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ctleurocollege:
My friend met a girl 3 weeks ago and he has already engaged her without knowing her background. We have adviced him against it but he's not listening what can we do to help him out at least to extend the courtship or can it work?

Leave him na. Is it your courtship or is it going to be your marriage? It could of course work. What makes marriage work is not the number of years invested in courtship but compatibility...

Life is short. Please let him be

Yes. Don't doubt the discerning and intuitive ability of someone who's attuned to his/her subconscious.

Even at half sight

What a pity. Na him the jazz the babe do catch. Rush into marriage and rush back out

Why is he acting new to sex?

ctleurocollege:
My friend met a girl 3 weeks ago and he has already engaged her without knowing her background. We have adviced him against it but he's not listening what can we do to help him out at least to extend the courtship or can it work?

bro, tell him what you think about this and THATS IT! this adult man is ready to accept whatever consequences for his actions (whether foolish or not) so why are you complaining while its obvious he aint?!

StarUp:

Leave him na. Is it your courtship or is it going to be your marriage? It could of course work. What makes marriage work is not the number of years invested in courtship but compatibility...

Baba he's my close friend, I'm not supposed to watch him make a wrong move and keep mute.

Cutehector:
Life is short. Please let him be

Bro I'm not holding him

you not your friend. own your action.

ctleurocollege:
Baba he's my close friend, I'm not supposed to watch him make a wrong move and keep mute.

very true....but you are also not suppose to take him by the hand (like a small pikin) dictating each and everything he will be doing. tell him what you think about his actions, and basta.

he is blindfolded already, there is nothing u can do about it. Only ask for God to interven on the issue. this is my simple advice

Body go tell am..Except he is just lucky..

Some people will never mind their business, did your friend solicit for advice? maybe you're trying to snatch the lady from him

OP, that wasn’t at first sight. Which type of clickbait title is this? Many people marry the way you described and celebrate ten years plus of marriage. There is no foolproof plan to a happy marriage. You people should leave him alone and live your own lives.

I don't know about your friend... But this is how people get married in my village, especially this xmas period, they will see a girl they like and just ask who is her father/family... Viam they will go their family without even talking with the girl....

The kpekus dey shack am. Give him another 6 months from now

na their marry na

StPete:
The kpekus dey shack am. Give him another 6 months from now

this may not be the case