themaestro08:
The fact that she goes out without telling you means there are lots

kestolove95:
Comot from hia

Lionpikin:
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maynation:
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Noblemarce:
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TheGoodJoe:
I just broke up with my Girlfriend unexpectedly. We had dinner at her place together and everything was going well until she was working me home and told me she was spending a night at one of her girlfriend's place and I just flipped.

History:

I honestly thought she was the one and I felt I have known her long enough to march her to the alter. We have been together for over a year and I have made my intentions known to her.

Well, I hit a brick wall financially and things have not been easy going as before. In the course of my challenges, I always do my best to meet up with her up keep. She is the kind that can manage things.

However, a change in attitude came recently and she stopped doing things she used to do. Most especially making decisions or going out without informing me. She had done it three times recently and yesterday, I begged her that for the sake of our relationship which means a lot to me, she should talk to me before making some decisions or going out.

Climax:
We settled and she had planned to spend a night outside without telling me. I knew because I told her I was coming to see her tomorrow evening. She said no that she is spending a night with her girlfriend.

I just ended the relationship because I am tired of fighting.

So was I wrong or too harsh?

TheGoodJoe:
I just broke up with my Girlfriend unexpectedly. We had dinner at her place together and everything was going well until she was working me home and told me she was spending a night at one of her girlfriend's place and I just flipped.

History:

I honestly thought she was the one and I felt I have known her long enough to march her to the altar. We have been together for over a year and I have made my intentions known to her.

Well, I hit a brick wall financially and things have not been easy going as before. In the course of my challenges, I always do my best to meet up with her upkeep. She is the kind that can manage things.

However, a change in attitude came recently and she stopped doing things she used to do. Most especially making decisions or going out without informing me. She had done it three times recently and yesterday, I begged her that for the sake of our relationship which means a lot to me, she should talk to me before making some decisions or going out.

Climax:
We settled but she had planned to spend a night outside without telling me. I knew because I told her I was coming to see her tomorrow evening. She said no that she is spending a night with her girlfriend.

I just ended the relationship because I am tired of fighting.

So was I wrong or too harsh?

Lionpikin:
Op, you started the relationship on the wrong foot, in every relationship, the party that SENDLESS holds the advantage and controls the other party....you have handed your balls to her, you have given her the impression that you can't live without her....so what do you do? blank her for some days as if she doesn't exist and use those days to work on yourself.....as Harddon will always say, it doesn't matter how far you have travelled the wrong path, as long as you are still on that wrong path, you will not get to your destination.....you need to become an alpha male and watch her start treating you like a god....search out these usernames and follow their posts with your brain intact.... Harddon and his dating drills, Ubunja and his mis-educations, Martinez36.....read their topics and posts, you will see all you are doing wrong and watch how that babe would start running after you with her life.....

TheGoodJoe:
I just broke up with my Girlfriend unexpectedly. We had dinner at her place together and everything was going well until she was walking me home and told me she was spending a night at one of her girlfriend's place and I just flipped.

History:

I honestly thought she was the one and I felt I have known her long enough to march her to the altar. We have been together for over a year and I have made my intentions known to her.

Well, I hit a brick wall financially and things have not been easy going as before. In the course of my challenges, I always do my best to meet up with her upkeep. She is the kind that can manage things.

However, a change in attitude came recently and she stopped doing things she used to do. Most especially making decisions or going out without informing me. She had done it three times recently and yesterday, I begged her that for the sake of our relationship which means a lot to me, she should talk to me before making some decisions or going out.

Climax:
We settled but she had planned to spend a night outside without telling me. I knew because I told her I was coming to see her tomorrow evening. She said no that she is spending a night with her girlfriend.

I just ended the relationship because I am tired of fighting.

So was I wrong or too harsh?

samdavjustin:

You are too harsh I think you over reacted next time try to punish her in other ways like making her jealous or something to anger her before u breakup she might change

LilMissFavvy:
You broke up with a gf of over a year on a simple excuse as her sleeping in her gfs house, ok. Continue to break up with ladies over little issues, you ain't really serious for a commitment. Tolerance is needed in relationships. You should have just left her, and stop calling, she would apologize. Then you both sort things out.

Gee001:
What's with all the name calling all the time? You guys really have issues. Everytime a girl acts in a way, it's always about another guy in the picture. Op it's obvious you guys don't complement each other. And why does a grown adult who isn't your wife yet, seek permission from you before going out? And then you broke up with her. Na so them dey break up?

Do you seek permission from her before going anywhere too? The change you're looking for should start with you.

TheGoodJoe:


Thank you for the point.

I do tell her every where I go to. Before I go out and when I arrive the place. I call when I am there and let her know when I am leaving.

I do this to ease her mind at all time and build trust in our relationship. She also used to do this always. Lately, she stopped. To the point of going for an occasion and lying about it when I asked her.

So the change can not start with me. This is about the change in her attitude.

Then not telling me that she is planning to spend a night with her friend? Haba, that is far from the foundation we built in our relationship.

TonyeBarcanista:
You have taken a decision that you deems appropriate. You don't need validation from strangers except you aren't man enough to decide what you want.

TheGoodJoe:


And it just started. Although she went with her friends I knew and it has not happened much, why not tell me. Then after talking to her about it, she decided to even do more.

I might be paranoid about the whole thing but I never go anywhere without letting her know. It is impossible for me to plan to stay out without giving her the full details,
call her regularly about my movements.

TheGoodJoe:


Bro. longest time.

I do not need validation from others but for next time sake, I wanted to see if people will think I took it too far. It is in the past but I would like to know if I am taking it too far with my expectation.