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shadeyinka:
He was married when it happened. He even had a child then.
Busola helped babysit the child at least once or twice.
Modele knew Busola before and after it happened.

The evil would have been forgotten if not some ignorant overzealous CoZa members throwing mud slime at Busola.

As a Pastor, he took advantage of Busola just like a Lecturer could sexually take advantage of HIS student. As a Pastor, he preached Holiness (of which Adultery and Fornication are major sins).

You may be right about this bolded. But Timi should have employed more wisdom in handling the matter. He just ended up on a wild goose chase. All the Stella Damascus who said that she just got off the phone with someone who was also raped by fatoyinbo, why couldn't they present such people in court to corroborate her story. Truth is, there was so much vendetta involved and not really abt getting justice

Pussywar:
A lot of 'people' on nairaland are re.tarded. I've seen you tryna put some sense in them, but they're stupid as fu..ck. How easy for them to assume Busola is faking the story when they weren't there, simply because the man is a pastor, and rather than shutting the Bleep up, they go around slut shaming her. What if the story was actually true? Perhaps she didn't want to say anything cos she was ashamed. Now as a grown woman, she knows better than to keep shut. Decided to expose the man just so people realise he isn't a saint, then decided to take him to court just so people don't think she made up the whole thing. Just because she doesn't have an evidence doesn't make it wrong to call out a rapist. Only Busola and that man know what really happened that day. Wish people would just shut the Bleep up and stop cursing their generation. This kingazubuike bitch claiming nigga, you're a fucking slowpoke. Pretending to be female just so you can bash women, knowing the kind of influence you have here. May God protect the women around you, idiot.

Ese Walters already did the bolded so wetin she dey find again?

Ijawwomaninoyo:
It is either you are Bukola Dakolo or you went to the car to bring the Krest cos you have the first hand information.
An empty brain and a shallow minded person like you who don't have common sense will know that Biodun should have raped her in his house when she came for her so called baby sitting in the wife's absence but not choose her father's house when people are inside.
The story is as senseless as your posts. The idiot went to his house purposely to seduce him just like the 2nd one that dressed half unclad to go back there that she needs pussy healing.

IF her Onikekuje parents compromised their daughter's rape, they are the people she is supposed to call out. The best place for such parents is Kirikiri and all their grandchildren gang raped, filmed and posted on popular porn sites.

Everything possible, possible, possible, come to conclusion, likely etc without tangible evidence. Just listen to yourself, please stop littering the thread with your assuming jargon.
Who could believe the lady that accused Neymar was a liar by the kind of emotion involved ?

She knew he was an ex cult head and not a Christian but herself and her family attending his Church? I thought she is the only Verified idiot in the family not knowing her generations are Classic idiots. Is Prof Wole Soyinka not the founder of Blacky Axe or Pirate cult?
Is that the only church in the world or did Biodun bring them there at gunpoint?
Are there no repentant Prostitutes, terrorists, cultists, militants, armed robbers, pick pockets and thieves now living normal lives?

Keeping sleepless nights on Nairaland assuming rubbish and jargon.
All her family knew she was a virgin? A decent girl that was forced on Timi after second pregnancy?
The family use to check her virginity? Did you inform any member of your family before and after dis virgin? Do you inform them before and after you have sex?
Rubbish talk!

Is it possible you a RAPIST? YESSSSSSSSS!

(lI don’t know Fato, COZA, or the Dakos AT ALL)

What’s this rambling nonsense. It is exactly people like u they count on, who shoot off their mouth without watching the video. WATCH THE VIDEO!!

The FIRST time she ever went to his house was after the first rape when his wife, out of the blue invited her to their house and she had no way of refusing without raising eyebrows. In the house he tried to isolate her but she refused to sleep apart. He insisted on driving her home. ON THE WAY HE HAD SEX WITH HER THECSECOND TIME WITHOUT HER CONSENT. That cleared her head. She ran away and eventually told her family and her brother dragged her to Fato’s house with a knife threatening to kill him.

