Mr Ubunja has been awesome, Your concept of the Chosen was flawless, simply by elevating your self especially by look, your attract a Hot bae that will worship you and you can without sweat be the alpha male.
For those with more resources, Polygamy puts a man in high up in the Alpha male position, Two women fighting for your attention. Due to my Christian faith, I'm against cheating and affairs. Bible never condemns polygamy, just that most instances in the bible didn't end well. The one man one wife rule was simply a rule of thumb. When person wife dey do somehow, taking another chosen one can make her sit up. I'm open to discussion on the above, I just came across Ubunja last weekend and I'm all Respect, The God that made him gave Us beta men as the society groomed us a Divine gift. Let me continue to digest his threads. Lol.
Chiggsglover: Mr Ubunja has been awesome, Your concept of the Chosen was flawless, simply by elevating your self especially by look, your attract a Hot bae that will worship you and you can without sweat be the alpha male.
For those with more resources, Polygamy puts a man in high up in the Alpha male position, Two women fighting for your attention. Due to my Christian faith, I'm against cheating and affairs. Bible never condemns polygamy, just that most instances in the bible didn't end well. The one man one wife rule was simply a rule of thumb. When person wife dey do somehow, taking another chosen one can make her sit up. I'm open to discussion on the above, I just came across Ubunja last weekend and I'm all Respect, The God that made him gave Us beta men as the society groomed us a Divine gift. Let me continue to digest his threads. Lol.
CC Ubunja CCmartinez...
and the irony is that the more women you have the less stressful they are.
so true another thing I noticed is if yr good in bed the more women u get because women got pride they boast of ur sex skills to friends and boom
back in the day I used to hear stories of women pooling money together to rent a room for a guy so they could have ready access to him. It was unbelievable for me. For Love women will never share, but for Lust women will share.
it's like Quantum Physics. When dealing with matter at the tiniest levels the rules of physics change and spooky things happen.
Same with women issues, the more women you deal with at the same time the more the rules that apply to a 1 woman setup change and spooky things start happening. By spooky I mean unbelievable. Not ghostly. E.g when you screw a woman it's you VS the woman. But a 3sum with 2 women and 1 guy is Woman vs Woman with the man as the playground. Women are competing to please you. And that right there is rules changed.
ubunja: it's like Quantum Physics. When dealing with matter at the tiniest levels the rules of physics change and spooky things happen.
Same with women issues, the more women you deal with at the same time the more the rules that apply to a 1 woman setup change and spooky things start happening. By spooky I mean unbelievable. Not ghostly. E.g when you screw a woman it's you VS the woman. But a 3sum with 2 women and 1 guy is Woman vs Woman with the man as the playground. Women are competing to please you. And that right there is rules changed.
Wow, this is so true. Let me paraphrase by using my field In Economics, when the supply is too much, the value and the price of it drops. Let me use Gold n water, water is of vital use to us, Gold is useless to us. The only difference is the scarcity of Gold. Two wifey also, you are the scarce one.
ubunja: it's like Quantum Physics. When dealing with matter at the tiniest levels the rules of physics change and spooky things happen.
Same with women issues, the more women you deal with at the same time the more the rules that apply to a 1 woman setup change and spooky things start happening. By spooky I mean unbelievable. Not ghostly. E.g when you screw a woman it's you VS the woman. But a 3sum with 2 women and 1 guy is Woman vs Woman with the man as the playground. Women are competing to please you. And that right there is rules changed.
ubunja a descendant from Adam but wiser than Adam in view of Eve's manipulation.Welcome from the journey,blessed amongst the male folks are you, greater miseducation are you delivering.
The modern version of feminism is only possible due to capitalism, and if we understand one thing about capitalism, it is that it cares only about profit. Now, women drive about 80% of consumer purchasing, they spend more than men and usually make most buying decisions for their families. Go to the cinema, shopping mall, in fact just observe, you'll see that most men will live a frugal life when there is no woman in their life. You hardly see men going to the cinema, bar, or shopping unless with a woman.
