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| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by granely(f): 3:16pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
I can't blame the lady, how will she know if she's two weeks pregnant? the pregnancy might or might not be yours, have a one on one talk with her, I pray she will be honest with you |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Lightangel65: 3:25pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
SBL28:This is proof of how mentally deranged you are, read my statement again, am sure your IQ is enough to do that |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by cremeandchic: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
donstan18:The powers of Kayan mata � |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by cremeandchic: 3:39pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Abfinest007:Funke!!!!!! |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by DRPAIT123(m): 3:42pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
drnoel:Alright sir |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:Please don't take any rash decisions. The accuracy of the test is to be considered. Just accept for the time being that the baby is yours. When it is born, go do a paternity test to verify. I've heard that pregnancy tests are not always accurate. Don't abort a child that might possibly be yours. And provide care and support for its mother while carrying the baby because she just might be telling you the truth. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Lightangel65:IQ? Deranged? Lol, you will be alright...laslas. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Finchmgh:Saturating your post with insults doesn't make it more truthful or more believable. A sensible argument carries its own weight through simplicity and commonsense like the post you quoted. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by SPDAZZY(f): 4:09pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:Please and please, don't go into any rash decision. That pregnancy is most likely yours cos pregnancy is calculated from last menstrual period which will most likely be 6weeks in your case if you met 4weeks ago, scan results are plus or minus 2 weeks. Ask her when last she saw her period. You said the doctors' opinions were contradicting, is this because you already calculated in your mind that she must be 4weeks or the pregnancy isn't yours and as such, your already made up mind didn't fully understand what the doctors were explaining to you? Also are the doctors, gynecologists or general practitioners. However, I am appalled by the fact that you had enough time to get a pill from a doctor but didn't have enough time to get a condom. Selfish much? The lady should be the one who should take pills and prevent pregnancy but you can't do on your part. You didn't even think of STDs. Women are really bearing things! For the first doctor who said she was already pregnant, I don't see how she was already pregnant 4weeks ago and the result was negative, then her pregnancy is reading 6weeks, 6weeks pregnancy was more or less conceived 4weeks ago. She was also probably reluctant to take the pills cos of after effects of pills on women, little wonder she bled. As I earlier said, you should have got a condom. Anyway, the only way this isn't yours, is if she met someone else same period she met you, maybe same day or same week. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by piagbara: 4:11pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
I saw someone call someone baby adult.....deeeep haba |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Stanchem029: 4:18pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Sweetchilli:Thanks, what you said is nothing but the truth. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by ekitimanalways(m): 4:23pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
donstan18:Are you ready to care for another man's child...? Think before you leap. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by justmykel(m): 4:37pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
emeijeh: |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Homguy(m): 4:50pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:I am a Pharmacist, and would want to shed some light on this. Firstly, if you calculate that its four weeks ago you had sex with her, and scan results say it's six weeks, The scan result is most definitely right as you are likely the father of the child. A scan result does not actually know the actual date you had sex with her, so the age of the pregnancy starts from the first day of her last menstrual period till the day you took the test. So it's very possible that it's going to be about 2 weeks ago plus the date you had sex with her. To confirm, get her to tell you the date she had her last menstrual cycle and calculate from there, it should tally with scan results. Don't be quick to send her away, she is most likely carrying your child especially if she does not come across as a wayward lady. 2. The drug that doctor gave her was misoprostol. I believe you most likely saw a quack because misoprostol is an abortifacient. What you should have been given is an emergency contraceptive and they are plenty in the market for you to buy yourself. If misoprostol did make her bleed, there are two possibilities, she was close to her period or she was already pregnant. I would like to ask, how long did the bleeding last? If it was slight bleeding or spotting and only for a very short time, She was most definitely pregnant before coming to see you. But if the bleeding was heavy and was for a while you are most likely the father. Do you think she's a lose lady? Try to track any conversations with guys on her platforms, I used to hack my Ex's what'sapp chat through whatsapp web, and I learnt a lot. Be very smart. Everything is a probability. All the best. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by AreaFada2: 4:59pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
OP, about 35% of all firstborn kids belong to another man outside. And 25 to 30% of all kids by the way too. I have been saying it here for years. ![]() Just tell her you will do a DNA test once baby is born and just wait. ![]() If the other guy is married or not able to accept her, she will abort the pregnancy and tell you she miscarried. ![]() Unless you are new to this game you ought to know better. ![]() Of course the test results may not be definitive but her attitude of not wanting to come to Abuja as previously agreed looks suspicious. But DNA test will resolve things in about 8 months. In the meantime just behave normal to her. Support her. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Legendguru: 5:12pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Don’t break down |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by ghostdvirus(m): 5:15pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Abfinest007:3 gbosa 4 u |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Gcool2(m): 5:16pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Won't she get notified that her WhatsApp is opened on web.. Homguy: |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by omotoyossi(m): 5:32pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Firstly, RUN AWAY FROM d house or force her to pack out B4 SHE USED CHARM OR JAZZ ON U. A LADY LIKE THAT CAN DO THAT TO U. THEN WHEN THE CHILD IS BORN,GO AND RUN A DNA.. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Sam2310(m): 5:38pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze, Try ask her the date of her last PERIOD. Or Ask what is her AVERAGE MENSTRUAL CIRCUIT LENGTH (eg 28days,29,30.......35). Mention me if u have the answer to those question. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Homguy(m): 5:45pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Gcool2:Its only on the first login. And most ladies won't even understand the notification as it just shows whatsapp web login and time in notification panel. It happens only once. And since you would be with her phone at that time, just swipe the notification away. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by whytepawn1(m): 5:48pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
donstan18:Lols... Chill bro...you dey vex too much. People having casual sex without condoms is something i still can't wrap my head around... |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
My Guy, please be very careful before your actions will kill that innocent child that may turn out to be yours eventually. Same fate befell me some years ago, with a billion+1 advice from my friends, relatives and family members. I could swear I didn't even release inside her, used protection and we did it JUST ONCE. Pregnancy test gave a period I wasn't even in the country for 2 weeks. I decided against all odds to give her the benefits of the doubt WITHOUT CONDITIONS to help her and the Baby. I mean, what if she was saying the truth? Someone's darling Daughter oooo My Brother after delivery come and see 100% resemblance, still not satisfied, I secretly did THREE DNA tests at 3 different hospitals ALL coming positive for me at the FATHER. Fast-forward to this day (13 years later) there is no day I don't thank Almighty God for the decision I took then. aahhhh. I'll just stare at this brilliant young man (intelligentScience Student) and tears will flow freely from my eyes. Gifts to his Mom (now Wifey) are not even enough to overshadow the effects of those doubts. Think wisely Brother, think. Yes, we have completely lost trust in relationships these days, and I can easily join voices to call for her expulsion from your heart/home, but I won't. so, just try to see her as a friend you wish to help through with this pregnancy regardless... and you'll be glad you did I wish I could reach you on phone right now |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:Abeg you guys should stop spreading disease up and Dan. With all the news of 6000 thousand people living with HIV you people are still sleeping around with protection. Now sue has even had unprotected sex with someone before meeting you. God knows how many the person who impregnated her has slept with and thats how you keep sleeping about recklessly with protection increasing the number. Hian. I tire for this generation oo.... Stop acting mumu, she was already pregnant that was why she refused the drug initially. That baby is not yours. And please zip up! Ha! So annoying. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Inquisitor97(m): 5:56pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Sweetchilli: |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by lonelydora: 5:57pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:Taking that drug in your house after sex will have an effect on the baby. The baby could be deformed because of improper development. Why are some of you guys so soft? Why not take a decision? Multiple tests can't be wrong. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:59pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:My Guy, please be very careful before your actions will kill that innocent child that may turn out to be yours eventually. Same fate befell me some years ago, with a billion+1 advice from my friends, relatives and family members. I could swear I didn't even release inside her, used protection and we did it JUST ONCE. Pregnancy test gave a period I wasn't even in the country for 2 weeks. I decided against all odds to give her the benefits of the doubt WITHOUT CONDITIONS to help her and the Baby. I mean, what if she was saying the truth? Someone's darling Daughter oooo My Brother after delivery come and see 100% resemblance, still not satisfied, I secretly did THREE DNA tests at 3 different hospitals ALL coming positive for me at the FATHER. Fast-forward to this day (13 years later) there is no day I don't thank Almighty God for the decision I took then. aahhhh. I'll just stare at this brilliant young man (intelligentScience Student) and tears will flow freely from my eyes. Gifts to his Mom (now Wifey) are not even enough to overshadow the effects of those doubts. Think wisely Brother, think. Yes, we have completely lost trust in relationships these days, and I can easily join voices to call for her expulsion from your heart/home, but I won't. so, just try to see her as a friend you wish to help through with this pregnancy regardless... and you'll be glad you did I wish I could reach you on phone right now |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Lightangel65: 6:04pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
All these ladies supporting this women, get some sense 1)why did she refuse the pills in the first place 2)if she took the pill she won't be pregnant except she already was. 3) Two doctors confirmed that the reactions mean she was already pregnant before the act. Women get some sense, don't come here and disgrace yourselves |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by OLAJADON: 6:26pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ghostfaze:lolz you don't know what to do. ok, you will know what to do after training a child that is not your believing it is yours, she is never going to come out clean that is women for u even if u put a gun in her head she will play victim or emotional game with you. they are good at that. I once catch my girlfriend with my two eyes kissing a guy, when she came to me, she denied she was not the one making me feel like a fool. 6 month later she confessed herself without me forcing her despite making me believe otherwise earlier. Bros the ball is in your court, if you are expecting her to come clean then you are a gunner abi is it second baby Jesus she is carrying |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by OLAJADON: 6:27pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
shamsin6300:you have sense. |
| Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by CSTR2: 6:46pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Don't do anything rash. Just play along and wait till she delivers. If that pikin does not have a distinguishing bodily feature from your Family, dump her quickly. |
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