She was 16!! He was her pastor, a former head of a major cult whose wife just had a baby AND she was not the only one!!
(What confuses people like u is that u think rape has to involve some sort of violence)

Since both of them are believers, then this message should have kept her from the ugliness of shame
1 Corinthians 6 verse 1-7
"Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints?
Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters?
Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?
If then ye have judgments of things pertaining to this life, set them to judge who are least esteemed in the church.
I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you? no, not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren?
But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers.
Now therefore there is utterly a fault among you, because ye go to law one with another. Why do ye not rather take wrong? why do ye not rather
suffer yourselves to be defrauded?"

Praizenewstv:
Source: http://saharareporters.com/2019/11/15/never-stop-voicing-out-against-rape-sexual-abuse-says-busola-dakolo

Agboriotejoye:
Did you read the substance of the case she instituted? I'm sure you realise she has a lawyer who would have advised her on the best way forward. For her to have instituted a civil case as against criminal after all the braggadocio and ranting from her husband should pull a red flag.
Plus, how come it's a relatively unknown lawyer that later took up the case. Where are all the segalinks and co who even claimed they have other women who are ready to come up with their experiences in court.
Reason well bro. She knew she had no case. She was just on a face saving mission.

Redundant.

I was discussing the impending rape case bro not this civil case that got tossed. Follow an argument properly.

AfroKnight:
Redundant.

I was discussing the impending rape case bro not this civil case that got tossed. Follow an argument properly.

Which case again?
Baba forget. No case again. Didn't you hear the judge say the case is statue barred? Busola self knows no case. Why did they go for a civil suit before? Simple. No evidence

Agboriotejoye:
You may be right about this bolded. But Timi should have employed more wisdom in handling the matter. He just ended up on a wild goose chase. All the Stella Damascus who said that she just got off the phone with someone who was also raped by fatoyinbo, why couldn't they present such people in court to corroborate her story. Truth is, there was so much vendetta involved and not really abt getting justice

Of course, I agree with you, there was so much vendetta with it. But it didn't negate the fact that the crime was committed.
Biodun is lucky though: I hope he has learnt his lessons.

And notwithstanding, Pastor Biodun knows the danger of his fast moves and those who know the truth do.

Timi didn't loose. He fought back!
But in a fight of mud slinging, both parties get dirty

shadeyinka:
Did Biodun have sex with Busola?
It's either yes or no!

Biodun has not come out to say either. He is banking on technicalities: and he has won!

Biodun said he never bleeped her

Agboriotejoye:
Which case again?
Baba forget. No case again. Didn't you hear the judge say the case is statue barred? Busola self knows no case. Why did they go for a civil suit before? Simple. No evidence

Now I know you are arguing for argument sake. Calm down.

Busola and the police have yet to file the rape case. That is what I was discussing before you jumped in. That is what makes your comment redundant bro.

Drink water and calm down.

shadeyinka:
Because of two things
1. At that time she was below 18 years old
2. Overzealous coza members were mudslinging her and her family

Someone just called ur attention to the fact that Timi started it all in ur pt 2

Agboriotejoye:
Biodun said he never bleeped her

He didn't.
He said he never RAPED anyone in his life and that includes BUSOLA

CanadaOrBust:
I don’t think this will affect his ministry much - he will NEVER be convicted of rape. But it will make it very difficult to continue preying on girls going forward.

Some people have the gift to PASSIONATELY AND CONVINCINGLY say something without subscribing to it at all. I think some pastors are like that - almost like 2 different people live inside them.
Fato was the HEAD of a major cult not just another ex-cultists. There is A LOT there. And it doesn’t just go away. He allegedly said he doesn’t know what comes over him when he does these things - is it possible a malevolent spirit attached to him from his days as a head cultist??

Of course, Biodun may need deliverance. Unfortunately, when a person is loaded with grace, he takes danger for granted. And ultimately, it is that same problem that may destroy such. People with grace rarely listen to anyone they feel is not as gifted.