Your average bachelor is comfortable living in a one-room or jumping okada every day. Men are simple creatures. It is the need to procreate and have a chance with women that drives most men to succeed and compete. Just as guys will borrow a car to get girls, that kind thing. If not for women, giant corporations won't exist. Since men by nature are the expendable workhorse, sacrificial, and express love by giving, corporations will hide under feminism and financially rape men through women. For example, smoking was a male thing in the past, and feminism convinced women that smoking too was about equality and a direct smashing of the patriarchy, and automatically, the revenue from smokers doubled, as half the population started smoking. To this effect, you may check out the documentary on youtube titled ''The century of self''.
Having said that, billion-dollar corporations have massive incentive to back up feminism and worship this shit test, to appeal to women since they are the cash cow. The consequence is that it destroys men, and destroy society as well. The reason why the radical, crazy type of feminism hasn't crept fully into Nigeria is that we ain't that fully developed yet with lots of wealth, just as feminism is yet to creep into poorer European and Asian societies.
Feminism is cancer, and sadly, the women spearheading it are drunk under the idea that their cause is a noble act, but nothing more than the destruction of the social fabric and cohesion humanity thrives on, and will extinct on.
What if one makes his partner sign a contract where they both are married, but once divorced, no property gets to be shared unless the husband was found to be an infidel. Same goes for wife too.
Cause the way sh!ts are going, I don't think I would want to get married.
I heard Trump did something like that prenuptial agreement
You are innocently naive (no pun intended, I was too).
It is not about if you can prove beyond doubt that she signed it, it is about a system that is designed to absorb her of any responsibility whatsoever. She is treated as a child that can not be held accountable for her actions or behavior. Here is a ridiculous example for you.
In 1993 (case Hermesmann_v._Seyer), a 13-year-old boy that was raped by her nanny, who was 17, and he was required by the Kansas court to pay child support. She was not punished, and the boy, a victim of rape saddled with the responsibility of paying the child. This has been used as a landmark case to require men to pay child support, regardless if he is a victim or not. Now reverse the situation and tell me, if feminists will not march to the street and scream patriarchy. So if a kid is punished this unfairly, imagine an adult male.
Their best bet is not to get married, or if they must, go to a country where they will not be punished for being a man. This is why you see thousands, if not millions of Westerners scattered all over Asia, South America, and some Eastern parts of Europe, where women are still feminine and have not been poisoned by the feminism nonsense of patriarchy. ANd you have the MGTOW's who have boycott women, with an ever-dwindling number of men getting married and for a good reason. The same is going on in Japan now, and it's even worse there. over 61% of Japanese men (known as the herbivore men or sōshoku-Kei danshi) in their 20's do not want to get married or have a girlfriend, and the number rises to 70% for men in their 30's. The Japanese govt is hopeless trying to reverse the situation, has Japanese population is constantly on the decline.
If a beautiful girl that you're totally crazy for says something totally crazy, like:
"The sun rises from the South",
do you: (A) Keep quiet to keep the peace? (B) Agree with her to stay in her good graces? (C) Disagree, set her straight, most likely angering her and getting yourself rejected?
THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF. If you choose A or B YOU LOSE. These are a weak man's choices. A desperate man's selections. You present the best version of yourself by choosing C.
That's how you showcase your manliness: By disagreeing and standing for the truth that you know.
Choosing A or B makes you a Nice Guy who tells women what they want to hear. You can't be trusted.
But a manly man is not afraid to say it like it is. He's ever-truthful with a woman: "No, the sun rises from the East".
Your ability to stand for what you believe at the risk of offending, upsetting or losing a girl sets you apart as a genuine man of principle who can't be swayed by beauty or pussy. It makes you desirable to a female to stand for unpopular truth because it shows balls.
If you tell a girl the truth and you lose her it's OK because losing a girl by having balls is far better than winning a girl by having no balls because the girl you win by having no balls first of all DOES NOT RESPECT YOU.
