Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

Fountainofyouth:
Funny thing is that, Op may get married in his 40s, and he may have a single cousin or sister in her 30s, or his future promiscuous daughter may marry in her late 30s, cos I dont understand how one human being can spill a truckload of rubbish.

Fountainofyouth:



Why are you trying so hard to force your opinion on the fact that he may or may not lie? Whoever said humans don't lie? The fact that humans lie doesn't mean they can't say the truth,I made a previous comment using my bro (m. a clear instance, so why are you trying to make me doubt that? My bro didn't lie to me means HE DID NOT LIE TO ME, QED.

trilobite:
I used to be like the op. Equating sexual experience to marital happiness, till I spent time with a couple that is not happily married and realized there are more important partner qualities than how many sexual partners your partner had.

Retired oloshos can Bond and love their husbands provided he can teach them to love again. Unhappy marriages are built on pretence, with either man or woman not willing to move on from past hurt.

Oloshos or players who can heal from their psychological scars can make awesome partners in my opinion.

In any case (experienced or inexperienced) the best quality is an ability to love, and a capacity for love. That is what will take you till your later years, when sex is no longer important.
The focus on sex has led and will continue to lead people to their Doom, learn to remove it from your marital equation.

OP, do like me, go on a psychological experiment and spend time with couples not happy in their marriages. The lessons will help your maturity.

Fountainofyouth:


So my brother will lie to me right? Or he cannot differentiate between virgins and non virgin abi? What is wrong with you? What happened to your thinking faculty? Tell me...

Skepticus:


Look madam.

Men have explored everything inside of the world and outside of it but a lot of them do not have the slightest knowledge of their gender partners, women. While men were out there exploring the world, women were exploring us and it's a reason who women are socially intelligent than men.

You might be surprised that your brother may not be able to recognise virginity. As a lady, you'll understand better if you were to access it.

And by the way, the breaking of hymen thing which is commonly used is not reliable. There are virgin kits online which can mimic an unbroken hymen sold online these days for as cheap as 8k

Dimples0303:


I don't want to laugh! Hisduchess, I'm sorry babe...

Hisduchess:


Biko laugh wella jare! The old dwarf troll always likes spewing rubbish and begging for Puna(he ain't gonna see pant rope shaa).anyway just pray he doesn't start trolling you because u no go see strength shine teeth

Fisher007:


Ok I am happy you read it though. So that when you marry one of those ladies (not all), who you and your friends knew her slutty life in her prime years (16 - 30yrs) . Then she now uses you or your folks as a retirement plan claiming she is virtuous and holy. Probably you will meet her at church (Shiloh service). Few years down the line when eyes done clear, you will comeback to this message and reread it again.

Best of luck.

Fountainofyouth:
Funny thing is that, Op may get married in his 40s, and he may have a single cousin or sister in her 30s, or his future promiscuous daughter may marry in her late 30s, cos I dont understand how one human being can spill a truckload of rubbish.

Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.

Sleevia:


Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.

Fountainofyouth:



You are so stupid it's unbelievable, a man, being a virgin, should not marry a non virgin woman but a virgin woman should marry a promiscuous, empty headed man who has diicked his destiny away right? Your stupid brain thinks pussy makes a marriage work abi? How old are you sef?

Jeezuzpick:
The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

Fountainofyouth:



This manboy is confused, go and read your comment I quoted you dumb ass schmuck.

Fountainofyouth:



I would gladly accept her 100%, your own promiscuous daughter will marry in her 20s, and the marriage wouldn't even last one month, simple.

Fisher007:


That even makes it worst for you. But who am I to help you. When it hits you aaa. I hope you won't come and rants like older men here do on nairaland.

Well we will gladly comment, accept and welcome you back sha

trilobite:
I used to be like the op. Equating sexual experience to marital happiness, till I spent time with a couple that is not happily married and realized there are more important partner qualities than how many sexual partners your partner had.

Retired oloshos can Bond and love their husbands provided he can teach them to love again. Unhappy marriages are built on pretence, with either man or woman not willing to move on from past hurt.

Oloshos or players who can heal from their psychological scars can make awesome partners in my opinion.

In any case (experienced or inexperienced) the best quality is an ability to love, and a capacity for love. That is what will take you till your later years, when sex is no longer important.
The focus on sex has led and will continue to lead people to their Doom, learn to remove it from your marital equation.

OP, do like me, go on a psychological experiment and spend time with couples not happy in their marriages. The lessons will help your maturity.

MrCork:



^^^^ old cargo is UPSET!!!

Sleevia:
I have met a guy on this forum who is 23 and if I mention him here, he will laugh at the OP. Going through the 23 year Olds post on nairaland, you will think he is 45.


Life is more than these things you guys are disturbing your brain with.

We are at time when if care is not taken, you might be homeless in next 72 hours but you are not bothered about that, except for what others chose to make off their own life?

The kind of people I share a country with though.

revolt:
so you really believe that was a guy that typed that. Mtchweee... dont u know these feminists are trying to mke the world believe single mothers are bae.... lool

Jeezuzpick:
The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

Fountainofyouth:


So my brother will lie to me right? Or he cannot differentiate between virgins and non virgin abi? What is wrong with you? What happened to your thinking faculty? Tell me...