Fountainofyouth:



Who be this one

Pardon?

sainttwist1:
there is nothing like misplaced priority, we all have different way of thinking.

You don't even know the OP before you make assumptions

The OP is talking about our morals not all the things you list (feeding, rent, fatherhood, transportation etc) according to you age is just a number, it does affect our thinking.....

See there is a girl I ended things with recently. Someone like her can easily trap the OP due to his way of reasoning. I will follow this thread until am I ready to spill the bean on here with my other handle.

She couldn't trap cos I know what's up. The OP is not so exposed in terms of women he is still holding on to biblical ways to judge people.

A young chap served with a girl who is forking homely, she is pretty, not promiscuous but hasn't married yet. She would easily pass as promiscuous based in what the OP stated.

His write-up is too flawed and shallow.

livebyday:

Pardon?

Pardon kor, pls stop quoting all my comments.

Fountainofyouth:



Pardon kor, pls stop quoting all my comments.

Are you done? Behave like civil lady in your speech and manners.

Street cred begins and ends on the street, class takes one far.

Cheers

livebyday:


Are you done? Behave like civil lady in your speech and manners.

Street cred begins and ends on the street, class takes one far.

Cheers

What is doing this one? You decided to be captain save some schmucks here cos I typed same way they typed, leaving them all blameless pls do not quote this moniker anymore.

Fountainofyouth:



What is doing this one? You decided to be captain save some schmucks here cos I typed same way they typed, leaving them all blameless pls do not quote this moniker anymore.

Using the word schmucks doesn't make you sound cool or intelligent.. you have worn it out ..

I didn't seek to burden you but to merely point out how your perceived harmless self indulgent diatribe
Does project you as one unfit for a civil interaction.

I do admonish that you try to comment less for the sake of it but more to say something meaningful hence forth

It would improve the value of your comments from how they are generally seen now.

Cheers

Sleevia:


See there is a girl I ended things with recently. Someone like her can easily trap the OP due to his way of reasoning. I will follow this thread until am I ready to spill the bean on here with my other handle.

She couldn't trap cos I know what's up. The OP is not so exposed in terms of women he is still holding on to biblical ways to judge people.

A young chap served with a girl who is forking homely, she is pretty, not promiscuous but hasn't married yet. She would easily pass as promiscuous based in what the OP stated.

His write-up is too flawed and shallow.

the write-up maybe flawed but the write-up is not shallow......this is what is happening in the society even if we are not ready to talk about it.....why do people cheat in marriage? Cheating on marriage is on rampant in Nigeria today.....

livebyday:


Using the word schmucks doesn't make you sound cool or intelligent.. you have worn it out ..

I didn't seek to burden you but to merely point out how your perceived harmless self indulgent diatribe
Does project you as one unfit for a civil interaction.

I do admonish that you try to comment less for the sake of it but more to say something meaningful hence forth

It would improve the value of your comments from how they are generally seen now.

Cheers

Thank you very much, you can stay away from me from now on.......

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Jgoldie:
Even if you marry a girl of 18yrs

She will go through the hoe phase right under your nose and resent you that you trapped her in marriage when she was young....

Marry someone you love r[b]egardless of their age.[/b]

i bind you in d name of jesus

Sleevia:


I used to be like him too lol. It's why I can almost deduce his age.

yeah!!!! Took the words out of my mouth. Hopefully he will get there eventually

livebyday:
[s][/s]

No rebuttal?

Airtimex:



My bro are you saying people should not marry women who are above 30yrs?


Even if you say some, does being promiscuous in the past have anything to do with a healthy marriage? And who told you girls below 30yrs are perfect match for marriage...

This article is not necessary...

Promiscuousity has nothing to do with age, I agree but the older they are the more higher their probability . Trust me.

I never said girls below 30 are perfect match. And the only reason why ladies in the past could hide it was because we didn't have digital and social media to expose them.

See parents especially mothers no it. They know the.nature.of their daughters because they were once them. That is just the simple truth.

Jgoldie:
Even if you marry a girl of 18yrs

She will go through the hoe phase right under your nose and resent you that you trapped her in marriage when she was young....

Marry someone you love regardless of their age.

.

Aa you just said the truth about hoe phase . Ladies never accept this. But am glad it is coming from a Lady. Damn

Bitter truth.

