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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ireneidiva(f): 5:07am On Nov 10, 2019
Thermodynamics:


A woman is inferior to a man, I have nothing against women, but that's a fact.

The only thing a woman can do that a man cannot do is to get pregnant and give birth.

But there are tons of things a man can do that a woman cannot.

Don't get it twisted, I love women so much, they make the world interesting and fun to live in, without them, the world would be dry, I personally can't stay without a woman.

But

Men are superior to women, it's just a fact, that's just how life is.
And what can a man do that a woman can't?
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Myhusband(m): 5:14am On Nov 10, 2019
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villagecraft:
If anyone sees a woman as inferior to men. He himself is inferior.
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women are tools in the hand of men. lately average Nigerian girls can't survive without waiting for their guys to drop sth


it's your right to give me money and take care of me, this is a phrase from average Nigerian girls and you're telling me such gender aren't inferior to men

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by awoluyi(m): 5:36am On Nov 10, 2019
Bacteriologist:
What right do the older generation think they have to give the average Nigerian youth life advice after they ruined the country with negligence, incompetence, corruption and overreligiousness?

Was this the country our great grandfathers left for you? Now don't dare try to heap the blame on our mentality for a problem you all caused.

Think and do something about the present situation so that your children too will not blame you for destroying their future.
Be part of the generation that will stop the blame game. Stop complaining about what your parents didn't do well, generation next to yours will praise you only for what you did well.
Learn how to "GROW THROUGH WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. "

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by NewAgeLagos: 5:44am On Nov 10, 2019
My brother, really appreciate this acknowledgement because our young ones mind-set has to be re-oriented.
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by thaler(m): 6:03am On Nov 10, 2019
Number 2 & 4 is the real deal. Nice write-up Op
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Premiumwriter: 6:20am On Nov 10, 2019
nlPoster:


This is one of the faulty foundations in question.

Civilization is not something you should be badmouthing, moreso you are typing on the internet.

It's better to be a civilized barbarian than a mannerless exciter.

and what exactly is the difference between a civilized barbarian and a mannerless exciter?

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Premiumwriter: 6:24am On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

And what can a man do that a woman can't?
a lot of things.

Even psychologically, it's default for women to bequeath the leading role to a man.

These things are ingrained deep inside us. We can all deny with our mouth but when push comes to shove, a woman will know a man is still the man

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Arizonaguy(m): 6:31am On Nov 10, 2019
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn

I feel you my nigggar from another mother
What an epistle but a nice article
Real niggarrrz read so i was able to read everything

But i must tell you my nigggar
You must do some real dope shit in this life for your money to grow like grass
Don't just go slow like injured snail or injured sloth. You must do shit
We want to roll with our ride( benz, Glk) now
Not three years later

Rick Ross: when you master the huzzle then you conquer the struggle

50cent: get rich or die while trying

Future: they got blood on the money but i will still count it

French Montana: school teaches us how to read but the street teaches us how to read between the lines

21savage: when your money is coming too slow you better think quick and do shit

Meek mill: lets do shit so that God can protect us from brokeness

Lilwayne: life is all about making dope money, pussy and weed

Young thug: if this rap game don't work am going to go into bank robbery

Migos: lets do shit so we won't stay broke for too long because brokeness is not of the lord
All these guys you mention gave an insight from their own perspective
It would be wrong and misleading to adopt their perspective
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Hypocrit: 7:29am On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
Yesterday, they were playing one song sang by a student in my compound.

its went like 'school na scam'

basically the same thing over and over again. surprisingly they all agreed with the singer.

school really is one of the best thing that has happened to me. i believe education is one of the greatest gift mankind has. i wonder the sudden hatred for school among nigerian youth.

formal education may not have achieved its full purpose in this country, but i can tell you that alot has changed in our youth ( consciously and subconsciously) due to education.

One main reason people look down on education this days is because of unavailability of jobs for graduate.

Even the knowledge of the rebellious education song and its concept was brought about through formal education. But they don't know it.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ireneidiva(f): 7:34am On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
a lot of things.

Even psychologically, it's default for women to bequeath the leading role to a man.

