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Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by tommyken(m): 8:15am On Feb 15
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Davash222(m): 8:16am On Feb 15
Aftermaths of valentine.

Brace up guys, more are still coming.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Privatepart00: 8:18am On Feb 15
Your word is 100$ in order .

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by ayomikuolatunji(m): 8:20am On Feb 15
Nice one from you nigga... Don't give her face again.Give her the attitude until she leaves. Don't give a Bleep about her. Don't continue with a cheating partner.... Never try that. Remember the future. Women now cheat like men. Not all sha but large percentage of them. Be a alpha male with sound future and money in the account. Settle with an achieved woman not a all the hoes parading as girlfriend. My own advice oo

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Oreofepeters(f): 8:20am On Feb 15
You said well my guy
One of my ex did this to me, thought I will be jealous I just told her "Jealousy" is not part of my personality

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Kiddllc: 8:27am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??

You are in order bro.. If spreading her legs for every pipe to penetrate is how she tests ur love for her then she's already a lost cause. Keep focusing on urself & the one that will complement u is on her way. This one isn't urs but ours.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Offpoint: 8:28am On Feb 15
Take this bro, I don't know you or who you are... but take this.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by DominusPrime: 8:44am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??
No. It shows you haven't placed her as a priority over more important things in your life. She's a woman. They come and go but that thing or business or education you are chasing, if you get it, it's yours for life. The more you build yourself, the more women you get attracted to you, and the less you have to stress yourself to get women.
If u walk into a place full of women and u look good, good car, dress well, you'd do less to get them but if you enter that same place and you pick one in the name of stupid love without achieving much in life first and spend months and money on her, your dreams will slow down, expenses on her will increase over time and you will be the loser in the end. Except in rare cases of girls who love even in poverty.
You are what people call an alpha male...
Believe me most girls love men like you as well as are scared of falling in love with men like you but they can't help it.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Blu03: 8:46am On Feb 15
I actually love your reaction.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by tommyken(m): 9:00am On Feb 15
Offpoint:
Take this bro, I don't know you or who you are... but take this.
Thanks bro, but I have stop taking achohol last year.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by MightySirKay(m): 9:28am On Feb 15
ayomikuolatunji:
Nice one from you nigga... Don't give her face again.Give her the attitude until she leaves. Don't give a Bleep about her. Don't continue with a cheating partner.... Never try that. Remember the future. Women now cheat like men. Not all sha but large percentage of them. Be a alpha male with sound future and money in the account. Settle with an achieved woman not a all the hoes parading as girlfriend. My own advice oo
I'm having same issue too. I told my gf that i love her so much that i want her by my side forever and that i'm holding unto her loosely to let her go if she thinks that's the best option for her. Babe has been mad at me since oo. She said i don't love her again and that i'm pushing her away. This is something i've been telling her since we started dating 4 years ago. She's a very good and loyal girl though, the best girl i have ever been with.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Omar09(f): 9:30am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??

Oh my God. Look at you. A girl cheats on you and you remain calm and still relate with her on girlfriend boyfriend level? Gee.. It will be worse if you accepted her back. Because she did it once and you were cool, she'd do it again. And again.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Omar09(f): 9:31am On Feb 15
ayomikuolatunji:
Nice one from you nigga... Don't give her face again.Give her the attitude until she leaves. Don't give a Bleep about her. Don't continue with a cheating partner.... Never try that. Remember the future. Women now cheat like men. Not all sha but large percentage of them. Be a alpha male with sound future and money in the account. Settle with an achieved woman not a all the hoes parading as girlfriend. My own advice oo

I think it's better to call it quit than give her attitudes. It doesn't show how mature one is by giving attitude.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Romeo3(m): 9:33am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??
You are the real MVP!!!!

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Akinbahm(m): 10:19am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??

She was expecting you to be a sissy and reverse seems to be the case (Alpha)

Your refusal to confront her shows how manly u are, lady can't withstand a Man they cant overpower that's why they always deploy emotional manipulation consciously/unconsciously tactics just to bring you down to their emotional level.

Never you try to prioritize girl over all your dealings let them prove more than enough b4 u give that attention to them.

Concerning your girl I would suggest you free her to give space for the loyal girl coming your way cause I dont buy the ideology of cheating to test one loyalty...
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Mazk: 10:37am On Feb 15
One way to show she love you is by cheating? or you meant to love her while she is meant to cheat?.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Mazk: 10:39am On Feb 15
Omar09:


I think it's better to call it quit than give her attitudes. It doesn't show how mature one is by giving attitude.
quitting must not be officially. You learn to read signs
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Mazk: 10:40am On Feb 15
Omar09:


Oh my God. Look at you. A girl cheats on you and you remain calm and still relate with her on girlfriend boyfriend level? Gee.. It will be worse if you accepted her back. Because she did it once and you were cool, she'd do it again. And again.
he have a future to build
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by MiVida(m): 11:03am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??
I had to login because of you bro... You're a real real man! Wow!


You got balls my guy! I applaud you for this honestly.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Headlesschicken(m): 11:06am On Feb 15
undecided One of these days one of u fellows would open a thread asking we fellows how to wipe yuh a$$ after using the latrine...
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by doublegoldcrown: 11:12am On Feb 15
tommyken:
I discover she is cheating on me with a guy in her IT but I played cool and pretended like I was blind, deaf and I dont care. yesterday valentine she came to my house and while we discussing she told me I dont truely love, that if I do I should have confronted her or the guy that she wanted me to get jealous to test my love for her.

I sat her down and told her I have more important things to worry about in my life and I have a future to build instead of worrying about who she is cheating with or not. She left with her anger and told me its over and I said the word OK. In the evening she came back and began to apologise for leaving with anger in the afternoon.

Does my refuser to confront her or the guy she is cheating actually shows I dont love her??
You males are so confident in your playa tactics, yet you can't recognize when a girl is playing you. During her 'angry time', she has gone to meet someone else for valentine's day.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by MedicH: 11:16am On Feb 15
Local man salutes you man.

Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by MedicH: 11:18am On Feb 15
doublegoldcrown:

You males are so confident in your playa tactics, yet you can't recognize when a girl is playing you. During her 'angry time', she has gone to meet someone else for valentine's day.

No problem

Prostitutes are bound to have many clients and expand their frontiers. Op is sensible enough to understand that it's not worth the sweat.
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Bola146(f): 11:27am On Feb 15
She is a real prostitute, for doing something wrong and she didn't ever say sorry for the first time, haba. And you said OK And she came back begging sad You better face the devil and let her be ashamed. Kindly face the reality of life, let her go, a cheat will always be a cheat, I hate nonsense cry Let her go!
Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Akinbahm(m): 1:29pm On Feb 15
doublegoldcrown:

You males are so confident in your playa tactics, yet you can't recognize when a girl is playing you. During her 'angry time', she has gone to meet someone else for valentine's day.

She wanted to come and blackmail OP to take her out and he was successful by not buying to that manipulation by not giving the damn Bleep

Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by tommyken(m): 1:31pm On Feb 15
doublegoldcrown:

You males are so confident in your playa tactics, yet you can't recognize when a girl is playing you. During her 'angry time', she has gone to meet someone else for valentine's day.
I dont care anylonger, when am ready to settle down I will dump her. As for now let me be using to quench my urge.

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Re: Does It Mean I Dont Love Her By Not Confronting Her? by Ekemeze: 1:54pm On Feb 15
OP don swallow the redpill.
Weldon ma nigga

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