sapoyoro:

dont mind the stupidd idiottss..
you can deduce those are bunch of irrational kids still living under their parents..

They don't know what life is all about yet.....

There are men who impregnated girls and denied them.....the sons are now graduates and call other men "Daddy". They cannot go near their children because of shame.

I know at least two young men who were not acknowledged by their stupid "alpha male" fathers. One is now a graduate of OAU and the other is about to finish in University of Abuja.

They wanna have nothing to do with their sperm donor dads.

MrHistorian:

You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!

so single mother is not human again abi? The way you Nigerians reason, one will think we are the holiest and cleanest in the world, yet this country houses the most wicked set of people to ever grace Mother earth.

Fisher007:


I used the word MOST (husband, wife, ladies,men), meaning there are exceptions. But it seems your and some few people 's reading comprehension is messed up.

Learn to read Oga.

I would have read better if you had communicated better.
Your message still remain mere assumptions. if you must communicate communicate effectively. Better still, learn how to do it first.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

Bro they will never understand or get your message. Nigeria isn’t ripe for this kind of redpill message. A country where pastors deceive them, where they are afraid to even face bad governanace or a place where they praise immorality and mischief. A place where were 99.9% are illiterate or educated illiterates if u may call it. A place where they criticise you without proper research. You think this kind of message will be worthwhile? Hmm! Guy leave them. Trust me those who have experienced this write up will relate. Some here just want to criticise and be noticed. They are gullible my brother. Remember you can’t convinve or educate someone who what you are saying isn’t in their experience already. Be rest assured that those who are in marriages today are praying to get out of it. Mayb not all but most.
Leave naija and their mumu critic mindset on important write up like urs. U will see how Dey will rubbish me now.

These overused night magazines can be really aggresive and stupid sha