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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by granely(f): 3:16pm On Dec 03, 2019
I can't blame the lady, how will she know if she's two weeks pregnant? the pregnancy might or might not be yours, have a one on one talk with her, I pray she will be honest with you
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Lightangel65: 3:25pm On Dec 03, 2019
SBL28:
You can read well right? English is not difficult, Google is your friend too.
This is proof of how mentally deranged you are, read my statement again, am sure your IQ is enough to do that
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by cremeandchic: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2019
donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.
The powers of Kayan mata �
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by cremeandchic: 3:39pm On Dec 03, 2019
Abfinest007:
d pregnancy is not yours ask her to abort it but if she refuse tell her u will DNA test when d child is out believe me she will abort it without you knowing then she will say she has miscarriage.
Funke!!!!!!
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by DRPAIT123(m): 3:42pm On Dec 03, 2019
drnoel:
That is one thing. The other thing are the ignoramuses above talking shit they have no knowledge about.
The 3 doctors contradicting themselves is no new feat besides transmitted message is always distorted. I agree with u and u are not the the only person that thinks in that way
Alright sir
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.


Thank you!
Please don't take any rash decisions. The accuracy of the test is to be considered. Just accept for the time being that the baby is yours.

When it is born, go do a paternity test to verify.

I've heard that pregnancy tests are not always accurate.

Don't abort a child that might possibly be yours.

And provide care and support for its mother while carrying the baby because she just might be telling you the truth.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2019
Lightangel65:
This is proof of how mentally deranged you are, read my statement again, am sure your IQ is enough to do that
IQ? Deranged? Lol, you will be alright...laslas.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 03, 2019
Finchmgh:
You must be the greatest fooool on planet earth to spew something as stupid as your write up from your demented brain.

You called yourself an educated person and yet your common sense couldn’t figure out the fact that the lady was already pregnant before her weakling boyfriend slept with her.

Based on the numerous evidence littered on the OP writeup, it’s so obvious that the lady was already pregnant before sleeping with her Useless and irresponsible boyfriend.
Saturating your post with insults doesn't make it more truthful or more believable.

A sensible argument carries its own weight through simplicity and commonsense like the post you quoted.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by SPDAZZY(f): 4:09pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
Please and please, don't go into any rash decision. That pregnancy is most likely yours cos pregnancy is calculated from last menstrual period which will most likely be 6weeks in your case if you met 4weeks ago, scan results are plus or minus 2 weeks. Ask her when last she saw her period.

You said the doctors' opinions were contradicting, is this because you already calculated in your mind that she must be 4weeks or the pregnancy isn't yours and as such, your already made up mind didn't fully understand what the doctors were explaining to you? Also are the doctors, gynecologists or general practitioners.

However, I am appalled by the fact that you had enough time to get a pill from a doctor but didn't have enough time to get a condom. Selfish much? The lady should be the one who should take pills and prevent pregnancy but you can't do on your part. You didn't even think of STDs. Women are really bearing things!

For the first doctor who said she was already pregnant, I don't see how she was already pregnant 4weeks ago and the result was negative, then her pregnancy is reading 6weeks, 6weeks pregnancy was more or less conceived 4weeks ago.

She was also probably reluctant to take the pills cos of after effects of pills on women, little wonder she bled. As I earlier said, you should have got a condom.

Anyway, the only way this isn't yours, is if she met someone else same period she met you, maybe same day or same week.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by piagbara: 4:11pm On Dec 03, 2019
I saw someone call someone baby adult.....deeeep haba
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Stanchem029: 4:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors
Thanks, what you said is nothing but the truth.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by ekitimanalways(m): 4:23pm On Dec 03, 2019
donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.
Are you ready to care for another man's child...? Think before you leap.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by justmykel(m): 4:37pm On Dec 03, 2019
emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him?







You guys are wicked!!!!!! grin

Hahahahaha.
I wan laff die o.... Those guys are LEGENDS, the last person just dey another legendary level












Especially you grin
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Homguy(m): 4:50pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
I am a Pharmacist, and would want to shed some light on this.
Firstly, if you calculate that its four weeks ago you had sex with her, and scan results say it's six weeks,
The scan result is most definitely right as you are likely the father of the child.
A scan result does not actually know the actual date you had sex with her, so the age of the pregnancy starts from the first day of her last menstrual period till the day you took the test. So it's very possible that it's going to be about 2 weeks ago plus the date you had sex with her.