THE VALUE OF RESPECT. A woman is allowed not to love you.
Women have no love to give, except to their children. A woman will die 100 times for her child but never for the father of her child. Love from a woman is a miracle. But what a woman must give her man, what is non-negotiable, is RESPECT.
Your duty as a man is to retain your woman's respect at all times. That's critical.
Respect doesn't guarantee faithfulness, but there's a difference between how a woman who respects you will cross you vs how a woman who doesn't respect you will cross you:
A woman who doesn't respect you will cheat on you in your house, on your bed, with her lover eating your food, drinking your beer and watching your internet TV. But a woman who respects you will conduct her affairs discreetly and far from home; at no financial cost to you and in a way that won't cause you public embarrassment. Both women crossed you. But there's a world of difference between how they crossed you.
HOW TO STAND FOR THE TRUTH THAT YOU KNOW. When your woman is wrong in private, correct her. True Love corrects, punishes and rewards. A woman will respect this.
BUT, when your woman is wrong in public, defend her, no matter how wrong she is. Always have her back. It's called LOYALTY. Loyalty means: "If you're wrong I'll be wrong with you." Your girl will love you for it. And people will respect you for it. Never correct your woman in public, you embarrass her. Instead, later on, when the both of you are alone, confront her on her errors and Punish her accordingly. She must know every lapse in judgement on her part will be followed by punishment. Hold her accountable. For by embarrassing herself she embarrasses you.
LETTING WOMEN GET AWAY WITH BAD BEHAVIOR. If a woman acts badly or breaks one of your rules call her out and punish her. Never let bad behavior go unpunished. Even in arguments when it's tempting to give in even when you know she's wrong DON'T DO IT. Stand firm.
A woman who gets her way everytime begins to wonder: "if this guy can't put me in my place' but allow me to jump all over him, how will he put those bigger than me in their place when they seek to jump all over me , his woman? If i outsmart him so easily how can he outsmart other men out there and win bread for his family? Can this guy even stand up to his boss to negotiate a better salary so the family does not starve? Can he even stand up to the Land Lord and stop him from throwing us to the streets to be homeless? Can this guy even challenge robbers at night and protect the children?'
Such questions fill a woman's head when you always let her get away with stuff, When you always let her win arguments that she knows very well she must not be winning. And once your woman starts asking herself these questions, you have a problem on your hands, whether you know it or not.
THE MOST POWERFUL WORD YOU CAN USE AGAINST A WOMAN. No man must be in a relationship who has not learned to say NO to a woman.
Just as no woman must be in a relationship who has a problem saying YES to a man.
Couples will enjoy greater happiness if men increase their NO rate and women increase their YES rate. Men say YES a lot to women's sometimes crazy demands to the detriment of relationships while Women say NO a lot to men's usually reasonable demands to the detriment of relationships. Women say No constantly because they assume men want to use or exploit them, while men say Yes constantly because they assume women will stop loving them if they are not agreeable.
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR TRUTH. A woman soon hates a man who doesn't stand up for himself in arguments, quarrels and misunderstandings. In your mind you're telling yourself you're going soft and easy on her because you love her, but in her mind she's telling herself you're going soft and easy on her because you're soft and easy. A Wimp of a Simp without a backbone.
She's asking herself: "If you fear me how will you save me from the things I myself am afraid of, since you are my Protector? If you're always apologizing to me for doing no wrong how will you bend rules at work to make sure your family doesn't go to bed hungry? Remember you are older and stronger than me. why do I keep kicking your butt so easily? Are you really this weak? How are we supposed to make strong babies that will rule the world if you cant rule this little girl in your arms that is afraid of spiders?"
And once your girl starts asking herself these questions, your days with her are numbered.
THE BIGGER PICTURE. Women have an expiry date. Time is their bitterest enemy.
Because a woman has only one womb she can make use of only once a year with beauty that will start to fade at 25 and a womb that will be dead at 45 she must make every year with a man count.