MarianaTrench:


So people should not get married cos they're above 30?

I didn't say so. I am just stating the obvious dark truth and challenges you might face. However you are free to do whatever you want. But remember the things that might happen. Simple.

bukatyne:


Interesting view.

I agree with you that the earlier the spouses meet or the fewer their previous sexual partners, the better.

My ideal situation is an open minded virgin lady meeting an open minded virgin man.

However, going through your other comments, you seem to unconsciously believe that 30s females are worse off than 30s males.

As always, there are exceptions for older singles who were sexually disciplined in their youth and promiscuous men and women who have healed psychologically and are able to bond with their spouses.

This however doesn't take into cognizance the people who got inspiration for their spouses irrespective of their past.

All am trying to say is the dark truth in most cases. That doesn't mean their are no exception.
You can still marry.a.guy or lady above thirty. But deal with the.risk and emotional trauma. Dont come your on nairaland and look for sympathy or empathy when everything start falling apart. Simple.

bukatyne:


Interesting view.

I agree with you that the earlier the spouses meet or the fewer their previous sexual partners, the better.

My ideal situation is an open minded virgin lady meeting an open minded virgin man.

However, going through your other comments, you seem to unconsciously believe that 30s females are worse off than 30s males.

As always, there are exceptions for older singles who were sexually disciplined in their youth and promiscuous men and women who have healed psychologically and are able to bond with their spouses.

This however doesn't take into cognizance the people who got inspiration for their spouses irrespective of their past.

All am trying to say is the dark truth in most cases. That doesn't mean their are no exception.
You can still marry.a.guy or lady above thirty. But deal with the.risk and emotional trauma. Dont come here on nairaland and start look for sympathy or empathy when everything start falling apart. Simple.

Fisher007:


Promiscuousity has nothing to do with age, I agree but the older they are the more higher their probability . Trust me.

I never said girls below 30 are perfect match. And the only reason why ladies in the past could hide it was because we didn't have digital and social media to expose them.

See parents especially mothers no it. They know the.nature.of their daughters because they were once them. That is just the simple truth.

My bro. I understand your point. But don't you think experience and maturity plays a major role in marriage?

If I'm to marry base on your point, I might not marry at all...unless you are new to this world, no age bracket is safe from promiscuity...

Moreso, everybody must not marry before 30...your article is just painting a particular age bracket black. Forget Nigerians developed countries don't take marriage this serious...

Personally, I will advice women to focus on things that will help their life and society before rushing into marriage...

We don't have active women again in the society because most of them rush into marriage, which in one way or the other will cage them against their destiny...bro please let's focus on other things and leave women alone.

Marriage will come when it will...don't create unnecessary tension for gullible women who might want to take your article serious. I personally prefer experience women than naive ones.

LilMissFavvy:
You are sick...... mentally deranged. What's wrong with a daughter in-law in her 30s? Do you know the number of ladies who were stuck up in a relationship of many years, waiting for their men to be ready, but it never turned well, making such ladies single at 30? In such situations, where is the hoeing phase?

My little missfavvy .why are you on me like this. It seems you miss me ba Well let me clear your doubts as usual.

I never said all women, but most case na them. But the case you stated above means the lady will still.bring her emotional baggages and traumas of been with a guy.that.gilted her into.the.marriage or relationship after the.age of 30 ba?
This same scenario apply to the.guys too.

You are free to do whatever you want. But don't come on nairaland and rants. Cause people like me and other guys or girls have warned you on this forum. We are the ones who take the.bitterness of you all that cant understand the reality of life. Simple.

Airtimex:




My bro. I understand your point. But don't you think experience and maturity plays a major role in marriage?

If I'm to marry base on your point, I might not marry at all...unless you are new to this world, no age bracket is safe from promiscuity...

Moreso, everybody must not marry before 30...your article is just painting a particular age bracket black. Forget Nigerians developed countries don't take marriage this serious...

Personally, I will advice women to focus on things that will help their life and society before rushing into marriage...

We don't have active women again in the society because most of them rush into marriage, which in one way or the other will cage them against their destiny...bro please let's focus on other things and leave women alone.

Marriage will come when it will...don't create unnecessary tension for gullible women who might want to take your article serious. I personally prefer experience women than naive ones.