To confirm, get her to tell you the date she had her last menstrual cycle and calculate from there, it should tally with scan results.
Don't be quick to send her away, she is most likely carrying your child especially if she does not come across as a wayward lady.

2. The drug that doctor gave her was misoprostol. I believe you most likely saw a quack because misoprostol is an abortifacient. What you should have been given is an emergency contraceptive and they are plenty in the market for you to buy yourself. If misoprostol did make her bleed, there are two possibilities, she was close to her period or she was already pregnant.
I would like to ask, how long did the bleeding last? If it was slight bleeding or spotting and only for a very short time,
She was most definitely pregnant before coming to see you. But if the bleeding was heavy and was for a while you are most likely the father.

Do you think she's a lose lady? Try to track any conversations with guys on her platforms, I used to hack my Ex's what'sapp chat through whatsapp web, and I learnt a lot.
Be very smart. Everything is a probability.
All the best.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by AreaFada2: 4:59pm On Dec 03, 2019
OP, about 35% of all firstborn kids belong to another man outside. And 25 to 30% of all kids by the way too. I have been saying it here for years. grin cheesy grin

Just tell her you will do a DNA test once baby is born and just wait. grin

If the other guy is married or not able to accept her, she will abort the pregnancy and tell you she miscarried. grin

Unless you are new to this game you ought to know better. grin

Of course the test results may not be definitive but her attitude of not wanting to come to Abuja as previously agreed looks suspicious.

But DNA test will resolve things in about 8 months.
In the meantime just behave normal to her. Support her.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Legendguru: 5:12pm On Dec 03, 2019
Don’t break down
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by ghostdvirus(m): 5:15pm On Dec 03, 2019
Abfinest007:
d pregnancy is not yours ask her to abort it but if she refuse tell her u will DNA test when d child is out believe me she will abort it without you knowing then she will say she has miscarriage.
3 gbosa 4 u
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Gcool2(m): 5:16pm On Dec 03, 2019
Won't she get notified that her WhatsApp is opened on web..
Homguy:
I am a Pharmacist, and would want to shed some light on this.
Firstly, if you calculate that its four weeks ago you had sex with her, and scan results say it's six weeks,
The scan result is most definitely right as you are likely the father of the child.
A scan result does not actually know the actual date you had sex with her, so the age of the pregnancy starts from the first day of her last menstrual period till the day you took the test. So it's very possible that it's going to be about 2 weeks ago plus the date you had sex with her.

To confirm, get her to tell you the date she had her last menstrual cycle and calculate from there, it should tally with scan results.
Don't be quick to send her away, she is most likely carrying your child especially if she does not come across as a wayward lady.

2. The drug that doctor gave her was misoprostol. I believe you most likely saw a quack because misoprostol is an abortifacient. What you should have been given is an emergency contraceptive and they are plenty in the market for you to buy yourself. If misoprostol did make her bleed, there are two possibilities, she was close to her period or she was already pregnant.
I would like to ask, how long did the bleeding last? If it was slight bleeding or spotting and only for a very short time,
She was most definitely pregnant before coming to see you. But if the bleeding was heavy and was for a while you are most likely the father.

Do you think she's a lose lady? Try to track any conversations with guys on her platforms, I used to hack my Ex's what'sapp chat through whatsapp web, and I learnt a lot.
Be very smart. Everything is a probability.
All the best.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by omotoyossi(m): 5:32pm On Dec 03, 2019
Firstly, RUN AWAY FROM d house or force her to pack out B4 SHE USED CHARM OR JAZZ ON U. A LADY LIKE THAT CAN DO THAT TO U.

THEN WHEN THE CHILD IS BORN,GO AND RUN A DNA..
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Sam2310(m): 5:38pm On Dec 03, 2019
Ghostfaze, Try ask her the date of her last PERIOD.
Or
Ask what is her AVERAGE MENSTRUAL CIRCUIT LENGTH (eg 28days,29,30.......35).
Mention me if u have the answer to those question.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Homguy(m): 5:45pm On Dec 03, 2019
Gcool2:
Won't she get notified that her WhatsApp is opened on web..
Its only on the first login. And most ladies won't even understand the notification as it just shows whatsapp web login and time in notification panel. It happens only once. And since you would be with her phone at that time, just swipe the notification away.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by whytepawn1(m): 5:48pm On Dec 03, 2019
donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.
Lols... Chill bro...you dey vex too much.
People having casual sex without condoms is something i still can't wrap my head around...
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 03, 2019
My Guy, please be very careful before your actions will kill that innocent child that may turn out to be yours eventually.
Same fate befell me some years ago, with a billion+1 advice from my friends, relatives and family members.
I could swear I didn't even release inside her, used protection and we did it JUST ONCE.
Pregnancy test gave a period I wasn't even in the country for 2 weeks.
I decided against all odds to give her the benefits of the doubt WITHOUT CONDITIONS to help her and the Baby.
I mean, what if she was saying the truth?
Someone's darling Daughter oooo