These things are ingrained deep inside us. We can all deny with our mouth but when push comes to shove, a woman will know a man is still the man
I asked you to name something. You couldn't. Nothing was ingrained in me, I was not raised like that. So speak for yourself. And remember to teach your daughters that their brothers are superior to them. I really don't know how some of you were raised. *shudders*.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Premiumwriter: 7:42am On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

I asked you to name something. You couldn't. Nothing was ingrained in me, I was not raised like that. So speak for yourself. And remember to teach your daughters that their brothers are superior to them. I really don't know how some of you were raised. *shudders*.
A man is superior. Stronger. Fearless. Domineering. More resolute. And always in control.

If this makes you shudder, then go look for a MAN to hold you. He's not easily shocked

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Premiumwriter: 7:44am On Nov 10, 2019
Hypocrit:
formal education may not have achieved its full purpose in this country, but i can tell you that alot has changed in our youth ( consciously and subconsciously) due to education.

One main reason people look down on education this days is because of unavailability of jobs for graduate.

Even the knowledge of the rebellious education song and its concept was brought about through formal education. But they don't know it.
I believe our biggest problem in this country is people equating education with job.

They have this entitlement mentality that after graduation, they 'should' be given a job.

Once they are not given that job, then school becomes a scam.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Hypocrit: 7:45am On Nov 10, 2019
Route99:

The books you just mentioned (Rich Dad and Poor Dad and The Richest man in Babylon) are very good books. Get knowledge and find a way to make it fit into your present society/situation/age.
they are actually good as per the motivation in them; which will invoke some strength, sense of purpose in you.

But concerning how the society works, how wealth is made and the economy revolves; is archaic and mostly don't fit into our society.

these books are written to induce sales rather which only can be done by appealing to the emotions of the reader which they do through lots of sugar coating which may not be true in the real sense.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Hypocrit: 7:48am On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
I believe our biggest problem in this country is people equating education with job.

They have this entitlement mentality that after graduation, they 'should' be given a job.

Once they are not given that job, then school becomes a scam.
this can never be far from the truth.
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by vikstandon(m): 7:52am On Nov 10, 2019
Kingbenn:
Your last point is the koko,every fucking individual can't fucking be an entrepreneur,you just need to know who you are but not Nigeria youth,everyone wanna sell shoes and bags . Nonsense shildren


Yea...you just said 'Bleep individuals'...bleeped individuals are bleeped and don't belong to this thread.

Please can u go and find ur mates somewhere else!

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by dangoteinlaw: 8:07am On Nov 10, 2019
Kingbenn:
Your last point is the koko,every fucking individual can't fucking be an entrepreneur,you just need to know who you are but not Nigeria youth,everyone wanna sell shoes and bags . Nonsense shildren
you nailed it. Everyone wants an office job, they don't wanna sweat, all they claim to do is sell Gucci bags and shoes especially these so called lekki babes. Spits

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by dangoteinlaw: 8:09am On Nov 10, 2019
Americanboy35:

No mind them, human hair too
then they will now hype the price and tell u that it was made by husspuppi like one fool told me LMAO ... literacy isn't about the kpali, Nigeria youths are still neck deep in illiteracy.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by dangoteinlaw: 8:12am On Nov 10, 2019
Hypocrit:
our youths also need to stop reading some of these so called motivational/inspirational books like, rich dad poor dad, don't go to school if you want to be rich, richest man in Babylon etc

is either they are archaic, don't fit into our society or not realizable in our age.


They are so much mix with so much lies that could appeal to public emotion and induce sales.
I swear u spoke my mind. That book rich dad poor Dad is a bad influence. I have the PDF but stopped reading it when I realized what it's all about. I am always afraid of educated ppl that tell u education is a waste of time, my brother fear such ppl coz they bring ruins to generations.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ZinoFasisi: 8:29am On Nov 10, 2019
Thermodynamics:

But there are tons of things a man can do that a woman cannot.
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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Nobody: 8:36am On Nov 10, 2019
dangoteinlaw:
I swear u spoke my mind. That book rich dad poor Dad is a bad influence. I have the PDF but stopped reading it when I realized what it's all about. I am always afraid of educated ppl that tell u education is a waste of time, my brother fear such ppl coz they bring ruins to generations.
Everyone with his own stroke... I personally learned a lot from the rich dad poor dad .. It all boils down to ur ability to take it apart till u find the gold.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

I asked you to name something. You couldn't. Nothing was ingrained in me, I was not raised like that. So speak for yourself. And remember to teach your daughters that their brothers are superior to them. I really don't know how some of you were raised. *shudders*.
When u put it like that... U bother it along the lines of misogyny and bigotry.. Men and women have different makeup and personal differences that kinda complements each other.. The ability to focus on a single idea till its completion puts a man in a superior position to their female counterparts and the use of logic over emotions.. Though I wouldn't advise anybody to go about saying how men are superior as that would make you an arsehole

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by villagecraft: 9:19am On Nov 10, 2019
sonature1:


Most of our ladies are doing well, so it's good to encourage them to do even greater things.