If he can just humble himself, turn a new leaf and do the work of the ministry.

CanadaOrBust:
The answer is: VERY, VERY LIKELY! (even if we ignore the statutory rape aspect).

Circumstantial evidence will tell you she is likely telling the truth.
1) Is it possible Fato, her pastor, sexed her without seeking her consent making it rape? YES!!
2) Is it possible she froze at the enormity of what her revered pastor was doing? YES!!
3) Is it possible that Biodun and other pastors begging a 16 year old affected her? YES!!
4) Is it possible she mellowed or became confused with all the begging and intimidation till he raped her again? YES!! (remember rape is sex with her without her express consent)
5) Is it possible that (as she said) she was scared of what he could do to her and her family as a powerful remorseless ex head of a major cult (who she now knew was no Christian) and herself having no one to fight for her? YES!!

With the forgoing we can safely conclude that it is highly likely that Fato twice had sex with Buso without her consent.
(I think what confuses people like u is that u assume rape has to involve some sort of violence)

Your last line is faulty as are some of ur assumptions. Rape involves violence. It is violence actually. If a pastor says he wants to have"holy sex" for you to have babies and you agree, that ain't rape. Rape involves threats, intimidation, coercion or force.
She was 17. Which one be freezing while being raped in ur father's house which is more like raping a lioness in the lion's den. She was already bleeped twice before the pastors' begging. Besides all this talk of cultist is a former thing. It is immaterial this matter. How many of them knew him as a cultist if not that he mentioned it himself?

CanadaOrBust:
This is exactly what they count on - people like u who don’t know the details because they didn’t watch the entire video. WATCH THE VIDEO!
Remember she was only 16 and member of a closed society within which Fato is worshipped
Also remember, it is not only her. The other victim that came out also stayed in his house for long after the alleged rape.

If u examine EVERYTHING and u r honest with yourself u can tell what likely happened:

1) Is it possible for Fato, her pastor, to sex her without seeking her consent making it rape? YES!!
2) Is it possible she froze at the enormity of what her revered pastor was doing? YES!!
3) Is it possible that Biodun and other pastors begging a 16 year old affected her? YES!!
4) Is it possible she mellowed or became confused with all the begging and intimidation till he raped her again? YES!! (remember rape is sex with her without her express consent)
5) Is it possible that (as she said) she was scared of what he could do to her and her family as a powerful remorseless former HEAD of a major cult (who she now knew was no Christian), and herself having no one to fight for her? YES!!

Everyone already accepts that statutory rape occurred , but in view of all these u have to also acknowledge it is very likely Fato twice had sex with her without her express consent.

Why wasn't the second woman joined in the case after all she did a video already. At least dat would have strengthened the case.

Agboriotejoye:
Someone just called ur attention to the fact that Timi started it all in ur pt 2

It is a sensitive thing to spite your loved ones. Timi was asked to go do a DNA for his children as his wife was a free gift offering to men when she was in CoZa. She was also a pastor seducer.

That was hitting below the belt. We can argue and fight without hitting below the belt

And where are those accusers?
They have all kept quiet. The thing hit their reverend MOG so hard: they never foresaw the blow coming. Even they now know that something happened between Busola and their revered MOG and God has saved them from further humiliation of court proceedings and questioning which would have been for worse

shadeyinka:
He didn't.
He said he never RAPED anyone in his life and that includes BUSOLA

Go back and read his statement. He said he never had sex with her at all. I'm not saying he's telling the truth but that's what he said

shadeyinka:
It is a sensitive thing to spite your loved ones. Timi was asked to go do a DNA for his children as his wife was a free gift offering to men when she was in CoZa. She was also a pastor seducer.

