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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:54am On Nov 17, 2019
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by firstpregnancy: 8:23am On Nov 17, 2019
how close should contractions be
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 9:50am On Nov 17, 2019
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 9:51am On Nov 17, 2019
firstpregnancy:
how close should contractions be

3 mins apart I think?

This was my own timer before I went to the hospital.
I was 5cm at the time I was checked by the doctor. If I stayed longer at home, I for born for house

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by labasulla(f): 10:20am On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

Congratulations mama
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anonymous29: 11:06am On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

congrats our Dec cappo. May God bless the new born
As you don leave us port to Nov, they pray for us too ooo. Congrats once again.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anonymous29: 11:08am On Nov 17, 2019
firstpregnancy:
how close should contractions be

we await your BA! mama. Easy peasy delivery by God's grace. Amiin.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Prettyuche(f): 11:20am On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.


Congrats dearie.God Bless the new born.choi! U don leave us go oo
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jennykoko3009(f): 11:46am On Nov 17, 2019
congratulations jazzjazz, this is really a miracle. I haven't heard of giving birth at 35weeks.. May God bless your family
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blackfinegirl(f): 12:09pm On Nov 17, 2019
[quote author=jazzyjazz post=84103962]B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.



Congratulations. I am so happy for you
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by AmishaHussnah(f): 12:32pm On Nov 17, 2019
somehow:


When?

I dropped edd almost a month ago though

Its like almost 10 pages ago. Around Nov 5 or so. Awnn so sorry. I'm sure she missed it, she'll update it soon
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by AmishaHussnah(f): 12:35pm On Nov 17, 2019
grin
beyedew:

Make him look and count cheesy cheesy, I tell you nothing like that first baby pampering cry cry.
grin grin cheesy
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kokaiye: 12:41pm On Nov 17, 2019
Jennykoko3009:
congratulations jazzjazz, this is really a miracle. I haven't heard of giving birth at 35weeks.. May God bless your family
practically!!!! She was in her 36weeks

Congrat jazzyjazz mama kiss kiss.... My greetings 2 ur pronce charming

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chimzy09(f): 2:04pm On Nov 17, 2019
Congrats mama. He will be a light

jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by gratefulme40: 2:53pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.


Congratulations Maama
Thank God baby is fine and needs no further intervention
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lioha(f): 2:54pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

Congratulations
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by blessedmum11: 3:11pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

Congratulations!!
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by blessedmum11: 3:11pm On Nov 17, 2019
firstpregnancy:
how close should contractions be
Wishing you a safe and quick delivery my teamie!!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by somehow: 3:14pm On Nov 17, 2019
AmishaHussnah:


Its like almost 10 pages ago. Around Nov 5 or so. Awnn so sorry. I'm sure she missed it, she'll update it soon
She has done that already

thanks
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by somehow: 3:17pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.

A big congratulations to you
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gloryne(f): 3:22pm On Nov 17, 2019
Congrats Jazzyjazz..welcome to the world prince charming
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Lillianade(f): 3:32pm On Nov 17, 2019
Hi please listen to my story

I have a newborn and I am currently going through postpartum depression which has weighed me down a lot over the few months. My mother in law is staying with us to help. Now with breastfeeding, it has really not been easy. I am in constant pain, It has physically drained me out and I also thinking it was contributing to my depression. When it’s time for breastfeeding, I would constantly cry and it was making me resent my beautiful child. Sometimes as a new mum you just feel like there’s nothing in the world apart from your breast and your baby, it was making me very miserable along with the other postpartum stress I have to deal with. I was just overwhelmed by everything. So I have decided to give my baby formula and at first I felt bad, but I noticed an immediate relief off my shoulders and my mood began to rise. My husband was also able to help me with feeding and I was just relieved.

Since I’ve started formula feeding my mil has been so abusive towards me. Calling me lazy, saying that I want to do shakara hence why I’m not breastfeeding. Calling me selfish and all sorts all because I don’t want to ‘compromise’ my sanity for breastfeeding. She also speaks in her native language (husband and I are from different tribes) saying all manners of things, all because I have switched to formula. I have discussed this issue with my husband, and he has tried to be supportive however he is just trying to please both of us, and he is encouraging me to do exclusive breastfeeding despite everything that I have been going through. He claims it’s the best for our baby. Now I’m back to square one and I’m just feeling so down, worn out and stressed. I just don’t know what to do.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Prettyuche(f): 3:49pm On Nov 17, 2019
Lillianade:
Hi please listen to my story

I have a newborn and I am currently going through postpartum depression which has weighed me down a lot over the few months. My mother in law is staying with us to help. Now with breastfeeding, it has really not been easy. I am in constant pain, It has physically drained me out and I also thinking it was contributing to my depression. When it’s time for breastfeeding, I would constantly cry and it was making me resent my beautiful child. Sometimes as a new mum you just feel like there’s nothing in the world apart from your breast and your baby, it was making me very miserable along with the other postpartum stress I have to deal with. I was just overwhelmed by everything. So I have decided to give my baby formula and at first I felt bad, but I noticed an immediate relief off my shoulders and my mood began to rise. My husband was also able to help me with feeding and I was just relieved.