My Brother after delivery come and see 100% resemblance, still not satisfied, I secretly did THREE DNA tests at 3 different hospitals ALL coming positive for me at the FATHER.
Fast-forward to this day (13 years later) there is no day I don't thank Almighty God for the decision I took then. aahhhh.
I'll just stare at this brilliant young man (intelligentScience Student) and tears will flow freely from my eyes.
Gifts to his Mom (now Wifey) are not even enough to overshadow the effects of those doubts.

Think wisely Brother, think.
Yes, we have completely lost trust in relationships these days, and I can easily join voices to call for her expulsion from your heart/home, but I won't.
so, just try to see her as a friend you wish to help through with this pregnancy regardless... and you'll be glad you did

I wish I could reach you on phone right now
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
Abeg you guys should stop spreading disease up and Dan. With all the news of 6000 thousand people living with HIV you people are still sleeping around with protection.

Now sue has even had unprotected sex with someone before meeting you. God knows how many the person who impregnated her has slept with and thats how you keep sleeping about recklessly with protection increasing the number. Hian. I tire for this generation oo....

Stop acting mumu, she was already pregnant that was why she refused the drug initially. That baby is not yours. And please zip up! Ha! So annoying.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Inquisitor97(m): 5:56pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by lonelydora: 5:57pm On Dec 03, 2019
Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
Taking that drug in your house after sex will have an effect on the baby. The baby could be deformed because of improper development.

Why are some of you guys so soft? Why not take a decision? Multiple tests can't be wrong.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 5:59pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
My Guy, please be very careful before your actions will kill that innocent child that may turn out to be yours eventually.
Same fate befell me some years ago, with a billion+1 advice from my friends, relatives and family members.
I could swear I didn't even release inside her, used protection and we did it JUST ONCE.
Pregnancy test gave a period I wasn't even in the country for 2 weeks.
I decided against all odds to give her the benefits of the doubt WITHOUT CONDITIONS to help her and the Baby.
I mean, what if she was saying the truth?
Someone's darling Daughter oooo

My Brother after delivery come and see 100% resemblance, still not satisfied, I secretly did THREE DNA tests at 3 different hospitals ALL coming positive for me at the FATHER.
Fast-forward to this day (13 years later) there is no day I don't thank Almighty God for the decision I took then. aahhhh.
I'll just stare at this brilliant young man (intelligentScience Student) and tears will flow freely from my eyes.
Gifts to his Mom (now Wifey) are not even enough to overshadow the effects of those doubts.

Think wisely Brother, think.
Yes, we have completely lost trust in relationships these days, and I can easily join voices to call for her expulsion from your heart/home, but I won't.
so, just try to see her as a friend you wish to help through with this pregnancy regardless... and you'll be glad you did

I wish I could reach you on phone right now
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Lightangel65: 6:04pm On Dec 03, 2019
All these ladies supporting this women, get some sense
1)why did she refuse the pills in the first place
2)if she took the pill she won't be pregnant except she already was.
3) Two doctors confirmed that the reactions mean she was already pregnant before the act.

Women get some sense, don't come here and disgrace yourselves
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by OLAJADON: 6:26pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
lolz you don't know what to do.
ok, you will know what to do after training a child that is not your believing it is yours, she is never going to come out clean that is women for u even if u put a gun in her head she will play victim or emotional game with you. they are good at that.
I once catch my girlfriend with my two eyes kissing a guy, when she came to me, she denied she was not the one making me feel like a fool.
6 month later she confessed herself without me forcing her despite making me believe otherwise earlier.
Bros the ball is in your court, if you are expecting her to come clean then you are a gunner abi is it second baby Jesus she is carrying
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by OLAJADON: 6:27pm On Dec 03, 2019
shamsin6300:
Guy if wat u re saying is truth
I think de oda guy dt got her pregnant is nt a hustler, she bliv u re de1 capable of taking care of her needs.

Be Wise
you have sense.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by CSTR2: 6:46pm On Dec 03, 2019
Don't do anything rash.

Just play along and wait till she delivers.

If that pikin does not have a distinguishing bodily feature from your Family, dump her quickly.
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