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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by thorpido(m): 1:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
IgbosAreOsus:

shut up
you like
A fetus of 2 weeks can never be compared with four weeks
Just read what you wrote in bolded again and ask if it makes sense.
Can you compare 2 with 4?
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by mechanics(m): 1:18pm On Dec 03, 2019
This is why premarital sex is bad, you have no choice than to take care of her till when the baby is delivered, you will know if it's yours or not through DNA.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by standgifted(m): 1:20pm On Dec 03, 2019
This ur question self undecided

You are a mumu man
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by zainmaxwell(m): 1:21pm On Dec 03, 2019
generationz:

Why are you lots ignorant?
Are you saying there are women who don't have sex for a living and have sex with several men at once?

When a person is ignorant, they cover up with morality which they don't even have. Mtsewwww
am just trying to make a point no need you been heat up ok?
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Bbbwings: 1:26pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors
you just proved he isnt responsible for the pregnancy.
or did his sperm travel back in time for two weeks
he claims dat was the first time of him going raw
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by generationz(f): 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2019
zainmaxwell:
am just trying to make a point no need you been heat up ok?

If you want to make a point then read from the beginning before quoting me, okay?
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Finchmgh: 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2019
There is no need advising this fooool that calls himself a man becaus he will still do whatever he has in his mind.

A fooool at 25(no longer at 40) is always a fooool forever.

Why are most men so useless these days because of women? A real man should please answer me.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by MyOleSolksjaer: 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2019
DNA or no DNA, you are not the father. Take your stand and let her know this.

Lightangel65:


The fact she is still lying when the answer is ovbious means she doesn't give a Bleep about you.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by UnimkeAk(m): 1:31pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!


Oga, stop disgracing us.

Courtesy me all over the world...

It is very obvious the lady was already pregnant and she is trying to pin it on u
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Brightgem(f): 1:34pm On Dec 03, 2019
Haq! Haq! Haq! They don't know wayyiz going on. Premarital unprotected sex and all the karma that comes along with it.

I believe the elders have the answer. Me adon know o. You can always wait till she born and find out through paternal court. Lolz! It's a TV show.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by freethesheeple(m): 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!



hahahhahhaha Nigeria Girls and Hoeing....
I will rather trust and believe a dog than any Nigeria girl.
The child is and can never be yours.
She is after ur money or matrials stuffs when another Nigger dey by the side.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by zainmaxwell(m): 1:42pm On Dec 03, 2019
generationz:


If you want to make a point then read from the beginning before quoting me, okay?
you quote me ma'am I did not
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Noblejay7: 1:44pm On Dec 03, 2019
[quote author=thorpido post=84570948]Scan results read +/- 2 weeks so in this case it can give you 6 weeks and not the 4 weeks

You are correct. Only DNA test can help your situation.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by goldenone(f): 1:44pm On Dec 03, 2019
Pregnancy is usually counted from last menstrual period cos no one knows exactly when conception occurs. Let her have the baby and do a paternity test.

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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by DRPAIT123(m): 1:52pm On Dec 03, 2019
Abfinest007:
d pregnancy is not yours ask her to abort it but if she refuse tell her u will DNA test when d child is out believe me she will abort it without you knowing then she will say she has miscarriage.
I doff my hart sir, the smart one
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Hipsymoi: 1:52pm On Dec 03, 2019
Don't ask her to abort it should anything happen to her because she is living right under your roof. The pregnancy is not yours, ask her to take the pregnancy back to the rightful owner.
Abfinest007:
d pregnancy is not yours ask her to abort it but if she refuse tell her u will DNA test when d child is out believe me she will abort it without you knowing then she will say she has miscarriage.

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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Finchmgh: 1:54pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors

You must be the greatest fooool on planet earth to spew something as stupid as your write up from your demented brain.

You called yourself an educated person and yet your common sense couldn’t figure out the fact that the lady was already pregnant before her weakling boyfriend slept with her.

Based on the numerous evidence littered on the OP writeup, it’s so obvious that the lady was already pregnant before sleeping with her Useless and irresponsible boyfriend.

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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by laginks: 1:59pm On Dec 03, 2019
I don't normally talk much on nairaland, but I had to respond to you to put certain Things straight...
First: pregnancy is calculated from the last time a woman sees her menses.. which is usually about 10-14 days before ovulation..that being said, it is obvious she was ovulating when she came to your house..
That means that if she slept with you on the 3rd of November, then you are actually responsible for the pregnancy because the pregnancy duration starts counting from the last time she menstruated, which should be about six week.

