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EternalBeing:
That many people are doing it, doesn't make it right. Most of us that involve in this self-destructive act are not really guilty because we did not yet know the subconscious reason that chains and prompts us to be unable to live without having a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Without any iota of self-deception, we all know the worldwide commonly agreed meaning of boyfriend/girlfriend. For some few hardened-hearts that may still try to justify themselves by twisting the common meaning that even a primary school pupil now already know, we wish them what the deserve in their self-deception. The major purpose of having a boyfriend, girlfriend, sugar mummy, sugardaddy, big god, etc. is for sexual gratification, most time in exchange for pecuniary, material, or promotional reward.

Below is why having a boyfriend, girl or the likes, is a sickness: Ever since Satan hijacked the authority over this our World from Adam our father through deception, he has ensured that he used those that have bowed to him to reconfigure the World in such a way that a child is programmed through all the media to be selfish and self-destructive. Scientists have not told us everything that we need to know as humans, most probably because they don't know everything too. And Medicine don't have the solution to all human problems!

Thank you Holy Spirit. If you are too shallow minded to think deeply and see beyond the facade, you may not be able to grasp this revelation. 1 John 5:19 "... the whole World is in the hands of the Wicked(satan)." Right from our birth, most the Catoons, Movies, TV programs, Musics, Radio programs, Internet Software and Games infest the young minds with low self-esteem and subconsciously programs us to think the only way to cure it is by emotionally preying on others, especially the opposite sex. Boys and girls are subconsciously set up to destroy each other's potentials and prevent each other from fulfilling the glorious individual Purpose for which we were put on Earth.

Many guys and girls that have boyfiend/girlfiend don't even realize that it is because they have low self-esteem; a chronic sickness, subconsciously suffered by many puffed-up and proud persons. Yes, you read that right. Satan knows this and he's using it to exploit Humanity. It's a prevalent sickness, not all disease are medically documented. Medicine don't have the solution to all human problems! It's deep subconscious chronic low self-esteem that makes people to have girlfriend and boyfriend; sexmates that they know they won't marry in the first place.

As against having boyfriend or girlfriend, whenever the heart is able to break out of this egoistic bondage of emotionally preying on the opposite sex, we as humans immediately have our minds reset to settle down with a life partner. That is when you hear persons start talking of fiancée or fiance. They stop shopping for souls to emotionally suck up like orange and dump like bad habit. Depending on how soon we decide to accept the Truth, the age at which we accept the help of Holy Spirit our CREATOR to de-program our minds from this satanic mindset varies. In fact, right from the day you break this bondage of lust, you stop searching for a boyfriend or girlfriend and you don't enter into a relationship unless you genuinely consider the person to be your future husband or wife; this is called courtship, never the same as dating. The bitter truth is that dating is satanic, while courtship is godly.

Have you heard the saying that "the heart wants what it wants"? It is interesting that somewhere in the innermost part of our hearts, we humans always know the Truth but sometimes submit to self-deception and allow Satan to lure us into becoming his tool for the destruction of fellow humans. We deceive ourselves by saying we engage in having boyfriend/girlfriend because we are looking for future partner, when our real hidden motive is just to sample and move to the next one. The Truth us that, whether at 16 or 40 years, whenever we've made up our minds to settle down, we don't view people as sex objects anymore, we don't even date anymore. Rather we start courting when we meet someone we wish to marry.

It doesn't take living too long on Earth to know and face the Truth of the need to decide not to emotionally prey on other souls to satisfy our egoistic selfish self-esteem. I'm always amazed and elated when I read news of Virgin teenagers that tie the knots in holy matrimony, here on NL. My mind goes straight to many Souls that would have been individually destroyed by the 2, if they chose not to marry and satisfy their sexual urge in Marriage as commitment to the only One they love forever. They have saved themselves from becoming tools in the hand of Satan to destroy other persons' future marriages ( if .you are having sex with anyone that is not your wife or husband, you are already destroying that person's future Marrige.)

Many shallow minds blame and castigate young Virgins that choose to marry early, but the truth is that the young Souls that refused to destroy other Souls in the name of girlfrinding/boyfrinding, tasting and sampling for years before finally settling down, are wiser than most of us. Their Souls are at peace with their CREATOR and with fellow humans. Let's stop giving Satan and his agents undue access into our lives and Glorious Destinies by allowing this sickness to enslave us. Who knows how many ladies shall never be able to give birth in Life because they selfishly lost their womb, who knows how many guys or girls are suffering from medically incurable diseases they got through premarital sex. Only God knows how many unborn glorious Children was slaughtered on this alter of lust in the name of abortion, only God knows how many guys/girls have been cursed by a witch or wizard that they used and dumped, only God knows how many Glory was hijacked or lost through premarital sex.

