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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 7:10am On Dec 07, 2019
many confused boys with personality disorders praising themselves for their inability to communicate and form relationships with their fellow human
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Manadan0000(op): 7:17am On Dec 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
many confused boys with personality disorders praising themselves for their inability to communicate and form relationships with their fellow human
well that's how you see it but please how do you cope with forcing yourself or trying to convince people who don't value you in their lives??
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Chukapage(m): 7:26am On Dec 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
so you guys here writing nonsense here are the valuable men, make i no laugh. do you even know how to communicate with the opposite sex, do you even have game upon all the miseducation you read.

you look like the guy that will pee on his pants for mere talking to a woman.
well my major acheivement ,goals,and ambition ain't women bro! So unlike you, I don't seek validation from women or from pu*I*y so don't bother if I am able to "communicate with the opposite sex" or not, OR wether I get to pee my pants talking to them cheesy it doesn't matter now,my validation and self esteem and worth does not come from the women or wether or not I can communicate with them It comes from my value and worth as an individual.Use that line on yourself maybe your validation comes from p**sy ,you might even be one of those guys who wants to get rich because of P***Y because to even think or trying to attach my VALIDATION to p***y shows I can't even relate with your kind offline or online ,your Moniker says much about your level of Maturity kiddo! So Mr.lilwetdick bye I do throw insults here though but not with your type it's against my principles I like picking on my size.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 7:27am On Dec 07, 2019
Manadan0000:
well that's how you see it but please how do you cope with forcing yourself or trying to convince people who don't value you in their lives??
i dont convince or force myself on people who dont value me, i play my game on mutual benefit..all my relationship with humans and even animals have been give and take.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 7:38am On Dec 07, 2019
Chukapage:
well my major acheivement ,goals,and ambition ain't women bro! So unlike you, I don't seek validation from women or from pu*I*y so don't bother if I am able to "communicate with the opposite sex" or not, OR wether I get to pee my pants talking to them cheesy it doesn't matter now,my validation and self esteem and worth does not come from the women or wether or not I can communicate with them It comes from my value and worth as an individual.Use that line on yourself maybe your validation comes from p**sy ,you might even be one of those guys who wants to get rich because of P***Y because trying to attach my VALIDATION to p***y shows I can't even relate with your kind offline or online ,your Moniker says much about your level of Maturity kiddo! So Mr.lilwetdick bye I do throw insults here though but not with your type it's against my principles I like picking on my size.
the more you write pussy, the more i know you dont get it, the only pussy you get is the hole between your hands. the reality is you know women have destroyed your self esteem that is why you guys come here and start acting weird.

most of you guys cryin major achievement, goals and ambitions, what do you know about achievement, goals and ambitions, is your goal not to graduate from the university, go to nysc and get a job just like millions of other job seekers or travel abroad or work in NNPC. tell us what you are doing different?? or you are also learning so called skills too

the pussy you claim to detest have gotten some men rich, some got married into rich pussy family,some got contacts of jobs from ex pussy, from pussy friends or got contracts from pussy connection...continue deceiving yourself.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Chukapage(m): 7:56am On Dec 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
the more you write pussy, the more i know you dont get it, the only pussy you get is the hole between your hands. the reality is you know women have destroyed your self esteem that is why you guys come here and start acting weird.

most of you guys cryin major achievement, goals and ambitions, what do you know about achievement, goals and ambitions, is your goal not to graduate from the university, go to nysc and get a job just like millions of other job seekers or travel abroad or work in NNPC. tell us what you are doing different?? or you are also learning so called skills too

the pussy you claim to detest have gotten some men rich, some got married into rich pussy family,some got contacts of jobs from ex pussy, from pussy friends or got contracts from pussy connection...continue deceiving yourself.

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One thing about people like you is when you've discovered you've made a stupid mistake or comments and people starts quoting you to correct you the "harsh nairaland way" grin instead of you,to shove your big fragile ego down your little wet di*k and learn silently you just keep fumbling and fumbling trying to cover your fuckups and it's irritating undecided do you really think that guys cutting careless and confused women off THEIR lives are stupidhuh To fly high you need to drop heavyload of shits!! Or do you really think they didn't think it through if she'll be valuable or not?? Anyways I don't expect anything much from a person whose Validation and fragile big glasslike ego comes from Pu**y!
I won't grace you with any other replies cause you seem to stuck, that's ok by me It's your life but don't go around typing gibberish about other people's decisions about who the chose to flow and vibe with and who the chose to cut off or drop! Because clearly the people who made their personal life decisions ain't as stupid as you think!
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 8:10am On Dec 07, 2019
Chukapage:
One thing about people like you is when you've discovered you've made a stupid mistake or comments and people starts quoting you to correct you the "harsh nairaland way" grin instead of you,to shove your big fragile ego down your little wet di*k and learn silently you just keep fumbling and fumbling trying to cover your fuckups and it's irritating undecided do you really think that guys cutting careless and confused women off THEIR lives are stupidhuh To fly high you need to drop heavyload of shits!! Or do you really think they didn't think it through if she'll be valuable or not?? Anyways I don't expect anything much from a person whose Validation and fragile big glasslike ego comes from Pu**y!
I won't grace you with any other replies cause you seem to stuck, that's ok by me It's your life but don't go around typing gibberish about other people's decisions about who the chose to flow and vibe with and who the chose to cut off or drop! Because clearly the people who made their personal life decisions ain't as stupid as you think!
yeah coming from the person who just wrote some nonsense not long ago, pls which stupid mistake and which Bleep ups i am trying to cover up, you impose some nonsense then when i reply, you claim something else.

