personally,I have nothing against any religion...So I didn't and don't have reason to ask her to convert.

Dov3:
Well, she clearly has something against yours .... and you were too myopic to see that and trash it out early. Please do and enrol in a children koranic school closest to you

Kingsteve:
I really empathise with you.
I'm sure she's a northern Muslim, cos they're very strict when it comes to religious matters.

If she was a yoruba muslim, it would've been easier...probably!

If you really love her, and you're sure you can't live without her, then maybe you should consider converting, as long as you can live with the repacurtions.

Things we do for love!
Oh well...

All the best!

TheExecutioner:
Well, since you lacked the intelligence to do the right thing, she did it for you.
A real Christian man or woman would never lower himself or herself or lower his standards by entering into a marriage with someone from the Anti Christ religion.

blinking001:
Straight up.

Ketamine9000mg:
I was dating a muslim lady for over a year now. We love each other. We have plans for a life together. I've never met her parents. Recently,we started making plans to take things to the next level. We were happy until she just came one day to my place with tears in her eyes. I was worried and she told me she wouldn't want us to continue. Her reason was I am a Christian and she is a Muslim that Allah will never bless our union unless I become a muslim.

I'm heartbroken and confused.
Please, how can I deal with this?....I really want her in my life.

Ketamine9000mg:
Personally,I have nothing against any religion...So I didn't and don't have reason to ask her to convert.

DC49:
I understand your pain man because I've been on that road before.
My own little advice is that you really need to sit down and evaluate if you truly can't live without this girl. Our minds do play these cruel tricks on us sometimes, causing things that were not as if they were.
If you are sure that your love is absolute, then convert, else, walk away.

Though, personally I don't think changing your fundamental beliefs because of love only is the wise thing. Nothing lasts forever.

#thethingswedoforlove

sykeng:
Don't mind those fanatics, look for a free thinker like you to date, religion is a virus to mankind. Anybody who want to convert me to any western ideology aside science na breakup straight, I'm better off alone than to expose my mind for extremists to pollute.

DC49:
I understand your pain man because I've been on that road before.
My own little advice is that you really need to sit down and evaluate if you truly can't live without this girl. Our minds do play these cruel tricks on us sometimes, causing things that were not as if they were.
If you are sure that your love is absolute, then convert, else, walk away.

Though, personally I don't think changing your fundamental beliefs because of love only is the wise thing. Nothing lasts forever.

#thethingswedoforlove

blackpanthar:
YOU MUST BE A FREE THINKER... if you were ever a christian and living in NIGERIA... then how could you ever believe you and her will get married without such issues.

SHE DOES NOT EVEN LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO JOIN YOUR SO CALLED RELIGION..... rather she wants you to prove your love for her by joining ISLAM...

now you are here to FIND AN EXCUSE.



See, stop deceiving yourself bro. IF RELIGION IS AN ISSUE AT THIS STAGE..... IT WILL ALWAYS BE, EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE AND IT WOULD GET WORSE.

so end the relationship if you know that your love for her is NOT deep enough to convert your beliefs to Islam. Her love for you is not deep enough too.


YOU BOTH CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS..... but your relationship was not really COMPLETE without the GOD FACTOR.

maybe you never really knew that MARRIAGE is a UNION OF TWO FAMILIES.... you both were blind from the start to think this RELIGION stuff would not be a major ish.


YOU ARE NOT CONFUSED MY BROTHER, You just want to see who will support your opinion.

jhubril:
MAJORITY OF YOU are too hypocritical to even realise it. Why would you expect a MUSLIM LADY TO CONVERT TO CHRISTIANITY in the name of one yeye love when IT'S VERY DIFFICULT / IMPOSSIBLE for you CHRISTIANS to allow your daughters to marry a Muslim . Even though Islam allows Muslim men to marry Christian ladies without forcing them to convert to Islam , I don't think that's possible anymore in the Islamic fold. We can't continue to lose our Muslim sisters in the South as you guys can't reciprocate a simple act of interreligious marriage. Guy, see look elsewhere for your wife to avoid confusion in your marriage.

My gf is a Christian and I am glad to inform you that she's has converted to ISLAM without forcing her to do so.

kkins25:
People underestimate the power of what love is. Even jehova succumb to the power of love for it is written in the famous Scripture john 3:16, which I shall paraprase, for God so loved the world that he had to sacrifice his son who he loved less, for that which he loved the most. Love is the True God.
He who thinks he can control his God aka Love is but a mighty fool. I recommend Op should petition love to free himself from this burden Love has placed upon his shoulders. Love is a God who can only be petitioned via a god called reason.

kkins25:
Hahaha..
The girl knows just as you are also aware that Allah has little tolerance for defectors unlike jehova having repented from his tyranny now condones defectors, and opens his hands to all flesh and bones from all nations and race.
Being a serpent that her feminine nature has gifted her, the lady had done her homework and realised that jehova would have no problem with the guy defecting to islam- decided to lure the guy to her side. The fear of Allah's servants in situations like this is the beginning of wisdom.

kkins25:
Hahaha..
The girl knows just as you are also aware that Allah has little tolerance for defectors unlike jehova having repented from his tyranny now condones defectors, and opens his hands to all flesh and bones from all nations and race.
Being a serpent that her feminine nature has gifted her, the lady had done her homework and realised that jehova would have no problem with the guy defecting to islam- decided to lure the guy to her side. The fear of Allah's servants in situations like this is the beginning of wisdom.