Don't be an eternal slave to Satan through your private part, it's not worth it! YAHWEH ALMIGHTY created it to be used for bonding in pleasure with your wife/husband, so that you can have godly Children. Children that grow within Marriage turns out more as blessing to the World, than those born out of wedlock as a result of inconsiderate selfish self-gratification. Bastards often turns out to be terrors to their Society and the World at large. Most ritual killing dens were set up by lost souls born as a result of loveless egoistic sex outside Marriage, I pray you and your loved ones don't lose your precious life to one of them. So, you can see that the Laws of God are for our own good and betterment of Humanity. Save the rest of your conscience, don't trade your eternal Soul just because of myopic self-gratification in this temporary World. "Seek y first the Kingdom of God and HIS Rigteousness, and all other things (including your life partner) shall be added unto you." Matthew 6:33. Give your life to JESUS today, and secure your right to live forever. That is what Satan and his demons have been trapping you not to receive.

You can be permanetly Holy and free from this chronic disease, all you need do is to relentlessly pray that Holy Spirt should take permanent Control of your thoughts and the Source of your thoughts. Isaiah 60:1 "Arise and shine; for thy Light has come, and the Glory of the LORD is risen upon thee." Amen!

Delusional.

EternalBeing:
That many people are doing it, doesn't make it right. Most of us that involve in this self-destructive act are not really guilty because we did not yet know the subconscious reason that chains and prompts us to be unable to live without having a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Without any iota of self-deception, we all know the worldwide commonly agreed meaning of boyfriend/girlfriend. For some few hardened-hearts that may still try to justify themselves by twisting the common meaning that even a primary school pupil now already know, we wish them what the deserve in their self-deception. The major purpose of having a boyfriend, girlfriend, sugar mummy, sugardaddy, big god, etc. is for sexual gratification, most time in exchange for pecuniary, material, or promotional reward.

Below is why having a boyfriend, girl or the likes, is a sickness: Ever since Satan hijacked the authority over this our World from Adam our father through deception, he has ensured that he used those that have bowed to him to reconfigure the World in such a way that a child is programmed through all the media to be selfish and self-destructive. Scientists have not told us everything that we need to know as humans, most probably because they don't know everything too. And Medicine don't have the solution to all human problems!

Thank you Holy Spirit. If you are too shallow minded to think deeply and see beyond the facade, you may not be able to grasp this revelation. 1 John 5:19 "... the whole World is in the hands of the Wicked(satan)." Right from our birth, most the Catoons, Movies, TV programs, Musics, Radio programs, Internet Software and Games infest the young minds with low self-esteem and subconsciously programs us to think the only way to cure it is by emotionally preying on others, especially the opposite sex. Boys and girls are subconsciously set up to destroy each other's potentials and prevent each other from fulfilling the glorious individual Purpose for which we were put on Earth.

Many guys and girls that have boyfiend/girlfiend don't even realize that it is because they have low self-esteem; a chronic sickness, subconsciously suffered by many puffed-up and proud persons. Yes, you read that right. Satan knows this and he's using it to exploit Humanity. It's a prevalent sickness, not all disease are medically documented. Medicine don't have the solution to all human problems! It's deep subconscious chronic low self-esteem that makes people to have girlfriend and boyfriend; sexmates that they know they won't marry in the first place.

As against having boyfriend or girlfriend, whenever the heart is able to break out of this egoistic bondage of emotionally preying on the opposite sex, we as humans immediately have our minds reset to settle down with a life partner. That is when you hear persons start talking of fiancée or fiance. They stop shopping for souls to emotionally suck up like orange and dump like bad habit. Depending on how soon we decide to accept the Truth, the age at which we accept the help of Holy Spirit our CREATOR to de-program our minds from this satanic mindset varies. In fact, right from the day you break this bondage of lust, you stop searching for a boyfriend or girlfriend and you don't enter into a relationship unless you genuinely consider the person to be your future husband or wife; this is called courtship, never the same as dating. The bitter truth is that dating is satanic, while courtship is godly.

Have you heard the saying that "the heart wants what it wants"? It is interesting that somewhere in the innermost part of our hearts, we humans always know the Truth but sometimes submit to self-deception and allow Satan to lure us into becoming his tool for the destruction of fellow humans. We deceive ourselves by saying we engage in having boyfriend/girlfriend because we are looking for future partner, when our real hidden motive is just to sample and move to the next one. The Truth us that, whether at 16 or 40 years, whenever we've made up our minds to settle down, we don't view people as sex objects anymore, we don't even date anymore. Rather we start courting when we meet someone we wish to marry.