Please I suggest you go see her parents immediately and commenc marriage preparations because "brother" it is your child she is carrying.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by drnoel: 2:00pm On Dec 03, 2019
donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.

Children have a way of always showing their ignorance. Ur comment shows just that.

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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by DRPAIT123(m): 2:01pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors
How come about two to three doctors forgot to explain something as basic as this to OP, or am I the only person who is thinking this way.
Thumbs up to you anyways
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by drnoel: 2:02pm On Dec 03, 2019
Finchmgh:


You must be the greatest fooool on planet earth to spew something as stupid as your write up from your demented brain.

You called yourself an educated person and yet your common sense couldn’t figure out the fact that the lady was already pregnant before her weakling boyfriend slept with her.

Based on the numerous evidence littered on the OP writeup, it’s so obvious that the lady was already pregnant before sleeping with her Useless and irresponsible boyfriend.

The guy u insulted just stated the known truth which u are ignorant of knowing. What u should have done was to STFU and open Ur brain so u cab learn but no, u must show Ur ignorance and their we have it.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by drnoel: 2:04pm On Dec 03, 2019
DRPAIT123:

How come about two to three doctors forgot to explain something as basic as this to OP, or am I the only person who is thinking this way.
Thumbs up to you anyways

That is one thing. The other thing are the ignoramuses above talking shit they have no knowledge about.
The 3 doctors contradicting themselves is no new feat besides transmitted message is always distorted. I agree with u and u are not the the only person that thinks in that way

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Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by laginks: 2:06pm On Dec 03, 2019
Why am I seeing so much display of IGNORANCE here..?

OP please that pregnancy is yours..don't be fooled by people who don't even know the slightest thing about pregnancy...

Do the right thing

#dropsthemic

SlimDaddyPee:
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Only the expected date of delivery EDD read +/- 2 weeks.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by drnoel: 2:06pm On Dec 03, 2019
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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!


The pregnancy is urs. Man up and take responsibility. If u still doubt then wait till the baby is done then u do DNA and have Ur peace.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Chiiamaka: 2:08pm On Dec 03, 2019
Believe it or not you are the owner of that pregnancy.. She wants to pin another mans child on you.. unless you are ready to father the child then carry on .
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by laginks: 2:12pm On Dec 03, 2019
I am sorry for you..

But I am most sorry for the OP if he chooses to listen to your "foolish" counsel...

Last last, He has a choice to make..

May he be wise enough to take good counsel..

Finchmgh:


You must be the greatest fooool on planet earth to spew something as stupid as your write up from your demented brain.

You called yourself an educated person and yet your common sense couldn’t figure out the fact that the lady was already pregnant before her weakling boyfriend slept with her.

Based on the numerous evidence littered on the OP writeup, it’s so obvious that the lady was already pregnant before sleeping with her Useless and irresponsible boyfriend.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Chiiamaka: 2:13pm On Dec 03, 2019
Chiiamaka:
Believe it or not you are the owner of that pregnancy.. She wants to pin another mans child on you.. unless you are ready to father the child then carry on .
*Not*
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 03, 2019
generationz:


The stupidity.


I'm sure you got F9 in biology.

How many places have you worked with your A1 ?

I'm sure the simpleton who registered a new monicker to rant about finding a man in lekki is you.

Keep searching...

Poverty alleviating relationship seekers.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by easyzworld: 2:26pm On Dec 03, 2019
That girl is very selfish. There’s a thousand things she can do but all she want is to make you a father to a child that’s not yours.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by chukel(m): 2:38pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors
this is wrongly correct. That gestational age of 6weeks wasn't calculated manually. It was from early first trimester scan using crown rump length(which is the period of most accurate dating). So your argument here doesn't stand. It only stands if the GA was calculated using the LNMP as against ovulation date. So if scan says that pregnancy is 6 weeks, it's almost accurate and that goes to show it isn't OP's if he is sure of his calculation.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Nnamebuka: 3:07pm On Dec 03, 2019
Sweetchilli:
Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors

This is plausible cos my sister was hoping to be pregnant in her next cycle without knowing she was already pregnant. Something like this was explained to her. She nearly died of fear because she was taking antibiotics for her ulcer prior to her realization that she was pregnant. And they say is not good for a pregnant woman as it can cause mal-development/deformity of the baby.
Re: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by drkay(m): 3:08pm On Dec 03, 2019
thorpido:
Scan results read +/- 2 weeks so in this case it can give you 6 weeks and not the 4 weeks you are calculating.
You're wrong. At this period, its +/- 5days.

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