That was hitting below the belt. We can argue and fight without hitting below the belt

And where are those accusers?
They have all kept quiet. The thing hit their reverend MOG so hard: they never foresaw the blow coming. Even they now know that something happened between Busola and their revered MOG and God has saved them from further humiliation of court proceedings and questioning which would have been for worse

Well, that's because Timi started throwing stones at biodun after the ese Walters issue. That's when all dat was said abt his wife.
They always knew that something happened. Most of them knows what goes on in the church but they like it that way. The point they were making is busola ain't so innocent

AfroKnight:
Now I know you are arguing for argument sake. Calm down.

Busola and the police have yet to file the rape case. That is what I was discussing before you jumped in. That is what makes your comment redundant bro.

Drink water and calm down.

You actually think the police will file a rape case when a court has declared matter statue barred? Get real bro

shadeyinka:
Of course, I agree with you, there was so much vendetta with it. But it didn't negate the fact that the crime was committed.
Biodun is lucky though: I hope he has learnt his lessons.

And notwithstanding, Pastor Biodun knows the danger of his fast moves and those who know the truth do.

Timi didn't loose. He fought back!
But in a fight of mud slinging, both parties get dirty

If you think he didn't lose, help him pay the 1m and also the ridicule that will follow him around now. He lost biggerly dude

Agboriotejoye:
Why wasn't the second woman joined in the case after all she did a video already. At least dat would have strengthened the case.

The aim is to publicly shame Fato into stopping the practice. They should never have gone to police or court. I don’t know who fooled them into doing that. Fato will NEVER be convicted of rape (in this case)

Agboriotejoye:
You actually think the police will file a rape case when a court has declared matter statue barred? Get real bro

The judge declared the civil action statute barred. Not the rape case. There is no bar to crime in Nigeria.

CanadaOrBust:
The aim is to publicly shame Fato into stopping the practice. They should never have gone to police or court. I don’t know who fooled them into doing that. Fato will NEVER be convicted of rape (in this case)

Who made that the aim. Where you there when they stated their aim. Besides, just shaming him doesn't guarantee he'll stop. Like I said, most of the church members are aware of what goes on there and they're comfortable with it. So how does social media ranting stop him?

Agboriotejoye:
Your last line is faulty as are some of ur assumptions. Rape involves violence. It is violence actually. If a pastor says he wants to have"holy sex" for you to have babies and you agree, that ain't rape. Rape involves threats, intimidation, coercion or force.
She was 17. Which one be freezing while being raped in ur father's house which is more like raping a lioness in the lion's den. She was already bleeped twice before the pastors' begging. Besides all this talk of cultist is a former thing. It is immaterial this matter. How many of them knew him as a cultist if not that he mentioned it himself?

You obviously didn’t watch the video. She explicitly said that much of her behaviour was because the way he remorselessly raped her, he was capable of doing anything as she now knew he was not born again and she was worried what he might do to her and her family as an ex-cultist. She finally was able to leave the church after she befriended another ex-cultist who she felt protected her and who warned Fato.

RAPE IS SEX WITH A PERSON WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT. That’s all. Look it up! (Minors, incapacitated people, mentally impaired people are considered incapable of giving consent so sex with them is always rape). If u order a woman terrified of you to spread her legs, it is rape though no violence is used. If you point a gun and have sex with a woman it is rape wether she enjoyed it or not. If a woman sexes an unwilling man, she raped him. You know quite well what I mean by violence. Yes, non-vilolent rape is “violence” but then so is sex.
This is the definition of rape I am using. And by this definition I honestly believe he raped her twice, just as she said.

Agboriotejoye:
Who made that the aim. Where you there when they stated their aim. Besides, just shaming him doesn't guarantee he'll stop. Like I said, most of the church members are aware of what goes on there and they're comfortable with it. So how does social media ranting stop him?

The Dakos said that’s why they came forward - they were receiving anonymous info he was targeting underaged just like Buso and they wanted to stop him.
Then why are these girls coming forward if they r ok with it? I bet u 4 a long time thus won’t happen again

AfroKnight:
The judge declared the civil action statute barred. Not the rape case. There is no bar to crime in Nigeria.