It doesn't take living too long on Earth to know and face the Truth of the need to decide not to emotionally prey on other souls to satisfy our egoistic selfish self-esteem. I'm always amazed and elated when I read news of Virgin teenagers that tie the knots in holy matrimony, here on NL. My mind goes straight to many Souls that would have been individually destroyed by the 2, if they chose not to marry and satisfy their sexual urge in Marriage as commitment to the only One they love forever. They have saved themselves from becoming tools in the hand of Satan to destroy other persons' future marriages ( if .you are having sex with anyone that is not your wife or husband, you are already destroying that person's future Marrige.)

Many shallow minds blame and castigate young Virgins that choose to marry early, but the truth is that the young Souls that refused to destroy other Souls in the name of girlfrinding/boyfrinding, tasting and sampling for years before finally settling down, are wiser than most of us. Their Souls are at peace with their CREATOR and with fellow humans. Let's stop giving Satan and his agents undue access into our lives and Glorious Destinies by allowing this sickness to enslave us. Who knows how many ladies shall never be able to give birth in Life because they selfishly lost their womb, who knows how many guys or girls are suffering from medically incurable diseases they got through premarital sex. Only God knows how many unborn glorious Children was slaughtered on this alter of lust in the name of abortion, only God knows how many guys/girls have been cursed by a witch or wizard that they used and dumped, only God knows how many Glory was hijacked or lost through premarital sex.

Don't be an eternal slave to Satan through your private part, it's not worth it! YAHWEH ALMIGHTY created it to be used for bonding in pleasure with your wife/husband, so that you can have godly Children. Children that grow within Marriage turns out more as blessing to the World, than those born out of wedlock as a result of inconsiderate selfish self-gratification. Bastards often turns out to be terrors to their Society and the World at large. Most ritual killing dens were set up by lost souls born as a result of loveless egoistic sex outside Marriage, I pray you and your loved ones don't lose your precious life to one of them. So, you can see that the Laws of God are for our own good and betterment of Humanity. Save the rest of your conscience, don't trade your eternal Soul just because of myopic self-gratification in this temporary World. "Seek y first the Kingdom of God and HIS Rigteousness, and all other things (including your life partner) shall be added unto you." Matthew 6:33. Give your life to JESUS today, and secure your right to live forever. That is what Satan and his demons have been trapping you not to receive.

You can be permanetly Holy and free from this chronic disease, all you need do is to relentlessly pray that Holy Spirt should take permanent Control of your thoughts and the Source of your thoughts. Isaiah 60:1 "Arise and shine; for thy Light has come, and the Glory of the LORD is risen upon thee." Amen!

What I understood from your write-up is that most date with sex in mind. That is scripturally wrong.

It is also fine to state that most also court with sex in mind. So the issue, if we look at it is not on dating, but the distorted sense of morality. People tend to view the sex organs of another as theirs, just because they are into a relationship with that one. So, I would rather advise you pin your eyes on this sinful mindset than on dating.

Why? Because dating or having a girlfriend isn't wrong in itself, it is what one does during this period of relationship that makes it good or bad. There are honorable people that respect God's word, who date, court before marriage without having sex with there mate. (Check this wiki on "Dating" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating)

Granted, most relationships today lack chastity. But dating is not the culprit, humans are.

SaintChukz:
Hello...do you think it would be wrong to kindly ask if you'd like to be friends with me? Just think out loud!

Fountainofyouth:
It wouldn't be wrong to ask, and I accept, hello Saint chuks

Choi! E dey una body! Right in a holy Church like this where boyfriend/girlfriend things has been exposed to be a sin, you both sill use style to start the exact thing being preached against. It's finished!

GlobalWay:
This thread has opened my eyes to the fact that the end time is already here. So appalling to see many claiming to be followers of Christ when they are not at all! Rapture shall surely happen soon, being Rapture-ready means fleeing from all appearances of evil, including dating through which many have been destroyed. If you want to study someone for marriage, you can be friends with them. But when you start telling such person, that you are not 100% sure you want to marry, that you love him/her, you've pushed into dating and emotional sex soon follows. The way to Heaven is a narrow road, and I've clealy seen here that pride is preventing many from repenting and crying to holy spirit for help. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. When you truly love someone, you don't date, you court him/her with marriage in view. Courting is what genuine children of God do, not dating. Truly, dating is selfish and satanic. Op has said the bitter truth. Thank you op. 2 Corinthians 13:8
"For you can do nothing against the Truth, but for the Truth."

Hmmm... deep truth. Overall, dating is truly evil and satanic because even the white men that invented these words defined dating as 2 people involved in sex and romance outside Marriage. There are 16 year to 20 years olds that are courting, that is true Love, they know they'll marry each other. Some stone-hearted Africans here want to claim they know more than the Oyinbo that invented their Words. Dating is satanic and many evil has happened to the World because of this deceptive evil thing. You should only tell a person you love him or her if you are 100% sure you'll like to marry the person. People court for 5 years or even more, yet not all Courtship ends in marriage too. But it is still better than dating because courtship involves true respectful love focused on marriage. So, to those that don't really understand, courtship is like dating with Marriage in focus. While dating focal point is sex. I've learned a lot from here. Many thanks to op.