Guy you are just deep and I really appreciate your point plus.concerns. You see I just like given a.different point of view which most people tend.to not understand. They.think.I hate or beef them.

The part where you stated that most women never focus on.their life and improvement hits me. Personally I don't intend to marry and if I decide too, I will.marry.a pure feminist . Not the.fake ones. The one who understand that she determines her life, wealth and faith. Not the.one who will marry.me and see me as a trophy or mr do it all.

The problem is most Nigerian ladies are lost. No career, no path, and no focus. They just use weak beta male men as their. Retirement plan.

But your points are also valid .
Safe bro.

thoroughly useless thread..oshikoshi

Jeezuzpick:


The man died before the child was born.
You think you're so smart, you deduce and conclude with no information.
Keep it up, Einstein.

dont mind the stupidd idiottss..
you can deduce those are bunch of irrational kids still living under their parents..

KevinDein:

That poster could very well be a male. Believe it or not there are many white Knights and captains save a hoe in the world.

He traded his best years for her years of decline, parting away with resources while at it. Some other dude(s) however, had enjoyed her best years at almost no cost.

how old are u?
your post is utterly pathetic,unintelligent and classless.Jesus!!
social media is really a leveller...

Jeezuzpick:


So?

Am I not alive to type this?

What's the big deal?

Married for more than a decade and still going strong!

Me, I have a happy home o, people like the OP, maybe are just looking to start but think they're wiser than me.

Let them enjoy. They think I'm the fool here.

Young people need to set priorities right, but nooooo, you gotta reinvent the wheel.

pls stop dignifying those fools with any response...
dem be alailopolo omodees

sainttwist1:
the write-up maybe flawed but the write-up is not shallow......this is what is happening in the society even if we are not ready to talk about it.....why do people cheat in marriage? Cheating on marriage is on rampant in Nigeria today.....

so cheating has to do with a certain age abii...
didinrin poo ni nairaland yii shaa

sapoyoro:

how old are u?
your post is utterly pathetic,unintelligent and classless.Jesus!!
social media is really a leveller...

You've gulped down too much blue pill so your inability to understand my comment is perfectly understandable. I was like you just a few years.

No hard feelings.

KevinDein:

You've gulped down too much blue pill so your inability to understand my comment is perfectly understandable. I was like you just a few years.

No hard feelings.

your post is classless..
shaming a married man who post his own view to make very useless points..you lack and have no respect,otherwise you will have make your post without making asnide remarks at a married man who is probably the age of a uncle or brother of urs..if u see him in real life,will u have said d same nonsense to him?

u were just like me..oshioroo..me and u ever met or seen in real life?
I pity you.

Sleevia:


Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.

Leave the OP's priorities/age out of this. Everybody's different. Any little thing, 'how old are you' ? No one is a benchmark for maturity. Your priority is not a benchmark for someone else's priority. Present your counterpoints without comparing him/her to yourself or your 23 year old friend.

Route99:

Leave the OP's priorities/age out of this. Everybody's different. Any little thing, 'how old are you' ? No one is a benchmark for maturity, Your priority is not a benchmark for someone else's priority. Present your counterpoints without comparing him/her to yourself or your 23 year old friend.

sapoyoro:

so cheating has to do with a certain age abii...
didinrin poo ni nairaland yii shaa

"didinrin"....... nobody said cheating is associated with a particular age, I'm just trying to point out one the points the OP talked about........all your thinking maybe about make money, cars, etc but at the end of the day your society will always have effect on you directly or indirectly......

having different opinion about something should not lead to insult

Route99:

Leave the OP's priorities/age out of this. Everybody's different. Any little thing, 'how old are you' ? No one is a benchmark for maturity, Your priority is not a benchmark for someone else's priority. Present your counterpoints without comparing him/her to yourself or your 23 year old friend.

good luck to him with such thinking.

Hisduchess:


You ain't sure oooo.just be praying that the bad spirit wouldn't enter him ooo.the guy is a dwarf who actually gives me headache here.the way he sees my mentions nah wetin dey baffle me aswear.but nah I ve come to understand that he is a babCOCK student who wants to troll me into giving him puna,but he no go see pant rope

...juss one round wit u nah?,..ok how much is kiss plus hug?