So even if her man is rich or educated, a woman is always Testing him to confirm he is the right man to be investing her limited time and resources on. And so she'll test and re-test her man. evaluate and re-evaluate his manliness. she will vet and review him often. double-checking and re-affirming his manliness.
SHÎT TESTING
WHY A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU. A woman is going to say and do a lot of dumb shît, but not because she is dumb but because that shît is a test: DO YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE or are you a weakling, too afraid to go against a girl barely older than your young sister.
When you've the balls to stand up to a woman when she's wrong or disrespectful, she knows you've the balls to stand up to ANYONE when they are wrong or disrespectful to protect her. That's the summary of Shît Testing.
If a woman can boss you around she knows ANYONE can boss you around.
That's what it's all about.
You may think letting a woman get away with wrong doing (e.g she's always late) shows you're not petty and you don't sweat the small stuff, but in her eyes you're powerless.
A Shît Test is a woman testing your ability to defend yourself from her actions as a way of determining your ability to defend her from other people.
In the Old World our forefathers proved themselves by challenging each other to stick fights or by heroic acts during war. Having proved their worth, the Community gave them wives. Cowards died wifeless and childless.
That World is largely gone. In the New World women are on her own in proving a man's worth and testing his manliness. There are no stick fights and no tribal wars to separate the Heroes from the Cowards and because even a coward with money or an education can be mistaken for a hero, women have a tough job separating the Wheat from the Chaff. They have to test you themselves.
Imagine you're looking for a job as a Body Guard. You meet a potential client but first he needs to assess your fighting skills to make sure you're the man for the job. So he tries to kick, punch and stab you. How you defend yourself against HIS attacks tells him if you can perform the protection duties or not. Shît Tests ARE EXACTLY LIKE THAT. A woman assesses your manliness BY ATTACKING YOU HERSELF, only she's using WORDS and DRAMA not kicks, punches and knives: She takes your calls late, she dresses funny infront of your friends, she's loud in public and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way.... All these are tests. Correct her. Or lose her respect.
And just as you fail the body guard test by allowing your client to kick your ass, you also fail shît tests by allowing a woman to win.
But these tests begin as soon as you meet a girl. While you're shooting your shot she's already testing you...
HOW A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU BEFORE MAKING YOU HER BOYFRIEND. The trickiest things a girl will say to you are probably: Are you a Player? because I don't date Players , How many girls have you had before me? , Are you single?
Let's answer these 3 questions one at a time...
(1) "Are you a Player?": Wrong Answers: "NO I'm not" "I hate Players" "I'm a Good Guy".
Correct Answers: "Only because I haven't met the right girl" "Aren't all men Players? ". Etc. (answers that show you get lots of women)
She is NOT asking because she hates Players.
A woman desires a man other women desire. She doesn't want a man no woman wants. That's why if you are single no woman wants you. But if you get a GF, women will suddenly have time for you. Have a busload of women coming to you, and other women will start wondering: "what is he giving these women that is making them flock to him? He must be good at what he does!".
But if no woman wants you, other women wonder: "there must be something wrong with him. Why is it that no woman wants him??"
A woman desires the best man and if other women want you it's the proof she needs that she chose well. A woman feels so special when lots of women want you, but you choose her. That way she feels like she won you.
A woman doesn't want a man WHO FEELS LUCKY to have her. It's a turn off. She wants a man SHE FEELS LUCKY to have. It's a turn on. Because a woman doesn't want you, she wants to WIN YOU. From other women. If you are single no woman wants you. But have a GF and women will have time for you.
Go on a date with your woman and keep looking at other women, she gets pissed. But go out with her and OTHER WOMEN keep looking at YOU, she gets pleased. She'll love you even more. When other women want you, She FEELS LUCKY to have you.