so idiots are the one correcting me in harsh nairaland way, so that is harsh or even correction, boys stuck on a limbo, people that dont know what to do with their lives, cant use their tongue to count their teeths, broke and fraustrated boys, students and boys living with their parents are the ones i should take correction from, they cant even sort their ways out.

you are a weak man, you got no pussy and plus you are lame ass...

many of you cant get pussy that is why guys are frustrated and start claiming you are searching for a valuable pussy..how do you get valuable pussy when you dont even have experience with pussies or cant even maintain one single pussy?

most of you are just average frustrated chumps
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody:
khia:
Stop chasing women who aren't into you, stop making sex a do or die issue. Focus on getting yourself together and build up your confidence. Shakara are games for little girls who have time to waste, women who are into you for who you are will surely make themselves known.
Thanks for this.

I was reading through the thread and the different positions of the posters. I couldn't take any side or support any opinion completely because they all had some good points and some extremes.

I was looking for a woman's perspective on the issue and yours seems to balance it up nicely.

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Build up your confidence and emotional maturity so that you don't overreact or take people's attitudes too personally. And realize that not every girl/guy will feel attracted to you or accept your advances. Look for and focus on the ones that do.

You can still be nice with someone even if they turned down a relationship with you. You don't have to blacklist them from your life like an enemy.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Chukapage(m): 9:07am On Dec 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
yeah coming from the person who just wrote some nonsense not long ago, pls which stupid mistake and which Bleep ups i am trying to cover up, you impose some nonsense then when i reply, you claim something else.

so idiots are the one correcting me in harsh nairaland way, so that is harsh or even correction, boys stuck on a limbo, people that dont know what to do with their lives, cant use their tongue to count their teeths, broke and fraustrated boys, students and boys living with their parents are the ones i should take correction from, they cant even sort their ways out.

you are a weak man, you got no pussy and plus you are lame ass...

many of you cant get pussy that is why guys are frustrated and start claiming you are searching for a valuable pussy..how do you get valuable pussy when you dont even have experience with pussies or cant even maintain one single pussy?

most of you are just average frustrated chumps
I just want you to know that i know you ain't a "guy" from your replies so far even a dumb idiot can decode you're a "female" your mode of typing and replies filled with soooo much Emotional tantrums can be soooooo easily dictated, soooooo easy grin I just wanted you to know that I know you ain't a "guy” lmao grin ok Bye bye
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 9:30am On Dec 07, 2019
bonaventure73:
What evidence have you I don't work hard?

Hahahahahahah big idiot and a goat.

Funny enough you're saying this when my hardworks have started paying off.


No I'm not a billionaire yet, I may never be as successful as Dangote, Jeff Bezos or billgates, that's fine.

99% of people in their lifetime will never be including you.

But it's certain I'll be successful..


Having lots of women in my whip I'm trying to constantly impress won't make me successful u goat.


I only have one I'm willing to do anything for because she deserves it.

You are a fooool woman worshipper.

I bet you have 1000 girls u check up on whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram everyday but never get anything from


They don't even send u, if you don't Message them they will never notice u exist.

Nonsense... You'll die and non will come to your burial grin grin
grin grin grin

Bro please have mercy! grin
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 07, 2019
Chukapage:
I just want you to know that i know you ain't a "guy" from your replies so far even a dumb idiot can decode you're a "female" your mode of typing and replies filled with soooo much Emotional tantrums can be soooooo easily dictated, soooooo easy grin I just wanted you to know that I know you ain't a "guy” lmao grin ok Bye bye
ok, bye bye..take care
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Populah: 10:23am On Dec 07, 2019
chigoizie7:
If you were hard working and independent and resilient, you could be a ceo just like mark zukerberg.


Germany is not the best of the nations, I am not in naija too, I be street guy and a hustler, we know that type of attitude we look out for in the streets, not the sissy type, there are so many people living here that are far worst than those living in naija.