Ok

CanadaOrBust:
The Dakos said that’s why they came forward - they were receiving anonymous info he was targeting underaged just like Buso and they wanted to stop him.
Then why are these girls coming forward if they r ok with it? I bet u 4 a long time thus won’t happen again

Most of those coming out are no longer coza members. So, they are easily disparaged as bitter elements.

shadeyinka:
Of course, Biodun may need deliverance. Unfortunately, when a person is loaded with grace, he takes danger for granted. And ultimately, it is that same problem that may destroy such. People with grace rarely listen to anyone they feel is not as gifted.

If he can just humble himself, turn a new leaf and do the work of the ministry.

He says he doesn’t know what comes over him when he does these things. Is it possible it is a malicious spirit that followed him from his days as head cultist??Those kind of things don’t just go away

Agboriotejoye:
Most of those coming out are no longer coza members. So, they are easily disparaged as bitter elements.

They stopped being COZA members because of it

AfroKnight:
The judge declared the civil action statute barred. Not the rape case. There is no bar to crime in Nigeria.

Agboriotejoye:
Ok

I read otherwise somewhere. I’ll find it

CanadaOrBust:
They stopped being COZA members because of it

Exactly. And they are called haters by those who remain. Hope you see how it is

CanadaOrBust:
You obviously didn’t watch the video. She explicitly said that much of her behaviour was because the way he remorselessly raped her, he was capable of doing anything as she now knew he was not born again and she was worried what he might do to her and her family as an ex-cultist. She finally was able to leave the church after she befriended another ex-cultist who she felt protected her and who warned Fato.

RAPE IS SEX WITH A PERSON WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT. That’s all. Look it up! (Minors, incapacitated people, mentally impaired people are considered incapable of giving consent so sex with them is always rape). If u order a woman terrified of you to spread her legs, it is rape though no violence is used. If you point a gun and have sex with a woman it is rape wether she enjoyed it or not. If a woman sexes an unwilling man, she raped him. You know quite well what I mean by violence. Yes, non-vilolent rape is “violence” but then so is sex.
This is the definition of rape I am using. And by this definition I honestly believe he raped her twice, just as she said.

Ok. So he went to her house and ordered her to open her legs and she became terrified.
Are you sure she said dat part abt befriending another cultist because if so, it calls to question her morality as well. Biodun was not a cult member as at the time the events took place. So why befriend an ex-cultist to seek protection from him? Police no dey?

CanadaOrBust:
(lI don’t know Fato, COZA, or the Dakos AT ALL)

What’s this rambling nonsense. It is exactly people like u they count on, who shoot off their mouth without watching the video. WATCH THE VIDEO!!

The FIRST time she ever went to his house was after the first rape when his wife, out of the blue invited her to their house and she had no way of refusing without raising eyebrows. In the house he tried to isolate her but she refused to sleep apart. He insisted on driving her home. ON THE WAY HE HAD SEX WITH HER THECSECOND TIME WITHOUT HER CONSENT. That cleared her head. She ran away and eventually told her family and her brother dragged her to Fato’s house with a knife threatening to kill him.

She was 16!! He was her pastor, a former head of a major cult whose wife just had a baby AND she was not the only one!!
(What confuses people like u is that u think rape has to involve some sort of violence)

She is no longer 17, now 16, that's the major disadvantage of telling lies, you will always contadict yourself.
Giving 1st hand information like you are present there and keeping sleeplessnights vomiting trash from an empty skull TDB.
What an idiotic generation, go to someone's house to go and stab him and his common sense didn't tell him he will land in jail.
Is Biodun now a retired ex cultist hence the call out? What are you doing in an ex cultist church and sleeping in his house for?
Shameless prostitute from brainless lineage.
Did you not watch Neymar's accuser's video how she was crying?
Abeg go sleep the one you burn for night and stop talkingrubbish because of an emotional video