In asking "Are you a Player BECAUSE I DON'T DATE PLAYERS" a woman is playing a trick on you. "Because I don't players" is meant as a trap to catch the simping Nice Guys who think being agreeable with a woman gets them a woman. "Because I don't date players" is an empty threat. Ignore that phrase. Women love Players. Because they wish to tame them and get bragging rights.
(2) "Are you single?" Wrong Answers: " Yes" "Of course. I want the next girl I date to be my wife" "I have been keeping myself for you" "definitely, I want to get my life in order first" etc.
Correct Answers: "It's complicated", "
Women abhor and detest single men. They want a man with a woman because that way he's "tried and tested" by another woman. Show you have a woman but mention things are not going great between you and her. You show her you're involved with a woman but you also show her you're Not cheating on anyone. Never be single. Because being single is for losers who can't get a girl.
(3) "How many girls have you had before me?" Wrong Answers: "Not many." "you're actually my first". "I'm still a Virgin" etc.
Correct Answers: "I have lost count" "I'm trying to slow down lately" "You mean this year alone?" etc.
You may think appearing chaste by having no past GFs scores you points with a girl. But it's the opposite. It makes you a loser who can't get a girl and who's taking his chance with her.
The fewer the girls you have dealt with, a girl knows the less capable you are of dealing with women. That works against you on so many levels. The girl knows not only aren't you experienced in dealing with female drama you're probably whack in the sack. For the less girls you have had the less you have fvcked and the less you can fvck.
There is no market or demand for male virgins. That's why a Dick comes with no Hymen and no primitive deity has ever demanded a male virgin as a sacrifice. Male virgins are useless.
In answering questions that probe your body count, faithfulness or relationship status: always present yourself as getting your fair share of women and rarely loyal to any one woman. Cast yourself as a Player.
Women must think you're always having sex. No matter how much they act disappointed or disgusted. EVEN IF for real they're disappointed and disgusted. Always cast yourself as a Player: When was the last time you saw women fight over a Chaste Man? Or a male Virgin? But I bet you know lots of women who came to blows over a Player! Or some Bad Boy!
A Girl will ask you to do something that goes against common sense and punish you for obliging her because obliging her showed her you are a wimp. It was a test.
Very true. Reminds me of the story of Hamman in the book of Esther and his wife Zeresh. She encouraged him to build gallows to hang Mordecai, but when the tables turned, she was the same person that said that if Mordecai was a Jew, Haman would experience the full wrath of Gods judgement. These women are meant to be controlled. That's why a man has to be a man.
The modern version of feminism is only possible due to capitalism, and if we understand one thing about capitalism, it is that it cares only about profit. Now, women drive about 80% of consumer purchasing, they spend more than men and usually make most buying decisions for their families. Go to the cinema, shopping mall, in fact just observe, you'll see that most men will live a frugal life when there is no woman in their life. You hardly see men going to the cinema, bar, or shopping unless with a woman.
Your average bachelor is comfortable living in a one-room or jumping okada every day. Men are simple creatures. It is the need to procreate and have a chance with women that drives most men to succeed and compete. Just as guys will borrow a car to get girls, that kind thing. If not for women, giant corporations won't exist. Since men by nature are the expendable workhorse, sacrificial, and express love by giving, corporations will hide under feminism and financially rape men through women. For example, smoking was a male thing in the past, and feminism convinced women that smoking too was about equality and a direct smashing of the patriarchy, and automatically, the revenue from smokers doubled, as half the population started smoking. To this effect, you may check out the documentary on youtube titled ''The century of self''.
Having said that, billion-dollar corporations have massive incentive to back up feminism and worship this shit test, to appeal to women since they are the cash cow. The consequence is that it destroys men, and destroy society as well. The reason why the radical, crazy type of feminism hasn't crept fully into Nigeria is that we ain't that fully developed yet with lots of wealth, just as feminism is yet to creep into poorer European and Asian societies.
Feminism is cancer, and sadly, the women spearheading it are drunk under the idea that their cause is a noble act, but nothing more than the destruction of the social fabric and cohesion humanity thrives on, and will extinct on.