Set standard for yourself. Don’t act like a mumu. You need connections and network to excel, not just anyhow networks, you need a strong network, and being a mumu and folllow follow won’t get you that strong network.
Stop being small minded.
Learn how to be a master of your decisions. Don't limit yourself bc you want to catch someone attention. They are many fishes in the SEA.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by MrCork: 8:43pm On Dec 08, 2019
Hisduchess:
Be lying shaa, we understand.yall will come to NL forming rubbish.see him mouth like girl problems ain't my problem.biko shift wan side
..forget that small boy mennn..am from London.
I beg let's talk about sexx. Do you were thong & please can i get 2 round plus extra kiss & b j?. Be nice!
cheesy
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by bulbutcher(m):
Chukapage:
well my major acheivement ,goals,and ambition ain't women bro! So unlike you, I don't seek validation from women or from pu*I*y so don't bother if I am able to "communicate with the opposite sex" or not, OR wether I get to pee my pants talking to them cheesy it doesn't matter now,my validation and self esteem and worth does not come from the women or wether or not I can communicate with them It comes from my value and worth as an individual.Use that line on yourself maybe your validation comes from p**sy ,you might even be one of those guys who wants to get rich because of P***Y because to even think or trying to attach my VALIDATION to p***y shows I can't even relate with your kind offline or online ,your Moniker says much about your level of Maturity kiddo! So Mr.lilwetdick bye I do throw insults here though but not with your type it's against my principles I like picking on my size.[the second a girl instinctinctively notices you seeking her validation you at fckd girls attraction for men is 90%mental and 10% physical
She s33ksur mental and emotional strength
For 90% of men this statement dsnt compute
10% of men that have their way with girls do it instinctively.
Go to the rationalmale.com /validation sex for further explanation.[quote author=Chukapage post=84693776]you just couldn't wrap your head round a guy not giving a f**k . grin ?.All guys pass true that young foolish phase of doing shit for pussy but it's only some guys that grow pass that phase few though and the funny thing is most of the time these types of guys end up doing good in life because the focus all their energy in adding value to themselves and when you know your worth and the value you bring trust me YOU WON'T ALLOW ANYBODY TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT!
[quote author=Chukapage post=84693776]you just couldn't wrap your head round a guy not giving a f**k . grin ?.All guys pass true that young foolish phase of doing shit for pussy but it's only some guys that grow pass that phase few though and the funny thing is most of the time these types of guys end up doing good in life because the focus all their energy in adding value to themselves and when you know your worth and the value you bring trust me YOU WON'T ALLOW ANYBODY TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT![/quogirls attrction dst wrk like that the second they instinctivly notice you seeking her validation urfucked
Am nt of ur generation BT I learnt the hard way
A girl s33ks mental and emotional strength as her bases of attraction]
For 90% of men this statement dsnt compute
The men that get their way with girls do it instinctively.
U HV to unnderstand
women https://therationalmale.com/2018/03/07/transactional-vs-validational-sex/
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by bulbutcher(m): 4:19pm On Dec 14, 2019
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by bulbutcher(m): 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2019
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by bulbutcher(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2019
MrCork:
..forget that small boy mennn..am from London.
I beg let's talk about sexx. Do you were thong & please can i get 2 round plus extra kiss & b j?. Be nice!
cheesy
Pls read
https://therationalmale.com/2018/03/07/transactional-vs-validational-sex/
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by bulbutcher(m): 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2019
Manadan0000:
well that's how you see it but please how do you cope with forcing yourself or trying to convince people who don't value you in their lives??
Pls read
https://therationalmale.com/2018/03/07/transactional-vs-validational-sex/
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by LINTUNE(m): 6:36pm On Dec 14, 2019
Manadan0000:
I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand attitude from some girls and i think this has cost me alot of relationships and friendship.

The moment a girl say no to my love proposal, I feel bad and hurt that sometimes i delete their numbers, i can't keep female friends because the moment they visit, i feel the urge to ve sex with them, am an introvert that does not really know how to play with a girl like a maga, i do it average.

I'm still managing life so i only hang out once in a while. This attitude of most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and try my luck. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking, i expect her to call me too atleast once in a while or even flash, chat me up and i shouldn't be the one following her around. Again it shouldn't be the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies/conversation from her.

I really wonder how do some guys keep asking a lady out for months, then get fried zoned and they re cool with it and cope fine? I find it impossible, especially when a lady feel i can't do without her or she's doing me a favour, i just dump and delete her to clear her doubts. This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got angry when she left and deleted her number, sometimes i get so angry i say annoying insultive things to get this girls upset then i go bacj and apologize.

The other day a lady begged me money, i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve, I've deleted her number and retrieved it more than four times because the thought of the good sex we had keep coming into my mind, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient?
Is this anger, pride, low self esteem, being childish or Intolerance?
Mature advice please.
dude u are exactly like me
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