With that being said, comparing them to guys is just irrational, to say the least.

Even women know that guys are miles ahead of them in everything. Stop the comparison because there's no basis for it.

By design, men and women are never meant to be equals...we just complement each other.

You’re right, very right except for the first line in your last paragraph. And if we should go by the last sentence which I agree to, that means seeing the one as a partner, one who can do the things you cannot or could not.

If this remains true, then a REAL woman isn’t inferior, she may not be equal to a REAL man but she is herself, gets and gives assistance to the man like the Real man does also.

I bet you know. Many Nigerian women are breadwinners, warriors and pillars of their households.

God bless the men who appreciate the real women in their lives.

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ireneidiva(f): 11:15am On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
A man is superior. Stronger. Fearless. Domineering. More resolute. And always in control.

If this makes you shudder, then go look for a MAN to hold you. He's not easily shocked
Just listen to yourself. Are all men stronger, domineering etc? You've not met strong and domineering women?
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Premiumwriter: 11:23am On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

Just listen to yourself. Are all men stronger, domineering etc? You've not met strong and domineering women?
No
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ireneidiva(f): 11:24am On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
No
Why am I not surprised
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by nlPoster: 12:03pm On Nov 10, 2019
Premiumwriter:
A man is superior. Stronger. Fearless. Domineering. More resolute. And always in control.

If this makes you shudder, then go look for a MAN to hold you. He's not easily shocked

This sounds like a mills and boon man ie fantasy.

Do the whiners on nl fit this description?

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Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Kingbenn(m): 12:23pm On Nov 10, 2019
vikstandon:



Yea...you just said 'Bleep individuals'...bleeped individuals are bleeped and don't belong to this thread.

Please can u go and find ur mates somewhere else!
Hope you have eaten
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 10, 2019
Hypocrit:
they are actually good as per the motivation in them; which will invoke some strength, sense of purpose in you.

But concerning how the society works, how wealth is made and the economy revolves; is archaic and mostly don't fit into our society.

these books are written to induce sales rather which only can be done by appealing to the emotions of the reader which they do through lots of sugar coating which may not be through in the real sense.
I'll like to know how the books I mentioned don't fit into our society/how the economy revolves. Also, really didn't see any sugar coating in those books too. Maybe we all expect different things when we read books. To me, the message from those books were simple and true, in the context of basic understanding of wealth creation.
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by ireneidiva(f): 1:22pm On Nov 10, 2019
Mrpsly247:

When u put it like that... U bother it along the lines of misogyny and bigotry.. Men and women have different makeup and personal differences that kinda complements each other.. The ability to focus on a single idea till its completion puts a man in a superior position to their female counterparts and the use of logic over emotions.. Though I wouldn't advise anybody to go about saying how men are superior as that would make you an arsehole
So all the women around you use emotions over logic? You need to change your environment. If you think like this, you are really an......
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Nobody: 1:31pm On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

So all the women around you use emotions over logic? You need to change your environment. If you think like this, you are really an......
Woww... If u really think like u write then u must be really sad. And lonely
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by Nobody: 1:46pm On Nov 10, 2019
ireneidiva:

So all the women around you use emotions over logic? You need to change your environment. If you think like this, you are really an......
Hmmm. 90% is approximately equal to 'all'. There will definitely be exceptions to the default mode. I'm not here to say who is superior or define what superiority means. I just think you don't need to fight facts to prove your opponent wrong.
Re: 5 Mentalities Nigerian Youths Must Drop To Succeed - Experts.ng by nlPoster: 2:03pm On Nov 10, 2019
How do women use emotions over logic when they are not the visual ones?


I'd say both genders are emotional. Women in their own way, men in theirs.

Logic is not a function of gender but the individual.

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