Fountainofyouth:
It wouldn't be wrong to ask, and I accept, hello Saint chuks

Great to read this. Just sent you a DM. Kindly oblige.

BackToLife:
Choi! E dey una body! Right in a holy Church like this where boyfriend/girlfriend things has been exposed to be a sin, you both sill use style to start the exact thing being preached against. It's finished!

Even if there was an explanation with a clear understanding for you, i know you'll still miss the point. So there is no need.

rubbish. you're still going to hell fire.

all this nonsense and you and person wey get list na still the same, no sin is greater than the other..

SaintChukz:
Great to read this. Just sent you a DM. Kindly oblige.

Pastor!!! Come and cheechomechin! I'll report you. I'll never allow two of you to go to hellfire, mba! not from this Church! Your dm shall disappear from her dm by fire, una plan to fornicate no go work.

SaintChukz:
Even if there was an explaination with a clear understandingfor you, i know you'll still miss the point. So there is no need.

You don't need to e-slap me abeg. Just kidding bro. Is that how you use to do, someone can not play with you? I saw that you requested her to be your friend, not your girlfriend. If you later discover you love her, don't go into dating, go into courtship with her. Dating does not have marriage as focus, Courtship has Marriage as focus; that is what we've learned from this wonderful thread. I look foward to your Wedding Invitation on NL here.

incredible47:
Your intro revealed true you that couldn't see beyond physical world.if you know the agenda of devil through technology and entertainment you will cry. 500 years ago people survived without above mentioned.ask your great great grandfather how relationship is developed between future husband and wife.technology and entertainment revealed true few nature of satan: 1.unclothedness(youths of today want to follow trends of movie stars that project contour of delicates parts, look at your children how they revealed their laps and breasts.. are you satisfied with this evil that people called fashion in this generation. you can only support if your heart is rotten)2 Disobedient to parent(children learned new slang,action,behavior conduct,lifestyle,attitude,evil dancing steps,hellish songs(children and youths hardly praise God only songs that doesn't glorify God)e.t.c. all as a result of technology and entertainment.parent find it difficult to control their children as a result of entertainment which have brought pride,self-defense,self-opinionated and self-confidence to our generation).3 pride 4 rebellion etc.
Dating was instituted by devil to lure youths to Hell.if you die in that state without repentance YOU WILL NOT SEE GOD.REPENT and stop hardening your heart. The word of God is greater than anyone which is also settled in heaven.generation cannot change the word of God. REPENT and prepare to meet your God.Thanks

"He that has Ear..."

BackToLife:
You don't need to e-slap me abeg. Just kidding bro. Is that how you use to do, someone can not play with you? I saw that you requested her to be your friend, not your girlfriend. If you later discover you love her, don't go into dating, go into courtship with her. Dating does not have marriage as focus, Courtship has Marriage as focus; that is what we've learned from this wonderful thread. I look foward to your Wedding Invitation on NL here.

Great! Good thing is you know that the best relationships starts with friendship and from there the individuals involved can then decide what the trajectory should be, whether it is one that would lead to "Marriage" or not becomes a matter of key future decisions.

At the bolded, Lol don't you think you're taking the gesture too far, but then who knows, you maybe right but it is our present actions that determines the future outcome.

PS: Well until she replies to my DM request to further this discuss (It's only fingers crossed for those keeping tabs)

SaintChukz:
Great to read this. Just sent you a DM. Kindly oblige.

My mail isn't working......

EternalBeing:
HalleluYAH!!!

Lust is devil's most wicked effective tool that he is using against this End Time generation. John 6:63 "The Spirit( in you) gives life; the flesh profits nothing." Once your spirit lives your physical body, you are dead. When you start yielding more to lust of the flesh than your spirit conscience, you start dying eternally and in Eternity. You'll notice that your Spirit is never in agreement with your flesh whenever you are lusting. The final decision lies in your hand, when you follow the wise council of your Spirit (conscience) you increase in Life, but when you allow your flesh to win whenever it roars like a lion and gets fed by your ego, you lose Life. Prompted by lack of real self-esteem, ego is what makes many to want to have boyfriend or girlfriend, so as to show the world that someone is in your possession, that you have a human being under your control. This is the unravelled subconscious state of the hearts that are enslaved by their own lust. It's a subconscious mental disease that must be cured by yielding the control of your mind to the Holy Spirit.

Enlightened even more

Fountainofyouth:
My mail isn't working......

What other means of contact do you have?