Since I’ve started formula feeding my mil has been so abusive towards me. Calling me lazy, saying that I want to do shakara hence why I’m not breastfeeding. Calling me selfish and all sorts all because I don’t want to ‘compromise’ my sanity for breastfeeding. She also speaks in her native language (husband and I are from different tribes) saying all manners of things, all because I have switched to formula. I have discussed this issue with my husband, and he has tried to be supportive however he is just trying to please both of us, and he is encouraging me to do exclusive breastfeeding despite everything that I have been going through. He claims it’s the best for our baby. Now I’m back to square one and I’m just feeling so down, worn out and stressed. I just don’t know what to do.


Pls get someone to talk to them.postpartum depression is not what to joke with.i don't wish it for my worst enemy. I have been down that road, its hell.2 years after the birth of my first child,I am still struggling with it. Currently pregnant and am still on drugs.It hasn't been easy.Take charge of your life now before its too late.she won't be there when it is dealing with you.Get someone to talk her that she will do more harm than good to the baby and you!....

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Fyngal1(f): 4:03pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God.

Congrats
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jeniluv(f): 4:04pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.

As God would have it, he has no breathing issues, he's latching and feeding well and we will be discharged today.

Birth story will come later

November mamas una carry weight o! See as una de snatch December mamas up and down.

My December mamas I don port o! I will update roll call later.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.
Big big congratulations ma'am...I talk am say our month must catch you##lolz...Thank God for His mercy..God will continually protect you and yours..rest well and comman sama us your BS e hear?
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ANewMumIJNAmen: 4:07pm On Nov 17, 2019
jazzyjazz:
B.A

To the Glory of God, my prince charming, my second son came on the 16th of November at 10.45am at 35weeks and 6days gestational age weighing 2.6kg via VD.
Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes mamas.
Congratulations ma'am. Thank God for your health and that of your baby. I pray God continues to keep you all in good health of mind and body, amen
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ANewMumIJNAmen: 4:07pm On Nov 17, 2019
Lillianade:
Hi please listen to my story

I have a newborn and I am currently going through postpartum depression which has weighed me down a lot over the few months. My mother in law is staying with us to help. Now with breastfeeding, it has really not been easy. I am in constant pain, It has physically drained me out and I also thinking it .
Dear mama, congratulations on your newborn. May God protect you both. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. The Lord is your strength.

Please talk to your hubby in the language he'll understand. Explain to him that nobody loves your baby more than you do, but you need to stay alive and healthy for your child. If he's still not convinced, please find someone he would listen to to talk to him, a Dr, a specialist. With your hubby by your side, you can now talk to your MIL. It might be difficult, she might not come around immediately but you'll be doing what is best for you and your baby.
I pray for divine intervention in your case. Sending you love and light kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nikkishola: 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2019
khaffi2:
cheesy cheesy I can totally relate to the anus pain part teamie, I initially thought it was jedijedi oo but it's not. Then the upper tummy part too, baby will just be shooting out bumbum there or whatever and you'll so feel the pain ehn. In all, we bless God, He'll see us through till the end.

Amen oo, thanks ma'am
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mummy4life1: 5:03pm On Nov 17, 2019
Ma'ams,

I beg make na help me put mouth.

My cerclage procedure was successful but still on bed rest due to severe back pain. I was told it will go after some days. Taking some medicine such as paracetamol

Did any ma'am experience the same after the procedure.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 17, 2019
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blackfinegirl(f): 5:13pm On Nov 17, 2019
Mummy4life1:
Ma'ams,

I beg make na help me put mouth.

My cerclage procedure was successful but still on bed rest due to severe back pain. I was told it will go after some days. Taking some medicine such as paracetamol

Did any ma'am experience the same after the procedure.

.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blackfinegirl(f): 5:14pm On Nov 17, 2019
Bluefin:


Sorry about this. Personal I feel like mother in law being around is not just for your baby but also for the mental health and overall well being of a new mother. If she is compounding your problems, best thing is for her to leave. Find yourself a maid if you can afford one.

Secondly, I recommend that you pump and feed. Sometimes the burden of baby latching on you may not make you feel better and can be stressful. My mum in law gave me this advise in the first few weeks my baby was born. She would stay awake at night to feed the baby whatever milk I pump during the day so I could sleep. After some time when my milk was not coming out as much, I did supplementing with formula.

Explain to both hubby and mum in law that pediatricians have recommended formulas for a reason and you are not feeling too well breastfeeding.

So sorry again about your situation because this should be happy times for you and your hubby. You can also try to add some prayer to it.




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